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 MsMicki

Joined: 10/2/2006
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Posted: 12/30/2008 11:01:41 AM

And ms micki , its really not your business to spout off at the mouth to any woman who dont do bj's. If your a female then you dont have a**** so dont worry yourself with if other women do it. Just say ur peace in here that you do it and love it. Thats all you needed to say. Its not up to you if we do them. Its not your concern


Keep it up and u might see me grow one

Uhm......this coming from the girl that has posted on 99% of all 30 pages of this topic....
It's also not your business what these men prefer in their sex life.....sure hasn't kept you from spouting off....repeatedly...


My whole point in bringing up your thread about sex toys.....was the fact the as grown adults.....we should be finding these things out before marriage.
We all have preferences.....and needs.......and shouldn't be willing to settle for someone that doesn't meet those needs.
Obviously you have.....which explains to everyone here your attitudes.
Get yourself a toy and get yourself off.....and lose than holier than thou attitude.
You seem to have a vendatta against Norm......SO WHAT he called women that don't swallow a starfish....it's his opinion.....(and quite a few others by the way)....
What point is it you are trying to prove here? That u think Norm is an a$$?
We all got that quite a few pages ago.

You.......who doesn't have a clue how to have a healthy sexual relationship with your own husband....really aren't qualified to tell any of us how to conduct ours.
 Ninki

Joined: 4/11/2005
Msg: 727
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Posted: 12/30/2008 11:12:33 AM
If the percentage of guys who taste bad is so large that most of them taste bad, it's more an issue of being squeamish.


So, some of us are squeamish, and? We have a right to be squeamish.


the women I've dated who didn't swallow were the most unreasonably finicky eaters with whom it was almost impossible to dine in any restaraurant that had anything but the most bland food.


As far as I'm concerned, there are very few foods I wouldn't try (I choose not to eat meat, but for reasons other than taste/texture), so there is usually no connection with 'picky eater=no oral sex'. Like you, I can't stand picky eaters. But I wouldn't dump an otherwise great man who happened to be a picky eater. I'd learn to live with it.

As for women not telling you you taste bad (let's assume you do for argument's sake), is, I believe, due to the general culture here, where people rather suffer, than risk hurting someone's feelings by being honest.

N.
 ~~McLovin~~

Joined: 11/12/2008
Msg: 728
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Posted: 12/30/2008 11:44:18 AM
Well I never been with a person who spits. Anybody want to give me a BJ and lets see if it's nearly as sexy. I doubt it, but prove me wrong.
 big sexxy40

Joined: 9/9/2008
Msg: 729
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Posted: 12/30/2008 11:49:54 AM
WOULD YOU LIKE TO SWALLOW YOUR CUM! I COULD CARE LESS IF SOME ONE SWALLOWS MY CUM! TO EAT ME OR NOT EAT ME ! WOMEN DO IT PEST TO EACH OTHER! GOOD LUCK AT FINDING SOMEONE TOO SUCK YOU OFF??
 abelian

Joined: 1/12/2008
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Posted: 12/30/2008 12:46:29 PM
As for women not telling you you taste bad (let's assume you do for argument's sake), is, I believe, due to the general culture here, where people rather suffer, than risk hurting someone's feelings by being honest.

When I become adept at mindreading, I'll include whatever information I can gather from a woman's thoughts in my decisions. Until then, I'm forced to rely on her telling me the old fashioned way. It's rather hard to hurt my feelings by pointing out something factual. However, so far, no one has said anything negative and I have asked. At some point a woman needs to accept responsibility for own actions (or inactions) as being part of the problem (at least until my mindreading skills improve.) Just because a woman has an issue regarding sex, doesn't mean a man is responsible for taking the initiative without her input. What if she REALLY DOES think it tastes fine and I decided to change my diet so that she thinks it tastes awful?
 PardonMeMiss

Joined: 2/4/2006
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Posted: 12/30/2008 12:49:14 PM
That's an exciting little outburst of capitalization, poor grammar and improper punctuation! Thanks big_sexxy.
 abelian

Joined: 1/12/2008
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Posted: 12/30/2008 12:53:29 PM

I think its a pretty explanatory statement. but if you need a defination it means you will not die without them. want and need are two diff things.

Now that we have that cleared up and available for future reference, I can safely say that no woman will die if some guy decides they aren't sexually compatible for a difference of opinion on bj's. I don't see the problem here.
 Kirota

Joined: 10/21/2008
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Posted: 12/30/2008 1:33:01 PM
Swallow or not to swallow............this is the question right? lmao Oh no wait, it was oral sex and swallowing cum....why they wont' do it. I don't think unless you are a female you really have any right to say why any woman does or doesn't. I'm pretty sure a man isn't running around in any woman's mind so not quit sure how he would KNOW why women don't. Just a question...........

You men have the right to not be with a women who doesn't. You even have the right to make fun or insult a woman who doesn't do what sexual act you like. We all have the right to judge and everyone judges everyone.........no matter what kind of shit you try to say.......everyone judges. Some are just more vocal about it. But, alone with that goes the same judgments put on you that you put on others. So, just except it the same way that you want them to accept your judgments. Yeah, it sucks but life was always easy we wouldn't appreciate the things that truly are amazing.
 sport1759

Joined: 10/25/2008
Msg: 734
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Posted: 12/30/2008 3:23:30 PM
girls its rude to spit
funny one though i can only kiss some women after they give me head why is this????

Explain
 Julya13

Joined: 10/25/2004
Msg: 735
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Posted: 12/30/2008 4:37:39 PM
Maybe they are thinking of all the babies, they could be swallowing.

Just a thought.

Julya
 TruthinessIncorporate

Joined: 12/27/2008
Msg: 736
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Posted: 12/30/2008 4:50:17 PM
STOP!!

If she doesn't want to taste you, then refuse to taste her..quite simple really?

When a guy goes down on his girl, something I love more then anything, we have little in the way of not being able to taste them..and from my experiencesm, all women taste different, some MUCH better then others!

SO, refuse..are you getting what you want? NO!
..is she getting what she wants...probably not...worst comes to worst (pardon the pun) you guys will figure out a happy comprimise...or become extremely bitter (again, pardon the pun)
 MarkTwain43

Joined: 12/18/2008
Msg: 737
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Posted: 12/30/2008 5:16:29 PM
Here is my opinion as a gentleman. A gentleman always gives fair warning and thus allows the lady to make the decision on wither she does or does not. I will admit it if the lady is really into it then it is heaven. I have found that the more I give the more I get or used too and hopefully again one day. As far as kissing after I say no problem, a deep kissing session especially after a hot sixty-nine session. Also, if the lady decides not too then she should make sure she does not leave the guy hanging and is fully ready to employ her hands to finish the job. Oh, as far as spitting goes, that can be sexy to if performed in a sexy way.
 abelian

Joined: 1/12/2008
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Posted: 12/31/2008 12:33:48 AM

You men have the right to not be with a women who doesn't. You even have the right to make fun or insult a woman who doesn't do what sexual act you like. We all have the right to judge and everyone judges everyone.........no matter what kind of shit you try to say.......everyone judges.

Thank you for acknowledging that.

But, alone with that goes the same judgments put on you that you put on others. So, just except it the same way that you want them to accept your judgments.

So far so good..

Yeah, it sucks but life was always easy we wouldn't appreciate the things that truly are amazing.

I'll avoid the temptation to make a pun on sucks and just ask, why exactly does all of the above suck? Life is MUCH simpler when people just admit what they want and stop pretending otherwise until after they've gotten themselves into a jam with the wrong person.
 Kirota

Joined: 10/21/2008
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Posted: 12/31/2008 9:02:24 AM

I'll avoid the temptation to make a pun on sucks and just ask, why exactly does all of the above suck? Life is MUCH simpler when people just admit what they want and stop pretending otherwise until after they've gotten themselves into a jam with the wrong person.


It sucks that you have to accept everyone's judgments like they do yours.........that's what sucks. Quit looking for things to attack. I never said that BJ's or any other thing sucked........I said the judgments.
 kittenhere

Joined: 10/22/2008
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Posted: 12/31/2008 10:38:14 AM
......then two months into the marriage let him know you had never gotten off with him, that you were unable to without the assistance of toys, he was angry

Opie I never told him i have not had any but i feel its common sense. Even man can tell when a woman has one by our actions. You dont need to tell him.

......What did you fake orgasms to get him to marry you

first, I never faked anything. Second, he knew I hadn't had any by him. If two people wantt o be together they are gonna be togehter no matter what. Fortuantly for both of us sex does not control or determine anything. However sex can alwsays be improved anytime if need be.

........he needs a bj to do that, would you be willing to try.?

Nope I sure would not. But he knows this and accepts it. He would never ask me to do something that he knows sickens me. He aitn that type of man. Thankfully bj's are NOT important to him. But I hardly see how you can compare eating nasty bodily fluids to using a toy. The two dont compare. He dont have to eat the toy.

I dont have sexual frustration becuase i can deal with it myself.

Ps for the ones who want to talk about my thread please go there to do so. this is not my thread. Stick to the thread we are in. if u want to say someting about my thread go there to do it.
 rdcnorm

Joined: 3/7/2007
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Posted: 12/31/2008 2:07:12 PM
I was reading a forum, (is oral sex cheating) In my opinion yes it is. But that question made me think of this forum..

There is no doubt most men like if not love BJ, right..
There are some women who will not perform oral for many reasons,,their preference..
There are some who said they would do anything for love of there partner, but just can't give a bJ..
there are some who said a BJ have nothing to do with love,

So may question is, If your man liked BJ and it's not about love, and you just can't give one,, would you give your man permission to go get a BJ.. just think if you said yes,, you get to please your man, because you gave him permission,,

Well will you deny the pleasure of your man, you love, a BJ from someone else?
 abelian

Joined: 1/12/2008
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Posted: 12/31/2008 2:15:50 PM

It sucks that you have to accept everyone's judgments like they do yours.........that's what sucks. Quit looking for things to attack. I never said that BJ's or any other thing sucked........I said the judgments.


Uh, You are looking for things to attack. Re read what I wrote or try this version: I didn't say anything abvout bj's. What I said was simply that I don't see why accepting the judgments of others, sucks. I don't have any desire to everyone's best friend and I really don't care what others think. I probably won't have much in common with someone who judges me negatively, so why should I care?
 abelian

Joined: 1/12/2008
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Posted: 12/31/2008 2:22:10 PM

Ps for the ones who want to talk about my thread please go there to do so. this is not my thread. Stick to the thread we are in. if u want to say someting about my thread go there to do it.

Your other thread is relevant because what you say in that thread undermines your credibility in this one. In particular, it shows you to be very self-centered and inflexible whil expecting men to be very giving and flexible in order to accomodate you.
 rdcnorm

Joined: 3/7/2007
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Posted: 12/31/2008 2:24:51 PM

I don't have any desire to everyone's best friend and I really don't care what others think. I probably won't have much in common with someone who judges me negatively, so why should I care?

I second that opinion... life is good,,,
 abelian

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Posted: 12/31/2008 2:29:22 PM

There are some who said they would do anything for love of there partner, but just can't give a bJ..
there are some who said a BJ have nothing to do with love,


He, he...

Norm, I'm going to go out on a limb here and guess that you already know that ``anything'' in this case, really meant, ``anything she doesn't mind doing'' for her, and ``anything she wants'' from him. But, I'm just speculating. I am, however, pretty certain that it does mean ``anything,'' for some personal definition of ``anything,'' especially since it starts out with an exclusion.
 rdcnorm

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Posted: 12/31/2008 2:52:57 PM
as the woman sings,,, I'll do anything for love,, but I won't do that (by,, meat love)

Yes I did,, "anything "as long as it's "Ok" with her.. and it's not important what he wants...

then this song comes to mind as the guy sings..

I've lost that loving feeling,,(by roger whittaker)
 FriendlyDriver

Joined: 12/17/2008
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Posted: 12/31/2008 3:14:07 PM
i Have tasted my own semen. And to be honest I like the taste. Be from beating off and cumming in my hand or kissing a girl after she has given me head or it's from her **** or ass. I love my own taste.
 Desdemona00

Joined: 6/6/2008
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Posted: 12/31/2008 3:20:54 PM
I'm really sorry reading this thread, to Kirota and Kittenhere, you both sound really illogical and petty I would hope neither of you is in the law field because I wouldn't let you represent my cat in a trial.
No one ever mentioned love, what rcdnorm is talking about is in the initial stages of a relationship, you know after sex and before love, unless you are on of those love at first sight people.
You feel insulted somehow, it just makes me angry just like when someone says "I prefer not to date big women", all big women hop in and say "well, you're a loser then", as long as no one is saying something insulting like calling overweight women fat chicks let it go, preference is preference. I read the thread and calling a woman who won't swallow inhibited or starfish, is really not that big an insult nor is it directed at you.
Please feel free to come at me if you choose, I have recognized your abject stupidity and irrationality therefore feel no need to care about what you may think, nor feel the need to change your mind just to beg you to shut up so men won't know women illogical and dumb sounding as you can speak English and use machinery.
PLEASE GET A****in your mouth quickly if it will stop you from talking and sharing opinions, you don't even have to swallow, no one will make you, you're liberated, deuces This was Soooooooo much fun!@!!
 OpieDopey

Joined: 6/16/2006
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Posted: 12/31/2008 3:56:18 PM
norm said. "as the woman sings,,, I'll do anything for love,, but I won't do that (by,, meat love)

Haha, was that a typo or a Freudian Slip? That was a MeatLOAF song.....and HE sang that line, she ( Mrs Loud in the credits, Mrs Load?? lol) sang in response, " Will you hose me down with Holy Water if I get too hot?"

but, I suppose meat love is more on topic.

A guy once told me, " you have too many opinions", I suggested to him that he find some sweet young thing to keep his dic k in her mouth at all times, then he wouldn't have to hear any opinions at all...
 rdcnorm

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Posted: 12/31/2008 4:06:45 PM
LMAO,, no it was a slip,,,opps.. but I wish I thought of it,,,

norm said. "as the woman sings,,, I'll do anything for love,, but I won't do that (by,, meat love)

Haha, was that a typo or a Freudian Slip? That was a MeatLOAF song.....and HE sang that line, she ( Mrs Loud in the credits, Mrs Load?? lol) sang in response, " Will you hose me down with Holy Water if I get too hot?"

but, I suppose meat love is more on topic.















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