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 Kirota

Joined: 10/21/2008
Msg: 751
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oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/31/2008 4:23:33 PM

PLEASE GET A****in your mouth quickly if it will stop you from talking and sharing opinions, you don't even have to swallow, no one will make you, you're liberated, deuces This was Soooooooo much fun!@!!


LMAO..........Oh that hurt.........wow............I'm crushed..........I think I might just hide my head in shame because a 20yrs old over weight girl doesn't like what I say........Now take your own advise and go practice your only talent.
 kittenhere

Joined: 10/22/2008
Msg: 752
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Posted: 12/31/2008 6:07:40 PM
you to be very self-centered

Well ok if not being able to give bj's is self centered than I guess im happily self centered. Thats that. If a man thinks bjs are some kind of need then by all means find a woman that is able to give them. Thats that. There is no need for anyone to tell anyone they are this and that and something else if they cant do bj's . After all it dont affect that person. This thread is about why some women dont do it. well I gave my answer as I am one who will not do that. My answer cannot be wrong becuse im tellin the op why some dont do it as he asked. He asked and I gave the answre. Its no one's business in here if I do them or not. I'm not dating you.
 Ninki

Joined: 4/11/2005
Msg: 753
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Posted: 12/31/2008 6:19:15 PM

If your man liked BJ and it's not about love, and you just can't give one,, would you give your man permission to go get a BJ..


Yes I would! I've already stated this elsewhere in these forums. As long as he's being discreet about it.

N.
 rdcnorm

Joined: 3/7/2007
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Posted: 12/31/2008 6:25:29 PM
Ninke,, I was only kidding,, LOL,,
If I were in a loving relationship, and she was no longer able, I wouldn't even entertain that Idea,, Thanks for your honesty though..

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Happy New Year

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Kitten,, chill a little,, i can see the spit flowing from your mouth as you write... LOL
Take a pill,, use a toy,, your going to give yourself a heart attack..
 Desdemona00

Joined: 6/6/2008
Msg: 755
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Posted: 12/31/2008 6:39:08 PM
Ouch that hurt, if I actually was overweight and insecure maybe it would have but nope I'm not and it makes me feel like you care But no matter how old you get name calling never gets old, makes me feel all warm inside, I hope when I'm your age I can still have a ****ing bite just like you .
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The goose drank wine
the monkey chewed tobacco on the street car line
the line broke, the monkey got choked
and they all went to heaven in a little row boat
 OpieDopey

Joined: 6/16/2006
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Posted: 12/31/2008 6:44:58 PM
This is why some men go to prostitutes, because they cannot have these desires met by their SO's. Such is life...
 Kirota

Joined: 10/21/2008
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Posted: 12/31/2008 6:55:25 PM
Ouch that hurt, if I actually was overweight and insecure maybe it would have but nope I'm not and it makes me feel like you care But no matter how old you get name calling never gets old, makes me feel all warm inside, I hope when I'm your age I can still have a ****ing bite just like you


Where in my post did I name call..........did I call you a fat **** or a fat chick? Nope............didn't call you one name.......for so much intelligence you are lacking in your facts here. Do you have a thing for me that you have to address me by name.........that kind of creeps me out.

So...........to keep on topic.......please go find "something" to swallow and stop reciting nursery rhymes.


This is why some men go to prostitutes, because they cannot have these desires met by their SO's. Such is life...


He shouldn't have made her his SO if that was something he had to have.
 surrealizm74

Joined: 6/23/2008
Msg: 758
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Posted: 1/1/2009 2:52:50 AM
What is your diet like? Some guys are nice and many are a real turn off because they were heavy drinkers, unhealthy diets no fruits etc.. not enough water plus other substance perhaps. They taste disgusting. Its apparently the same with woman ...ask guys and gay girls inparticular,,they will tell you also. The bad taste would be the number one reason id say. Look into it,, ive heard many woman say the same. A healthy guy is often sweet.
 kittenhere

Joined: 10/22/2008
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Posted: 1/1/2009 6:10:33 AM
your going to give yourself a heart attack..

over the dumb responses of some posters i hightly doubt a heart attack will occur. Everyone has their own opinion.

the answer to the questoin about if i would let my guy go get bj from someone else the answer is sure as long as he dont plan on coming back home. if he needs it then he should not be with a woman who dont do them in the first place.
 yepimstilllonely

Joined: 12/28/2008
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Posted: 1/1/2009 6:47:09 AM
I agree with some of the other posts, sometimes it doesn't taste too good...but in the heat of the moment, if my partner earns it and I think he would like it, I will swallow, no problem.
 kittenhere

Joined: 10/22/2008
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Posted: 1/1/2009 6:58:05 AM
Op there are lots of women who dont do it and lots that do. But since your question focuses on the ones that DON'T do it, pay attention to us if you wnat your quesitoned answered. I dont do it because i find it a sickening act, I have a weak stomach, its not food, and i dont like slime. Now you have your answer from someone who dont do it.
 John375

Joined: 1/22/2008
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Posted: 1/1/2009 9:03:28 AM
Why does it matter to some men?
If a woaman gets you off with her mouth isn't that enuff?:
 rdcnorm

Joined: 3/7/2007
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Posted: 1/1/2009 9:32:01 AM

Why does it matter to some men?
If a woaman gets you off with her mouth isn't that enuff?:

It matters to me,, I would like her to enjoy what she is doing,, How could I possibly enjoy a BJ, knowing my partner didn't like it.. It's not important to me if she swallows or not, or if my cum sides down my shaft, I just can't fathom the idea of being with a woman who finds my cum disgusting. I have no need to see her lick her chop, or gargle with it,, but at least enjoy what you are doing, without viewing the act as gross. etc.. It's deal breaker for me, because I'm not looking for a woman to feel she is doing me a favor as you suggested,, that is not compatibility,, I do appreciate the attempt though,, but that's not enough,,
 flcntrygirl80

Joined: 4/22/2008
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Posted: 1/1/2009 9:35:55 AM
Personally, I have trouble even giving a bj due to a history of abuse as a kid. And I can't even get a guy's jizz near my face, much less in my mouth. My ex-fiance finsihed in my mouth once and I promptly hurled in his lap. Between the flash backs, the taste and the slimy texture it was one of the worst things I have ever had in my mouth.
 abelian

Joined: 1/12/2008
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Posted: 1/1/2009 12:21:40 PM
If a woaman gets you off with her mouth isn't that enuff?

Can you explain how she is going to do that without stopping before I finish getting off and not get it in her mouth? What if a guy told you that you taste disgusting when you get wet and that the only way he would perform oral sex on you is if you didn't get wet so that he doesn't hurl all over you? I'll bet that would make your sexual experience with him really special.
 AventuriousGirl

Joined: 8/11/2008
Msg: 766
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Posted: 1/1/2009 12:32:25 PM
[why do women not like to swallow while giving oral sex its like you working for something to happen any way just finish what you started]

Looks like you're trying to find a way to get women pregnant the wrong way.... As a matter of fact it probably tastes like shit!
 rdcnorm

Joined: 3/7/2007
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Posted: 1/1/2009 12:45:05 PM
Looks like you're trying to find a way to get women pregnant the wrong way

That as many men know is the safest way, we try to avoid getting a female pregnant at all costs in a new relationship..


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As a matter of fact it probably tastes like shit!

Fact sh*t taste like sh*t
Fact, so many women have said,, cum has many tastes,
Fact eating pus*y and having it taste like Sh*t,, is called an over bite,,,no probably about it...
 HumorMe*

Joined: 10/17/2008
Msg: 768
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Posted: 1/1/2009 12:50:25 PM
i'd swallow if my partner wanted this. no problem.

but personal preference, would be that, no.

i already have enough protein in my diet.
 rdcnorm

Joined: 3/7/2007
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Posted: 1/1/2009 1:02:57 PM
men were asked if we would change our diet, to improve on the taste of cum, many said yes, including my self if we were aware that it tasted bad..


i'd swallow if my partner wanted this. no problem.

but personal preference, would be that, no.

i already have enough protein in my diet.


so if your partner asked to for go the protein in your normal diet,,
so he could supplement your protein,, would you do it...
 MsMicki

Joined: 10/2/2006
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Posted: 1/1/2009 1:05:55 PM
K - we all know why a couple don't swallow......
so why do we have to keep hearing you defend your answers?
OP asked.....u answered.
If your partner doesn't care that you don't swallow.....why do you care what others think of you for not swallowing???
Seems this thread has become more of an outlet for anger towards others with different opinions than it has been about the actual topic.
and before you jump all over me Kitten.....there are 30 some pages of you bashing your head against the wall here....the facts speak for themselves.

Some girls swallow.......some don't.
No man here wants a woman that will grudingly swallow.....they want a woman that enjoys all aspects of giving oral sex. And no man should have to commit to a new relationship that doesn't give him what he wants sexually.
There are numerous reasons one doesn't further a new relationship...and sexual compatiblility should always be one of them.
It doesn't make anyone "wrong" for wanting someone that is sexually compatible.
What else is left to argue about this?
Are you just here because arguing is your "fetish" of the moment!!
 79_CunningLinguist_79

Joined: 6/2/2007
Msg: 771
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Posted: 1/1/2009 2:53:34 PM
If a girl gives me a killer BJ I'll gladly kiss her if theres none like dripping off her face or something....ewwww

I've had a lot of girls 'ejaculate' or squirt on me, I have no probs. And some girls actually ask to swallow or just take initiative and those are the ones with all the jewellery.
 79_CunningLinguist_79

Joined: 6/2/2007
Msg: 772
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Posted: 1/1/2009 2:54:11 PM
spitters are quitters!
 Oregondaisy

Joined: 6/15/2007
Msg: 773
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Posted: 1/1/2009 4:14:28 PM
It's so easily fixed by eating pineapple on a regular basis. I buy the dehydrated pineapple at the dollar store. I love doing that for him because he loves it so much. I am really glad that I read on POF that eating pineapple regularly changes the taste. I also saw on an HBO special that eating dried cranberries will do the same thing.
 goodlistener711

Joined: 1/24/2007
Msg: 774
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Posted: 1/1/2009 4:16:50 PM
Duke 375.

NO, Not at all.
 kittenhere

Joined: 10/22/2008
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Posted: 1/1/2009 4:26:06 PM
what you say in that thread undermines your credibility in this one

No it does not. not even. dont compare using a simple toy to having to eat bodily fluids. As I have said over and over the two do not even compare. big huge difference. He dont ask me to do oral becuase he knows i cant and I am not asking him to add a toy if he really dont wnat to. he did accept to use it becuase i wanted to but i did not force him. nor did I theraten to leave if he didnt.
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