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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/1/2009 5:03:31 PM | So it was ok for you to ask him to do something he wasn't comfortable with.....
but not ok for a man to ask a woman to do something she's not comfortable with.
Oh.....I get it now.
It's all about you.
Which is exactly what you girls were saying about Norm. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/1/2009 5:10:26 PM | .......So it was ok for you to ask him to do something he wasn't comfortable with
Im gonna excuse your stupidity and answer your question. the answer is...If I dont ask, how in hell am I suppose to know he is or isnt uncomfortable with it????
.....but not ok for a man to ask a woman to do something she's not comfortable with
It was ok that he asked me and my answer was ok with him. Again, he has to ask me in order to know if I am uncomfortable with it. Duh
Ms.Micki, Some of you responses are jsut down right looney
............Ms micki, post below me,
I didnt beg him or make him
he dont beg me or make me
in our relationship we do only what we are comfortable with. We both understand each other. Just becuase he was willing to try it does not mean I have to.
And might I add, its not stupidity for someone to not want cum in their mouth. its a choice. I could call you stupid as well for doing sucha nasty dirty thing. Its not you that is stupid for doing it its your comments here that are stupid. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/1/2009 5:19:28 PM | Uhm......u asked......he said no.......u posted a thread about he didn't want to use toys ....and then he did it when he was uncomfortable with it.
But that's ok....cuz it was something YOU wanted.
Your confusion doesn't make me the stupid one.....and we have all been excusing your stupidity for awhile now....since u just had to go there.
the last half of my comment.....about it not being ok for a man to want a woman to do something she is uncomfortable with.....was in regards to your posts in the last 31 pages of this thread......Duh.
You have repeatedly stated it's not ok for a man to ask his mate to do something she's not comfortable with.......but let your own husband do the exact thing....because it benefited YOU. | |
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Posted: 1/2/2009 2:56:54 AM | You got to be kidding me?
its easy for you to personally understand if your that honestly interested, let your ladyfriend keep it in her mouth and then kiss her when your done and you swallow it... have a taste of your "own medicine" answer your own question....its an acquired taste...not for everyone, is it for you?
Just dieing to know your answer.....DO you swallow....hmmmmm ....yes/no..why not? | |
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Posted: 1/2/2009 5:25:20 AM | MsMicki
I applaud your effort to get this venomous battle over to swallow or not to swallow, under control. I agree with you whole heartedly about Kittenhere's posts not to mention that her gramar is awful. She apparently needs to win. Maybe we should just declare her the winner and all promise not to ever swallow again.
Pinky swear, cross my heart, I will never swallow again, you have converted me. I'm afaid that I might gag and puke all over my partner, or catch some horrible desease. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/2/2009 6:10:30 AM | | I do swallow sometimes but only if I am really into the guy and his cum is smooth can not do the thick cum makes me gag. I also worry about the guy thinking I am a slut if I do swallow him because most men think if a women swallow's then she is easy but that isn't the case. For me I have to really like you and trust that you are D&D free. Also what you eat does play a part in what you taste like same goes for women if you can not stand the taste of your self then a man is not going to like it either. | |
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Posted: 1/2/2009 6:31:20 AM | Kittenhere is a retard. I'll come out and say it. Everyone in here has tried to have a tit for tat discussion and she regularly stoops to calling names, mis-quoting,
Look at your own statement. I think its you that your talking about.. Take the log out of your own eye so you can see to remove the stick from mine. by the way, I dont recall calling anyone a name, nor have I mis quoted anyone. I copy and paste their comments. How can I misquote when I copy and paste?? keep your snide remarks to yourself. Keep your post comments on the subject at hand...dont write a post simply to attack someone. geezzzz talk about the pot calling the kettle black.
Everyone in here has tried to have a tit for tat discussion
Would that include the post you just wrote. You might call it a discussion but I call it an attack directly at me. The men and women both are attacking me becuase I dont do bj's. I sitll have no clue as to why the women even care if i do them or not. after all the dont have a d i c k. However, when I am directly attacked I do and will defend myself. Its the same thing you would do if you were attacked . I could call you a retard as you did me but I prefer not to lower myself to your level.
ms micki there is no need for you to repeat the same thing over and over when i have alreayd gave you the answer. I will tell you one more time. he asked for bj and i siad no. i asked ofr toy and he said no. we each accepted the answer. neither of us begged or threatened the other with leaving or anyhting crazy like that. neither of us are that low and childish. However, him changing his mind aobut toy is his doing, not mine. I had alreayd accepted his previous answer. You cannot make someone do something they dont wnat to do and to theraten them in any way is unacceptable. Now ms micki you can write your same comment over and over again if you choose to but I will not be responding to it anymore on that statement. I have gave you the answer to the same question twice already.
to misskissme, this is not a competition. there is no winner. Please think before you post a comment. same applies to you about keeping your posts on the subject at hand.
Ms micki poster below me...what I get is that you are tyring to make things out to be soemthing it never was. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/2/2009 6:38:39 AM | try reading your own thread about the toy issue.
You say quite regularly you are working on him to try these new things.
and you didn't "accept" his answer......u came here and started a thread about it to see if there was something u could do about his refusal!
I don't think that's a bad thing.....that's exactly how a relationship works.
The issue is you not trying things he likes.
and yes.....u have called names.....do u want me to quote and post for u?
I stand by my posts......they were made by me to prove a point.
Sorry you are the ONLY one that doesn't get those points. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/2/2009 6:43:37 AM | Never tried that don't want to .... But I did get my own jizz in my eye , well its not how it sounds , the girl was ... You know giving me a bj ...if you get my drift , haha ... But ya when I was about to ..ya know , I swear she aimed that sh*t but , ya right in my eye , ever since the pain I felt , I had troubles going on a girls face, so listen to leavmebe , and try it , and see if you still want them to do it , don't ask , if they want to they will , if the orgasm is all you care about , bust some f**kin knuckle children , and don't put a girl through the pain of servicing you , on the other hand , enjoy the blow job for what its worth  | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/2/2009 8:44:58 AM | Kit
You may have copied and pasted correctly, But what you fail to do is Read. I can't tell you how many times you accused me of saying something that wasn't true,
------for example several times you said I would leave a woman I loved if she didn't give me a BJ..
I have asked you to show me where I said that. Yet your unable to.. and still harp on it and accuse me of saying it.....I will confront my accuser, because of the untruths they have made against me, that is my right,, I will not be slandered by you...I have no issues with you not liking or agreeing with what I say,, but lets be fair in war and do it right, not by your assumption of what someone means, nor by twisting words,,,that makes you a fool...as I said before...
Even when I called a woman "I was with" a star fish, I was accused of calling you one..
Go to post 632,
I copied this
If you really love somebody you wont be grossed out by them, or their body fluids.
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That is ridiculous, unsupported logic brought on by obsession with blow jobs, and nothing more.
replied this way...
The only truth you that is concerning BJ.. that is not a sign of love..but can show love..
As for the rest, I f you do love someone,, you may be grossed out by body fluids,
BUT. you will do what ever it takes to care for that person,
example, while my wife with sick with cancer,,I cleaned more body fluids, some I never even knew existed, I did things that I would never believed possible, even my gag reflex disappeared.. love will enable you do do things you may dreamed possible..
yet you jump in and say this as I quote you below,,, but no where above did I say BJ were the same,, I was just making a point about our gag reflex, hell I used to gag when I changed my sons diaper, but that changed over time.. and neither had anything to do with BJ,, just a gag reflex,,that can be over come...
your response,,
.........even my gag reflex disappeared.. love will enable you do do things you may dreamed possible..
You were not asked to eat the body fluids either. Some things that you are calling love (which is not love) will not make a person do anything. Some things are just not gonna happen.
.......you will do what ever it takes to care for that person,
Eating their cum is not caring for them. So no if that is what they require I offer no help.
to poster below me this thread is about bj's. and no love for somene will not enable some to do things that normallly would not do. bj's being one of them
You jump from forum to forum where sexually issues are the topic, I would say most of us get it, your sex life sucks, your spouse hates toys, you want toys, it's the only way you get off, you both hate oral, neither one likes anal,, you haven't had an orgasm through penetration with your husband,
If everything is so good at home,, why do you still choose to come to these forum, find fault in men and women who like sex,, most like everything about sex, with some personal exceptions,, but no one, has so many issues regarding sex that I have read thus far even compares to your sexuality, by the way is (0).in my opinion,,. yet you still come and knock people, even your own husband in a forum about him not wanting/liking to use toys,,
Why are you compelled to do this???
Most of use agree it's about personal choice, being sexual compatible,
Yet your not willing to go with that flow, you set yourself up for attack by others, because you attack everyone who does not agree with your views.. What those views are I have no clue, other than you seem to have issues separating sex and love, and then fail to see how the come together, because of your inability to accept that many people unlike your self enjoy sex, and we are going to choose our next partner, not solely on sex,, but it will be considered with great depth of thought, or through a personal sexual experience with that person.. we what to share with our partners by choice, not because we need to, we don't want to experience the same sexual issues that you are now experiencing,, or not,, But some of us want an exciting sexual relationship where we know our boundaries, limitations,, we before we get to serious, meaning a total commitment to that person,, why is that concept so hard for you to understand..
edit, I wrote this below, because you were there starting your crap in that forum as well
Unfortunately this forum is about a woman who was abused, and is hesitant about future BJ, I can see the legitimacy in her question,,
opposed to the forum why women do not swallow..by the way you seem to like bashing their as well...
Kit, you may feel attacked and rightly so, you should just read the crap you pass out,, most of us are not defending why a BJ is right or wrong for a person,, just our "personal preference" but any times someone goes against what you believe to be true,, you have this uncanny ability to think we/ some of us are talking about you directly,, "Girl get a grip" it's normally you who lashes out first, and many of us, including my self will not stand by and have you suggest and put words in our mouth, as you have done on several occasions with me,, nor is this topic solely about you, matter of fact you seem to take it real personal,, you might want to seek profession help with your sexuality and anger issues..,, not because you don't like BJ,, you seem to dislike all sex, or at least not very comfortable with sex.. with the exception of toys,, | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/2/2009 9:40:42 AM | | Your right ..It's the taste !! If only men who were truly taking care of themselves ..knew ! It's what you eat , that makes u look & taste of who u are ! What u eat dictates on what your semen will taste like ..So guese what I eat Ladies ..LOL | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/2/2009 10:20:07 AM |
its easy for you to personally understand if your that honestly interested, let your ladyfriend keep it in her mouth and then kiss her when your done and you swallow it... have a taste of your "own medicine" answer your own question....its an acquired taste...not for everyone, is it for you?
Just dieing to know your answer.....DO you swallow....hmmmmm ....yes/no..why not?
Let me be this first to answer, yes I have kissed a woman after a BJ, my cum could have been in her mouth on her lips,,dripping from her chin,, I have no clue, we kissed,, and all was good,, didn't even think about what she did the seconds before,, it in the passion of the moment,,
and if at any time during sex, someone is uncomfortable,, the solution is to stop, I haven't really experianced someone stopping because they didn't like something about sex,, we just moved on to something else,,
What I have found to be true , sexual hang ups, whether it be mine or her, always seemed to be discussed out side the bedroom, and I do not mean in a disrespectful way,, but rather through general conversation,, it's more of an intuition through listening and talking ...yet it's not a sit down discussion of who like what...
I will suggest this,, I'll take my full load over eating a raw egg any day,, | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/2/2009 2:03:01 PM | I'm 42 years old and I'm still not ready to swallow it, and I love my boyfriend so much.
Just reading and thinking about it is making my stomach turn upside down. But as they said everybody is different. If you love swallowing it, go for it and hope you enjoy the feeling. :I need peptobismol | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/2/2009 2:15:02 PM | I dont swallow for many reasons, the taste, the texture , the smell & it honesty doesnt turn me on at all. Id rather go without sucking**** And some guys who complain about a girl that doesnt swallow are the guys who also dont eat ****. I Myself even with a bf i didnt swallow & they respected that. Its about respect for ur partner, n knowing what pleases both, its a give a lil get a lil thing.
Some men have NASTY cum, its stinks, its clumpy n even the precum makes me gag thats how i know the cums even worse. Its should be about pleasure for BOTH not just the man. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/2/2009 2:20:17 PM | And some guys who complain about a girl that doesnt swallow are the guys who also dont eat ****.
Not in this thread!!
and I'd gander a guess that your "some" is an extremely small percentage!
and the comment about it being degrading.....
How is it degrading to me if I like doing it? | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/2/2009 2:24:08 PM | Hmmmm absolutely, a swallower. It's a natural aphrodisiac (sexual pheromones) just as women cumming, squirting, and gushing. But you know, some guys do not like to drink the woman's cum when she squirt or gush, yahoo...not mine.
"Yuk!", said some people. I say, "Yummy!" | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/2/2009 3:39:24 PM |
no in all seriousness...it's kinda degrading
I can think of a few reason why someone might think it's degrading,,
1] you getting paid for something you don't want to do,,
2] your partner forces or demands that of you,,
-------------i'd say then don't do it.
3]the woman has other issues,,
Now if some one likes and enjoys, and their partner appreciates it and "YOU".,, how in the world could that be degrading,,
That is like saying doggier style is degrading, because your being F-ed like a dog,, and he is not looking into your eyes,,
But that statement is so far from the truth,, because if someone felt that way,, get off your knees, matter of fact find a partner who respects you,, and if that's not the problem, you might want to consider, why sex might be degrading to you,,
disclaimer, not speaking to or about anyone here,, | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/2/2009 3:55:33 PM | | I don't think swallowing has anything to do with love...My hubby never requested it so I never did...always made him cum with a bj and he was satisfied with that...Now I am learning that guys love it so I have started swallowing...there is nothing wrong with it and if for whatever reason I "can't" swallow it I guess I'll spit it out...I just do it when I'm into it...love to finish what I started... | |
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Posted: 1/2/2009 5:18:50 PM |
Hmmmm absolutely, a swallower. It's a natural aphrodisiac (sexual pheromones) just as women cumming, squirting, and gushing. But you know, some guys do not like to drink the woman's cum when she squirt or gush, yahoo...not mine.
"Yuk!", said some people. I say, "Yummy!"
I'm with you there. Although I'm not a sword swallower. I love the feeling of a woman's orgasm on my lips, face and tongue. If you gush, just bring it on! :) | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/2/2009 5:42:27 PM |
Think about the grossest thing you've even eatin. Now think about swallowing it. Not very nice right?
I can think of a few things that were far more worse in flavor.
It's only gross to some.....same as raw oysters...or liver and onions....or asparagus.....
it's strictly personal choice...
Me.....love to swallow.....not gross at all......
Me.....hates oysters......therefore they are "gross" to me. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/2/2009 5:43:58 PM | ^^^^^^^^^^ your still young,, never say never,,
When I was 8, I didn't like girls my age either, I thought they were gross too..,
Have I changed, whoo who...I now l love women,,, | |
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