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notwow
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Joined: 6/9/2008
Msg: 801 | |
| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/2/2009 5:54:37 PM |
Think about the grossest thing you've even eatin. Now think about swallowing it. Not very nice right?
With all due respect, you are way to young to have a whole bunch of experience. There are a number of women on here who have commented that they could never think of swallowing when they were younger, and love it now.
And a whole bunch of who still won't.
Personally, I don't care... I have been with partners who do and partners who don't. It just doesn't matter to me, as long as the rest of the love making is good.
If I am with a partner who does deep throat and swallow, but is like a dead mackerel otherwise, she certainly does not become one of my memorable lovers. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/2/2009 6:22:49 PM | I think your taking things a tad bit seriously. I know that I'm able to come to a conclusion and be firm in my choice to like/dislike something. Just because I'm young does't mean I don't have the ability to establish likes/dislikes.
To be quite honest I don't think it should take 5+ years to come to a conclusion about something. I just don't like to swallow. Woo hoo for anyone who does but I don't. That's not to say I won't. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/2/2009 7:36:12 PM |
Think about the grossest thing you've even eatin. Now think about swallowing it. Not very nice right?
If you meet a guy who refuses to go down on you because you're the grossest thing he's ever tasted, you'll have met your soulmate. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/2/2009 9:15:54 PM | no in all seriousness...it's kinda degrading
MsMIcki and Norm..........you both have said that others shouldn't take things personally when statements are made........yet you both had to comment on this and either say that it isn't degrading for you
MsMicki:
How is it degrading to me if I like doing it?
Did she say you should feel degraded.........no she said she thought it was degrading.
or that there must be something wrong with someone sexually that feels it is.
Why? Why can she just not feel like it is degrading to her just like Norm feels a girl who doesn't is a star fish to him? I'm not trying to be a biotch or anything, but just like you guys are entitled to feel about it the way you want so is the women that made the comment that she feels it's degrading. You both have busted on others for getting on you for taking things personally or making comments about the way you see things. It would be nice if you both took that into consideration yourselves. Everyone realizes that you both like the whole swallowing aspect of things which is great..........but you ARE jumping on others who don't. Something that you don't like those who don't doing to you for liking it. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/2/2009 9:20:36 PM | | In my own experience, the vast majority of women I've been intimate with do not swallow. Therefore, it's always a surprise for me when they do. It doesn't bother me one way or the other. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/2/2009 9:27:25 PM | kirota,
you assume way to much,, there one thing to comment,, you assume we take it personally,, but we do have a right to comment and even play if we want too,, we were not attacking the poster, just adding our two cents why we might disagree and at the same time show where we agree,,, it's seems people like you are just looking to start trouble,, I'm not sure what your trying to prove,, spit it out so I can understand,,
and please notice my disclaimer, for people like you
disclaimer, not speaking to or about anyone here,, | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/2/2009 9:52:18 PM | kirota,
you assume way to much,, there one thing to comment,, you assume we take it personally,, but we do have a right to comment and even play if we want too,, we were not attacking the poster, just adding our two cents why we might disagree and at the same time show where we agree,,, it's seems people like you are just looking to start trouble,, I'm not sure what your trying to prove,, spit it out so I can understand,,
So, when youmake a comment it is just adding your two cents, but when someone else does they are taking it personal. It is very clear to me know........as long as they agree with you they are just giving their two cents, but if they don't they are taking it personal. Got ya..........
Me saying I didn't agree with the statement about women being a star fish if they don't swallow wasn't taking it personal..........it was just adding my two cents........Who is the person that judges if it is taking it personally or just adding their two cents? Kittyhere has some far off statements and I don't always agree with her, but she is adding her two cents and is getting hammered on. You might think she is taking it personally when she is just saying what she things. See my point.
I'm not trying to bust on you at all.............that isn't what I am saying. I just think that you guys make statements to those who don't agree with you and not the ones who do. Just like saying it isn't degrading to her(MsMicki)..........which it shouldn't be, but why say so? No one was saying she(MsMicki) should feel degraded. So, if I go along with your thinking then she took it personally because she had to say she wasn't. See what I am saying. You say people are taking it personally when they add their "2cents", but when you add you "2cents" it is just commenting. It's seem like a double standard to me. If you have to get mad and say I have something wrong wtih me for noticing this leads me to believe that you are taking me "commenting" on it personally. Because...........it is actually MY 2Cents
disclaimer, not speaking to or about anyone here,,
Actually you were........because you used my name and you in the same sentence comment. So, you were talking about people like me, the ones who don't always agree with what you say. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/2/2009 9:54:49 PM |  Are we still talking about this?
I must say, you all are VERY dedicated to the cause!
It's a shame all this is over something as frivolous as blow jobs....
You should combine angry forces and save polar bears or orphans or something. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/2/2009 10:20:52 PM | kirota
you should get a room with Kitten,, both of you "can not read," "you look for fights", "you take thing out of context", "you make it about you"
and your comments have nothing to do with "what I posted",,
but rather "why I posted",,
why I posted is none of your business, other than I can,,
Now if you would like to comment on my post as it relates to cum or feeling degrading feel free,,
other than that, I can't help you,,
You happen not to comment on the subject of "degrading" as msmicki and I did,, you would rather direct your comment to the person posting, big difference,,
I don't care if your trying to bust or not,, what your attempting to do is stir up a can of worms, and when I let you do that,, you again will not feel good about your self,, and I really would like to avoid that,, because your debating skill leave a lot to be desired,,as one person said,, I should run for congress, because I'm an ass, he my have a point,,
as a final note, look how this forum runs before you start in,, people pass opinions back and forth, no one seems to get his or her pants wet,, we even laugh a little.. until you start,,, just something to think about,, I was also trying to avoid you unless you replied directly to me,, I would like to keep it that way, if you don't mind..
see post 813 about disclaimer,, again you read what I said wrong ,, because I was pointing out to you where I wrote my disclaimer,,
so here is that white flag take it,, | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/2/2009 10:58:05 PM | Norm.......insults great........keep them up......lmao
you should get a room with Kitten,, both of you "can not read," "you look for fights", "you take thing out of context", "you make it about you"
Did I insult you? Nope
As for my debating skills.....I don't care if you like them or not. Like yourself.......I can make a comment about anything I want. Don't need a white flag because I am not "gunning" for you like YOU think I am. That is your issue not mine, but again you will say you aren't taking it personally that I am the one with the issue. Just because I say what I think. LMAO
As for you disclaimer............**coughs** BS You called me out by name and then said people like you.......so yes........you were talking about me not matter how many "disclaimers" you write.
Why is the way I "read" it wrong...........and the way you "read" things right? HMMMMMMMM.........yet it is always about me huh? I don't care what your "comments" are.......just laugh at how when you comment it is 2cents worth, but if others do they are taking it personally...........and something must be wrong with them. LMAO
White flag or not.........you are taking this personally or you wouldn't have to insult me. All I was doing was commenting on the way I see it and you got your undies in a knot.......
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/3/2009 2:23:57 AM |
It's a shame all this is over something as frivolous as blow jobs....
All of this is because it's a shame some women think blowjobs are frivolous. I can imagine the uproar if a guy said ``It's a shame all this over something as frivolous as going down on woman.'' I think it's great that it continues. Perhaps some guy with a bad case of PW, will wake up after years of being conditioned to believe that it's natural for women to hate performing oral sex because guys are repulsive and taste awful while it's natural for guys to like performing oral sex on women or get kicked to curb. The illogical one-sided arguments given by a few women are nice illustrations of that attitude. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/3/2009 4:20:03 AM | ........All of this is because it's a shame some women think blowjobs are frivolous
Well they are frivolous. its also frivolous for a guy to go down on a woman.
The illogical one-sided arguments given by a few women are nice illustrations of that attitude
........what is illogical about not being able to eat slime?? It seems very logical to me.
You want it go get it but do not put down on women who cant give it. It jsut shows what kind of guy you are...and it ain't good.
......it's natural for women to hate performing oral sex because guys are repulsive and taste awful while it's natural for guys to like performing oral sex on women or get kicked to curb.
Having to eat slime is repulsive to some. I belive I have always said its a man's choice to go down on a woman. he is not forced to. Just like men who refuse to date a owman who dont do oral well the are also some women who refuse to date a man that wont do oral. it goes both ways. How about you quit whinning about it and jsut get a woman who does it.
rdcnorm...grow up and realize its aint all about YOU. Just becuase you like bj's and someone else dont is no reason for you to act like a uncaring, disrespectful, a$$hole. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/3/2009 5:00:46 AM | well i for one can say thats its very important to me. in fact, ive always said that aside from: age?, smoker?, height?, etc, they should have a category on everyones profile of : swallows?
what do you think guys? | |
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Ninki
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Joined: 4/11/2005
Msg: 816 | |
| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/3/2009 5:09:25 AM |
There are a number of women on here who have commented that they could never think of swallowing when they were younger, and love it now.
Yes, because they have managed to override their natural instincts, due to the sheer pressure society seems to put on them now to do this. Me, I'm almost 46 and just reading about it makes me feel nauseous.
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Ninki
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Joined: 4/11/2005
Msg: 817 | |
| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/3/2009 5:21:29 AM |
All of this is because it's a shame some women think blowjobs are frivolous. I can imagine the uproar if a guy said ``It's a shame all this over something as frivolous as going down on woman.'' I think it's great that it continues. Perhaps some guy with a bad case of PW, will wake up after years of being conditioned to believe that it's natural for women to hate performing oral sex because guys are repulsive and taste awful while it's natural for guys to like performing oral sex on women or get kicked to curb. The illogical one-sided arguments given by a few women are nice illustrations of that attitude.
abelian, which one of us non-swallowers here has said that we'd kick a guy to the curb if he won't go down on us? That's right! None of us! Maybe in other threads some women have said that, but not in this one. If I remember right, I, along with the other women on this thread who don't swallow, have said *repeatedly* that we'd never force a man to do something to us that he didn't want to do. In my case, I don't even like receiving oral sex, so there. What are you going to use now to try to guilt me into giving BJ and swollowing.  
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/3/2009 6:26:44 AM | I stand by my question......
How is swallowing degrading?
K - so I used me as the subject when I asked the question.....it is still a liable question.
Do I need to be more specific to you Kirota? (when it wasn't you I was even asking)
What about the act of swallowing degrades a female? That better for you?
Does is make her less of a woman in a man's eyes?
Does is make her less of a woman in her own eyes?
If it somehow demeans her......then the issue is with either the man recieving it....or the woman swallowing....not the actual act of doing it.
How was I taking anything personal here?
A poster made the comment it was degrading.....(which was a change from the "it's gross" anwsers most have said).....and I want to know what about the act of swallowing is degrading to her. Pretty simple question if u aren't so riled up about someone disagreeing with you....and taking posts personal.
I, for one, have been trying to make a thread you and Kitten turned into a personal conquest......into a legitimate discussion.
I asked another poster a question....I did not make it personal....I did not belittle her for saying it.......yet u feel the need to come back into this thread and attack the posters u don't agree with.....instead of sticking to the topic at hand. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/3/2009 6:43:08 AM |
You want it go get it but do not put down on women who cant give it. It jsut shows what kind of guy you are...and it ain't good.
See how much simpler it is to know who is a good match if he just tells you up front?
......it's natural for women to hate performing oral sex because guys are repulsive and taste awful while it's natural for guys to like performing oral sex on women or get kicked to curb.
Why do I feel like I'm trying to describe caviar to someone who would say ``ewe. fish eggs'' and fight to death for a happy meal?
Having to eat slime is repulsive to some. I belive I have always said its a man's choice to go down on a woman. he is not forced to. Just like men who refuse to date a owman who dont do oral well the are also some women who refuse to date a man that wont do oral. it goes both ways.
I wish it went both ways. That would save a lot of time.
How about you quit whinning about it and jsut get a woman who does it.
I did. I had a date last Monday night with someone who does it and likes it and who I'll see again next week. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/3/2009 7:04:51 AM | .....How about you quit whinning about it and jsut get a woman who does it.
.....I did. I had a date last Monday night with someone who does it and likes it and who I'll see again next week.
Well thats just lovely so quit whinning here.
......See how much simpler it is to know who is a good match if he just tells you up front?
Yes I alwasy want to know if the guy im thinking about is only interested in oral or really wants a relationship. I for sure want to know up front.
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/3/2009 7:34:23 AM | What the hell is PW?
And I'm sorry, but be it about blow jobs or eating a woman out, it IS frivolous.
If you think you're changing lives by tearing apart each others words and beating minute points over each other's heads, then you must be delusionql.
If you seriously think you're changing lives her by tearing apart peoples words and pounding minute points over each others heads, you're delusional.
If you don't think the "spit or swallow" conversation is frivolous, I'm terrified to know what else makes your list of priorities in life. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/3/2009 7:58:14 AM | Actually I don't think it's frivolous.....
I am a sexual being.....and I want to be with someone that is sexually compatible.
I have no desire to change anyone's lives.....but I do like to understand people's point of views...
That would be one of the reasons I hang out here......
I like to discuss "adult" topics......
I can't do it at work......I can't do it at some of the milder forums I hang out.....
I can do it here.....and I will continue to do it here......whether it ticks someone off or not!
This thread is about swallowing.....if you aren't enjoying the conversation.....then pick any of the hundreds of other threads that are here to post in.
Now.......Kitten..........why does it have to mean that oral is the only thing Abelian is wanting?
Why do you have to judge a person's character on one point of discussion?
I repeat.......this thread is about swallowing.....so it is the one point being discussed.....
In no way does that mean that is the only requirement he expects from a lady.
It just means that is ONE of the sexual pleasures he finds he needs to be sexually compatible with a person. | |
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