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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/3/2009 8:32:15 AM | Msmicki...........I have enjoyed some of your posts. I wasn't attacking you are trying to make you see BJ's the way I do. I was simply asking why you guys have to question and in a round about way insult others that don't like to swallow. Why is it alright for you two to ask questions, but not others. Is there a time frame that I must be on this site to be able to ask a question?
Just like you and Norm comment to others comments I have commented on yours and you are getting you undies in a not. I realize when people have been on a site for a long time they see things differently than someone who has just started. Those that have been here don't like to be challenged or have some of their own rules and guidelines thrown back at them. Hell, Norm has quoted me I don't know how many times yet he doesn't want me commenting to his postes. See the double standard. You both have the right to question any post that you want to understand more....just the same as I have the right to questions yours. When you question someone it is to gain more knowledge, but when others question it is that they are taking it personal. You can't have it both ways. Kitten is as strong about her feelings as you are about yours. Doesn't make either of you wrong...........just makes you you!!! With every response that she has not to like it you slam her back with one why it is wrong or that isn't the way it is for you. Neither of you are any more right than the other.
This thread has become a "bang your head against a brick wall" thread. Some people do and some people don't like to swallow. I don't think anyone who loves it should be judged for doing so neither should anyone who doesn't, but both sides will defend it just to make their point valid because others have to knock it down. Everyone can talk about it all they want.......you are taking the forums personally or it wouldn't keep drawing you back time after time again to add more to it. I do the same thing. I'm not excluding myself from this, but unlike some here........I admit that. So, what if a person takes it personally...........why does that make something wrong with them? It is normal...........anytime a person hears something they put themselves in that position and try to make sense of it. So, their comments are personal.........unless they use a clone to experience life which is highly unlikely. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/3/2009 8:56:16 AM | Kirota........please show me where I have once insulted anyone for not swallowing.....or said others were not allowed to ask questions. If you go back and read my posts.....u will see I have repeatedly stated it is a personal choice to have someone in your life that meets your sexual needs.
You are the one that took offense to my question about it being degrading.
You, then, pinpointed me out and felt the need to chastise me for asking that question.
I, too, enjoy your posts Kirota.....you were the one that decided to make this personal.
I have pinpointed Kitten a few times.......mainly because she has accused and judged people here based on their own sexual preferences .....and the fact that she has her own thread about her own sexual needs not being met....and myself, and others here....find her quite hypocritical....and a few other adjectives I will refrain from using! | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/3/2009 9:00:26 AM | ......why does it have to mean that oral is the only thing Abelian is wanting?
it doesnt.
.....In no way does that mean that is the only requirement he expects from a lady
Swallowing being a requirement is where he goes wrong.
......It just means that is ONE of the sexual pleasures he finds he needs to be sexually compatible with a person.
thats right so he needs to go find it but to be so rude in his posts against women who dont do them is unnecessary.
Blow jobs are frivolous . Who would want a relationship that is suppose to be loving , caring, and respectful let a bj do the deciding for him. bj's are minor and should not be a dealbreaker or maker. However if he needs one in order to be happy then he should have one. I am not bothered by the fact men like bj's , its their attitude about them that is so wrong.
then why did u infer that Abelian is "only interested" in oral?
His actions and words in his post tells all.
you have repeatedly stated you don't think sex should be an issue in a marriage.......
Have you not realized you are the only adult on this site that states this?
When there is a problem seuxally the two can work it out. it should not determine if you love a person or not. Keep in mind LOVE comes from the heart...not the penis
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/3/2009 9:04:15 AM | 1Day1DollarShort makes a good point:
It doesn't bother me one way or the other.
I find swallowing pretty repulsive myself - I'd rather get those calories from a candy bar. LOL.
However, I've never met a guy YET that was personally insulted if I chose to spit it out in the potted plant next to the bed instead - because they were way too busy trying to uncross their eyes to notice. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/3/2009 9:14:10 AM |
Abelian:...See how much simpler it is to know who is a good match if he just tells you up front?
Kitten:Yes I alwasy want to know if the guy im thinking about is only interested in oral or really wants a relationship. I for sure want to know up front.
Micki......why does it have to mean that oral is the only thing Abelian is wanting?
Kitten:it doesnt.
then why did u infer that Abelian is "only interested" in oral?
Kitten......you have repeatedly stated you don't think sex should be an issue in a marriage.......
Have you not realized you are the only adult on this site that states this?
You can spout that crap all day long.......but you have already proved it isn't true by your thread about sex toys. Even you want to have orgasms.
Please, girl, stop telling adults sex isn't important to a relationship.
We all know it is......
What others expect from their relationships is not for u to decide. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/3/2009 9:21:54 AM | Kitten......you have repeatedly stated you don't think sex should be an issue in a marriage.......
Have you not realized you are the only adult on this site that states this?
LOVE COMES FROM THE HEART, NOT THE PENIS
Lthen why did u infer that Abelian is "only interested" in oral?
his writings in his post tells all.
Please, girl, stop telling adults sex isn't important to a relationship.
I didnt say its not important, I said it should not be what makes or breaks a relationship. sexual issues can be worked on togheter if there is love between the two.
c deacon........your opinion sucks
Get it through your thick head....LOVE IS NOT IN THE PENIS.
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/3/2009 9:24:33 AM | You think????.......... 
My opinion is that if you are going to give head until reaching an orgasm, then the logical part is to keep it in your mouth until no longer wanted there, and how you react to this whole process can state volumes about your personal feelings concerning oral sex, or even sex itself.
If one does not want to have cum in your mouth, why not just tell the one you are with that you enjoy oral as foreplay, but not as the end result? It seems to me that if you are this close to one another, that knowing how one feels about it, would just be a normal part of the discussion.
OT.......If I can and will enjoy tasting all of you with oral sex, then is seems only fair that you taste all of me, and if either of us has a problem with that, it should be discussed long before inserting any part of either of us into the other..... 
Seeing the one I am with "spit" me out immediately after conclusion would be the same as me having a bottle of "scope" by the bed, to gargle with right after giving you oral......and "both" will leave an impression that just might be considered negative.....
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| I think cum haters are IGNORANT!!!
Posted: 1/3/2009 9:29:21 AM | In a perfect world women WORSHIP CUM!!! Hell we wouldnt even exist without it.....Ive´ met plenty of cum haters......soo sad to say!!! | |
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| I think cum haters are IGNORANT!!!
Posted: 1/3/2009 9:46:33 AM | .....In a perfect world women WORSHIP CUM
God is the only thing I worship
.....Hell we wouldnt even exist without it
Yep but not by a woman eating it. It was put wehre it was suppose to go....the vagina.
......Ive´ met plenty of cum haters......soo sad to say!!!
Not swollowing does not mean we are cum haters. It means we dont want to eat it which by the way it was never meant to be eaten. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/3/2009 10:00:42 AM | MsMicki,
I wasn't referring to you, but if you want to get involved, so be it.
If you read my original post (which was also not directed towards you), you'll find that I was using the term "frivolous" relative to the anger it was invoking. It was then cherry-picked by someone who loves to argue for t
he sake of arguing, apparently.
But judging by how quick you are to jump on the bandwagon, maybe it SHOULD have been directed at you. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/3/2009 10:10:00 AM | I think I can sum it all up for you guys:
Women WANT to be the best you've ever had. They really do. But depending on what you eat, it can be really awful - to the point of making her sick on the spot. And if her first time trying was like this, then she probably isn't going to ever want to do it again. Do some research on how food effects the taste, and tell her all about it. Maybe with some time and patience, and alot of pineapple and honey, she'll try again. Maybe once she tastes how good it can be, and sees how much you love it....maybe. All women are different. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/3/2009 10:13:02 AM | | ms traditionalsass, if taste was the problem ur suggestion might work but unfortuantly it isnt. I have never gave a bj in order to know what his cum might taste like. its not a matter of taste ..its a matter of weak stomach. some women just cannot do it. now if there are women out there who simply have tried and dont like the taste, then your advice is great advice. But in my case ...it has nohting to do with taste at all. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/3/2009 10:19:01 AM |
However, I've never met a guy YET that was personally insulted if I chose to spit it out in the potted plant next to the bed instead - because they were way too busy trying to uncross their eyes to notice.
Jerseygirl... this is probably the one thing all of those males who insist that swallowing is a must will have to agree with. "way too busy trying to uncross their eyes to notice"... WAY TO FUNNY!!!
As much as I hate the saying... "You go girl". | |
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| I think cum haters are IGNORANT!!!
Posted: 1/3/2009 10:22:12 AM | someone said, that swallowing, "override(s) their natural instincts" that it is society pressuring them to do this, wow, how funny. That would definitely not be a time I would be considering what society thinks I should do! My only consideration at that point is pleasing my partner and myself.
We are human animals, and sex is very primal, why not explore possibilities, be brave, be loving. Don't let inhibitions rule you, let go!
Another says they feel "degraded" , how sad, that is definitely not what a good loving relationship would make you feel. This sounds like religious repression or having sex with someone who you don't care much for or feel that they don't feel much for you.  | |
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| I think cum haters are IGNORANT!!!
Posted: 1/3/2009 10:34:58 AM | ............Don't let inhibitions rule you, let go
How to let go and do soemthing that makes you completely sick.?? is that what a loving relationship is all about. Tell him how much I love him in between my puking.
Inhibitions are there for a reason.
traditionalsass I did read your post and I was just saying that its not why some of us dont do it. thats all. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/3/2009 12:32:37 PM |
Get it through your thick head....LOVE IS NOT IN THE PENIS.
and get it through your thick head.....it takes alot more than Love to make a marriage work.
Love is not the "magic wand" that fixes everything.
My ex boyfriend "loved" me while screwing someone else.
My ex husband "loved" me while beating on me.
A relationship takes many things to work.....communication, trust, honesty, RESPECT, and sexual compatiblility to name a few....
If you honestly believed a person should have to go throughout their marriage without having what they needed sexually.......why did u post a thread about your sexual needs????? you should have just accepted the fact your husband doesn't get you off.
Can u not get that what we are talking about....is finding a person we are compatible with......90% of the posters on here are single......and we are discussing what we want in our future relationships.....
Not one person here has stated "swallowing" is their one and only deal breaker when it comes to dating. We have many things we are looking for in a mate. There are many reasons we might stop dating someone. I, for one, would stop dating a person that thinks their personal view is the ONLY view on a subject.
I am here insisting that you swallow.
No......and neither is anyone else.
If u are feeling attacked.....I guarantee you it's not because you don't swallow.....it
is because of your attitude and judgements. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/3/2009 12:43:58 PM | ....Love is not the "magic wand" that fixes everything
When its true love...the two can get through anything and everything together. So I really have to disagree with you .
.....My ex boyfriend "loved" me while screwing someone else. My ex husband "loved" me while beating on me.
He didnt love you. plain and simple. if somene loves you they will not do anyhting to ever hurt you. What I have realized from being in a forum is that there is alot of people who have no clue what love is. What most call love is NOT love. most throw the word love around like giving candy to a kid and treat is as such as well. Love is not something that appears in a week of knowing or dating soemone. Love takes a long time to grow. but when it hits ya like a ton of rocks , nothing can change it and you will do everyting in your power to make sure you never hurt that person.
opie i did not pursue anything. I accepted what he said. It was his own doing to change his mind. I played no part in that. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/3/2009 12:57:54 PM | kit said, "....he didnt love you. plain and simple. if somene loves you they will not do anyhting to ever hurt you"
But, when you asked your hubby about using toys, he said, "f*ck", which translates to , he was hurt. You didn't drop it, you persued the idea. So by your thinking, you were more interested in having him adapt to your needs than in just letting it be.,I guess you don't really love him then.... | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/3/2009 1:00:07 PM |
rdcnorm...grow up and realize its aint all about YOU. Just becuase you like bj's and someone else dont is no reason for you to act like a uncaring, disrespectful, a$$hole.
yes I can certainly see your point as you say this about a mans semen,,
what is illogical about not being able to eat slime
Now i personally take no offence, but have considered you might have hurt someone else feeling by calling a mans semen "Slime", some men might consider that as an insult, even the ones who don't like BJs. That man may say, this is my seed, that will impregnate a woman, so we can have a baby together,,
at the risk of being a congressman..LOL I love that title... LOL...
or because
because guys are repulsive and taste awful
But I'm assuming, you can't know for sure because how many BJs have you really given to come up with that conclusion.."about guys" =all by the way
Now here is the difference between you and me,, I use personal experiences to state my case, example a woman I was with etc..
you generalize,,because you have yet to say the men you gave a BJ to, tasted a certain way,, you would rather say,, "guys" are repulsive and taste awful, like slime,
How about you quit whinning about it and jsut get a woman who does it.
how about you quit whining and get a guy who doesn't like BJs,, opps I forgot you already have one,, so why are you whining again.. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/3/2009 1:11:40 PM |
When its true love...the two can get through anything and everything together. So I really have to disagree with you .
You have got to be kidding me,, do you have any idea of what you say,,
then swallow,,
but in your previous posts, you suggest, you would do any thing for love but swallow,,
Now I understand love is compromise,, but you have been a one sided woman all the way,, it's all about you,, just read how you contradict your self through this forum,, | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/3/2009 1:32:56 PM | bs kit, here is your OP on the toy thread you made.
"why is it that some men get angry if the woman wants to add toys during a night of lovemaking? I always thought men were all for it. Is it becuase they want to be what causes the woman or orgasm? How can I possibly change this situation to make him feel better about using them?"
You wanted to CHANGE him. But, heaven forbid that YOU change your mind.
Must be a sad pathetic sex life for you, I think thats why you hang out in these threads, maybe this really is what gets you off, you just can't admit it..?  | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/3/2009 2:13:55 PM | | someone enlighten me pls........i have been readin this over the last week on an off and you all seem to be goin round in circles.....also if you are married why would you u be on here an not sortin your sex life out....how long have you been married kit ??? | |
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