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 goodlistener711
Joined: 1/24/2007
Msg: 851
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Lots of married men and WOMEN on this site. Why not, it's a social site.
 jessymary
Joined: 5/8/2007
Msg: 852
oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/3/2009 2:39:14 PM
sorry i thought this was a datin site lol.....and obviously there is problems in the bedroom so efforts might be better spent there !!!!
 davidneohio
Joined: 12/28/2007
Msg: 853
oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/3/2009 2:39:55 PM
Wow dude, are you serious with this question? Chemistry is EVERYTHING MAN! If she wont swallow, TAKE IT PERSONALLY haha
 davidneohio
Joined: 12/28/2007
Msg: 854
I think cum haters are IGNORANT!!!
Posted: 1/3/2009 2:58:55 PM
why is this even a topic, its so basic lol. ITS ALL ABOUT CHEMISTRY.IF A GIRL THINKS U R SEXY THERE IS NO LIMITS
 denaj
Joined: 12/8/2007
Msg: 855
I think cum haters are IGNORANT!!!
Posted: 1/3/2009 4:44:02 PM
I have to say I have read all these postings and I don't understand why everyone gets so nasty. As far as BJs bring frivolous. I have never met a guy who didn't think it was the greatest thing in the world or the hottest to have you swallow. If you like this guy enough to have sex, then what is the problem. It is just part of him but if it is too nasty to taste, then just have him in deep enough where you won't taste it at all and you will get over the gag relflex if you just swallow when you gag. If swallowing is the make or break of a relationship, then move on and find a partner that has the same ideas on sex and pleasure of thier partner as you do. I would find it very rude if a guy spit, gagged or made a face after giving me oral sex. Everyone does taste different but if I really want to please my partner, that just comes with the territory. You all act like it is poison and toxic. LOL If my partner knows how much I want to make him happy and just a clue on keeping your mate, if you send your man off everyday to face the world after a BJ( including swallowing) every morning, then he will always come home to you every night and never look elsewhere. But this is only my opinion and what has worked for me.
 Kirota
Joined: 10/21/2008
Msg: 856
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I think cum haters are IGNORANT!!!
Posted: 1/3/2009 5:20:15 PM

When its true love...the two can get through anything and everything together. So I really have to disagree with you .


Why is there so much divorce then? I doubt it has anything to do with swallowing or not. I truly loved my ex husband more than I love anyone but my kids and we still couldn't make it work as a married couple. True love does not conquer all........sorry. I hate to say this because it is probably insulting, but if true love conquered all it would conquer your dislike for swallowing. I'm not saying anyone should swallow or shouldn't..........I know I have never tried, but not saying that I never will either. For my ex husband he wasn't into that........but the next great man that I am dating I might just find him attractive enough to try it and then who knows.
 Ninki
Joined: 4/11/2005
Msg: 857
I think cum haters are IGNORANT!!!
Posted: 1/3/2009 6:42:03 PM

if you send your man off everyday to face the world after a BJ( including swallowing) every morning, then he will always come home to you every night and never look elsewhere. But this is only my opinion and what has worked for me.


So I take it you've only been with one guy all your adult life then, right? After all, since you please him so well, why would he leave you?

N.
 QualityGuySF
Joined: 12/30/2008
Msg: 858
oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/3/2009 7:45:10 PM
It's like this... Men don't need to taste their own cum, much as women don't need to taste their own ****. It's NORMAL for men to REJECT cum, and women to CRAVE it. If a woman is so resentful of it... NEXT! That's an insult, when you do a FULL JOB, and she cuts corners like that. AT LEAST MAKE AN EFFORT TO TASTE IT, most women don't do that.
 QualityGuySF
Joined: 12/30/2008
Msg: 859
oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/3/2009 7:59:40 PM
You sir, are brilliant. Well said. EXACTLY the way i feel.... it's part of the act, so don't take shortcuts unless you finish what you started.
 staminaman20
Joined: 12/26/2008
Msg: 860
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oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/3/2009 9:13:34 PM
i don't mean to be rude but that's exactly what woman are us men weren't meant to jerk off into thin air the entire reason for jizz is to go into the female body maybe not the mouth but thats up to them but ya woman are pretty much exactly sperm recepticals. don't get me wrong thats not all there for i love woman and not just for a place to put my sperm but stop being so sexest thats not what all guys think
 rdcnorm
Joined: 3/7/2007
Msg: 861
oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/3/2009 9:38:37 PM
^^^ please don't include me in the words "US MEN" whether a woman has sex with me or not, all women should be treated with respect, there are some who can/may lose my respect, But woman should not be consider a sperm receptacle,, that certainly is degrading to women,, and your statement alone,, is disrespectful to many men as well..because I would bet most of "US MEN"don't feel that way...
 muddboggmoma
Joined: 8/6/2008
Msg: 862
oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/3/2009 9:48:27 PM
as a women i do swallow but sometimes you gag right when u guys are getting off . so there's my version . but let me say i do keep going , just got to swallow and keep going on
 diceman203
Joined: 12/21/2008
Msg: 863
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oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/4/2009 4:02:39 AM
Pineapple juice! That's what Sasha Grey, the famous porn star, says makes your cum taste really great!!!
 Ninki
Joined: 4/11/2005
Msg: 864
I think cum haters are IGNORANT!!!
Posted: 1/4/2009 4:40:20 AM
So I see *someone* saw fit to change the subject line right above my post, and *only* above my post, WHY??? People like me don't have the right to express our opinions? Some "adults" you are!

N.
 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 865
oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/4/2009 5:06:07 AM

What the hell is PW?
And I'm sorry, but be it about blow jobs or eating a woman out, it IS frivolous.
If you think you're changing lives by tearing apart each others words and beating minute points over each other's heads, then you must be delusionql.


It's not a minute point. The point here is that there are some women who feel like they can tell a man what should be important to him. (If that wasn't the case, I would have never gotten a shit over saying I considered compatibility important and rejected all of fallacious reasoning being used to argue that men should just put up with being grateful for what they got.) The PW means Pvssy Whipped as in then men who feel grateful that a women would have sex them, as if it was doing them a favor. I have some minimum requirements for a relationship that will satisfy me and I'm not about to apologize for those preferences. If no one satisfies my requirements, I'll live with the consequences of maintaining my preferences. There are a few women here who appaently want men to decide they should be satisfied with what a woman thinks should satisfy all men. Apparently, they have preferences, but are pissed off that their preferences have consequences and one of those consequences is that they will be rejected for something they consider frivolous. Too bad. If they don't like the consequences, the only option they have is to change their preferences, just like anyone else has to do.

Basically, I think thre are a few women who have come to the realization that their prferences will shrink their dating pool and are just pissed off that they have to accept it.
 denaj
Joined: 12/8/2007
Msg: 866
I think cum haters are IGNORANT!!!
Posted: 1/4/2009 5:31:11 AM
No I have not been with only one guy but I have never had anyone break up with me. I am 47 and have had a few relationships. The father of my son died from an illness, so he really didn't leave me. I broke up with the other long term relationships I had becuase I wanted other things in my life but I am still friends with them after all these years. Sex was never a problem but that isn't the only thing that counts in a relationship but still important. Sometimes your dreams or desires for your own growth change and you don't want the same same things anymore. That doesn't mean you don't love each other. The big issues, children, career goals, where you live and how you live do effect your relationship. I was with another guy for years but didn't want to put up with his drug problem( perscritptions) after back surgery any longer. He wouldn't go for help. The other man I was engaged to wanted to move accross the country and my mom was dying of cancer and I let him go and fulfill his dream. I needed to be here for the last year of my mom's life. This was a dream job for him that he is still at but I had to do right by my mother. I felt I did the right thing for me. I certainly do not have the same goals, etc that I had at 20. It would be wonderful if my son's father was still alive as I am sure we would still be together. Men are very easy to understand.
 canubeit
Joined: 12/28/2008
Msg: 867
oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/4/2009 5:53:22 AM
I agree with your answer
 kittenhere
Joined: 10/22/2008
Msg: 868
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oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/4/2009 5:54:44 AM
Basically, I think thre are a few women who have come to the realization that their prferences will shrink their dating pool and are just pissed off that they have to accept it.

It aslo shrinks the men's. however we are not pissed aobut our dating pool becuase the women who dont do bj's does not want a man that requires them. We want a man that knows whats important in a real loving relationship not one that puts a bj ahead of everyting else in life. So the only thing we are missing out on is the "bad men". Who would want a man that thinks with the lower head instead of the upper head?? therefore, we are missing out on .......nothing.
If we wanted men like that dont u think we would change our preferences. I would not do a bj' for anyone come hell or high water. I dont care who he is.
 ~luvUlongtime~
Joined: 5/9/2008
Msg: 869
Some men on this forum really, really need to get over themselves...
Posted: 1/4/2009 6:15:52 AM
Honestly!

I'd say some of you whinging guys need to appreciate the fact that you are darn lucky any woman wants anything to do with you at all, in or out of the bedroom. You think you are lords of entitlement or something? Some of the attitudes here are enough to put you off your breakfast - amongst other things....

 Ninki
Joined: 4/11/2005
Msg: 870
oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/4/2009 7:23:20 AM
If a man rejects me for not doing BJs, then he's doing me a big favor. I see it as a win-win situation.

N.
 bp6957
Joined: 8/14/2008
Msg: 871
I think cum haters are IGNORANT!!!
Posted: 1/4/2009 8:06:10 AM
If you send me off each Day with a BJ, you need not swallow. I will still be a Very Happy Man!! Marry Me!!
 denaj
Joined: 12/8/2007
Msg: 872
I think cum haters are IGNORANT!!!
Posted: 1/4/2009 8:27:05 AM
If you send me off each Day with a BJ, you need not swallow. I will still be a Very Happy Man!! Marry Me!!

See I am right ( mostly) all you need to do is believe in your man becuase if you don't beleive in him , he feels you don't love him, let him know you truly desire him and that sex is not a chore and he will work hard and come home everyday to you.
 rdcnorm
Joined: 3/7/2007
Msg: 873
I think cum haters are IGNORANT!!!
Posted: 1/4/2009 8:35:22 AM
I can think of lots of reasons why I might be rejected by a woman, I'm OK with it because, I have my preferences as well,, as others do. I personally think that is a wonderful thing, because it saves on settling for things or a person we won't be compatible with.. I also think those who take rejected personally may have other issues, because it's OK for them to reject for their personal reason, compatibility etc. But they take it personally when they are rejected because of someone else compatibility and preferences..

As for rejection shrinking the dating pool,,, that is a good thing,, saves me lots of time, why try and get to know some one, if we are not compatible from the start, therefore if by downsizing the dating pool my chances are much better to find the woman that works for me, as for her as well..

Why a woman might reject me because of her preferences,, "thats OK too"
I'm to tall or short,
I'm too old or two young.
I have a son,
I'm arrogant, obnoxious at times,
I'm a blue collar worker, not a white collar
I drink,
I have no interest in traveling the world,
I like sex, oral, and most things as it relates to what I call a normal healthy sex life,,
I won't be **** whipped , or will I be with woman "who" I "consider" a star fish,

So my preference is,, if we can't do 69, enjoy each other juices, we will not be compatible at all...
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Nicki, you are right why and how can some one can change the title above your post..I agree that is just not right,,,
 poker_fan_in_nyc
Joined: 4/6/2007
Msg: 874
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oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/4/2009 10:11:24 AM
I like the guys on here that say if she won't do it then don't do it to her plain and simple...Actually it's not...
I will swallow but let's be honest, having cum shot in the woman's mouth is a lot different than a woman cumming in the man's...
 rdcnorm
Joined: 3/7/2007
Msg: 875
oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/4/2009 10:26:31 AM

I will swallow but let's be honest, having cum shot in the woman's mouth is a lot different than a woman cumming in the man's...

I really don't see your point other than it's different, isn't it supposed to be,,
Now as a man, I have experianced a womans cum going down my throat, in my mouth, up my nose, while some woman may cum a little, while other just gush, a man could drown under those circumstances,, but I love it all just the same,,
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