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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/5/2009 12:13:50 AM | Well Norm..........agree to disagree.........I hope
I just dont' find why you can't say........." I wouldn't be compatibility with someone sexually that didn't swallow. Why must you say anything about her being a star fish or boring or any other kind of thing? I'm just curious. Does it make your statement seem stronger by adding the negative? Just curious.
I'm sure that if I said "If I'm dating a man that enjoys a BJ and finds it necessary to have me swallow his cum is a sexual deviant and can go play sexual pervert with some one else." I would get bashed on. I would be told that I have something wrong with me that I don't like BJ's and blah blah blah........
I firmly agree with you that there must be sexual compatibility for a relationship to work, but I don't see why adding the negative stuff that you know will offend someone has to be said. It doesn't make that point of your statement (being compatible sexually) any stronger by the negative stuff that you added with it. It actually takes away from your point, because of the negativity involved in it.JMHO | |
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Posted: 1/5/2009 4:13:36 AM | Kirota said,.......Someone shouldn't have to call someone who loves to do it a slut or a selfish man
The fact he loves it is not what makes him selfish. Its the fact that he would make the woman do it regarless of her feelings that makes a man selfish. When your in a relationship your suppose to care how your partner feels. If a man knew it was gonna make his partner vomit and he demanded it anyway, then that would mean he only cared about his feelings and that is selfish in my eyes. All these men who are so needy wehn it comes to bj's need to find a lady that can do them. But to start a relationship with somenoe you claim to care about is heartless to leave them for something so minor. Its kinda like telling the man, eat this raw egg and love it or im gonna leave ya. Its the same thing. This is just my view on things. its not meant to offend anyone. | |
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Posted: 1/5/2009 5:24:32 AM | | which part would be funny? I find nothing funny about it at all. If you can do it thats great but some of us just cant no matter what the cost. A previous male poster said he wouldnt eat a raw egg no matter what. Well this is the same way it is to some women about eating cum. We each have our dislikes. It does not make us wrong to dislike something. Or do you just think we should like it becuase you do? | |
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Posted: 1/5/2009 5:48:28 AM | All my women have or do...I won't have it any other way.
For the women who complain about swallowing, but love oral on them....take a good look at a wide open wet **** shot...
Say to yourself..would you lick and suck that for over an hour??? then when she cums and your mouth is down there you receive the extra fluid
I love licking a woman...I expect what I want in return from a woman who enjoys it...
Its called sexual compatibiity...No...any head is not good head...
You want great **** licking, you give great head...to completion....think how it would be if he stopped right before you came. | |
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Posted: 1/5/2009 6:23:53 AM | Luckyhot , what can I say..your post is jsut plain outright stupid. its something for a man to demand a bj but you go far past that to the point it has to be great. what a joke. You should be lucky that a woman woiuld put that in her mouth to begin with.
luckyhot said, "You want great **** licking, you give great head"
You sir are one screwed up puppy. You shoiuld be thankful the woman even put that thing in her mouth to begin with. Be thankful when you get one. Who the hell are yoiu to tell anyone it better be great. What kind of beast are you? I can see why you are here trying to find a date. It shows. What happened did you get a blow job and tell the woman it wasnt good enough and she told you where to go and left your a$$. Is that why your here. You sir need an attitude adjustment. You deserve to never ever have the pleasure of having a woman in your bed if thats the best way you know how to treat one. What a fu ck ing joke you are. Maybe one day you will get a woman that puts you in ur place and casterates your a$$
you said, "No...any head is not good head..." I am in complete disbelief that a human could say something so cruel, uncaring, rotten, and unappreciative, self centered unappreciative and still call himnself a man. Pleaseeeeeeeeeeee. I can tell you what you are but I will not say it here. | |
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Posted: 1/5/2009 7:20:55 AM |
j50266 : I'm with you there. Although I'm not a sword swallower. I love the feeling of a woman's orgasm on my lips, face and tongue. If you gush, just bring it on! :)
LOL, good for you 
It may take time for each individual to like giving and receiving orals and swallowing or drinking it each other's cum, who knows - to each their own thingy. Few studies have indicated that if one individual feel so strongly about having their cum swallowed and the other feel so strongly about not swallowing it - that these feelings might likely affect their relationship. Some couples mutually agree and others find such pleasure somewhere else (uh uh bad thingy!).
I went through stages from disliking it to loving it.
With my 1st ex-hub, I thought it was hilarious, icky, and wasn't at all exciting. There were many other reasons but I think we were young and inexperience about pleasuring each other.
The 2nd/3rd ex-hub was boring as hell. The 2nd, acts as if he was a saint and that it was an immoral thing to do, and the 3rd turned out to be homosexual, he likes c-0-c-k-tails instead of shaven p-u-s-s-y.
With my 4th (not a hubby), awesome lover who thought me how to squirt and gush, I learned to enjoy the taste of cum just like wine you see them legs crawling down the crystal glass, and because his hygiene is excellent.
And with women to women - it's a whole new ball game. HYGIENE is definitely a very crucial factor for me both her mouth and her shaven precious thingy. If it smells like *dried fish* - Definitely, I will die upset.  | |
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Posted: 1/5/2009 7:24:27 AM |
All my women have or do...I won't have it any other way
Should have just stopped with saying this..................but spouting the rest just made you look like an arrogant A$$. JMHO | |
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Posted: 1/5/2009 7:31:14 AM | Good Lord Kitten........
Once again........u are attacking posters w/ your nasty attitude and name calling.
YOU have absolutely no right to repeatedly come in here and start that kind of crap just because u disagree with the post.
Grow up Girl.....
if u can't come in here and discuss the topic without becoming a hysterical wife.....
stay out of it......and visit the thread about "hormonal posting"..
Would u like it if we told you your views made u a screwed up puppy.....or a f*cking joke.....and someone should castrate your a$$??
then u have the nerve to say he is cruel, uncaring...blah blah blah because YOU didn't like what he had to say.
What u need........is reported for your continuous asssualts on posters. | |
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Posted: 1/5/2009 7:44:04 AM | gee ms micki , how would u feel if you gave head to a man and he told you it wasnt good enough? His view is outrageous. And everyting i siad to him is true and I will not take nothing back , not one single word of it. sorry if you disapprove of my post. best thing i can tell ya is to not read mine anymore.
Your view on my post is not my concern. I did not call him a name I called his post lots of things though. But unless you are the one being so called assualted you dont need to respond. I said what I think about his post and my response was much less than what I would have liked to have said. His view of women is very very low. Its one thing to choose to be with a lady who does them but its antoher to say they have to be great at it. He should be happy a woman even attempted.
lol poster below me ...Your right. I have never gave one to know myself b ut I did read that in a book yrs ago.
Yes ms micki, Post 930,I agree to you not respondiong to my posts anymore. there is no need for it. You can defend men who put women lower than dirt but I will not do that because I think better of myself whether I give bj's or not..good or bad. Personally I want to be respected for who I am rather than if I give bj's and how good they are.
ms micki you asked, "how do i know it taste bad"??? I dont and i have never siad it taste bad. If you read my posts you will see I said i dont know how it tates over and over again becuase i have nevr given one. I have also stated taste has nothing to do with why I dont do them. So dont put words in my mouth that I havnet said. I said I dont do them becuase I have a weak stomach and cannot stand anyhthing slimmy. thats why I dont do them. | |
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Posted: 1/5/2009 8:00:32 AM | gee ms micki , how would u feel if you gave head to a man and he told you it wasnt good enough? [quote/] Now see......that just won't happen with me.....Some of us women....pay attention to our men when we are pleasing them.....and if I notice something I'm doing isn't working....I COMMUNICATE with my partner to find out what does work. I'm pretty confident of my oral abilities.....but I'm not arrogant enough to think what works on one guy will work on the next guy.....so a new guy is an experiment till I find those things that make his toes curl and his eyes roll back in his head. I am not so self absorbed or insecure to take "guidance" as an insult. I also expect the same in return. and if u were paying attention.....I also stated I expect oral.....and good oral at that (or at least a man that is willing to learn what makes me tremble).....in my post about 7 pages back! So I guess I'm a "sick puppy" too!  as for the rest of your response.....blah blah blah.... your attitude speaks for itself and is not worthy of my thoughts anymore. BUT.......I do have one question for you? How do u know it taste bad if you have never, ever given a BJ? So....u just THINK it will taste bad........?? | |
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Posted: 1/5/2009 8:37:06 AM | Maybe anyone willing to experiment, can take a can of Cool Whip and keep it by the bedside, squirting it into their mouth at the last minute....A funny picture, in my mind's eye, but, hey....whatever works is worth a try.
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Posted: 1/5/2009 8:42:36 AM | OMG OMG OMG OMG..................they really need to make a little yellow face beating his head on the wall.
Swallow if you want to don't if you don't want to...........there are deal breakers in every relationship. It is no ones business to bash anyone for what they decide is a deal breaker for them............with that being said. They way the express it might make a person want to attack them though. It is all in interpretation. We all interpret things differently........probably many times different than the person that writes it down. I am going to try myself to be a little bit more open minded about some of the comments I feel are offensive. Maybe others will try to be a bit open minded about typing things that might be offensive to others. A happy compromise if you will. | |
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Posted: 1/5/2009 9:04:50 AM | luckyhot777s: I love licking a woman...I expect what I want in return from a woman who enjoys it...Its called sexual compatibiity...No...any head is not good head...You want great **** licking, you give great head...to completion....think how it would be if he stopped right before you came.
I have to disagree with what you wrote here. Expecting something in return is totally different then stating your desires right before the act of devouring her precious thingy takes place. She should be made aware, so that both of you have an option to go ahead or not, that is if you are gentleman enough to care about how she feels. Do not make an assumption that she can read your mind. Communication is essential in order to achieve great sexual compatibility.
And if you stop right before she cums, personally, I luv the feeling, it is similar to bungee jump of climaxing. If you cannot finish the job, which I might think you're incompetent or just do not have the tongue stamina, my fingers or toys to the rescue and sometimes it could be a lot stimulating than the tongue... hmmm a combination is great. And if she is into the BDSM, she might be even trained to put up with the climax halt. I really won't fret about the threat., thanks to technology - pounding and vibrating machines. | |
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Posted: 1/5/2009 9:16:38 AM |
I just dont' find why you can't say........." I wouldn't be compatibility with someone sexually that didn't swallow.
Because I never said that, nor will I say that.. You seemed to miss read eveything I post..
but I don't see why adding the negative stuff that you know will offend someone has to be said.
you mean stuff like this.......
A man cum is , gross, snot, slime, digusting, booger, raw egg, nasty, repulsive, even bleach,,
or this
men should feel lucky we are even getting a BJ.
men should just be glad just to get a BJ.
men are selfish
men know nothing of love
or how about this statement
If a man ever put his cum in my mouth he would not live to see tomorrow.
Then you kirota saying this,
Maybe you fixation on oral is because you lack in the penetration department
Shall I find more,, so give me a break... | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/5/2009 9:17:16 AM | how would u feel if you gave head to a man and he told you it wasnt good enough?
If I went down on a woman and she told me I wasn't good enough, I would ask her what I could do to make it better. It wouldn't hurt my feelings one bit because I know that I can do anything I want to do badly enough to put the effort into becoming good at it. My biggest complaint with women is that it's difficult to get them say anything about how to do something better. | |
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Posted: 1/5/2009 9:32:35 AM | You sir are one screwed up puppy. You shoiuld be thankful the woman even put that thing in her mouth to begin with. Be thankful when you get one.
The sick puppy here is the one who believes a guy should be thankful that a woman is willing to give a blowjob. Any guy who thinks a woman is doing him a favor by having sex with him, (whatever is involved), has a serious self-esteem problem. There are women who find sex acts with men to be a turn on, so if I run across one who thinks she's doing me a favor, that's her problem, not mine. I'll go find someone who actually enjoys it.
Who the hell are yoiu to tell anyone it better be great.
Anyone has the prerogative to expect that unless they expect to have sex with partners who have an aversion to overcoming preconceptions or who have a profound learning disability to the extent that it prevents the person from having any chance of figuring out what to do to get it right.
Personally I want to be respected for who I am rather than if I give bj's and how good they are.
A guy who doesn't date you because you don't give blow jobs or don't give good ones IS respecting you for who you are. If you have a problem with that, then YOU are not respecting those men for who they are.
The more you post, the more evident it becomes that you are selfish and lack empathy for those around you, especially your own sexual partners.
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/5/2009 9:46:33 AM |
There are women who find sex acts with men to be a turn on, so if I run across one who thinks she's doing me a favor, I'll go find someone who actually enjoys it.
I agree, nothing worse than a woman who thinks she is doing a man a favor, those women are in my opinion, who uses sex against a man/ by holding out, to get what she wants,, I will never be that poor guy,,
I would rather a woman who enjoys sex, Good sex then Great sex..... one who is not afraid to try new things, or is not grossed out by a little cum touching her lips, or mouth,,,or having a little hissey fit, like she is going to die, | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/5/2009 12:00:39 PM | I was thinking about two women that I have known as I was talking to another woman friend of mine, and said...
one woman loved to give a BJ,
the other woman she hated giving a BJ
My friend asked how would you describe these two women.....
I thought for a second..........
and said.........
They both suck in bed.... | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/5/2009 12:34:31 PM |
Because I never said that, nor will I say that.. You seemed to miss read eveything I post..
But you did.............here is the post you made. I would think that swallowing falls into the category of "all" sex doesn't it.
I want sexual compatibility,, A woman who enjoys "all" sex, without finding those acts as disgusting,,etc..so if a woman does some thing she doesn't like or enjoy,, it's very easy to see and feel, just by her actions,,therefore I find that as a complete turn off... go play star fish with someone else...
you mean stuff like this.......
A man cum is , gross, snot, slime, digusting, booger, raw egg, nasty, repulsive, even bleach,,
or this
men should feel lucky we are even getting a BJ.
men should just be glad just to get a BJ.
men are selfish
men know nothing of love
or how about this statement
I have never said those thing that I can remember. In fact I have said that I have never tried it...........
Then you kirota saying this,
Maybe you fixation on oral is because you lack in the penetration department
Which you didn't quote the whole statement.........I said that is what some could say of you. Who is trying to misrepresent things said now? I guess if that is what you need to do is find more things to misrepresent me with feel free. lmao | |
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Posted: 1/5/2009 1:06:58 PM | Fodder for thought....
When a woman is strong of opinion in her sexual wants and needs.....and openly discusses them in a public forum.....she is praised for her convictions by men and women alike.
When a man is strong of opinion in his sexual wants and needs...and openly discusses them in a public forum.....he is bashed and slammed and treated like he is Hannibal Lecter on the prowl! | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/5/2009 1:23:09 PM | how about everyone just get a grip and quit all the ridiculous arguing over something so ridiculously stupid. this post began as oral sex and why we wont swallow. I gave my answer as to why I dont do that which was what the op wnated to know in the first place. who cares what men need it or what women do it. that has nothing to do with the op's question.
the swallowers and the men who claim they need it are not asnwering the question. instead they are attacking the rest of us who are tyring to answer his question. now its time for all to jsut try to get along... if thats possible. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/5/2009 1:49:55 PM | Kirota,, read very carefully,,,
<div class="quote">I would think that swallowing falls into the category of "all" sex doesn't it.
Well you really shouldn't be thinking, because I did not say anything about a woman I'm involved with needed to swallow,,( although though I like the idea) S&M , water sports, falls in the same category , so does eating "S*ht" and yes people do that too,, as I have been stating all along "MY" sexual compatibility,, not what YOU think it means to me,,, so please do not put words in my mouth,
You have lied, twisted words to meet your needs in a stupid defense to justify why you won't give a BJ.. At the same time, choosing to say men are picking on you personally or your taking it personally,, ,, get a grip it's not about you, nor is it about me,, it's the forums, and any time you read something that sets you off,, you have something negative to say, as it related to the poster, or suggesting he or she should have said something different to make what they say should different to you.. .. ,,,,,
it's none of your business what people say,, as long as it’s not directed at you or all woman… and if it is directed towards another woman,, Who assigned you the spokes person,,,
I never said you said all those thing,, I was pointing out that’s some women have,, and your were mentioning being nice in the forums,,
You said this
<div class="quote">but I don't see why adding the negative stuff that you know will offend someone has to be said.
I replied ,, to say other people are saying this stuff about men..
<div class="quote">you mean stuff like this.......
A man cum is , gross, snot, slime, digusting, booger, raw egg, nasty, repulsive, even bleach,,
or this
men should feel lucky we are even getting a BJ.
men should just be glad just to get a BJ.
men are selfish
men know nothing of love
or how about this statement
and no I did not miss quote you,, lets break it down...sweet heart..here it is and break it down
Post 593
<div class="quote">what does not swallowing cum have to do with just laying there during sex? Again, a man that will trash a women who doesn't like oral sex instead of just simply finding one that likes it and being happy. Maybe you fixation on oral is because you lack in the penetration department........because by you saying her not liking oral means she must suck in bed the same could be say that since you are fixated on oral you must suck during penetration. Either you get off on trashing women who aren't compatible with you...........or your a hypocrite.
Please notice that you used the word "you" that meant me..
Then you started adding to the statement as a "what if"… meaning me again by say "you" that is directed toward me.. As well as a general statement..
Lets go one step further,,
Post 604
<div class="quote"> and yes, I did insult you but I'm not stupid enough to try to say I didn't
Yet then you say this,,
Post 827
<div class="quote"> Did I insult you? Nope
No you didn't but you attempted too…
I have added for your reading pleasure, so major points that I have written through out the forum.. I would suggest reading them twice,,
because "you" will find, there is not one case where a woman needs to swallow,, to be in a compatible sexual relationship with me......
As you would like to think I meant this;;
<div class="quote">I just dont' find why you can't say........." I wouldn't be compatibility with someone sexually that didn't swallow.
I would suggest you keep reading...
Post 579
<div class="quote">This man does not want or need a woman to eat cum,,she has a choice,,
This mans wants/needs a "WOMAN" who ENJOYS giving oral.
Like I have said before, she is not doing me a favor if she does it just because I may want a BJ and she doesn't not like it,, ,, I wouldn't get into a relationship with her either ,
I do want someone who enjoys all aspects of sex,, compatibility,, that is what I want and need and desire........
I don't need or want a woman who does things she does not enjoy herself,, that is a turn off for me..
Therefore we "BOTH" "NEED", "DESIRE" and "WANT" to give and receive oral sex because "WE" like,,
Post 564 compromise
<div class="quote">Compromise might be sucking on you guy,, and just before he cums,, finish with your hands, maybe try dipping your little finger and grabbing a taste, seeing your married I doubt your going to die,, or even loose your cookies..
Compromise is doing for your partner, not what he or she can do for you...
Post 616
<div class="quote">Women/ Men have a choice, I respect their choice, I have always said that in this forum,, and all forums
I know what it is I want from life and a partner, both in and out of the bed room,, and if a woman is not able to give that to me,, we are not a good match.
Non negotiable, why that is, we are not in a true meaningful relationship yet, so now in not the time to start veering from what I want.. ..,I would expect the same form her,, if I can't or won't give to her what she needs or desires,, We both move on,
I refuse to start any relationships where the woman has sexual hang ups, whether it be going down on a man, or laying on the bed like she is doing me a favor,, if she finds body fluids disgusting or gross, if she refuses to kiss me after I went down on her, if she shows little interest in sex, and pleasing her man, if she feels uncomfortable with her body or mine,, I have on two occasions, women who found going down on a man disgusting, and then to find out those same fears transformed in to other hang ups,, My opinion of a star fish... even though the effort of trying to change things with some success, I'm just not at this stage of my life, where I need to be a sex teacher, emotional psychiatrist, I would rather a woman come with her own tricks ,, skills,,, I'll supply some of my own ,, and lets have fun,, Sex should not be work,, as the same will apply to her,, if what I have to offer is not good enough, move on,, because I'm not about to change any time soon…
Post 636
<div class="quote">No one NEEDS their cum swallowed. It serves no actual purpose.
you are absolutely right it servers no purpose,,
as I have said before , women have a right to choose,,
for me it's not about her swallowing, or even spitting cum out..
I won't speak for any other man, just me,, assuming a woman will go down,
When she stops right before ejaculation,, well that kind of wrecks the whole feeling,, even if she is good with her hands, as she takes over the stroking with her hands,,,, the feeling is different, and many times it's like getting 1/2 the experience..
It's like pulling out of a woman just before I cum,, some women like it on the chest, as for me I don't care to,, I'll do it for her, but the feeling for me is not the same,, 1/2 the effect of cumming inside of her..
The point is it's not where the cum goes, it's about finishing without stopping
Post 673
<div class="quote">Lets be clear ,, Now where have I said a woman has to swallow, I have always said a woman has a choice, and now where have I said, she has to swallow my cum,, Have I made my self clear enough..
Post 779
<div class="quote">It matters to me,, I would like her to enjoy what she is doing,, How could I possibly enjoy a BJ, knowing my partner didn't like it.. It's not important to me if she swallows or not, or if my cum sides down my shaft, I just can't fathom the idea of being with a woman who finds my cum disgusting. I have no need to see her lick her chop, or gargle with it,, but at least enjoy what you are doing, without viewing the act as gross. etc.. It's deal breaker for me, because I'm not looking for a woman to feel she is doing me a favor as you suggested,, that is not compatibility,, I do appreciate the attempt though,, but that's not enough,,
I would say get a life, and stop assuming what I say is against you or anyone else, , stop assuming what you think I mean by twisting or suggested something that I have not said,,
edit,, good idea kitten,, lets start with you, there is not much to discuss when you don't like something,, we all know why,,
but when men and woman like something,, hell not only can we talk about it,, we get to do it,, see my point,, you should have nothing further to say,, you don't like cum,, kirota, that might apply to you as well.. we all get it.... | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/5/2009 2:53:36 PM | The only thing further to say is to stop adding anything about me in your post. I know I have shown a bit of anger in here but so has everyone else . but instead we should be answering the question why some women dont do it. (See hte title of this thread.)I am in the category of women that dont do it. we all get that that you do like to receive which is not even the question. therefore you have nothinjg further to say now or in the beginning becuase you are not a woman who dont swallow...which is the question. I hada right to answer becuase I dont do it. It is not up to you if I have anything further to say and jsut in case you think you are sokmehow better than the rest of us...... well, think agian.
edit,, good idea kitten,, lets start with you, there is not much to discuss when you don't like something,, we all know why,,
Some reason you are putting me in your post??? I aint said a word to you in my last post. you said "much less to discuss when you dont like something."...........excuse me but isnt that what the thread is about..explaining why we dont like it or wont do it. who better to asnwer the question than someone who dont do it??????someone who does do it cannot possibly answer for us that dont do it. | |
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