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 rdcnorm

Joined: 3/7/2007
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Posted: 1/5/2009 3:09:03 PM
Well kitten you certainly have a valid point, OP was also asking or pointing out this

<div class="quote">certainly like if we stopped and hight of orgasm
I believe Op was trying to say, how would a woman like it if a man stopped doing oral, right before she had the big "O"..

Now personally I find that an interesting topic,, therefore I will continue to stay here as long as I feel fit,,

I also find interesting,, very few women don't do oral,, just an observation,, see what I am leaning so far,, so I would like to continue my sexual education, if you don't mind,,

At Least I willing to learn, and experiment,,,

edit.. no you didn't say a word to me,, you said everyone,, I would think that included me,, therefore I get to comment... :)
 Incuubus2113

Joined: 12/8/2008
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Posted: 1/5/2009 3:13:27 PM
Jesus lady. You are truly unhinged. And before you say this is because you don't do oral or swallow, it has nothing to do with it. Just the way you portray yourself in the forums. Cuhrazeee!!!
 kittenhere

Joined: 10/22/2008
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Posted: 1/5/2009 3:18:44 PM
no you didn't say a word to me,, you said everyone

Yes but that is not an attack on you. thats simply asking that the ridiculous argument ends. Truce if you will. But apparantely you aint gonna let it. Becuase here you are still b i t c h i n g and running off at your mouth and including me in your post. Its time to let it end. so stop it. If you are gonna continue to write post after post about me then party on i guess but I will not respond to them any further. It accomplishes nothing.
 Incuubus2113

Joined: 12/8/2008
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Posted: 1/5/2009 3:34:44 PM
Wow, did you really edit your post to put profanity in it? Usually I am not a tattler, but after reading this thread, you really shouldn't be posting for a while. At least in my humble opinion.
 MsMicki

Joined: 10/2/2006
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Posted: 1/5/2009 3:37:53 PM
since u don't give head at all....
you aren't really qualified to answer either Kitten!
This would be about girls that actually give head but don't swallow!

and before u state I shouldn't be here cuz I do.......well sometimes I don't!
Sometimes I'm a canvas for a sensual painting!
 kittenhere

Joined: 10/22/2008
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Posted: 1/5/2009 3:38:57 PM
I dont see any profanity in it. I edited it because it blocked out the letters of b i t c h i n g however that to me just means complaining not profanity. Seems to me im trying to be nice and you refuse to accept it. unfortuantly your opinion on whether I should be posting is unimportant to me. See your statemnet alone is you trying to keep a battle going...and for what??? Maybe its you who shouldnt be allowed to answer anymore if you jsut wnat to keep the arguing going.

Yes ms micki im qualified to answer beucase thats what this thread is about...why some women dont do it. If i am one who dont do it then explain how that could disqualify me to answer when its the non bj'ers who should be answering his quesiton. You people that do perform bj's do not have a clue why we dont do it. Only we know that. And since he asked this is why we are the ones who need to asnwer. I gave himn my asnwer as to why I dont do it. Other women may have different reasons. But I gave my answer.

opie it could aslo be more like ..weak stomach. no one is none of the things you said. Would you like to be called all thoise things becuase you dont like somesthign for whatever your reason? well the abuse might be for some. Personally my stomach is weak and to be in contact with something slimmy well it cant happen. I put cum on same level as snot, and raw eggs.. it all makes my eyes water and my stomach turn. cum is fine as long as I dont have to eat it.
 OpieDopey

Joined: 6/16/2006
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Posted: 1/5/2009 3:39:14 PM
there are a number of reasons as we see here...youth, inexperience, selfishness, having no sense of adventure, lack of love or caring, abuse.

I think for the most part the people with those problems and issues are in the minority. Even so, with time most of them will be able to overcome their inhibitions.

A few just don't give a dam if the man is satisfied as long as they get their needs met in any way they require whether that be through oral, toys or what have you. Its all about them, nothing more...

p.s. I for 1 have never been mad reading this thread. I just don't much care for liars and selfish people who use love as a shield for their reasons or lack there of...
 hojirt

Joined: 11/29/2006
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Posted: 1/5/2009 3:47:56 PM
Your answer is hilarious!!! ROFL
 MsMicki

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Posted: 1/5/2009 3:50:51 PM
The original post:


why do women not like to swallow while giving oral sex


You don't give oral sex.....so explain to me again how you are qualified
The question is not why don't u give oral sex.
The question is why don't women swallow when giving oral sex.

seems u just wasted 37 pages of space answering a question u said I shouldn't be posting in.......

Now.......do I really mean u shouldn't be posting in this thread.....
NO.....actually I don't. I'm just proving a point! This is a public forum......threads aren't allowed to be directed to certain sexes or groups....and ONLY a moderator can regulate posters....and last I seen.......you are NOT one!
So please refrain from telling us who and who cannot post in a thread.....
 Incuubus2113

Joined: 12/8/2008
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Posted: 1/5/2009 3:57:23 PM
If a girl doesn't want to swallow, that is fine with me. I can take it or leave it. However, I do have to say that if she doesn't swallow but likes facials, then I am a happy camper lol

I wouldn't date anyone who didn't perform oral sex, though. Just not the way I choose to roll. I enjoy performing, receiving, and sharing that with my partner.
 kittenhere

Joined: 10/22/2008
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Posted: 1/5/2009 3:58:08 PM
...........The question is why don't women swallow when giving oral sex.

If you want to look at it that way then your not qualified to answer either becuase you do swallow.


..............."I'm just proving a point!"

The only piont you have that I see is that you wnat to continue with your rudeness and trying to find something wrong with everyone except yourself. Point is known...you belive you are better than god himself. now with that being siad can we once agian end this crazy arguing.

............."seems u just wasted 37 pages of space "

shall we go back all pages and count your posts?

................."and ONLY a moderator can regulate posters....and last I seen.......you are NOT one!"

Maybe you shoiuld take your own advice. You go behind every poster that you dont like and attack them. Go figure.
 rdcnorm

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Posted: 1/5/2009 4:24:19 PM
Now I'm really confused,, LOL
the topic is about a woman who performs oral on a guy, then she stops, and doesn't swallow, or allows the guy to cum in her mouth therefore no spitting as well,, I had to add that..

Yet there are some women, who have never had a C*ock in there mouth, let alone ever experianced a man cum, because it's like slime ,snot, and gross,,,and won't let that nasty stuff near her,, because of a weak stomach and a horrible gag reflex..
This is the part that confuses me,, how is a person qualified to answer OP question through their own personal experiace,, when they have none,,
when the question was this,, and thank you Msmicki for pointing that out


why do women not like to swallow while giving oral sex
 Mr_Fin

Joined: 2/8/2008
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Posted: 1/5/2009 4:26:20 PM
Yes, plenty of fresh fruit is what an old long term girlfriend enjoyed making sure was in the diet. Strawberries, peaches... Strongly flavoured and spicy food will taint your output, possibly even increase bitterness to the palate. Ultimately, you can do what you like to sweeten the pill, but what is it they say about taking horses to water...!
 OpieDopey

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Posted: 1/5/2009 5:38:50 PM
Am I qualified to answer? Maybe I need to ask those in the know?

Umm, when I was young and stoopid I didn't do this for my own silly reasons, then I got "experienced" in love.

Gotta be careful here about gettin out lil mascot pet into too much of a dander, it uses up all 10 postings for the day here too quickly. Then how can the pet spread the news to the poor silly people who grew up ?
 rdcnorm

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Posted: 1/5/2009 6:14:48 PM
^^^^^ I knew nothing in my younger days as well,,
What I did know,,, learning about a woman seemed to me at that time, was a real good idea,, and it proved to be right,,, :)

If I were afraid to experiment, eat my first lunch,, I would be missing so much today,,

just a silly boy back then,, now just a silly boy all grown up,, (almost)


OT sexually compatibility is very important for a relationship work,, 69 most of the time..
 Kirota

Joined: 10/21/2008
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Posted: 1/5/2009 8:56:17 PM
Well you really shouldn't be thinking, because I did not say anything about a woman I'm involved with needed to swallow,,( although though I like the idea) S&M , water sports, falls in the same category , so does eating "S*ht" and yes people do that too,, as I have been stating all along "MY" sexual compatibility,, not what YOU think it means to me,,, so please do not put words in my mouth,


I quoted you Norm.........you said "all" sex............so you now have changed your mind or you are saying you didn't mean it like you wrote it. If you meant something different great, but you did write being compatible and her liking "all" sex. Would you like me to go and give all the numbers of the posts? You have twisted it and added lib to make it different than what you originally posted, but of coarse you are allowed to do that but no one else....lmao

As for the post about not insulting you in 827......that was referring to the post I made in 824......I didn't insult you in that post and you found it necessary to tell me I couldn't read and such in post 825 I believe. So, you insulted me, "sweet heart", which by the way. Don't call me that. That is rude to call someone sweet heart when you don't know them, but again it was probably to insult me or piss me off.



Please notice that you used the word "you" that meant me..
Then you started adding to the statement as a "what if"… meaning me again by say "you" that is directed toward me.. As well as a general statement.


OMG you are a hypocrite..........when you say "you" it isn't talking about anyone in particular, but if someone else says "you" they are talking about you. My goodness are we a hypocrite.............and you have the nerve to tell me that I think it is all about me.........its you you you you you you you. You have posted disclaimers when you addressed me by name and said you........that you weren't talking about me........yet you are crying now because I said you. Get over yourself.


but when men and woman like something,, hell not only can we talk about it,, we get to do it,, see my point,, you should have nothing further to say,, you don't like cum,, kirota, that might apply to you as well.. we all get it....


Another assumption you don't know shit about. I have said that I have never tried it and said that I probably would with the right person. Go check my posts "sweet heart". It's funny you only attack the ones I write that I don't agree with you. You asked me a question about what my friends and I talked about and then never acknowledged what I gave you for the answer. Couldn't find anything to argue with me about? So stuff your assumptions up your A$$ because you hate to have others assume things about you.


Edit........BTW, just so I am clear and keeping with the original topic. I love giving oral sex........which 69 is my favorite, just don't want the cum in my mouth. Maybe someday the right person will change that for me. Just hasn't happened, YET.
 windypace2600

Joined: 12/29/2008
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Posted: 1/5/2009 9:04:08 PM
couldn't tell you why... I think it is rude to stop...

you are right... if he stopped right in the middle of my "O" I'd be one pissed off little lady...

Cheers...
 lonerider10

Joined: 6/30/2006
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Posted: 1/5/2009 9:10:10 PM
holy shit! with all of the arguing about speech sematics any more, no wonder nobody has time for a rip roaring, sweaty,, sex romp anymore. (notice i did not need to say ****?) and yes norm, your're an ***hole. and another thing kirota, you are truly a ravashing woman. and with your love of god's most noble beast, i'm heartbroken that i am too old for you. but you never know..........................
 besitosdedulce

Joined: 8/5/2008
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Posted: 1/5/2009 10:03:02 PM
probably because the guys****smells or something or maybe its ugly looking...
i love oral and say the job isnt done till i make him cum ... i swallow and keep going until hes super sensitive and pushes me off
 submisive guy

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Posted: 1/5/2009 10:24:50 PM
I personally think that your not done till you get a mothfull and I wouldnt waste anything that taste that good
 MsMicki

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Posted: 1/5/2009 10:47:36 PM

: ...........The question is why don't women swallow when giving oral sex.

If you want to look at it that way then your not qualified to answer either becuase you do swallow.[quote/]

If u had been paying attention....you would have seen I already addressed that issue for you.......I don't "always swallow......sometimes I like to get that nasty, slimy goo all over me!



..............."I'm just proving a point!"

The only piont you have that I see is that you wnat to continue with your rudeness and trying to find something wrong with everyone except yourself. Point is known...you belive you are better than god himself. now with that being siad can we once agian end this crazy arguing.


Not everyone......just one particular obnoxious one that is way too fun to fuk with!


............."seems u just wasted 37 pages of space "

shall we go back all pages and count your posts?


Once again.......u don't do oral.......I do......so by your rules.....I'm the one allowed here


................."and ONLY a moderator can regulate posters....and last I seen.......you are NOT one!"

Maybe you shoiuld take your own advice. You go behind every poster that you dont like and attack them. Go figure.


YOU would be the one telling people that can't post here......not me!
the only poster I've "called out" is the one that has spouted 37 pages of her so called knowledge about something she has never done in her life!
You want to throw around words like "everyone"......try backing that up with some actual quotes......and show me where I have attack another poster.


now with that being siad can we once agian end this crazy arguing

You might be argueing......I'm having fun proving points!
 abelian

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Posted: 1/6/2009 12:25:44 AM
OK, let me summarize all one billion posts.

The reason that some women don't swallow is because some women think it's icky. Reasons that some think it's icky are:


(1) It tastes bad
(2) It's texture is icky
(3) They won't give a blow job, so they sure as hell won't swallow something that comes out of one.
(4) They throw up
(5) They are picky eaters who reject any food that looks unusual and might be icky.
(6) They have very a limited notion of what sex is and to avoid appearing closed minded about common sexual practices, they know any or all of (1)-(6) are true although they have no personal experience to justify that belief.
(7) They are too busy receiving oral sex to wonder if their benefactors might like it.
(8) They did't realize so many other women did that sort of thing and liked it, so it never occurred to them to take a chance.

Does that about wrap things up? Either way, the bottom line is, decide if you want to feel like you should wear a hazmat suit when having sex BEFORE getting married. Afterward, it's either a trip to biolevel 4 clothing distributor or an attorney.
 kittenhere

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Posted: 1/6/2009 1:13:37 AM
ms micki said, "You might be argueing......I'm having fun proving points!"

unfortuantely the only points you have proved is that you appear to be starving for attention. Be my guests but this is my last post here on this subject. All know how I feel and why and you cannot talk for me, change what I say into something else than what was meant or quote me on things I never said. You keep on thowing yourself out there to be noticed as pathetic as that is . My point was made. To continue with this thread is pointless. You know the things I say and yoiu understand them yet you want to argue over it. well have your little attention party and im moving onto a better thread.

You guys need to know im not against a man enjoying and wanting them. I was against some of the rude responses. You all should have what you want and thats that. you all have a good night.
 PardonMeMiss

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Posted: 1/6/2009 1:30:23 AM
Good job on taking the high road after countless posts of name calling and condemning others for their opinions.
 TrueBluebabyporvida

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Posted: 1/6/2009 1:35:04 AM
Friggin HARARIOUS

I think its very intimate moreso than sex......
if you are very much in love and want every part of him in every part of you then swallow..... But ..... There are times its not easy to be cheezy so ..... spit ..... But either way you should know your partner well enough to discuss it and respect them enough to find a comprimise or you shouldnt be sleeping with them ..... at least thats my opinion :}
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