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 poker_fan_in_nyc

Joined: 4/6/2007
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Posted: 1/6/2009 3:53:55 AM
^^^^
if you are very much in love and want every part of him in every part of you then swallow.


I know this is just your opinion...but my opinion is it has NOTHING to do with LOVE

it's finishing what you started...if you don't want to swallow...spit it out
 spikey7969

Joined: 12/21/2008
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Posted: 1/6/2009 4:32:38 AM
Dont worry about why they wont big man, jus make sure to mention that you love eating cinnamon sticks and this issue will never arise, TRUST ME!!
Some folk think this is an old wifes tale, ITS NOT look ^.

Anyway Im a man speaking for a few ladies when i say they wont swallow because it aint sweet. Try it man, You'll be loved!!
Your gonna have a happy new year Lol!!
 rdcnorm

Joined: 3/7/2007
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Posted: 1/6/2009 8:19:20 AM
Kirota,,, Sweet Heart,, \

Edit........BTW, just so I am clear and keeping with the original topic. I love giving oral sex........which 69 is my favorite, just don't want the cum in my mouth. Maybe someday the right person will change that for me. Just hasn't happened, YET.


I bet you would like 69, selfish .. "that is no assumption" as well as this is no assumption, talking to you and keeping it about a certain subject as you suggested I said "All", you are right about that, "I did",, if that is your argument, I smile, because you just can't help yourself...

After reading numerous post of mine, and for you to still try an prove a point, you are so esoteric, that it's know wonder horses are your best friends as you ride them as you would a man as you mentioned,, ,,

you suggested because I said I like "ALL sex"
anything goes right.. I will suggest this to you then, you compared riding a horse to riding a man in bed (sex),, am I to assume you have sex with horses, because honesty I can see no comparison unless it's been tried,, therefore it's logical to assume, by your a comparison that has been made by you.. as it relates to men and sex and horse riding skills… Hmmmmmm,, you go ride cow girl,,

Do I believe you ride a man while having sex, "sure", but do you have sex with a horse, I don't believe that..

Yet logically you can't see my point when I said "all" sex.....

But,, I must because I like ALL sex, even though I have my preference, and compatibility, the a woman needs to swallow, even though I have said time and time again, she does not.. But you want to over look all those posts I brought forward for your reading.. ALL because I used the word ALL as it relates to my sexual compatibility,,,


You are abstruse , to what I meant by "all ",, you have such a qabalistic view, that your basic reading and comprehension is compromised, unfortunately it's not that your are stupid, because that can be over come, by listening and learning,, and it's not that you are unintelligent either, I think it's your lack of logical reasoning that empowers you to act out in a irrational way.

I have noticed, there a lot of happy men and woman here, some enjoy giving and receiving oral.. some do not.. I would guess most have concluded, they either like oral or they don't. Or they gut it up and smile.. . and they live a happy normal life,, I'm "assuming" (I feel like assuming to day) that some man left a nasty taste in your mouth.. and it's not that his cum was bitter, but rather you have become bitter because of one man..





I have seen children act with better reasoning skills. use more logic in an approach to an argument or debate than you. I'm amazed by your inability to truly comprehend, ,what my self and other people have to say about the topic of cum, sexual compatibility, may be you should try swallowing , because there appears to some sort of build up in your ears, I can only guess what that may be,, (assume if you like,,, and you might be right)...

Most, Everyone here has a good understanding if they were following this forum, what I meant by
" ALL" But you Koita just like to find things, in your feeble attempt to twist my words to achieve a goal to discredit me.. I certainly have pity for you, that you have been so bittered by life, adulterous relationship were even condoms were required because of mistrust,


I was with him 7yrs.......left when I found out about the cheating.


Yet still willing to have some sort of sexual relations.. . I pitty that as well.. , this topic of BJ has given you the opportunity to release some of your aggressions out on me,, I understand it better now that I have gone back and read your posts,,

I wish you luck, at this time I have need to respond to your post, because I realized you just can't help yourself..with the anger issues you bring forward to this forum..

My clarification, sexual compatibility.
1) Woman and men have a right to choose what works for them
2) No woman has to swallow my cum
3) She though, must enjoy oral, giving and receiving
4) She will like similar acts of sex as I do
5) She will not be grossed out by body fluids, such as cum, hers and mine..
6) She will not just lay there like a star fish
7) She will not be doing me a favor performing any sexually activity that she cares not to do.
8) She will not use sex against me as a reward or punishment
9) She will have a desire to have sex
10) Sex will not just be limited to the bed room
11) She will be able to communicate her needs and desires to me
12) She will not love me because of sex.
13) We will fall in love for other reasons
14) Sex will, not by choice, reach a higher lever because of love..
15) I will not proceed to the next level (LTR) if "OUR" sexual needs and desire are not compatible..
16) I will not request anything that I'm not able to give in return,
17) If she wants to try something new, I'm all for experimenting,
18) Isn't sex a wonderful thing… "YUM YUM"


 MsMicki

Joined: 10/2/2006
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Posted: 1/6/2009 8:47:20 AM

8) She will not use sex against me as a reward or punishment


damn......I had them all, except that one
 rdcnorm

Joined: 3/7/2007
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Posted: 1/6/2009 8:53:53 AM
lonerider,,
Thank you for noticing..that has been a goal in my life,, now that I have achieved it, I thank you once again,, hell, I'm even earned the title of a congress man in this forum,,
So I guess I can't be one without the other..

<div class="quote">and yes norm, you're an ***hole
I will assume a BJ is out of the question then,


<div class="quote">another thing kirota, you are truly a ravashing woman. and with your love of god's most noble beast, i'm heartbroken that i am too old for you. but you never know.
How pathetic,, in your attempt to look good while try to insult another,, At Least I'm not PW.. I will choose A**hole any day..



edit damn......I had them all, except that one
That does not mean I won't try something new and exciting,, no pain no gain,,
 j50266

Joined: 12/9/2008
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Posted: 1/6/2009 9:04:25 AM

Clinton/Lewinsky hehehe... I wonder if she swallowed or spit it out and if she did SWALLOW, how much did he give her? :)


If Lewinsky swallowed, there wouldn't have been an impeachment trial.
 kjun harleyrider

Joined: 2/8/2008
Msg: 957
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Posted: 1/6/2009 9:46:22 AM
people get a life 37 pages on this subject? op if you can find a girl who can actually blow you good enough to make you cum then let it go.......
 Kirota

Joined: 10/21/2008
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Posted: 1/6/2009 10:59:28 AM
Oh yes Norm.........I do ride horses......Have several world and national titles........only sick shits like you would even try to twist that, but hey.........do what you have to do.

I find this quote quit hypocritical though.




How pathetic,, in your attempt to look good while try to insult another


Pot meet kettle.

I have no anger towards men..........and no anger towards you, other than for calling me sweet heart. Again, Norm got his big boy panties in a knot and he had to use all kinds of insults. You showed your true character in the last post to me far better than I could have. Congratulations!!!!


edit

I bet you would like 69, selfish .. "that is no assumption"


How does me liking 69 make me selfish? So, women who like 69 must be selfish or is that just a way to insult me? Which in either case makes you look like the one who has their big boy panties in a knot. If you are trying to say because I can cum in his mouth but not him in mine you are wrong........I have NEVER gotten off from oral. I happen to have to have penetration to get off.......but since you know everything about me you should know that right? 69 is a position for fore play for me........but I guess both of us getting worked up for actual intercourse makes me selfish. And remember.........you weren't assuming!!!! So please tell me all mighty Norm how you know this about me.
 2_menage a troi

Joined: 12/17/2008
Msg: 959
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Posted: 1/6/2009 11:13:56 AM
I absolutely love to see the contentment and satisfaction in a man's facial expression when he cums and immediately swallowing the elixir of life without wasting a drop Other than loving it, I feel powerful (feeling like I GOT HIM where he should be - feeling drunk/electrocuted) , ecstatic seeing his eyes balls rolling back at least 15 revolutions before he calms down from shaking, almost speechless to even say, "....(panting) I... am.... alright", when I ask, "Are you okay?"


- I THINK, it's about time to exit this thread unless something controversial cums up... peace all.
 Ninki

Joined: 4/11/2005
Msg: 960
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Posted: 1/6/2009 5:21:05 PM
I agree that Norm suggesting Kirota has sex with her horses was waaay over the line! Tsk, tsk! Looks like even for supposedly 'mature' adults the high school mentality is alive and well!

N.

 MsMicki

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Posted: 1/6/2009 5:56:10 PM
may have not been the best way to prove a point....but Norm was only using what Kirota had already brought up.....
I think he made it clear he doesn't really think she screws horses


Norm: Do I believe you ride a man while having sex, "sure", but do you have sex with a horse, I don't believe that..
 rdcnorm

Joined: 3/7/2007
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Posted: 1/6/2009 6:08:02 PM
ninki

post 613 Kirota

I have rode horses my whole life and you really need to talk to a man that has has sex with a cowgirl. It takes a lot more skill and stamina to ride a horse than it does a man.....lmao.


Do you really think I pulled that out of my *ss,, Kirota is the one who made the original comparison..

High school you say,, I couldn't agree with you more.. some times people need a reality check, Like misrepresentation of the fact that she clearly attempted to do. , By choosing one word "All" to discredit what I have been saying..

I'm not going to stand for that, I tried to clears things up in post 942, and look what happened,, clearly Kirota still would not accept what I presented to her as factual, and still continued to prove I was saying something I wasn't because I used the word "ALL"

-----you meaning Kirota

you suggested because I said I like "ALL sex"
anything goes right.. I will suggest this to you then, you compared riding a horse to riding a man in bed (sex),, am I to assume you have sex with horses, because honesty I can see no comparison unless it's been tried,, therefore it's logical to assume, by your a comparison that has been made by you.. as it relates to men and sex and horse riding skills… Hmmmmmm,, you go ride cow girl,,

Do I believe you ride a man while having sex, "sure", but do you have sex with a horse, I don't believe that..


Yet logically you can't see my point when I said "all" sex.....

You my want to take note where I said {I don't believe that.}
 HumorMe*

Joined: 10/17/2008
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Posted: 1/6/2009 8:08:15 PM
o wow. the post still continues. keep on going, maybe you'll make the guiness book of world records. lol!

well actually.....meh, nevermind.
 Kirota

Joined: 10/21/2008
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Posted: 1/6/2009 8:27:19 PM
may have not been the best way to prove a point....but Norm was only using what Kirota had already brought up.....
I think he made it clear he doesn't really think she screws horses

And again Norm.......you didn't answer my question. You spout off your shit and then don't comment when you have been busted.

What makes me liking 69 selfish............or are all women that like 69 selfish or was that a way to insult me. As you put it.........I am selfish and that wasn't an assumption. You are a hypocrite. Plain and simple and if makes you feel better to sit on your moral high horses feel free.........it just makes it easier for others to see your an ass. Even though you talk about respecting women and all people because you are such an honorable person in another thread. You are a hypocrite. I will not change my thinking on this at all.

Go back and read my post before this one...........answer those questions. Explain to me the things I asked you about. Like when you say "you" it is in general and not about someone.........but when I say "you" I am directing it right at you. Another thing you are a hypocrite about.........it's alright for you but god forbid someone else did.

"Referring that you might suck at penetration because you are so into oral is nothing compared to how low you stooped even insinuating that I had sex with a horse. It showed that you will stoop to any level to make yourself feel better or to insult anyone that sees you differently than you would like.

Now..........I eagerly await your next round of insults.




may have not been the best way to prove a point....but Norm was only using what Kirota had already brought up.....
I think he made it clear he doesn't really think she screws horses


Like I said........it takes more stamina and skill to ride a horse. What sick shit would even think that someone saying they ride horses.....when in my profile I state that I show them competitively, that I would have sex with horses. I guess it is okay to stoop to any level to prove a point even if it wasn't even a good comparison. He just showed his true colors for all to see.
 rdcnorm

Joined: 3/7/2007
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Posted: 1/6/2009 8:41:17 PM
^^^^^^ other than this,,,your are not worth my thoughts, my words or my comments

Then you should do the same, as you took the word "ALL" out of context, and you dam well know it,, go see a shrink,, because I can't help you with your anger and aggression


********** Giddy Up Cow Girl **************



Oral sex is fun......I want to give as well as receive <img src=http://www.plentyoffish.com/smiles/icon_201.gif border=0>

edit for post below,
It's not important to me what people think of me,, like you said,, I won't assume any friendship here,, so really why would I lose sleep or even care, ,, I'm an *ss and dam proud of it,, because I will stand up for my self, whether you or any one else likes it.. and if you feel I twisted your words the let them intertwine with your twisted words,, and yes people do have sex with animals,, and yes it is sick,, but you are the one who made the comparison between sex, a man, and a horse, why!!! someone would do that,, certainly would make me think,, just the thought is sicking,, yet you thought it..not me
 Kirota

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Posted: 1/6/2009 8:48:26 PM
Typical...............insult again. Everyone can see that you know you are a hypocrite by not answering my questions. It's alright Norm........they already see you for what you are.

other than this,,,your are not worth my thoughts, my words or my comments


Yet, you just can't help but insult me with every post you make to me. I don't think I am the one who needs to see a shrink.
 LonestarStar

Joined: 12/14/2008
Msg: 967
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Posted: 1/6/2009 10:52:02 PM
It's not a minute point. The point here is that there are some women who feel like they can tell a man what should be important to him. (If that wasn't the case, I would have never gotten a shit over saying I considered compatibility important and rejected all of fallacious reasoning being used to argue that men should just put up with being grateful for what they got.) The PW means Pvssy Whipped as in then men who feel grateful that a women would have sex them, as if it was doing them a favor. I have some minimum requirements for a relationship that will satisfy me and I'm not about to apologize for those preferences. If no one satisfies my requirements, I'll live with the consequences of maintaining my preferences. There are a few women here who appaently want men to decide they should be satisfied with what a woman thinks should satisfy all men. Apparently, they have preferences, but are pissed off that their preferences have consequences and one of those consequences is that they will be rejected for something they consider frivolous. Too bad. If they don't like the consequences, the only option they have is to change their preferences, just like anyone else has to do.

Basically, I think thre are a few women who have come to the realization that their prferences will shrink their dating pool and are just pissed off that they have to accep


I'm not quite sure if you're alluding to me with "a few women", but I'll address what I feel is relevant to me.
If I'm giving a man oral, I suck to completion, and I spit out his semen for whatever reason, and he complains about it, YES, I'm going to be upset, hurt, and I'll tell him he was lucky I touched him at all.
Did I go into the act feeling that way? No.
My effort, my passion, my vulnerability went into the act that gave him an orgasm - spitting or swallowing is the after party.
But strangely, I've never had a man tell me he only wants a blow job if I'm going to swallow BE
FORE I started. And I haven't seen anyone say that they do here either.
It's get your orgasm, and then complain.
That's what I think of when I see a huge deal being made of the issue.
I'm not thinking men have no right to have preferences, I'm not thinking I'm doing someone a favor...that is exactly what I'm thinking about.
How used I would feel. How I would feel. Not how much I hate men, not that you're a horrible person. Just a feeling. Why can't people just feel a certain way without people taking it personally?


Going back to your complaint about me saying that "with all of the threads complaining about women not putting out, you'd think men would be happy to be getting blow jobs at all..."
I was pointing out the irony of the posts, not telling men they should be happy just to take what women give. I have NEVER said that, and that is putting all kinds of meaning to my words that was never there.
Go ahead, pull up my history. You won't find anything close. Just like taking issue with me calling argument over the issue "frivolous."
Obviously this is an important issue for you, and everything you say is wrought with meaning, but that doesn't mean there is a wealth of hidden meaning in what I say.
I don't care if we were talking about eating a woman out - I think it's a fairly unimportant issue to get so angry about.
Is oral sex unimportant? No. Are there MORE important things in life that could use the passion being displayed here? Yes. But I wasn't serious ANYWAY.

I'm not trying to dehumanize you, I'm not trying to insult you, I was making straight forward, but tongue in cheek, comments.

So I'm asking you nicely to stop giving my words more meaning than I do.
 windypace2600

Joined: 12/29/2008
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Posted: 1/6/2009 10:56:17 PM
See I don't get it... being as his****is half way down my throat when he is cumming it is only natural to swallow... otherwise I'd be stuck with a load of junk in my throat... would kind of make it hard to breath... so I just suck it on down... and keep sucking until he starts jerking... LOL

I pitty the next man that I decide to be intimate with... I have a lot of pent up passion to spend.
 LonestarStar

Joined: 12/14/2008
Msg: 969
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Posted: 1/6/2009 11:52:43 PM
Abelian -
I got distracted by past comments and forgot to respond to your quote.
I GET your point. I do.
I'm not sure that someone who doesn't swallow's dating pool really shrinks noticeably, but seeing as this doesn't affect me, I don't really care.
What I don't get is the intensity this topic had garnered.
 Kirota

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Posted: 1/7/2009 12:31:38 AM

It's not important to me what people think of me,, like you said,, I won't assume any friendship here,, so really why would I lose sleep or even care, ,, I'm an *ss and dam proud of it,, because I will stand up for my self, whether you or any one else likes it.. and if you feel I twisted your words the let them intertwine with your twisted words,, and yes people do have sex with animals,, and yes it is sick,, but you are the one who made the comparison between sex, a man, and a horse, why!!! someone would do that,, certainly would make me think,, just the thought is sicking,, yet you thought it..not me


Couldn't help yourself could ya.......lmao

I didn't even think of having sex with a horses........but I see you did and then posted the pic of you with a horses as your main pic....hmmmmmmmmmmm very interesting.
NOt to mention.........I didn't say sex with a horse. I said ride...........which I do believe that people do call sitting on a horses back riding, but hell you know it all so please tell me oh wise one because my 36 yrs of riding horses I have learned nothing.


Now Norm.............for the third time..........Why does me liking 69 make me selfish? I'm still waiting for an answer from the man who knows it all. And remember you stated you aren't assuming this.........so that would mean you know it. So, you really should be able to give me an answer with out me having to ask you 3 times. Or is my thinking that you are full of shit correct?
 Huntington24

Joined: 1/17/2008
Msg: 971
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Posted: 1/7/2009 12:33:33 AM
69 is great, its so much easier on the neck. Dont mind the simpletons
 rdcnorm

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Posted: 1/7/2009 4:50:16 AM
I prefer 77 over 69, because I get 8 ate more, that only works if dripping semen
(pre cum) or a full load of cum doesn't gross her out,,

When I'm on the bottom , then she has more freedom to wiggle her sweet spot in my face,,plus I have better access to her butt,, while she has more control over my man hood,, again I like to mix it up,, so I don't mind at all flipping..

 GEANNIE LaRHEE

Joined: 9/27/2008
Msg: 973
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Posted: 1/7/2009 9:34:06 AM
I agree 100% with Jenner... why work that d*mn hard for something and not enjoy the outcum? If you're not gonna finish the job why start in the first place? Drink up!
 rdcnorm

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Posted: 1/7/2009 10:04:01 AM
^^^^ yes yes..

why work that d*mn hard for something and not enjoy the outcum? If you're not gonna finish the job why start in the first place? Drink up!


But there are some who think they are doing a man a favor just by going down on him, but in reality, it's a disservice,, They will bring a man to a certain point and then stop,,
That in my opinion is an evil woman,,

Because most men like to cum during that experience while getting a BJ, even though swallowing is certainly nice,, a woman can still can finish the BJ as she lets the the cum slide down the mans shaft to his balls while still sucking... ,, some women I have known like to do that,,, so they can slowly clean up the cum with their tongue,, that is so erotic to have a woman do that,,, it's shows she enjoys what she has done and is into her man,,
,, or she spit it out nicely without making a big fuss,,
 abelian

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Posted: 1/7/2009 11:52:48 AM
What I don't get is the intensity this topic had garnered.


Have you read the entire thread? If not, then you would need to see the accusations women made toward guys who consider the choice to exclude sexually incompatible women from their dating pool to see why this topic has kept going.
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