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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/6/2008 7:08:13 PM | | I have read that if a man drinks alot of coffee it makes the semen taste bitter. Don't know about other drinks or what they eat. So maybe ladies you should find out if your man drinks alot of coffee. | |
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L.D.
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Joined: 6/7/2008
Msg: 78 | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/6/2008 7:48:55 PM |
lilbee 71: "Would you swallow a mouthful of hot snot? Thats what it "feels" like in a womans mouth..."
What a lovely picture you've painted.
What I *would* do is to go down on my lover during her period. I've done this before since her orgasms are a temporary relief to her menstrual cramps and she is very appreciative of my efforts to help her. Although I can't suggest that she tastes like hot snot I can't honestly recommend the taste. And yet I think most people would agree that this is a level of sexual commitment in my relationships that you will never earn from someone. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/6/2008 8:35:16 PM | | Some actually like it, and others don't. It can have to do with your diet. Eat more sweets, and fruits, and veggies, and less meat. The taste of your foods/drinks can alter the taste of your cum. One ex GF, and I, experimented with this. When I ate more meat, she said my cum tasted acidic, and like urine. When I ate less meat, and more sweet/fruit/veg items, she said my cum tasted more sugary. Guess which she liked most? When I kept her in mind while dining, she returned the favor while having sex. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/6/2008 9:06:22 PM | Hmmm seriously, if my man is only thinking about me satisfying him in that fashion...I'm doing it wrong! A BJ should be leading up to the real fun for both.
A complete BJ is something I would do just to be mischievous and dastardly. Catch him off guard, give him something to think about later and want to come home and give me that good stuff at the end of his happy trail.
FTR: I don't care for the amount, taste or texture of it. So I simply keep a wash cloth next to me to discreetly wash out my mouth (he's none the wiser). A little bad taste in my mouth won't hurt me. LOL however, if it's a man I love and we've had a little drink I can't really taste it anyways and down the hatch. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/7/2008 8:08:20 PM | Ok, I read the first 2 pages of responses and didn't see my opinion already stated, so here goes.
I have give several BJ's over the course of my lifetime. I wouldn't consider myself to be a "pro" by any standards or an expert. I can only speak from my limited experience, so here goes.
When I was first married, I didn't know what the hell was going on. I'd give a bit of oral, but never to "completion". My ex was basically a "one pump chump" so too much oral and I knew that I would be left hanging in the wind.
On the few occasions that I came into contact with his cum, I didn't care for it. For several reasons... mostly because he was a selfish lover and 2nd, because it didn't taste very pleasing.
Now, being with my current bf, I sometimes spit, but mostly swallow. I will admit, that I've had other bf's that tasted better... one I recall tasted great.. but most men's ejaculate doesn't taste like peaches and cream... come on
I have found it's all about my position while giving the BJ. Maybe I'm weird. If he's on top of me or we are upright, then I find it easier to swallow. If I am above him, leaning down on his penis, then it's harder. What I think is happening is this... when he is actually cumming, if it shoots to the back of my mouth/throat, then it goes down ever easily. Otherwise, if it shoots into the front of my mouth, it's harder to swallow. I will still swallow on occasion, but it's definitely hard and as most agree neater and cleaner.
Because I'm 100% in love with my bf, I love to swallow and please him. AND just because he's been satisfied, he still takes care of me afterwards, so I love pleasing him!
So... while taste has a significant factor to swallowing, positioning is the key factor for me. If he wants me to swallow, then he needs to be on top of me or get upright so i can position his****deep in my throat where he likes it.
I hope that makes sense... wow... I can't believe I just shared that will all of you guys! LOL
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My .02 cents
"If you want to catch a catch, then BE a catch!" - bluewithoutu | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/7/2008 8:25:43 PM |
Same goes with some men who hate it when a woman squirts in their mouth too...
Fools I tell ya!
I dated a squirter once... What a fecking turn on.. I fecking loved it... She would go to work dehydrated on Mondays.....
That's what I need is a squirter in my life! | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/8/2008 2:48:00 PM | I think this question should be a mandatory part of all profiles here on POF..to let a guy know what he's getting, lol
Lots of beautiful women here, but I don't think I could deal with some of the sexually repressed ones.
I do anything my partner asks to bring her pleasure sexually. period. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/8/2008 6:57:20 PM | | I hate to bring HIV and STIs into the discussion, but I do assume that all posters refer to swallowing or expecting a woman to swallow WHEN "inside" a long term, trusted/tested rel. Whereas I do expect a woman to give BJs inside a BF-GF rel (I would not in case of an ONS (but I do not do those)), I do not expect her to swallow unless we are in a serious LTR (between us, of course, lol lol). If I meet or hear that a woman does otherwise (with me or anyone else(, I assume she is kinda suicidal! | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/8/2008 7:11:13 PM | Let me explain in great detail to all you men what we taste. Get a banana, peel it, put some salt and snot on the inside of the skin, and run that across your bottom teeth. Now use your tongue and rub it in your mouth. You wanna swallow that. I spit! You get that in my mouth, I'ma spit it on you! | |
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ndulj
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Joined: 5/27/2007
Msg: 94 | |
| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/9/2008 4:47:48 AM | Here's a question for you...
guys suppose you were getting all the oral sex you wanted, seriously, whenever, wherever and for how ever long you wanted it...
but she just wouldn't let you cum in her mouth...
Deal breaker or not??? | |
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Ninki
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Joined: 4/11/2005
Msg: 95 | |
| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/9/2008 5:05:13 AM |
What I *would* do is to go down on my lover during her period...this is a level of sexual commitment in my relationships that you will never earn from anyone.
I for one wouldn't even want this 'level of commitment'. This is just plain gross. I'm sorry to see that many people have become so desensitized that they think nothing of doing stuff like that, yet they get grossed out by a spider or when someone picks up a morsel of food that has fallen on a clean floor and eats it. What gives? 
N. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/9/2008 6:23:20 AM | Well to me it is simple,
2 things
1. A woman that does not swallow,it is like a car without a steering wheel.
2.If they ever invent a dishwasher that gives blowjobs,women become obsolete. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/9/2008 8:41:52 AM |
I don't think I could deal with some of the sexually repressed ones
Not swallowing spunk makes one repressed? I figured I just had some tastebuds...
Men, it's not a pleasant experience. It has the consistency of a wad of boogers and leaves a really nasty taste at the back of your throat. Do you really want sex or at least part of it to be an unpleasant experience for your partner?? You probably will find your opportunities limited in the future if this is something you insist on with someone who doesn't like it. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/9/2008 9:16:14 AM | Well it's never as much fun or as much satisfaction to do ANYTHING with someone when your not enjoying what is going on. I'll pass on charity sex and blow jobs anytime.
BUT..there are women that truely enjoy the whole experience when it comes to going down on their man...from beginning to the very end. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/9/2008 7:08:40 PM | I think, the next woman I go down on, I'm going to wait until she cums and then run to the bathroom, spitting all the way. Perhaps I'll make a few girlie noises while I'm at it.
If you can't handle the end result of oral sex, you shouldn't be giving it. If you shouldn't be giving it, you're obviously sexually immature. I'm tired of the whole "girl cum" is different than "boy cum" argument from the little girls out here.
People aren't wrong or selfish for liking and wanting oral sex. Only the insecure women will attempt to make you feel that way. | |
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