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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/7/2009 12:47:55 PM | 'm not quite sure if you're alluding to me with "a few women", but I'll address what I feel is relevant to me.
A few women means a few women. Any woman is free to include or exclude herself a one of those ``few women.''
But strangely, I've never had a man tell me he only wants a blow job if I'm going to swallow BE
FORE I started.
I've never stipulated anything beforehand either. However, I've had enough experiences of both kinds to know what I want. Although I ignored this to avoid digressing from topic, I have found that, in general, women who are squeamish about oral sex have a lot of other characteristics that don't fit with mine very well. They are usually picky eaters (at least by comparison.) They are generally less curious or willing to do things that involve something unfamiliar, in or out of bed. If this wasn't the case, a woman would keep trying until she got it right for her own satisfaction, just like an athelete who is determined to excel will accept painful injuries and even broken bones to get past some limitation. I think an excuse like a gag reflex is akin to not being passionate about sex. It's like accepting a self-imposed limitation. That frustrates me with anyone. Where sex is concerned, I see it as a limitation on the intensity and passion one can get out of sex.
Going back to your complaint about me saying that "with all of the threads complaining about women not putting out, you'd think men would be happy to be getting blow jobs at all..."
I was pointing out the irony of the posts, not telling men they should be happy just to take what women give. I have NEVER said that, and that is putting all kinds of meaning to my words that was never there.
Go ahead, pull up my history. You won't find anything close. Just like taking issue with me calling argument over the issue "frivolous."
I'm not a mind reader and without enough content in a post to put a comment in its intended context, I can only assume I should take the words literally. I understand the problem, however, I try to avoid irony, sarcasm and implied context when posting because of that.
I don't care if we were talking about eating a woman out - I think it's a fairly unimportant issue to get so angry about.
I don't get angry about much of anything. I state what I think about something and try to avoid euphemisms. I'm a scientist and the notion that observations are merely observations is fairly well ingrained. Whether what I do observe is what I would like to observe or not doesn't matter. What matters is how deal with the reality I observe, because reality won't change if I get pissed off at reality.
I'm not trying to dehumanize you, I'm not trying to insult you, I was making straight forward, but tongue in cheek, comments.
For the record, it's not possible for you or anyone else to dehumanize me or insult me. If I accepted that, then I would have to value my own opinion of myself less than that of others. By trying to insult me, a person only gives me a reference to a comment I can use against him/her later on, so it's often a plus from my point of view.
You never have to worry that a factual statement or an observation is going to be seen some other way, even if it's a negative reflection on me. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/7/2009 2:33:21 PM | I dont mind swallowing if its not to salty , but thats almost never the case.
I much rather recieve a facial , makes me feel very dirty and he enjoys seeing it all over my face lol. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/7/2009 6:21:35 PM | women who are squeamish about oral sex have a lot of other characteristics that don't fir with mine very well. They are usually picky eaters...generally less curious or willing to do things that involve doing something unfamiliar, in or out of bed. If this wasn't the case, a woman would keep trying until she got it right for her own satisfaction...I think an excuse...is akin to not being passionate about sex. It's like accepting a self-imposed limitation.
abelian, as far as I'm concerned, nothing could be further from the truth. There are *very* few foods I do not like/will not eat, not counting my *choice* not to eat meat. If it's A. meatless and B. spicy, I'm almost guaranteed to like it. I'm also adventurous, he**, I took a big chance coming to the US at the age of 18 to marry a man I barely knew. But I digress. I find it extremely offensive, when you say that 'a woman should keep trying' to do something she does not like; something *she* feels is degrading, bordering on sadistic (deep-throating, facials...). I like sex a lot, but that doesn't mean that I *must* like *every* single sex act, even if 99% of all people seem to. So what? I'm not them! *I* tried oral sex, a lot more than once, over almost 20 years, and I just do not like it. I find it's just unnatural to want to f*** a woman in her mouth! I'm entitled to my opinion. Please accept the fact that some people do not like it and stop implying that we're all crazy, damaged, defective, boring, etc. ad nauseum. It's that attitude I have a problem with, not the fact that people do oral sex. Do whatever floats your boat, but don't put those of us who are not into it, down. I, for one, am sick to death of it.
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/7/2009 6:37:21 PM |
Please accept the fact that some people do not like it and stop implying that we're all crazy, damaged, defective, boring, etc. ad nauseum. It's that attitude I have a problem with, not the fact that people do oral sex. Do whatever floats your boat, but don't put those of us who are not into it, down. I, for one, am sick to death of it.
I agree totally...... | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/7/2009 7:02:17 PM | abelian, as far as I'm concerned, nothing could be further from the truth.
I'm stating the correlations that I've observed. I don't discount exceptions, but being an exception to one correlation I've observed only works in your favor, since I'd be less like to infer your real sexual preferences from your eating habits.
But I digress. I find it extremely offensive, when you say that 'a woman should keep trying' to do something she does not like; something *she* feels is degrading, bordering on sadistic (deep-throating, facials...).
Being offended is a choice. If you really feel that oral sex is ``degrading, bordering on sadistic,'' then you obviously shouldn't do it, but those reasons would really be make me wonder about your feelings about sex in general. However, I made it fairly evident that my opinion that a woman should keep trying addressed reasons like ``gag reflex,'' which in in my opinion is either a limitation that desire can overcome or an excuse for something else. I've undergone several knee surgeries and shoulder surgery to compete in a sport I was enthusiastic about, so I have adifficult time accepting that something which is relatively minor by comparison, like a ``gag reflex'' would stop a woman from swallowing if she really wanted to do it in the first place, unless she just gives up easily.
I'm entitled to my opinion.
I never said otherwise. It's hard to argue with an opinion. It's only when someone attributes their dislike to a problem that can be overcome that people start suggesting ways to overcome the problem.
Please accept the fact that some people do not like it and stop implying that we're all crazy, damaged, defective, boring, etc. ad nauseum.
I do accept the fact that some women don't like. If they just said they don't like, that would be fine. It's only when they try to attribute their dislike to something other than disliking it that I think their dislike implies something more than just disliking it. Just say you dislike it instead of looking for a reason to justify it. What I ``implied'' had nothing to do with disliking oral sex, per se. It was due to reasoning that indicates the only thing keeping someone from performing oral sex is rather trivial, which to me indicates something other than just disliking oral sex.
If you are sick to death of the discussion, nothing forced you to respond to my reply to the person I quoted in my post.
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/7/2009 7:23:37 PM |
See I don't get it... being as his****is half way down my throat when he is cumming it is only natural to swallow... otherwise I'd be stuck with a load of junk in my throat... would kind of make it hard to breath... so I just suck it on down... and keep sucking until he starts jerking... LOL
And it's that enthusiasm that brings out the same in me. I WANT to lick a woman through multiple orgasms until she finally has to push me away, if she treats me in this manner.
If she does it as a chore, I might want to go near her in the same way... maybe. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/11/2009 10:22:13 AM | | I like to fire it over their breasts. I'd never expect a woman to swallow if she didn't want to. Most like it on their tits as it's much easier cleaned than where it normally goes | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/11/2009 2:00:31 PM | What I find interesting, there are some women who have said a man cum, is disgusting, gross, slimy, like a raw egg, etc.. yet they will allow that same disgusting cum inside their bodies while in the act of intercourse,,
So in my opinion, any woman who views my cum as disgusting is not the woman for me. My preference is, I want my woman to enjoy me as I will her.. | |
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Posted: 1/11/2009 3:11:49 PM |
^^^Now if *you* would just please stop saying that women who don't like oral sex and/or swallowing are 'inhibited', then all would be fair again.
If you have an aversion to "oral sex and/or swallowing," wouldn't that be considered an inhibition? | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/11/2009 4:20:43 PM | | I dunno what your talking about all the women i know swallow. A chick told me that it tastes close to what you eat regularly so sometimes it tastes good and sometimes it doesn't but either way mine is going down someones throat. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/11/2009 4:31:31 PM | .......there are some women who have said a man cum, is disgusting, gross, slimy, like a raw egg, etc.. yet they will allow that same disgusting cum inside their bodies while in the act of intercourse,,
I will do my best to explain the difference to you since you didnt comprehend it. One goes in the stomach (being ate) and the other goes where god intended it to....the vagina. The cum is not disgusting if it goes wherwe its meant to go. To eat it is anothers story. Let me give you some examples. You put neosporen on cuts but would you wnat to eat the neosporin? You wash your hands and body with soap but would you wnat to eat the soap? You wash white clothes with a bit of bleach but would you want to eat the bleach? people dye their hair but would they want to eat the dye? People put deodorant on but would they wnat to eat it ? people paint houses but would they want to eat the paint? the list is endless. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/11/2009 4:38:25 PM | Everyone. Put the sperm where God intended it as Kitten says. Put it in the vagina.
We've all read Psalm 2:54 which states, "And the Lord doth spake saying thou vagina shall be the receptacle of thine load. Spurteth only into it. Thine face, thine breast, and mouth are right out."
I love that part of the Bible. | |
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Ninki
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/11/2009 4:56:38 PM | there are some women who have said a man cum, is disgusting, gross, slimy, like a raw egg, etc.. yet they will allow that same disgusting cum inside their bodies while in the act of intercourse
Yes, because it belongs inside the vagina, but not in the mouth and down the throat, duh!
N.
Edit! Taylord, no I don't consider it an inhibition, just a preference. :) | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/11/2009 5:25:47 PM | well if they dont want a dumb answer than they shouldnt ask a dumb question. and your right it is a preference. so why condemn the ones that dont do it? if they wnat to condem us why not us condem them? whats fair is fair.
opie it must be. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/11/2009 5:31:05 PM |
well if they dont want a dumb answer than they shouldnt ask a dumb question. and your right it is a preference. so why condemn the ones that dont do it? if they wnat to condem us why not us condem them? whats fair is fair.
lol wut? | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/11/2009 5:40:16 PM |
I will do my best to explain the difference to you since you didnt comprehend it. One goes in the stomach (being ate) and the other goes where god intended it to....the vagina. The cum is not disgusting if it goes wherwe its meant to go.
I avoid women who are shipped with an online instruction manual. It takes all the fun of winging it. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/11/2009 5:49:32 PM | yep i sure did. its a woman's choice to change her mind. but aside from that what makes a person who does oral a better person than one who dont? in my eyes it doesnt. all these people put down on the ones that dont do it. why. why do they even care. Shoujld the ones who dont do it show the same kind of rude , disrespectful behavior that the ones thtat do it are showing? there is no reason for either to attack the other. if you do it....good for you...if you dont..thats good for you too. The question is not meant for everyone to attack everyone or call names. its a simple question why some dont do it. Each should give their answer and leave it at that. Now I for one am also one of the ones who did attacking jsut like each one of you have. Alot of my responses were becuase the questions were directed at me. But some posters such as ms micki jsut purposely attack even when not being spoken to. I aint no better than any of you and none of you are any better than me. Its about time this thread comes to an end.
rdnorm, your post is so stupid there arent even wrods for it. If you cant say something logical dont say anyting at all.
You ever heard the saying be fruitful and multiply??how can one do that if they eat the cum. God did not intend for women to do that.
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