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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/26/2009 11:40:26 AM | ^^^^ Now this is only a guess,, But I'd say those men your servicing are either gay, or bisexual..
A straight man would most likely go some where else to get his needs met,, if that is something he choose to do..
This is another very good reason why sexual compatabilty is very important,,Hmmm | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/26/2009 5:12:17 PM | | I agree. Never realized there was an option until more recently! I feel like I give him a gift then he gives me one back. It's rude to return a gift! lol. It's a turn on and sexy for both parties. And the guy who said how would women feel if guys started spitting after going down on us has a point. How insulting and hurtful would that be! | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 2/3/2009 3:50:12 PM | Howdy, I've been following this thread and just don't understand what the big deal is!
I luv the taste, and more importantly I luv to please my man. There is something about being in total control that is a real turn on for me. So ladies.....gain control of your man thru your mouth.......and that does'nt mean ****ing....it means swallowing !
There's nothing like a sticky ~ gooey BJ ......it works for me !! Now all I need is a decent man to appreciate it.......just broke up with a guy and I'm sure he's "jones-ing"
about now.......I know I am
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 2/7/2009 10:49:08 AM | Okay now that the act is fresh in my mind I'm gonna try and answer this again...first I'll be honest, I don't like the taste, but I always swallow because I always finish the act...I'm gonna be as honest as I can so the guys can understand (because it is NOT the same as a woman cumming in their mouth)...there were a few times that I actually gagged on it and wanted to spit it out (I guess I could have...I'm sure a guy is happy just cumming in your mouth)...I mean my eyes were watering but eventually I was able to get it down...not too sexy I know but at least at that moment he couldn't see my face anyway because his eyes were in the back of his head LOL...You guys have to understand that it is a different texture and everything compared to when a woman cums...okay enough from me 
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 2/7/2009 12:07:45 PM | This topic has been beaten to death. People need to discuss sexual compatibility immediately. I can't hang with a woman who doesn't give oral, and I'd find it a giant disappointment if a woman doesn't at least let you finish in her mouth.
Now, the difference between a woman who spits and swallows is ***still*** night and day as far as feeling to the guy. Any guy who says otherwise hasn't had enough experience.
I'm old enough where I know what I want and won't settle for a woman with stupid rules. The benefit for her, of course, is that I have none of those restrictions and will continue to eat her well past the orgasm (an act I expect to be done to me).
That means, little girls (mentally) need never apply. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 2/7/2009 12:13:06 PM |
I'm old enough where I know what I want and won't settle for a woman with stupid rules. The benefit for her, of course, is that I have none of those restrictions and will continue to eat her well past the orgasm (an act I expect to be done to me).
While I don't set rules for BJ's or cumming in my mouth, I do set rules as a woman and I don't call them stupid. I don't want to be shit on.......pissed on, or beat on.......so while some might think rules are stupid.......they are a must to others. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 2/7/2009 12:17:41 PM | Ok, understood Kirota. I'm not referring to pissing and shitting on... That's a bit extreme. lol
I'm talking about having no rules, at a minimum, for "vanilla sex." Oral sex falls into that category, as far as I'm concerned. Don't have time to break women of inhibitions. There are plenty of (stupid, inexperienced) men to take the women who don't want to do stuff in bed. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 2/7/2009 12:23:24 PM |
Ok, understood Kirota. I'm not referring to pissing and shitting on... That's a bit extreme. lol
I'm talking about having no rules, at a minimum, for "vanilla sex." Oral sex falls into that category, as far as I'm concerned. Don't have time to break women of inhibitions. There are plenty of (stupid, inexperienced) men to take the women who don't want to do stuff in bed.
I totally agree..............I guess I figure at my age the inhibitions are pretty much gone and I have embraced a view.........lets say more taboo type of things. Though I have never swallowed I have let that inhibition go and am more willing to open myself up to that.......I think as we get older we should be more accepting of ourselves and be more willing to open up to do things. I'm always willing to learn...........lmao | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 2/7/2009 12:28:05 PM |
I totally agree..............I guess I figure at my age the inhibitions are pretty much gone and I have embraced a view.........lets say more taboo type of things. Though I have never swallowed I have let that inhibition go and am more willing to open myself up to that.......I think as we get older we should be more accepting of ourselves and be more willing to open up to do things. I'm always willing to learn...........lmao
See, you an I are on the same page. lol | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 2/7/2009 12:54:02 PM |
Also, if a guy is performing oral on a woman, would she feel happy if he didn't let her finish in his mouth or would you think that was okay, and he should finish you off with his hand/toy/whatever?
See, I don't find that acceptable. If I'm down on a woman and she's about to cum, I think the worst thing you can do is change the very thing that's bringing her to orgasm. Forgive my bluntness, but my face and tongue is buried at that point, lapping up everything and making sure she is satisfied. The last thing she needs, from a mental perspective, is to see me spit her onto the floor, a towel, or run into the bathroom like a madman who can't wait to get her out of my mouth.
All that said, I expect the same treatment in return. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 2/7/2009 4:16:28 PM | OK, my ex would not swallow or allow to cum in her mouth, but.....after divorce and a few relationships later....every lady has swallowed much to my delight...however it appears that 1. they like my smooth CLEAN****..yes guys keep it very clean.
2. Diet does make a difference.....
3. Mine apparently tastes nice
4. Surprised me that two ladies told me they get so turned on when they feel me about to cum when it swells more that they orgasm....do any of you ladies out there experience the same?
5 I return the favour and enjoy it...and yes ladies can cum just like guys and ejaculate...and yes I swallow and lap it up...the pleasure it gives a lady and the smile on her face is very much worth it.
So I would say...personal hygiene...and diet are two main factors....and...how your lady feels about you, don't be one sided guys.....got to give and take. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 2/7/2009 5:52:03 PM | 41 pages now. I read most of it. Quite funny actually.
What the heck difference does it make whether a woman will or won't? Geez.
Sometimes I do, sometimes not. Depends on my mood. Really can only swallow when I'm in love with my guy.
Other women probably feel this way too. Just thought I'd put my cents worth in, from Canada. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 2/8/2009 2:04:39 PM |
I do it. But I can understand why some women don't. Would you take a shot of snot? It's the equivalent...
Snot...I never could think of a word to compare it to...that works perfectly
However, to me, what is good about performing oral is the control and pure ecstasy you get to watch him experience. If refusing to take a shot of snot will lesson it for him, then what's the big deal? ...I'd rather drink snot and watch how much that act turns him on.
Yeah that's exactly what it is...
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Okay, this is gonna be too much info but I don't know where else to ask...
I need to find out what techniques other women do because for me I almost threw it up the last time I had it in my mouth (not out of disgust or anything like that, because I was not turned off...just have a strong gag reflex)...I don't know if it was the particular taste or something...I can't pin-point it, I just know it was hard to get down (luckily he couldn't see my face as this was happening) but my eyes were tearing so I had to take care of that afterwards...
I dunno...maybe it was completely normal and all women who swallow goes through that...or are there any tricks I am missing? One time I used my tongue to sort of block it from shooting directly into the back on my throat...that seemed to help...I don't think there's any answer really, just trial and error...something I'm just gonna have to work on I guess... | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 2/8/2009 2:22:03 PM | I need to find out what techniques other women do because for me I almost threw it up the last time I had it in my mouth (not out of disgust or anything like that, because I was not turned off...just have a strong gag reflex)...
Not so long ago a woman I have known for years, gave me head,, she is great at doing deep throat,, I am very careful never to push down on a womans head,, I lost it for a second,, her eyes looked up at me as they had water in them,, yet she had a smile on her face,, ............ I asked if she liked that,, she shook her head yes,, ........
I'm had hard time understanding why she liked to gag,, but,, she was really getting into me pushing her head down on me,, as she gaged , her eyes watering, I was amazed, but the out come was great,, and I never knew this about her before,,
To find out I spoke with someone else I knew,, and she admitted that she loves having her head pushed and held for a second or two,,gaging as well.. it a new treat for me,,  | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 2/8/2009 3:21:33 PM | mgs. 1027^^^^^I have read,, a gag reflex and be over come,, and moved,, how this is done,, massage your tongue right at the point where you gag,, practice this,, then as you feel better,, move the toothbrush back further each time,, it's my understanding the gag reflex dissipates,, or is moved further back in the mouth.. it's also my under standing a good partner can help with this if he takes it slow,, and lets you take control..
It's nice that a woman aims to please a man,, as well as men like to please a woman,, all is good in that case... | |
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