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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 2/8/2009 3:25:39 PM |
mgs. 1027^^^^^I have read,, a gag reflex and be over come,, and moved,, how this is done,, massage your tongue right at the point where you gag,, practice this,, then as you feel better,, move the toothbrush back further each time,, it's my understanding the gag reflex dissipates,, or is moved further back in the mouth.. it's also my under standing a good partner can help with this if he takes it slow,, and lets you take control..
It's true, you can build a tolerance to not gagging so much. I broke up with my guy and then like a year later I realized that I was gagging like nobody's business when I brushed my teeth. It was then I realized my gag reflex was no longer what it used to be. I dont recommend building your tolerance with a toothbrush, it can really hurt the back of your throat. Go for the real thing!
And a tip for the ladies, if you go deep right when he is ejaculating, it will all end up in the back of your throat, and then with one quick swallow, it's gone. That way you dont deal with the texture thing or taste thing I hear some complaining about.
Can't believe I just wrote this post. *yikes* | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 2/8/2009 3:35:42 PM |
I dont recommend building your tolerance with a toothbrush, it can really hurt the back of your throat.
use the other end of a tooth brush,, put pressure on the spot that gaga you,, then stop and do it again,, rub the smooth side of the tooth brush around,,
It really does work,, and yes I have moved my gag reflex as well,, not because I give head to a man,, but to show some women that I have been with, how it's done with a banana,, LOL,,, way to much information...LOL | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 2/8/2009 3:47:30 PM | Do you take shots? You know, not of snot, but of liquor? Lol. It's kinda like that.
This is my problem...I can't do shots of liquor...I can't swallow pills...when I take a pill (usually I take liquid medicine), I crush them or I let it dissolve in my mouth (just can't swallow it right away)...and the same is happening when he cums in my mouth...it's there for at least 10-20 seconds (maybe even longer) until I can get it down...sometimes almost gagging on it and I would feel horrible spitting it out especially since it was almost like I was throwing it up...
Most important though was that I was not grossed out...that had absolutely nothing to do with it...
I think with me I just have a hard time swallowing and I have to figure out a better way to handle it...I know when I blocked it from shooting directly into the back of my throat it made it a little easier but again it still sits in my mouth and takes awhile to just swallow it....my throat just closes or something, the same as when I try to take a shot or swallow a pill 
...but I'm a good student and I'm never gonna stop trying 
And a tip for the ladies, if you go deep right when he is ejaculating, it will all end up in the back of your throat, and then with one quick swallow, it's gone. That way you dont deal with the texture thing or taste thing I hear some complaining about.
Okay when I did this my throat closed and I ended up with it all in my mouth anyway, gagging, eyes watering...almost throwing it up on him...not good...luckily his eyes were in the back of his head and it gave me some time to eventually swallow it
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 2/8/2009 3:51:39 PM |
This is my problem...I can't do shots of liquor...I can't swallow pills...when I take a pill (usually I take liquid medicine), I crush them or I let it dissolve in my mouth (just can't swallow it right away)...and the same is happening when he cums in my mouth...it's there for at least 10-20 seconds (maybe even longer) until I can get it down...sometimes almost gagging on it and I would feel horrible spitting it out especially since it was almost like I was throwing it up.
Well, your are rare case and I'm sure loved one can understand. I'm sure he wouldnt mind it on your face then? Just keep your eyes closed,,,,
Somebody bar me from this thread PLEASE! | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 2/8/2009 3:55:23 PM |
Well, your are rare case and I'm sure loved one can understand. I'm sure he wouldnt mind it on your face then? Just keep your eyes closed,,,,
but I do it...he doesn't have to cum on my face...he can in my mouth...just takes me longer to swallow it...
I guess it's the fact that I can't swallow pills or do shots of alcohol that my throat just closes for anything...
Still not gonna stop me from pleasing him | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 2/8/2009 3:55:31 PM | ^^^^^ the key is your not grossed out,, and you don't need to swallow,, what you might want to try,, don't swallow,, just let the cum slide from your mouth, as you give him head,, just let the cum slide down his shaft,, trust me he is still a happy man..
edit: if your man can cum more than twice,, the third time give him head,, his load will be less,, but you will have to work harder,,, LOL to make him cum..then try swallowing that, it should be to much less.... | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 2/8/2009 4:00:15 PM | ...don't swallow, just let the cum slide from your mouth, as you give him head, just let the cum slide down his shaft, trust me he is still a happy man...
Yeah that is a great idea...I didn't even think to let it slide out, down his shaft...that is definitely a great idea...see that is what I'm looking for 
edit: if your man can cum more than twice,, the third time give him head,, his load will be less,, but you will have to work harder,,, LOL to make him cum..then try swallowing that, it should be to much less....
You are definitely right...didn't even put 2+2 together...it definitely got easier the more times he came...it was the first one that he basically exploded LOL...thanks for the great advice
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 2/8/2009 4:03:40 PM |
but I do it...he doesn't have to cum on my face...he can in my mouth...just takes me longer to swallow it...
I guess it's the fact that I can't swallow pills or do shots of alcohol that my throat just closes for anything...
Maybe you have a medical condition? Ever asked your doctor?
I only mentioned the face thing because I learned it can be pleasurable for both parties.... And I love the suggestion of just letting it fall out, Good Thinking! It works too,,,,, | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 2/8/2009 4:20:10 PM | ^^^^^^^^^^^^ I'm just an old fart with some experiance,, LOL,, glad I could help,, Plus I'm a guy,, and I know what I like,,
I'm now going to start a class,,, just need some students to apply,, of age of course,, | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 2/9/2009 5:19:21 AM | | I also have a very bad gag reflex but I just haven't been going deep. We have been also having personal issues going on so right now I'm not really worried about it but if things get better then I'll talk to him about it again and ask him to help. Honestly thou my partner can't get it up more then once so I have to try to not make him cum while giving head or else no sex. He I think needs to see a doc cuz he's only 36 so it's a little weird that he can't get hard even with an hour rest time or me doing everything possible to get him hard. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 2/9/2009 5:52:41 AM | ^^^^^^^^ another thought to help control the gag reflex,, There are drops that can be applied to the back of the tongue, that numbs the tongue. One must be careful not to numb other areas of the mouth,, because biting is not allowed,, and you don't want to feel like you just walked out of the dentist, keep in mind, just the back part of the tongue, because you need to feel with the tip of your tongue so you can enjoy as well, plus the tip of the tongue guides you as you lick,
Good idea, for him to see a doctor..although personal issues can affect a sexual relationship,,as well as, medications, drugs and alcohol | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 2/9/2009 6:50:11 AM | | Maybe I am weird I guess, I dunno. I am still trying to figure out why this is such an important issue to my fellow male species. I am not a big fan of receiving oral anyway, but if she is doing that for me, really who cares what happens to a few teaspoons of jizz? Once it leaves me, unless it is planning on fertilizing an egg, I could care less what happens to it. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 2/9/2009 6:56:51 AM |
Maybe I am weird I guess, I dunno. I am still trying to figure out why this is such an important issue to my fellow male species
You wrote your answer...below
I am not a big fan of receiving oral anyway,
I'm a BIG fan of both receiving and giving oral,, matter of fact, it's a way of life for me,,
My way of life will not be compromised.. great / good oral is a must have... | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 2/9/2009 7:01:12 AM |
You wrote your answer...below
True, it is not my #1 favorite sexual activity (receiving), but when I have had it done, when it is over, why would one care what happens to the "result"? I think that is more some psychological thing rather than physical. I still feel the same whether the jizz goes down her throat or in a tissue. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 2/9/2009 7:19:07 AM | I still feel the same whether the jizz goes down her throat or in a tissue.
For the most part that is true,, either way I would consider that a good BJ as long as it was in her mouth at the time.... but there are some woman who will not let a man cum in there mouth period(good for them) but that changes the feeling of ejaculating ,, because of the stop and go, buy switching to the hands,, now I have known women who can make that feel good, wonderful too, but they are not switching because they find a man cum gross,, but rather changing thing a little,, no different than,, trying different positions while having sex..
I think that is more some psychological thing rather than physical.
good sex requires both,, for example, psychology if a woman is giving me a blow job, and I know she is not liking it,, she will most likely do a poor job, but if she does like giving head,, but finds my cum gross that has an affect on me,, therefore the physical pleasure is not the same because of either worrying about coming in her mouth,, will she destroy the feeling when she switches to her hands,, as well as I don't want a woman doing something that displeases her..
so in my opinion,, you need to mentally in tune with your partner as well as physically.. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 2/9/2009 7:24:45 AM |
There are drops that can be applied to the back of the tongue, that numbs the tongue. One must be careful not to numb other areas of the mouth
I dunno rdcnorm.... methinks those drops could easily be transferred onto him and he might end up with numb-dick.... er.... numb nuts!
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 2/9/2009 7:58:47 AM | ^^^^^^^^^^ I don't know either,, but those drops are available for just that, one must read the instructions before hand... the idea is to try something new,,,
They may have to be applied to the tongue, lets say 10 min before giving head,, as to not transfer that numbing sensation to a partner,,
similar to the idea of a woman using a Vaginal Contraceptive Film, insert 20 min before, then last up to 3 hrs,, I do realize we are not talking about the same thing,, but the idea is,, some things take time to take effect,, such as the drops,, | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 2/9/2009 8:48:49 AM | Now that's not always the case. I'd be lying if I said I only came a couple of times. I'm one to cum four or five times in one session regularly. And as for the "lesser shot" during the third one...it takes that fifth one for me to cum less.
Admittedly, some of my ejaculations hurt (yes, really) because they are not "small". I even think I'd cum more with a little more energy, and a little less pain. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 2/9/2009 9:39:05 AM | Is it like wine? Could we have a "Cum Tasting Evening"...
This is from a mature frenchman; reared in the country on rich meats and a range of red wines. This is a cheeky young buck from the burbs; pizza's, McD's and Bud...
"Yes you can taste the maturity of this one; let it roll around the tongue, and savour the thickness..." - Sorry just made me laugh! | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 2/9/2009 9:58:22 AM | | From my standpoint it's liquid testosterone...it's very beneficial from a training standpoint...well actually, it's a simple sugar... Interesting thread here...I am really unsure? I thought most woman did??? I believe it is a preference and some woman prefer not too. Just get creative and come up with another option so you can be satisfied. Stop bashing the women folk for something your not getting sexually. Seriously people, COMMUNICATE with your partner. Everyone's situation is different. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 2/9/2009 12:15:44 PM |
The taste is an issue for me. Guys be careful what you eat certian foods can cause your cum to taste salty.
I agree completely,, however it's the womans responsibility to tell a guy if he taste good,, meaning, some women, like sweet, sour, salty, spicy, and from what I'm been told, I always taste different depending on what I eat,, thus far no complaints,, other than to have her say,, as she licks her lips,, I wounder what you will taste like today....the thrill of the unexpected treat....as she smiles,,,,
So yes, diet is a very important part,, but the man must be aware of what his lady likes and dislike, so he then can eat accordingly.. It's the jalapeno that make a womans eyes water and throat burn..but some love spicy,,, | |
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| Let me see if I understand you....
Posted: 2/9/2009 12:34:58 PM |
There are plenty of (stupid, inexperienced) men to take the women who don't want to do stuff in bed.
...so what you are saying is, any man who has reached the point in life that he knows the details of the sex act are not as important as the person he is having sex with is "stupid, inexperienced".
Hmmm.
So if I think anyone who is immature enough to think this way this is stupid, is that fair game?
(and...just so that we aren't confused...my last GF was a BJing swallowing militant radical. To the point that it sometimes interfered with intercourse, because she felt that if she could catch me at the right moment, she could demand I pull out and...you know. At the same time, my ex wife once tries wallowing me just to try to please me...and she didn't like it. she didn't complain alot...but i could tell she didn't like. I am not going to make someone i love do something they don't like just because I have watch too much porn and think real life has to be just like that....) | |
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| Yeah...not every woman is going to like this....
Posted: 2/9/2009 12:43:12 PM |
To find out I spoke with someone else I knew,, and she admitted that she loves having her head pushed and held for a second or two,,gaging as well.. it a new treat for me
...but some do. They really do.
My exGF...while absolutely loving oral...never thought of herself as a "submissive" type woman...so that is the sort of thing that as a concept would turn her off (You know...there are the "BJ = Submission" women...and there are the "BJ = Control" women.). Once though...one day it was getting really hot...we were both into it...and...it just happened...I started pushing her down...not hard...but definitely pushing her down...controlling her head.
She orgasmed.
Afterward, she asked me "is it wrong that I really liked that?". It was if she felt she had done a disservice for her fellow feminist all over the world...lol | |
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