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 MyLifeAsMe

Joined: 1/26/2009
Msg: 1049
Let me see if I understand you....
Posted: 2/9/2009 12:34:58 PM

There are plenty of (stupid, inexperienced) men to take the women who don't want to do stuff in bed.


...so what you are saying is, any man who has reached the point in life that he knows the details of the sex act are not as important as the person he is having sex with is "stupid, inexperienced".

Hmmm.

So if I think anyone who is immature enough to think this way this is stupid, is that fair game?

(and...just so that we aren't confused...my last GF was a BJing swallowing militant radical. To the point that it sometimes interfered with intercourse, because she felt that if she could catch me at the right moment, she could demand I pull out and...you know. At the same time, my ex wife once tries wallowing me just to try to please me...and she didn't like it. she didn't complain alot...but i could tell she didn't like. I am not going to make someone i love do something they don't like just because I have watch too much porn and think real life has to be just like that....)
 MyLifeAsMe

Joined: 1/26/2009
Msg: 1050
Yeah...not every woman is going to like this....
Posted: 2/9/2009 12:43:12 PM

To find out I spoke with someone else I knew,, and she admitted that she loves having her head pushed and held for a second or two,,gaging as well.. it a new treat for me


...but some do. They really do.

My exGF...while absolutely loving oral...never thought of herself as a "submissive" type woman...so that is the sort of thing that as a concept would turn her off (You know...there are the "BJ = Submission" women...and there are the "BJ = Control" women.). Once though...one day it was getting really hot...we were both into it...and...it just happened...I started pushing her down...not hard...but definitely pushing her down...controlling her head.

She orgasmed.

Afterward, she asked me "is it wrong that I really liked that?". It was if she felt she had done a disservice for her fellow feminist all over the world...lol
 rdcnorm

Joined: 3/7/2007
Msg: 1051
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Yeah...not every woman is going to like this....
Posted: 2/9/2009 1:04:31 PM
mylifeasme
I guess it's never to late to learn, I was always the type of guy to be submissive to the woman who was giving me a BJ,, because I have always appreciated what she was doing, and I never wanted to be forceful, out of respect for her,, But now those two women I have mention,, they want to play both roles, control and submissive...
Life can't get better than that,, now can It.. LOL..


Afterward, she asked me "is it wrong that I really liked that?". It was if she felt she had done a disservice for her fellow feminist all over the world...lol

I would have said,, no babe,, it's not wrong,, as for the rest of the world,, what you do to me,, stays with me,, Your not going on you tube any time soon,, and any disservice, well that would only come from not enjoying your self with your man,,, whoo who baby,,,

isn't life just grand,,,
 EyeSeeYou1128

Joined: 1/5/2009
Msg: 1052
oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 2/9/2009 1:33:10 PM
I am just cracking up at all the hits and replies this subject got....rofl....
 miammii1

Joined: 1/30/2009
Msg: 1053
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oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 2/9/2009 2:39:44 PM
it takes a woman to swallow...
 miammii1

Joined: 1/30/2009
Msg: 1054
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Posted: 2/9/2009 2:41:12 PM
know the difference between like and love.....spit and swallow....
 Jesse K

Joined: 2/2/2009
Msg: 1055
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Posted: 2/9/2009 3:21:15 PM
It all depends on the girl, not whether they love you or just like you. I like to swallow but my best friend absolutely hates it even being in her mouth. So go find the right girl! lmao
 poker_fan_in_nyc

Joined: 4/6/2007
Msg: 1056
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Posted: 2/9/2009 5:06:30 PM
know the difference between like and love.....spit and swallow....


Haha no way...I swallow because I'm enjoying the moment and want to please the guy (has absolutely nothing to do with love)...I always finish what I start

if people (women) can eat raw oysters like they d so in some of the southern states, not sure why they couldn't swallow cum..


I don't eat raw oysters, sushi, or any seafood/fish so I don't fall into this category...

rdcnorm I couldn't respond to this before (you know the 2 out 10 rule LOL):
I'm now going to start a class,,, just need some students to apply,, of age of course,

Here in NYC we actually have BJ classes that I am really considering taking...not that I have ever had any complaints, just could always learn some new techniques
 The Siege

Joined: 2/4/2009
Msg: 1057
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Posted: 2/9/2009 5:19:22 PM
poker fan i love you and yeah that love and like thing is a slop of shit that comes from its maker, lol. girls that will swallow like sweetness usually, try eating more friuts and sweets, it actually works, lol.i have 2 exes that well voluge for it too, lol. but still really... be happy your gettin a bj at all, she dont have to to begin with, personally i like to give my thanks like they did to me, its only fair and its so damn fun!
 simplydogs

Joined: 6/9/2008
Msg: 1058
oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 2/9/2009 7:04:21 PM
I've tried the numbing creams that you put on a q tip and then put it in the back of your throat (which will make you gag) and that hasn't helped either, I've been to the sex stores and tried most and it hasn't helped. I think you just have to work on it with a partner that you can trust (not that you'd be giving head to someone you didn't)
 Diver Lake Cowboy

Joined: 3/2/2006
Msg: 1059
oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 2/9/2009 7:59:56 PM
I think all these guys that say if a woman swallows or not is a deal breaker for them should put that in their 'about me' section on their profile. Then see how many e-mails they get, lol. I suspect that lots of these guys that have women that don't want to swallow weren't careful about what they eat beforehand and also their hygiene may not be up to snuff. Try having a shower, putting on deodorant, find out what kind of after shave turns her crank, bring her flowers or do something else nice/romantic for her that you think she'd REALLY appreciate, you would be surprised at what you might get back in return. Personally, I'd never ask my significant other to do anything she doesn't feel comfortable with. Now of course if she were into it, well, hmmmmmmm....
 SmellOfPoop

Joined: 6/8/2007
Msg: 1060
Yeah...not every woman is going to like this....
Posted: 2/9/2009 8:00:49 PM
...so what you are saying is, any man who has reached the point in life that he knows the details of the sex act are not as important as the person he is having sex with is "stupid, inexperienced".

Hmmm.

So if I think anyone who is immature enough to think this way this is stupid, is that fair game?

(and...just so that we aren't confused...my last GF was a BJing swallowing militant radical. To the point that it sometimes interfered with intercourse, because she felt that if she could catch me at the right moment, she could demand I pull out and...you know. At the same time, my ex wife once tries wallowing me just to try to please me...and she didn't like it. she didn't complain alot...but i could tell she didn't like. I am not going to make someone i love do something they don't like just because I have watch too much porn and think real life has to be just like that....)


Big Mike, it's good to see you out of the Buy More.

You can think what you want, but I'm too old to play games. I don't want women my age or older with inhibitions.. Your point is the same flawed point women generally make. Being a great and caring woman does not equate to a great and compatible sex partner. Loving someone will NEVER make up for inadequate sexual wants and needs (just as pure sexual fulfillment will never make up for the loving woman one would want and need). Therefore, I want it all.

And, just to clarify further, I don't want to make a woman do things she doesn't want to do. I just don't want that woman. She can do nothing for me, except cause stress and headaches.
 daves11664

Joined: 8/7/2007
Msg: 1061
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oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 2/9/2009 8:11:41 PM
Thats why your still single!!!!!!!!
 SmellOfPoop

Joined: 6/8/2007
Msg: 1062
oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 2/9/2009 8:24:13 PM
It's funny when anyone on PoF accuses others of being single. I have chosen my current situation. YOU are looking for a woman and will conform to her wishes, since you are most likely a typical male. Enjoy being whipped.

Oh, and it's: That's why YOU'RE still single.

Love the ignorance.
 whtcld2009

Joined: 1/30/2009
Msg: 1063
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Posted: 2/9/2009 10:15:11 PM
I am going to show my lack of experience here. I have been celebate for about 8 years and before that I was involved with the same person for 9yearsw needless to say that a condom was never an issue...Obviously nowadays this is an issue...I am willing to use a condomeventhough I really hate them....I do enjoy swallowing so obviously this is not an option with a condom...I relize that these are pretty stupid questions but I have beenout of service for a very long time...Do I require the condom...obviously from what I have read...How does one pleasure a man through a condom....I am not being silly...this is indeed my lack of experience...
 whtcld2009

Joined: 1/30/2009
Msg: 1064
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Posted: 2/9/2009 10:17:28 PM
I have a comment with which I need help but in answer to your question...I have always enjoyed swallowing...can usually tell what you had for dinner
 mastershake19

Joined: 11/5/2008
Msg: 1065
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oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 2/9/2009 10:26:43 PM
eh i really dont give a shit if they do or dont although this thread does make me lol
 rdcnorm

Joined: 3/7/2007
Msg: 1066
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Posted: 2/10/2009 6:57:22 AM

How does one pleasure a man through a condom....I am not being silly...this is indeed my lack of experience...

I won't speak for other men,, but I would rather have a hand job,, then get a BJ while wearing a condom...
 marblesneedamom

Joined: 11/22/2008
Msg: 1067
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Posted: 2/10/2009 10:27:59 AM
here is a different prospective,
I was in a Motorcycle crash back in 1988,
after I noticed that my sense of taste had changed and the medical people put me through a battery of tests.
it would seem that just because something tastes one way to you
does not mean it's the same for everyone else.
your taste buds can report strongly or weakly in any given area.
ever notice how some people love a given food but others think it's discusting...
I hate sea food, others love it.
point of note, according to the "SEX EXPERTS" what a guy eats can change the
"FLAVOR" of his ejaculate.
Eating Bananas will sweeten the taste of your spooge. (confirmed by an ex. GF)
red meat makes it bitter.
 hojirt

Joined: 11/29/2006
Msg: 1068
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Posted: 2/10/2009 12:11:04 PM
I think that I am in love!!!
 hojirt

Joined: 11/29/2006
Msg: 1069
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Posted: 2/10/2009 12:13:58 PM
I would love to have a woman squirt in my mouth but unfortunately I only had moaners but no squirters!!
 whytwater

Joined: 8/7/2008
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Posted: 2/10/2009 12:24:45 PM

Here in NYC we actually have BJ classes that I am really considering taking


LA is sure to follow this lead, but Philadelphia is a little too stodgy for that blatant step. Lol. Problem is, NYC, LA, etc., are just friggin dirty. Hey, do they have internet courses? What other courses does this place offer? Or is it like Bronx Science, offering only oral sex science disciplines?
 poker_fan_in_nyc

Joined: 4/6/2007
Msg: 1071
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Posted: 2/10/2009 4:48:22 PM
Hi whytwater...I am originally from Philly and they used to have these classes there too (not as much as NYC, but still better than nothing)...I will send you a private message with more information because I don't think I am allowed to advertise for them on here...


LA is sure to follow this lead, but Philadelphia is a little too stodgy for that blatant step. Lol. Problem is, NYC, LA, etc., are just friggin dirty. Hey, do they have internet courses? What other courses does this place offer? Or is it like Bronx Science, offering only oral sex science disciplines?


They don't have internet courses but she has a great website that you can ask questions on...
 illlicurass2

Joined: 8/11/2005
Msg: 1072
oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 2/13/2009 7:28:56 AM
ILL EAT **** ALL DAY LONG AND THEY CAN SQUIRT IN MY MOUTH ALL THEY WANT..IF I CANT EAT YOUR **** YOU AINT GETTING ****ED...AND I COULD CARE LESS IF YOU SWALLOWED OR NOT
 god_of_rock

Joined: 1/17/2009
Msg: 1073
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Posted: 2/13/2009 8:36:12 AM
^^

hmm, the 'class act' of POF shows up..

"i'll lick ur ass" indeed.

how do you get rid of the (literally) crappy taste in your mouth?
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