| |
| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/19/2008 2:06:45 PM | | I don't want to sound like a douche for saying this but the majority of girls I have been with have in fact swallowed. The only difference is that they were not dating material, the ones that are dateable tend to be the ones that don't want to. Although for the most part any girl can be talked into doing that, but not if the guy is an ***hole or leaves them unsatisfied...maybe that is the problem in itself | |
|
| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/19/2008 3:13:44 PM |
I never spit... its actually more gross for me to spit.. because then it like lingers in your mouth for a minute and it makes it much worse
I never really understood the whole spitting thing either. Even if you don't care for the taste/texture... if it passes over your tongue you're getting the full experience whether it's on the way in or on the way out 
If you're going for it, in my opintion, it's best to just deep throat and swallow, then you don't taste a thing  | |
|
| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/19/2008 3:51:36 PM | | If it is someone out there where they are basically a "friend with benefits" I usually won't swallow. It's not that I find it gross because if I'm in a relationship with that person, I don't care to at all. The question is, why does a guy really care if we swallow or not, they are done with it. Quit b*tchin and enjoy the fact that you're getting some head! | |
|
| |
| |
| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/19/2008 4:32:26 PM | | well i dont know if im a freak but here goes i love to lick my partner out after iv ejeculated inside her and love the taste maybe its because its a mixture of her and me together i dont know but mmmmmm i love the taste and the actual doing of it ( sorry guys if im a man that has made you feel ill but you should try it even kissing your partner after you have ejeculaated in her mouth and sharing it is a big fing turn on) | |
|
| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/19/2008 4:41:17 PM | I won't swallow because I've about choked to death before. You have a c**k in your mouth, then he may be delivering a huge load. Some guys cum a lot, some not much.
Besides, most guys I've been with don't taste good when they start doing the pre-cum, one guy who told me how much I would like it if he came in my mouth, so I did it one time and it was so disgusting that I about puked and then he wanted me to swallow....I went and spit it out in a sink. It was the most bitter tasting crap I've ever had the misfortune of getting in my mouth. I think drinking Drano would have been a better experience.
And I did about choke to death with him cramming his junk in my mouth, as he was about deep throating me, too. I don't deep throat, I don't let a guy cum in my mouth or try to get me to swallow. End of story. If he doesn't like it, tough s**t.
As far as the comment from the OP about "Just swallow it already." Let me cram some filthy s**t in your mouth and then tell you the same. | |
|
| |
| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/19/2008 5:01:19 PM | | Honestly, I'd rather give, than receive. With having the experience of my ex's trying to do it, I've come to the realization that most women don't like doing it, because of either the taste, thickness, length. With this guy, its mostly two of the three that causes the problem. If a woman enjoys getting, sign me up, because I'd rather do that to pleasure her, than to get for me. It turns me on personally to be able to do that to a woman I'm dating, gives me the feeling of cloud-9 :) | |
|
| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/19/2008 6:23:25 PM | | Hi..u come across to me as a winnie cry baby.be glade your geting a Bj.that chit is nasty.Put your cum in a glass and drink it yourself & come back here and tell us all what it taste like!!!! Nasty!!!!! | |
|
| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/19/2008 6:30:05 PM |
Hi..u come across to me as a winnie cry baby.be glade your geting a Bj.that chit is nasty.Put your cum in a glass and drink it yourself & come back here and tell us all what it taste like!!!! Nasty!!!!!
Sorry, but I don't buy into that ``be glade your geting [sic] a Bj'' line. Womwn who think they are doing me a favor by having sex with me can look elsewhere. | |
|
| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/19/2008 6:52:11 PM | Abelian,
I'm sure if you tell women upfront about your attitude, I am sure they will look elsewhere. Any man who tries to cajole or force women into swallowing or giving them a bj in the first place, should stick to having sex with himself. | |
|
| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/19/2008 7:35:27 PM | now wait a minute...you guys have to understand...women have a few different ways of orgasming...you men just cum and you're done. When a woman has an orgasm from oral it is different than an orgasm from intercourse.
I LOVE to do oral but you cum in my mouth and it will be the last time. Swallowing is like cracking a raw egg in your mouth that has been soaking in bleach. There are alot of women out there that won't even do oral on a man so if you get oral from your woman just be happy with that.
It has nothing at all to do with if you love your partner or not. Just because you don't swallow doesn't mean you love your partner. | |
|
| |
| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/19/2008 7:39:33 PM | | ok as on oral most dont take the time to shower I shower before going to bed that may help you guys . Ok the ladies I date also shower for I aske them to fresh up love the smell and tast of a lady its a great turn on and trust me helps the hard on if you men slow down and please that lady a bit along the way. Now as the tast yes smokers tast like shit men and ladies both that cig kills the sweet smell of love but go have that cig and forget about taking the time to shower have dirty sex. And for the tast of my own cum its great I have put it im my ladies mouth and kissed her and in there **** i have licked it if its yours why would you have a problem with it good clean sex is great and im going to get all i can but for you wham bam shot the load guys go ahead past the shower shoot it and sleep as for me in going to bed clean ready and im playing for hours before my lady is ready to sleep | |
|
| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/19/2008 8:51:15 PM |
I would have to agree, dude, you should be happy that your even getting a blow job at all.
That's very easy to say from a female perspective. But let's turn the tables and envision women being commonly denied something sexually that turned them on.
I would venture to say they would be widely perceived as victims who are being deprived, and simply need a "real man" who's willing to step up to the plate for them. (trust me, you'll see this point proven in these very forums)
For every woman who has a man who won't do a specific sexual act for her, there's hundreds of men with a super hero complex more than willing to do it.
And believe me, she will have it much sooner and easier than the man looking for a woman to perform taboo acts for him.
She can call her Superman and have his caped ass flying through her window before she even hangs up the phone. | |
|
| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/19/2008 9:27:50 PM | Julie - part of the problem you talked about is the deep throating. I can only take so much and if a guy is shoving his****down my throat past where I can handle it I don't feel all that respected. The chance I'll swallow for that guy is absolutely zero. In fact, that would also be his last BJ.
Now for the right guy, who is a considerate lover, and really wants me to awallow - I will at least consider it. | |
|
| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/19/2008 10:20:37 PM |
I'm sure if you tell women upfront about your attitude, I am sure they will look elsewhere.
I have a date on tuesday with someone who will disagree with you. But, to be perfectly honest, I would rather have sex with myself than with a woman who thinks having sex with a guy is doing him a favor. Fortunately some women really do like sex.
Any man who tries to cajole or force women into swallowing or giving them a bj in the first place, should stick to having sex with himself.
I agree. So, instead of doing that, I just don't date women who aren't sensual. | |
|
| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/19/2008 10:28:29 PM |
I LOVE to do oral but you cum in my mouth and it will be the last time. Swallowing is like cracking a raw egg in your mouth that has been soaking in bleach. There are alot of women out there that won't even do oral on a man so if you get oral from your woman just be happy with that.
I don't have to be happy with that. I perform oral on women and I don't complain, no matter how wet she gets. I'd rather date women who reciprocate. | |
|
| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/19/2008 11:47:06 PM |
That's very easy to say from a female perspective. But let's turn the tables and envision women being commonly denied something sexually that turned them on.
I would venture to say they would be widely perceived as victims who are being deprived, and simply need a "real man" who's willing to step up to the plate for them. (trust me, you'll see this point proven in these very forums)
I certainly can't speak for others, but I've certainly gone without certain specific sexual acts I enjoy because they guy I was dating wouldn't or couldn't deliver. When I date someone I date him for who he is, not because he is the perfect sex machine who can cater to my every sexual need and whim -- though I must say that is a nice bonus if you can get it! There definitely needs to be a high level of compatibility when it comes to sex, but if you aim for perfection you're just going to end up disappointed. | |
|
| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/20/2008 12:48:05 AM | | Ick. I gave 1 blowjob, with a flavoured condom. Not so bad, I think it's the ONLY way i'd give blowjobs. Precum even turns me off, I don't want any fluid from a****in my mouth. And that way, I don't have to spit ~OR~ swallow it goes in the condom......win,win,win situation......... | |
|
| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/20/2008 2:43:11 AM |
I certainly can't speak for others, but I've certainly gone without certain specific sexual acts I enjoy because they guy I was dating wouldn't or couldn't deliver.
This may very well be, but if you were to complain publicly about it, you stand a far better chance of gaining sympathy (not to mention tons of offers) than a man would. | |
|
| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/20/2008 3:17:16 AM |
This may very well be, but if you were to complain publicly about it, you stand a far better chance of gaining sympathy (not to mention tons of offers) than a man would.
That is probably true, but I also know that I would never take up those men on any of their offers. I don't participate in sex acts with random people, regardless of what they may be willing to do for me. Give me my sexually imperfect guy any day. Not sure if that makes me old fashioned, or if many women still share that sentiment.
I'm a bit curious as to know how many men would turn down a random, but hot, woman who offers to meet his every sexual want and desire? And what if he already has a girlfriend that is a bit of a prude when it comes to sex (no BJs)? Would he bite? | |
|
| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/20/2008 4:38:41 AM | | Because I have a bad gag reflex and I can't have anything goopy in my mouth, let alone swallow it. I can't take "thick" medicine, like Pepto or anything like that, so it's just not going to happen with someone's bodily fluids, sorry. | |
|
Home
login 
