| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/21/2008 3:13:30 AM | Information isn't inaccurate.
Body fluids have to contain some amount of blood (not that they always do) with the HIV virus...and be transmitted to the other persons bloodstream. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/21/2008 3:24:17 PM | yes, but their wetness drips down, it doesn't shoot into your mouth. (well actually though, I have heard of women that can shoot when they orgasm so I guess I can't really say that and be right can I?)
Ok, this I can say and be right, when a man does oral on a woman he doesn't have anything jabbing his tonsils until he feels like gagging.
Don't get me wrong, I love giving and receiving oral, I just don't like a mans cum in my mouth. I'll take the precum just not cum. I say a man that just has to have a woman that swallows isn't in the relationship for love. He's only there for the sex. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/21/2008 5:04:02 PM |
Information isn't inaccurate.
Body fluids have to contain some amount of blood (not that they always do) with the HIV virus...and be transmitted to the other persons bloodstream.
That is inaccurate. The bodily fluids I mentioned don't need any trace of blood to transmit HIV. HIV is found within the white blood cells of those fluids themselves. White blood cells do NOT = blood. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/21/2008 5:13:59 PM | Hi,
The trouble with threads like this; is that they're just not representative of the real world. Out their in the real world, just the merest suggestion of things like swallowing and anal sex would be enough to instantly end a relationship for ever. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/21/2008 5:41:20 PM | The trouble with threads like this; is that they're just not representative of the real world. Out their in the real world, just the merest suggestion of things like swallowing and anal sex would be enough to instantly end a relationship for ever.
Wrong. Approximately 1/2 of the women I've dated had no issues with swallowing. I don't care either way about anal, so I wouldn't even ask, but several of the women I've dated have asked for it. I think you must be living in a convent. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/21/2008 5:52:37 PM | The trouble with threads like this; is that they're just not representative of the real world. Out their in the real world, just the merest suggestion of things like swallowing and anal sex would be enough to instantly end a relationship for ever.
Oh really? If that's true, then I can have a little hope again! 
N.
EDIT: Re post # 184: Never mind...... | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/21/2008 5:56:13 PM | I thought this was dealt with in a previous forum?
Ladies who comment negativelyon the taste of cum should remember everyone has a different taste.
Mind you, ladies, you cannot win this one.
I f we accept your negative comment as an expert opinion than you are not much more than a little c0ck$ucker.
If you are NOT an expert than you truly should not even bother mentioning how you think it tastes.
I don't have trouble in this area as only ONCE has a woman ever made me cum with her mouth. . .and that was the first time and with a professional-lol!
I have dated women who have asked me to START for them and they have intentionally $ucked me to a finish just so that they COULD taste my cum.
I don't see it as a dealbreaker personally. . .HOWever, I am not interested in the opinion of a woman who has only swallowed once or twice. . .please! What do you truly know about this!? | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/21/2008 6:13:21 PM |
Don't get me wrong, I love giving and receiving oral, I just don't like a mans cum in my mouth.
Then stick to datig guys who don't mind giving without receiving. I've been around the block enough to know I don't have to settle for a woman who thinks she's doing me a favor by having sex with me or that I should be grateful for whatever I get.
I'll take the precum just not cum. I say a man that just has to have a woman that swallows isn't in the relationship for love. He's only there for the sex.
I say that a woman who doesn't want to reciprocate is selfish. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/21/2008 7:09:54 PM | | but you are wrong...they are receiving. Just because you don't do oral until a man cums in your mouth doesn't mean that you didn't give. I've had oral done on me without taking me to orgasm and still enjoyed it very much. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/21/2008 7:17:46 PM | I swallowed on the regular for one man who I loved very much. I never liked it ever but I did love him-very,very much. With practice, I managed to get my technique down to where I knew when he was gonna cum and was able to spray it straight down my throat so I swallowed without tasting it. It still made me queasy but he loved it.
I gotta tell you cum tastes gross it is like super concentrated salt. The first time I tried to swallow it took all of my self will not to barf all over us both. It tasted gross and was squirting rhythmically into the back of my mouth hitting my gag reflex. I was so grossed out it was a while before I could even try a blow job without gagging.
Taste your own cum sometime and you will probably understand why she does not want it in her mouth. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/21/2008 8:29:07 PM |
Just because you don't do oral until a man cums in your mouth doesn't mean that you didn't give. I've had oral done on me without taking me to orgasm and still enjoyed it very much.
What's your point? I've had lots of blowjobs that didn't result in swallowing, but I still want to have the option so that she will do it occasionally. What if you were told you could never have anve an orgasm from oral sex and told not to get wet because a guy didn't like the the taste? Sorry, but I prefer women who actually get wapped up in sex and who are very sensual (taste is one of those senses in sensual), so I'm not going to get into a relationship with someone who isn't compatible. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/21/2008 9:13:31 PM | i agree with alot people are saying like guys should taste it themselves b4 judging and some taste good some not so good.
like=not swallowing
love=swallowing
Even if you do not like the taste alot of women will grin and bear it if they love you while if they don't they wont. And the texture can be hard to take sometimes as well..some days i can handle it some days its harder..but i think its easier to just quickly swallow and not spit it out for the sake of the guys feelings or ruining the moment and if youre really having a great time some nights you can't wait to taste it..of course like i said i always swallow and even if i dont like the taste that night try to swallow quickly and not let it sit in your mouth even for a moment so that you tatse it even more besides not every guy will announce theyre cuming until its in your mouth and theyre deep in your throat so its hard to pull away and easier to just take it and try not to choke besides the deeper in your mouth and throat the less you taste | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/21/2008 9:21:11 PM | and btw i think swallowing is better personally cuz i dont want a man going down on me and spitting it out when i cum   so why should i not do the same for him..if both parties are diving in and not spitting its more fair and way more hotter | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/21/2008 9:29:40 PM | | For me personally. I don't give oral unless I really really like you and I don't want you down there on me unless I really really like you. So for me it's easy to make the decision to swallow, but the trust has to be there long before this point. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/21/2008 10:18:04 PM |
I say that a woman who doesn't want to reciprocate is selfish.
What is this reciprocity BS? It implies equality, and unless a woman is a "squirter," there's nothing equal about a load of cum and the fluids excreted when a woman orgasms.
If you only want a woman that swallows, that's totally fine and totally on you. The argument that a woman who doesn't swallow isn't reciprocating is weak, though. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/21/2008 10:27:23 PM |
What is this reciprocity BS? It implies equality, and unless a woman is a "squirter," there's nothing equal about a load of cum and the fluids excreted when a woman orgasms.
If you can get guys to buy into that, go for it. Personally, I think it's rather egotistical to suggest that somehow guys produce fluids that are naturally repulsive while you can't imagine that being the case for a woman. Get over it. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/21/2008 10:37:56 PM |
The trouble with threads like this; is that they're just not representative of the real world. Out their in the real world, just the merest suggestion of things like swallowing and anal sex would be enough to instantly end a relationship for ever.
Wrong. Approximately 1/2 of the women I've dated had no issues with swallowing. I don't care either way about anal, so I wouldn't even ask, but several of the women I've dated have asked for it. I think you must be living in a convent.
Wrong? Not saying the original statement is right 'cause there's no real way to prove that. But what makes the women you've dated representative of the rest of the world? 'Cause I highly doubt that you date in a truly random fashion. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/21/2008 10:40:03 PM | Will- sometimes trying something once or twice is enough to know you either do or don't like it. Whether it is some kind of food, sport or sex act.
I don't have to keep trying to eat cooked peas to know I don't like them. I don't need to keep trying to swallow cum to know I don't like that. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/21/2008 10:44:21 PM |
How bout you let your significant other snowball you and you will have your answer!
I eat ****, I don't do blowjobs, so I don't see the point. But, how bout everyone wear hazmat suits so no one gets cooties from actually having sex? | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/21/2008 10:47:36 PM |
If you can get guys to buy into that, go for it. Personally, I think it's rather egotistical to suggest that somehow guys produce fluids that are naturally repulsive while you can't imagine that being the case for a woman. Get over it.
I'm not talking about taste. I'm talking about AMOUNT. Squirters aside, there is nothing equal about the amount of a load of cum and the fluids of a woman's orgasm. It's a fact that you can't argue with (unless you're stupid) and therefore there's nothing to buy into. The reciprocity argument doesn't work because we're talking SIGNIFICANTLY different amounts of bodily fluids.
For the record, have you tasted a load of your own cum? I don't mean no little finger taste either, I mean like swallowed an entire load. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/21/2008 11:23:41 PM | | This really is almost funny now. We have went from swallowing to eating p*ssy to STD's - for goodness sakes, we are all adults here I hope. Sex is meant to be fun and pleasing and natural so let this subject should be between you and your partner. If you can't stand the fact that she won't swallow - you find someone who does. It's not a give and take situation, it's sex. Relax, have fun, and more than that be adventerous! | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/21/2008 11:39:50 PM | Wrong? Not saying the original statement is right 'cause there's no real way to prove that. But what makes the women you've dated representative of the rest of the world? 'Cause I highly doubt that you date in a truly random fashion.
I've been dating for 25+ years. It's true it's not a random sample. I only date women to whom I'm attracted and in general have at least an undergraduate degree, although the latter is due more to circumstance. However, I don't ever ask them about what they will do, so there is nothing that makes them predisposed to thinking about sex any differently than other women. If you would like to claim that attractive women with a lot of education are more likely to swallow, be my guest. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/21/2008 11:42:21 PM |
'm not talking about taste. I'm talking about AMOUNT. Squirters aside, there is nothing equal about the amount of a load of cum and the fluids of a woman's orgasm. It's a fact that you can't argue with (unless you're stupid) and therefore there's nothing to buy into. The reciprocity argument doesn't work because we're talking SIGNIFICANTLY different amounts of bodily fluids.
Then maybe you should eat pvssy instead of giving blowjobs. | |
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