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should age differance be a deal breaker in a relationship Posted: 7/12/2009 4:55:19 AM
Sometimes other people's experiences inspire us or enlighten us in search for answers to our own questions. My sister's best friend at age 21 became involved with her boss who was 20 years older than her. He was married, had 3 children and a great job. He divorced his wife and married his 21 yr old secretary. They never had children because he had to pay child support throughout their marriage. Now he is 81 years old ( my mother's age) and she is my age 59. She lead a very naive life and has been faithful to him todate. However now he has had many strokes, cannot walk, and she is his caretaker. Yes, she will never have to worry about money in "her" senior years; however, she is caring for him as if he were here invalid parent :( When I viewed their recent photo.. she was still so beautiful and as much as I hated to say it..he looked liked her dying father :( If a picture could say a thousand words.. that picture said it all !! Hope this some help... Do you want this precious young lady to be your caretaker when she is 59?