| Men old enough to be your father....
Posted: 6/9/2007 12:27:02 AM | They're afraid of death and they think if they can get together with a younger female, they will feel sexy, hence, young. I actually once made a table from Match.com, tabulating the average age men 40 and over were looking for. At 40 men were on average looking for women 10-13 years younger. At 50, they wanted women 10-15 years younger. At 60, they wanted women 20-25 years younger.
The women that they preferred, age 30 on average, were only looking for men, on average THREE years older. So, do these men take into consideration the desires of the young women they pursue?
Additionally, younger women, with newer, unformed perceptions, are perceived as easier to control. Many older men have failed with same age mates and have a desire to be looked up to, hence, pursuit of younger, more malleable females. | |
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| Men old enough to be your father....
Posted: 6/9/2007 3:51:54 PM | did I hear people judging? some people are so worried about age miss out the good ones.
I make that mistake and regret it every day | |
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cj361
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Joined: 9/20/2007
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| Men old enough to be your father....
Posted: 10/4/2007 9:14:51 PM | | Personally the age thing falls into two different areas of life. I've been the cougar in a relationship dating a guy that was 8 years younger, and discovered that we were at different levels in needs. I'd have a really hard time dating someone or being intimate with someone who could be my father. Not so much for the visual stigma, but the interest and future I associate with being someone who is 10+ years older. I do believe that age has a definite relation on where you're at in your life and what you're looking for and what the needs are. Again its my personal choice for intimate relationships. If you're just looking for friends, people to hang with and have good conversations with.. age shouldn't matter and doesn't matter to me. | |
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| Men old enough to be your father....
Posted: 10/9/2007 10:59:32 PM | | What can I say ladies, but bot men and women are to blame. Men look for yougergirls because the older women are looking for younger guys. I am 53 and according to the stats handed down from women, a women matures 10 years fast then man, That would mean if I was looking for the same level of maturity in a women she would have to be 43. But at the same time if I was a physical person and went by the rules of most women, I would be looking for a man with 6 pack abs, 6 inches taller, a secured job, man must have credit card for security check. Ok maybe I am getting carred away, but the point is we all have our little qwerps! If all you are worried about is sex, thats no problem because the relationship no mater the age, size, or money will never work or be happy. I always thought and looked for a relationship with a foundation from the heart. its also amazing how many girls are young and go after a guy with money. "Hit and Run". Not all girls are like that, I will not accept that. But without going into, I am old enough to know stuff and just have you stop, look around, life is very short, be happy no mater what it takes. Happiness has no age, no size, no color, no money, but it does have a big heart! Ok, someday I will find someone and it will be for their heart, not the other things. | |
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| Men old enough to be your father....
Posted: 10/12/2007 7:20:01 PM | | All you have to do is say no. Get over it. I have women in their sixties write to me fairly regularly. I just do not respond. If you have specified no one over a certain age, they should not be able to write to you. | |
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| Men old enough to be your father....
Posted: 10/21/2007 10:20:49 AM | | I believe that you can set up your profile herein to exclude specific ages. I do not believe you can do this to a pre-existing profile. You will lose your activity points when you delete your old one but you may value that piece of mind. | |
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| Men old enough to be your father....
Posted: 3/10/2008 3:02:18 PM | | I think the old fat decrepit geezers do it just to see your stomach turn when you meet them. Damn even the thought of it, puts me off eating, makes you put down that piece of cake in a hurry. It is just so disgusting, it is just a sign of their huge fat dumb old egos, and its all downhill fast from there. | |
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| Men old enough to be your father....
Posted: 3/12/2008 7:39:15 PM | "I think the old fat decrepit geezers do it just to see your stomach turn when you meet them. Damn even the thought of it, puts me off eating, makes you put down that piece of cake in a hurry. It is just so disgusting, it is just a sign of their huge fat dumb old egos, and its all downhill fast from there."
You are quite the snakecharmer aren't you. | |
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| Men old enough to be your father....
Posted: 3/13/2008 12:32:31 PM | Sometimes it works the other way too. I attended college a couple of years ago and was hit on by a couple of girls young enough to be my daughter.
I came to the conclusion not to go there because we would be ruining each others lives if something long term evolved. (i have had my kids already) | |
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| Men old enough to be your father....
Posted: 3/14/2008 5:43:41 PM | Its not my fault I like snakes and Komodo Dragons better than old fat lecherous geezers... takes grandpa's walking stick off him, beats him thoroughly, heads off into the romantic sunset with a crocodile instead....damn at least I won't get gummed to death.... It's alright, just haven't met any charmers for a while, no wonder people look to animals....blows kisses and steps on heads on the way out....haven't giggled and laughed at any grandpa efforts for a while, some people will do anything for a laugh.
Damn it really is a lark to have them jumping fences and running/puffing to keep up with you, then they complain of being sore...chuckles...aw are you?....sniggers.... | |
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| Men old enough to be your father....
Posted: 3/27/2008 6:37:33 PM | At 52, I'm healthier and happier than I've ever been, thanks to my bicycle and lovers of various ages. I've had partners as much as 15 years older than I and as much as 25 years younger. Each relationship had beauty for as long as it lasted. I'm still on good terms with most of my past lovers and I'm not aware of anybody still feeling bitterness toward me. When I hurt someone, I try to make amends.
When I reach out toward somebody, I'm just trying to be friendly. I don't ask for much and when I do, I'm prepared to be refused. I don't want you to do anything for me that you don't enjoy. Please keep an open mind to all the loving possibilities. | |
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| Men old enough to be your father....
Posted: 3/28/2008 2:32:32 PM | Old is old and fat is fat, Grandpa there really is no argueing with fact....
25 years younger - I hope you got a spanking, how absolutely disgusting, Ewww! | |
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| Men old enough to be your father....
Posted: 4/2/2008 9:17:39 AM | | I made the mistake of looking at a file that appeared to be an older lady. It was a very simple look at a profile. My picture showed up because I dont hide the fact thaT iM LOOKING AT PROFILES. jUST BECAUSE SOMEONE LOOKS AT YOUR PROFILE DOES NOT MEAN THEY WANT YOU. get over yourself! If any further corresponsdance is made then that crosses the line. If you are so worried about someone seeing your profile then hide it. Not every one is out to get in the sack on this site. Some of us just want to read about people and genuinely enjoy the various activities and words spoken by the opposite sex. You should be more concerned with the idiots who give you a 1 on your profile. | |
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