| Is asking for sisters phone numbers OK? Posted: 10/8/2008 4:15:18 AM | | I am looking for honest opinions and comments. True story: A woman mets a guy, and they chat several times, meet and become friends. They end up in bed a few times. She shares a picture of her sisters with him and he asks for their phone numbers. She is upset and he thinks there was nothing wrong with showing interest in the woman's sisters. What do you think? Thanks. | |
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| Is asking for sisters phone numbers OK? Posted: 10/8/2008 4:32:12 AM | lol no
no its not okay
i cant fathom in my mind a situation where that would actually be considered alright.
or even justifiable
especially that early in the dating game.
if they even are dating for that matter.
which if they arent
then its still ridiculous
so either way, its just a bad situation all the way around | |
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| Is asking for sisters phone numbers OK? Posted: 10/8/2008 4:49:38 AM | | Me think this guy has no clue. Guys can do some really stupid things, What this guy did make stupid look like genius. Dumb does not even scratch the surface of how bad an idea that was. | |
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| Is asking for sisters phone numbers OK? Posted: 10/8/2008 5:36:29 AM | | ROFL... that clueless putz has a hefty set if he thinks he can ask that and get away with it! i hope she ended up showing him the door! :) | |
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| Is asking for sisters phone numbers OK? Posted: 10/8/2008 6:48:19 AM | OMFG.. are you that dense?
NO, it's not OK. It's never ok to ask for the numbers of other women (friends, sisters, aunts, cousins, etc...) from someone you just had sex with.
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| Is asking for sisters phone numbers OK? Posted: 10/8/2008 8:16:37 AM | OP: So, a guy asked a FWB for her sisters' numbers? Sisters he's never met, but apparently liked the looks of, I'm guessing? Not cool. I suppose that it would possibly be okay to ask for an introduction, depending on how the FWB relationship was defined between the two... or to ask for the number of one of the sisters who he'd met and got along with well, but had forgot to ask for her number at that time. Of course, that would kinda depend on the relationship between the sisters. If none of them would be willing to date a former FWB of one of the other sisters, it would be pointless... but presumably he should know these kinds of things before asking. Still... he's just a FWB. There's no exclusivity involved in that, and he's still free to look around. If he's interested in one of her sisters, and there's any sort of a chance there, I don't see any problems... other than at family gatherings in the future, that is. It's impossible to be certain he didn't take that sort of thing into account before asking, though... so I won't rush to condemn him. | |
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| Is asking for sisters phone numbers OK? Posted: 10/8/2008 9:01:55 AM | | Even if the asking...on the guy's part ...wasn't the epitomy of tacky most sisters, even if they get along great, tend to be competitive. NO WAY would I take my sisters left-overs. | |
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| Is asking for sisters phone numbers OK? Posted: 10/8/2008 9:15:30 AM |
I am looking for honest opinions and comments. True story: A woman mets a guy, and they chat several times, meet and become friends. They end up in bed a few times. She shares a picture of her sisters with him and he asks for their phone numbers. She is upset and he thinks there was nothing wrong with showing interest in the woman's sisters. What do you think? Thanks.
Right and wrong in this case are decided by the moral values held and any emotional or physical expectations. I would say it is wrong and an insult to the woman but I know some women who wouldn’t care and actually might hook you up. | |
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| Is asking for sisters phone numbers OK? Posted: 10/8/2008 10:58:57 AM | long sigh... ok this thread made my "dating for dummies book I am writing". (wink)
Anyone with a Credit Card can pre-order a copy! LOL
Cheers
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| Is asking for sisters phone numbers OK? Posted: 10/8/2008 11:11:25 AM | Unfortunately, this guy seems to be able to get into at least ONE woman's pants... There seems to be a trend of the idiots of this world actually getting the opportunity to breed.
--What would DARWIN have to say about that???? 
edit: I think he might say: 'stupid must be the new black.' | |
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| Is asking for sisters phone numbers OK? Posted: 10/8/2008 11:22:07 AM | long sigh... ok this thread made my "dating for dummies book I am writing". (wink)
Anyone with a Credit Card can pre-order a copy! Dating For Dummies is already available in book stores and on Amazon dot com, starting at $4.95 for the paperback edition. Used additions available from as little as 0.01. Yup, that's ONE CENT!
Sorry Cowboy, great idea, but someone beat you to it...  | |
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| Is asking for sisters phone numbers OK? Posted: 10/8/2008 11:25:18 AM | LOL It was a joke ! I use it on goofy forum posts. I am NOT writing a book OK? Although I do have enough stories after 3 years from me and my dates. LMAO
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| Is asking for sisters phone numbers OK? Posted: 10/8/2008 11:32:16 AM | | OP I had to go check your profile after reading your post. Imagine my surprise to find this question coming from a 49 year old woman. It just goes to show that the old adage "with age comes wisdom" does not hold true for everyone. | |
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| Is asking for sisters phone numbers OK? Posted: 10/8/2008 11:33:03 AM | I have no idea what this guy was thinking (well Ok, I do..) But that is one of the most mind boggeling stupid things I have ever heard.
How was he expecting this to go ?
"Hi there, you dont know me, but I just got done taping your sisters sweet, sweet ass a few times and thought you might like a go. Wadda ya say?" | |
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