| Should a woman call a guy the day after they have sex?
Posted: 10/10/2008 9:58:20 AM |
That being said, you could svoid the question entirely by staying together until morning and then making plans for dinner.
Yikes, that's an awful lot of work to avoid a phone call...don't ya think? | |
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| Should a woman call a guy the day after they have sex?
Posted: 10/10/2008 12:32:12 PM |
I not only approach men I like, I prefer that to men approaching me. Then again I don't see it as accept/reject. Someone who barely knows me can't "reject" me. It's more that they aren't attracted to me, that's no one's fault, it's just a mismatch or one sided deal. Nothing to sweat over.
DJ, you've been one of the most consistently progressive women on POF, a real breath of fresh air, and cute to boot. Could you and all your clones please relocate to the west coast? We need you here . . . | |
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| Should a woman call a guy the day after they have sex?
Posted: 10/10/2008 1:14:52 PM | | If your/his jaws still work, and aren't too sore, you may as well talk to each other...but why the H does it have to be one the F-in phone? Arrange a visit, talk in person, and then have another great time together. Forget the phone. Email him an invite to come over. You don't have to wait for him to email you. | |
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| Should a woman call a guy the day after they have sex?
Posted: 10/10/2008 3:39:50 PM | | The only thing that should concern him is if you call him during sex with you. That might be a deal breaker. Seriously where do these time tables come from and have you noticed that the people that have these time sensitive rules are always single. | |
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| Should a woman call a guy the day after they have sex?
Posted: 10/11/2008 8:19:34 PM | If I had a great night of sex, she would still be with me, so no need for a phone call...
even later that night I wouldn't expect a call because I'd be having an early night on account of me being exhausted
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TrinB
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Joined: 4/27/2008
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| Should a woman call a guy the day after they have sex?
Posted: 10/11/2008 10:25:30 PM | Modern times?
That phrase is so over used.
It was modern times when my grand parents were young and alive.
Oh,yes, it was still modern times as long as they were alive.
Yes, women have the intelligence to call men at any time . | |
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| Should a woman call a guy the day after they have sex?
Posted: 10/12/2008 7:24:20 AM | | Well this IS 2008 so I hope women can call the next day or even t hat same night..cause this one does. While I try to wait for them to call, and not just after sleeping with someone because well, that is not for everyone, just normally after a date. however, I try to wait for them to call and then realize that Im a grown woman! and can call just as easily as they can..so I do.. | |
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| Should a woman call a guy the day after they have sex?
Posted: 10/12/2008 8:36:26 AM | HELLO--ENGLISH BLOKE AGAIN!! sure she should call him again if the sex was that good nowt wrong with phoning for another portion do it for a pizza dont you happens to me all the time(I wish)  | |
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| Should a woman call a guy the day after they have sex?
Posted: 10/12/2008 6:02:12 PM | NO!!!!!
put down the phone!
don't do it!
step away from the phone!
lol!
huge mistake!
look...if a man is really into you he WILL LET YOU KNOW! it'll be VERY OBVIOUS! if he's not, he might be happy to sleep with you until someting he thinks is "better" comes along. so if you dn't want to be "THAT GIRL" put down the phone and let him do the pursuing...
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| Should a woman call a guy the day after they have sex?
Posted: 10/12/2008 6:30:36 PM | I totally agree Lar. I think that the man should do the calling after sex or what you think is a good date. That is how I usually know if a guy is really interested. No, it's not ALWAYS the case, but it usually is. If they don't care after a date or after I've been with someone for awhile, it means something. If I keep doing all the calling or emailing and he keeps replying, it might only be because I am making the effort.
I guess you can say that I've been burned a few times. This approach won't work for every guy, but it's worked pretty well for me.
The problem is that I have a very hard time going days without calling or emailing. | |
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iris43
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Joined: 4/20/2007
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| Should a woman call a guy the day after they have sex?
Posted: 10/12/2008 7:17:33 PM | | Any real man that has some class and integrity would call the next day that is of course if he really likes you.....the only reason she is questioning is because she is not too sure if he is into her. If he doesn't call in the next couple of days I would seriously reconsider the relationship. | |
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| Should a woman call a guy the day after they have sex?
Posted: 10/12/2008 7:26:56 PM |
OP, find out if he's willing to stay all night so that the two of you can get up and cook breakfast TOGETHER....not one making it for the other. Bake cookies together in the late morning and feed each other as they come out of the oven....then, go grocery shopping together in the afternoon and have the butcher cut a couple steaks rather than picking a couple out of the case.....go down the ice cream aisle together for dessert later....then, no phone calls needed the next day.
Smokin! now that's what I'd call a good weekend! 
OP - go ahead and call, what have ya got to lose? | |
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| Should a woman call a guy the day after they have sex?
Posted: 10/12/2008 9:20:26 PM |
DJ, you've been one of the most consistently progressive women on POF, a real breath of fresh air, and cute to boot. Could you and all your clones please relocate to the west coast? We need you here . . .
I don't have clones, I am one of a kind...which is why I am so refreshing, see? Catch 22...if everyone was like I was I'd blend too much.
Call??? NO!!! You should be making him breakfast!!!!! Or if your at his place, he should be making it for you!!
Assuming you want them to stay in your place or that you'd stay at theirs. Once it's done, don't both of you want to get some sleep in their own freaking bed undisturbed? Not everyone does the sleepover thing.
No ladies let him put forth the effort to contact you don't be all in his face.
AGAIN, didn't she say he called her first after the fact on the same night? She's asking if she should call AFTER he called her already. If I am wrong, please correct me but that's how the OP read. | |
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| Should a woman call a guy the day after they have sex?
Posted: 10/13/2008 4:33:54 AM | | I made a thread stating that women wait for a lot of things in life from men eg. men to plan date, men to send e-mails, men to make it exclusive and most women thought I was waaayyy off. Well now her is a girl who I assume has had sex before. Why not use past experience to guide you with problem. I would think having sex with a man for the first time would make you more nervous than picking up a telephone. Exactly how do you keep score with who called who first and why does it matter? Are you scared that he will think your into him? Are women as independant as they think the are? | |
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| Should a woman call a guy the day after they have sex?
Posted: 10/17/2008 9:55:53 AM | | Wait a couple of days..he should make the first move. His call does count..as he wants to make sure you're available for another booty call..depending on his age..this could be 2-3 days..or 4-5 days..but dont worry..if the sex was as great as u say it was..he WILL call, although it might be around 10pm..(to cum over)..lol | |
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| Should a woman call a guy the day after they have sex?
Posted: 10/18/2008 7:49:39 AM | There is absolutely nothing wrong with giving a phone call the next day. If the man and woman thought enough of each other to get intimate together, I would hope there is enough of a comfort level between the two for the woman to call the man. I would do it.
Of course his call when he got home 'counts'!! What exactly are you counting? Did the phone call you receive make you feel happy? Then maybe he will feel the same way to get a call back. Some guys appreciate when the woman takes some initiative. | |
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