| How can I stop my ex moving her man in?
Posted: 10/9/2008 3:03:34 PM | I have always found badger a bit tough and hard to get out of the teeth. They are nocturnal creatures and you must have good night vision to nab one with your trusty crossbow.Aw you poor baby, stuck in a tree in the rain with cold tea and a chip on both shoulders.If only you had a fish to go with those chips.A laptop that works on oxygen and a Dean Koontz internet diploma in cheesy fiction.
I am sure your ex would be dead chuffed, to know you were still watching over her after 2 years.If I was you I,d move into the attic to keep a closer eye.You could bore some spy holes in the ceiling, to see if he was better than you in the sack.Get yourself some camping equipment, Winter is coming and It will be a cold one. | |
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| How can I stop my ex moving her man in?
Posted: 10/9/2008 3:10:18 PM | Be proud you are a survivor. And a skilled survivalist.
But if you achieved your goal of preventing another man from living with your ex wife, then what will you have truly accomplished?
Are you thinking she will miss your skills and ask for you to come back and live there instead of him?
What have you done to woo her back, and change her mind?
Have threats of bodily harm ever worked before between you? If that is the case, consider your children better off with you two not together.
Or is this just going to be an act of vengeance--making her as lonely as you are?
The best revenge is a life well-lived.
Being a true survivor is knowing what is truly worth fighting for.
Lost money and posessions can be earned again. Lost dignity, honor and pride is not earned back as easily.
If her character and integrity are worse than yours, or she hasn't matured and grown as much as you have, then consider that you can't influence her any more from the backyard than when you were together.
You should be commended for the fact that your ex wife, whom you once loved and cherished, and your precious children are safe and warm and well-cared for. Be proud that you have provided well for one family.
And since you are strong, smart and resourceful, you can do it again for yourself, and for any future companion you choose to share your life with.
Your life is not over--its only beginning. A new life, filled with new adventures, and tests of your perserverence, flexibility, and courage. | |
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| How can I stop my ex moving her man in?
Posted: 10/9/2008 5:22:31 PM |
And since you are strong, smart and resourceful, you can do it again for yourself, and for any future companion you choose to share your life with.
I bet he could write a book entitled "101 Uses for a Dead Badger". When it wins the Nobel Prize for literature, he will be able to BUY a new life...and pay his child support.
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| How can I stop my ex moving her man in?
Posted: 10/9/2008 8:20:19 PM | lol....
I am with Cowboy on this one! I think someone wants some attention. By the way, OP..how do you cook badger? How did you catch the little crusty critter in the first place? Love to hear more of your story....yes...you could be a good creative writer. | |
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| How can I stop my ex moving her man in?
Posted: 10/9/2008 8:38:12 PM | while you paint a very sombre picture, i suspect there is more to this than you care to reveal...every story has 2 sides, and we're only seeing the version you've carefully scripted for our benefit. i don't think any parent should use children as a tool to manipulate or inflict hurt upon an ex, nor do i think a non-custodial parent should be denied access to their children (barring cases of abuse or endangerment) -- get legal advice and enforce your visitation rights.
however, that being said, OP, i also don't think you have the right to dictate the terms of your ex-wife's intimate life, just as she shouldn't dictate yours. if your ex-wife's current bf isn't harming or abusing or otherwise endangering your children, then you have no grounds to exclude him or limit his involvement in your wife's life despite your own bitterness regarding the matter. | |
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| How can I stop my ex moving her man in?
Posted: 10/9/2008 9:50:48 PM | Why does it matter what your ex does, or who she has over. She is your ex, so who gives a $hit about her. Go live your life, get over it man. Like others have said, your kids need a dad, not some freak camping in the forest.
Take a walk, go on a date, visit museums, go see a play, a movie, a concert. Find a girlfriend, go live your life. Don't put it on hold, life is for the living and you have to move on. | |
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| How can I stop my ex moving her man in?
Posted: 10/9/2008 10:14:56 PM | | The operative phrase in your whine was "former home". It isn't yours to do anything with, or about, any more. Move on. Forget it, her, and him. Trying to always re-fight the previous battle-that you've already lost-may be why the ex is ex, and the former home is former. Why should you see the kids if you won't support them? Roasted badger is damned yummy compared to some things. Wait until you are reduced to dining on****oaches, and sipping recycled urine. Then you will have something to complain about...but a big SAS boy like you won't will you? One can only negotiate if one has something to bring to the table. You don't sound like you have much, so you should forget solutions, and just learn to accept what is. | |
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| How can I stop my ex moving her man in?
Posted: 10/9/2008 11:40:22 PM | Rather than concern yourself and obsess about your ex-wife's lifestyle (which is really not your business), why not get your own life back on track? It seems to me like your off the rails. You have children to think about and who need your guidance, but your wasting your time stalking your ex-wife and obsessing about what food and drink she consumes. Focus on your children nd their needs and start setting a positive example. A family doctor can recommend some counselling for you.
In my opinion a man who fathers children is financially responsible for those children as well as the children's mother. Hopefully you are paying child support and being a responsible father. It's sad that you would complain about financially supporting your own kids.
I believe there are 2 sides to every story. | |
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| How can I stop my ex moving her man in?
Posted: 10/9/2008 11:42:55 PM | | You can't stop her from moving her man in. It's her life and her business whom she becomes involved with. She seems to be financially providing for the children hopefull you are as well. | |
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| How can I stop my ex moving her man in?
Posted: 10/10/2008 12:34:06 AM | Im with "Cowboy" on this,too.
What a cracker of a story........................!!!
Op,you have a vivid imagination,& i enjoyed the read...
How do you know they were enjoying an indian feast?
Were you peeping at them through the trees?
LOL !
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| How can I stop my ex moving her man in?
Posted: 10/10/2008 1:52:52 AM | Seems to me OP...you've several issues that need to be addressed.
Firstly...your ex wife.
Unfortunately she has no taste in wine.
Her choice of the Pinot Grigio with Indian cuisine leaves a little to be desired in my opinion.
Although I concede its a common misconception...Id suggest Viognier.
For all our sakes...please legibly pen that information reversed on the window condensation in the same timbre as One Flew Over the Cuckoos nest and Redrum to be sure she gets the message.
Id hate to see her make the same mistake twice.
Secondly...as you know...badger meat...although high in calcium...may indeed cause trichinellosis.
I suggest you refrain from roasting the vermin and instead boil the carcass to reduce parasitic levels.
Cos if you think you look like shit now...then thats exactly what you'll be doing in the middle of the woods.
With limited lavatory facilities... and for as visually elegant the ruffage appeal of foliage may be... I daresay your nether regions may not be so grateful.
As for your conundrum...either assume your lot in life, build a debris hut and enjoy watching your children grow to adulthood via nightvision goggles...or personally I think the longbow is your best option.
You're in the woods. No-one will ever find the bodies.
FYI as a general rule, a body exposed to open air will decay the same amount in one day as a body in water in one week and a body buried underground in one month.
And dont forget heat speeds decay... cold slows it down.
Bet thats not in the SAS Survival Guide
Just tell the kids...mummy ran away with her boyfriend.
Cos as you can see...people will believe anything.
Good luck!
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Posted: 10/10/2008 2:30:50 AM | Of course yanno badgers are a protected species dontcha!
Ok, brilliant writing, but here in the UK we have such a thing called a benefits system. So as long as you go sign on the dotted line to say you are available and looking for work, you will receive a small (very small) allowance with which to buy food etc. We also have provision for genuinely homeless people, where they will be given accommodation, even if it is in a guest house or a hostel. Another benefit will help pay the rent on this if the person does not have adequate income to pay for it. You are well educated so my guess is that you already know all this and are pulling our legs.
Now, onto the child support......you stingy thing...she asks for so much...you offer a little less...just pay something for goodness sakes. Even a person on benefits would be expected to pay a tiny amount. Children do not come cheap.
As for the stalking...I bet you're not lol...you wouldn't wouldya? Now be a good boy and go find another game to play cus this one is actually not nice and pretty scary for your kids if you are really doing it. | |
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Posted: 10/10/2008 3:06:00 AM | Like Kyn, I am primarily concerned with your ex wife's taste in wine, I mean, she is raising children and there is the danger that her taste in wine will eventually rub off on them as they grow.
But I would never make a blanket endorsement without know what Indian food she is actually eating. With tandoori, sure I would say a viognier, hands down. However, with tikka marsala... a dry reisling, and with biryani, a pinot noir. With vindaloo, perhaps a beaujolais.
I just feel like I need more information.
There is the hip Rocky Mountain Vineyards Road Kill Red that might add a piquant touch to your badger meal. Actually it's not a good match, as it's sweet and well, sort of nasty. I think a full bodied cab might do nicely.
I am stunned you can find a badger in the forest of the UK. They used to gas them for diseases. I know they eat them as a shish kabob and goulash in Eastern European countries, but how tasty can they be and they are sort of vicious and hard to catch. Aren't there any vegetarian beasts in the woods there?
Now the burning question, how is it that you have internet access in the woods? Are you stealing your ex wife's wireless bandwidth? Bad form. | |
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| How can I stop my ex moving her man in?
Posted: 10/11/2008 9:42:55 PM | | I understand your in the woods bit is a joke? I hope! I feel for u man but pay the fifty bucks and move on.If you want to stop the guy from moving in just beat his ass! thats what we do here in the states,it works pretty good.If u win he wont be moving in if u lose u look like a complete **** to your kids lol,so win!. | |
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| How can I stop my ex moving her man in?
Posted: 10/12/2008 12:44:22 AM | | £50 is $100 Canadian. You say "kids" so that's like $400/month which isn't bad. While she shouldn't threaten you, you should just pay it willingly. I don't think you can "stop" her from whatever she chooses to do relationship wise now. It's her life now, not yours. Yes, maybe your kids are involved, but lets face it.......having kids doesn't mean she can't "date" or have sex with someone if she chooses to do so. Sounds like you're still jealous/bitter and there's a lot of unstableness between the 2 of you now. I think apart from the kids; mind your own business on her life without you. | |
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Posted: 10/12/2008 5:28:24 PM | I suspect OP is doing a tongue-in-cheeky about men who hate everything to do with divorce and child-support laws.
I have known many men who went out, over and beyond ( the effort and energy they took astonishes me!) themselves to escape paying the b*tch a dime. They figured that any penny given towards child support went to her partying up with other men.
These men have quit good jobs and careers so that they can say they have no money to give her.
I see OP has good credentials for career.
I think he wrote his story to get some sort of response...from?? | |
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| How can I stop my ex moving her man in?
Posted: 10/21/2008 7:28:07 PM |
Now she is threatening that unless I pay at least £50 per week towards the upkeep of the kids she will obtain an order preventing me from seeing them.
Are you serious ? Fifty quid? I spend more than that on cigarettes a week.
You are complaining?
I think you should made a documentary about your harsh experience camped outside your ex wifes home, the ratings would be fantastic! | |
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Posted: 10/21/2008 7:39:00 PM | Yeah.. well I am from Oxford, MS and I think the OP is full-o-beans.. that is.. full of what comes out the south end of a horse... sheesh..
Don't believe a word of the survivalist rant.. maybe the child support deal is true.. but.. get a good attorney.. hey if you are already divorced.. you should already have a child support agreement shouldn't you??
So I think you are even more full of the equine fertilizer.. don't believe one sintilla of this. But I think you could make your 50 quid selling your fertilizer. | |
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Posted: 10/21/2008 8:34:41 PM | How much you want for that property?
This man is off his rocker. I wouldn't let him see the kids if what he wrote is the truth. If he is divorced, his ex is entitled to a life too. If she has found love, let her enjoy it. Life is too short.
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Posted: 10/21/2008 9:05:58 PM | To the colorful and highly entertaining (albeit a bit on the scary side), I must say thank you for this entire thread.
To the readers who have been so candid and honest in their responses, bravo and thank you for making me fall off of my couch in fits of laughter, I needed that!!
Lets say for sanity sake that there is just an ounce of truth in ANYTHING this man has said....I will give my input, which he has so graciously solicited.
He needs tolietries being sequestered in the woods I would imagine proper hygiene could pose a real issue, I offer to start the collection drive to get him some TP, a tooth brush, some floss and a razor...we can't have him looking like the Unibomber when he goes to pick up his kids now can we?
He is posting in this forum while hunkered down in the rain, while drinking tea..someone get Bill Gates on the phone pronto...Mircosoft will be all over this sh*t!!!
with the money he makes from selling his "waterproof" laptop, he can then pay his meager child support
Or possibly pay for his defense when he is arrested and charged with STALKING!
OP...please keep us updated and entertained, this is one great story!!!
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Posted: 10/21/2008 10:05:56 PM | Well,honestly I really simpathy with the fellow that brought up the story.
I used to work in the legal system...What can I say?.It really sucks.the worst of this is that sociopaths can make your life miserable.they can falsely accuse you of any form,size and shape of abuse,and that is all it takes to get you out of the sight of your children.Who wins the battle of children's custody under a marriage conflict??the soci path wins!.that is to say the parent that can fabricate and manipulate the most lies wins it all.Tax payers money go to promote and finance liars and vindictive/resentfull sicopaths
What must you be aware of??.Please,pay attention to these issues..Parent alienation syndrome is in fashion nowdays!.
What is parent alienation syndrome??.It is a a form of brainwashing,manipulation and indoctrination of your children by the sociopath parent(most of the time) in the process of inculcating propaganda against the other parent.this might even take the forms of serious accusations that might put the other parent behind the bar!..it is a form of child abuse..but the objective is to take the "thinker" away from home..so the other parent cand do as he/she pleases .Most of the time regardless of morality and ethics!.
My advise is,"get her out of your heart now",before it is too late..".once a cheater always a cheater"!!.
and listen to this carefully:She is already corrupted,she is a sociopath...get her out of your life before she can make your life more miserable than what she is doing so far!!.
my advise to everyone:Do not get into relationship with cheaters..for they are psycopaths/sociopaths.Get her out of your mind!.do not think through her head..she is out..be happy!!!get a another woman soon!
I can prove all I stated here!
Franco.
Stay away from psyco and sociopaths!
Ciao MAN! | |
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| How can I stop my ex moving her man in?
Posted: 10/21/2008 10:55:42 PM | How did this thread not get deleted?
Either it's a put on, which I suspect to be true, or else the OP is a total loser. You're complaining about 50 pounds a week? What is that in real money? Like $360/month. With one child, in the U.S., you're required to pay 20% for one child, 25% for 2. So, that's less than a $20,000/year income. You can make that much working at Wal-Mart or McDonald's.
So, if the story is straight, you are stalking her and refusing to pay child support,and you think you have a right to have an issue about her letting a boyfriend move in? She probably needs to, to make up for the child support that you aren't paying.
Advice? Pay your child support, and move on with your life. | |
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| How can I stop my ex moving her man in?
Posted: 10/22/2008 12:42:12 AM | Well it should be blindingly obvious. You're going about it all wrong!
Any good general knows he is only as strong as his army!
Haven't you watched those kids shows...
Ok the first thing you need to do is learn how to communicate with the wildlife. There is sure to be some friendly old bear or funnily stupid dears in the area.
These guys are always more than happy to help out and with a few cliche pep talks you should be able to motivate them to help you build like a giant house made out of chocolate or something right across the road from you wife's place.
Of course your kids just won't be able to resist this temptation, and they will love all your new animal friends!
I'm sure that once your wife sees how much fun your children are having and how much you care she will dump that guy in a heart beat and with a magical kiss as the moon sets suddenly everything will be ok!
Don't give up now dude, it's all so close!
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