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| Why some women don't like receiving oral
Posted: 10/18/2008 3:01:08 PM | I used to love oral with my high school sweetheart, because we weren't having SEX, we were both really into oral.
When we broke up when I was 17, the thought of receiving oral sex became more and more repulsive. Whenever a guy would try I would stop him. You know that guilty feeling you get in your stomach when you have done something awful? That is the feeling I would get whenever a guy would go anywhere near me with his mouth.
I think it is because the only oral experience I had was when I was quite young. Too young as far as I am concerned. So, as I grew up and I changed a lot, the thought of 15-17 year old me receiving oral sex made me feel awful and really ashamed.
Within the last couple months I have started a new relationship. My boyfriend always begged and begged to go down on me, so finally I said it was ok. Wow...what on earth have I been missing?
A lot of the reasons that girls dont like it are psychological. As long as you make them feel comfortable and at ease, they will eventually feel safe enough to give the OK! | |
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| Why some women don't like receiving oral
Posted: 10/18/2008 7:25:53 PM | | All women are different and most can orgasm best one certain way (in my experience and through reading - like this foreum). Some can have their best orgasms orally, some orgasm best through intercourse and some can orgasm only by manual (finger) in an O direction counterclockwise (a couple of ladies have told me and they were right). My guess is the ladies had bad experiences in the past with oral sex (like some people have mentioned here) and know what they like - just go with it - if you really get in a good relationship with them later on then maybe you can gently encourage someone to try it again with you - you never know. I've read that some ladies had a bigger hood or more skin or tissue covering the clitoris and that made it harder for them to feel pleasure and orgasm - when the doctor cut away some of the excess skin around the clitoris, they started to experience good orgasms for the first time. | |
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