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 cruzzinbruzzin
Joined: 7/15/2008
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I always tell my lady friends who are concerned about anal in general to not allow a man access anywhere he is not willing to put his tongue first...so yeah, if you're worried about cleanliness - a nice hot washcloth first, some flavored oil, and a fun picnic to follow baby, with a little tossed salad..
 amazingme313
Joined: 2/3/2007
Msg: 102
Why do men want to finger your behind?
Posted: 11/26/2008 12:09:28 AM
because they are on the line of being gay
 Phlostone
Joined: 8/22/2008
Msg: 103
Why do men want to finger your behind?
Posted: 11/26/2008 1:50:01 AM
I have not read all posts but it seems a complementary issue is not being discussed.

Why do women not finger our "behind"? Or perhaps I should ask why don't we ask them to?

The same issues of sensory areas in the male anus apply. In masturbation I enjoy fingering my anus and feeling its pulsing contraction during orgasm that for the male may also be hightened by such stimulation - and I do not accept that such pleasure should be restricted to homosexual sex.

For myself I am happy to reserve this "secret" for my personal pleasure and on the few occasions when I have invited a woman to "do me" in this fashion - they have been "rough" and it has not been as I would like it. Perhaps some have had better experiences with this.......
 Ear to hear
Joined: 6/10/2008
Msg: 104
Why do men want to finger your behind?
Posted: 11/26/2008 5:50:55 AM
Some like it and some dont...havnt met anyone who wanted that but they say fingering her arse heightens her climax.....
 IMURS4U
Joined: 6/17/2007
Msg: 105
Why do men want to finger your behind?
Posted: 11/26/2008 6:04:43 AM
All this talk about BUTT...on fingering has me turned on
 two gypsy
Joined: 10/6/2008
Msg: 106
Why do men want to finger your behind?
Posted: 11/26/2008 7:42:28 AM
I saw a t-shirt that had BUTT THE OTHER VAGINA, written on it.
 SMMB1971
Joined: 9/22/2007
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Why do men want to finger your behind?
Posted: 11/26/2008 9:40:22 AM
two gypsy...nice *lol*
 Bright1Raziel
Joined: 8/20/2005
Msg: 108
Why do men want to finger your behind?
Posted: 11/26/2008 11:37:12 AM
Most things that people do during sex are things they find pleasurable and would like done to them. So sticking a finger up the shitter or biting your neck are just ways of saying would you be rough with me.
 deerdog1
Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 109
Why do men want to finger your behind?
Posted: 11/26/2008 12:39:46 PM
almost every woman can fake an orgasm ..unless I have a finger in her butt... there';s no faking the pulsating convulsions of a woman's bung hole when she cums..not that i suspect any of my lovers are faking
 ~Emerald~
Joined: 3/24/2008
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Why do men want to finger your behind?
Posted: 12/17/2008 10:02:38 PM
because it feels damn good!
got to add - if he's gonna play with my back door, he better be ready for the same, because whats good for the goose is also good for the gander.
 notwow
Joined: 6/9/2008
Msg: 111
Why do men want to finger your behind?
Posted: 12/17/2008 11:02:06 PM

maybe with all the shaving that's been going on in recent years they just missed the target


OK... THAT was funny... lol
 Elgalawaat
Joined: 11/24/2008
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Posted: 12/17/2008 11:32:26 PM
I think really is stupid and only men do it who has very tiny penis. Suppose she farts yuk. I do every thing to her button from kissing and licking except going in with any object. If you want to turn her wild tongue her ass hole. Try it and you will be surprised.
 Cogie36
Joined: 10/23/2008
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Posted: 12/18/2008 7:10:15 AM
Maybe they are trying to make friends like your dog does when he sniffs your hiney.....
 compleat_man
Joined: 10/3/2008
Msg: 114
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Posted: 12/18/2008 2:17:26 PM

f you want to turn her wild tongue her ass hole. Try it and you will be surprised.


mm, yes, by the aromatic brown paste all in your mouth..ewww :(
 celts123
Joined: 5/15/2008
Msg: 115
Why do men want to finger your behind?
Posted: 12/18/2008 2:28:25 PM
I have never fingered a woman's behind. There are many other sexual activities that I would rather be doing with her.
 brian1207
Joined: 12/5/2008
Msg: 116
Why do men want to finger your behind?
Posted: 12/19/2008 7:45:37 PM
Ecstasy lies behind door #2, multiple orgasms, wobbly knees, limp arms, a grin that lasts a month
That is if you have an experienced guy that wants to take you to paradise - bon voyage
 MissSynne
Joined: 10/4/2008
Msg: 117
Why do men want to finger your behind?
Posted: 12/19/2008 7:47:26 PM
Maybe they have a desire to get one up their own bum?

Who knows, I always say what they want to do with me they have to be prepared to get themselves ha ha usually makes a man behave better......
 Pair O Docs
Joined: 10/20/2008
Msg: 118
Why do men want to finger your behind?
Posted: 12/20/2008 12:04:25 AM
Because women are like a box of chocolates.... You never know what you're going to get until you stick your thumb in 'em..................
 fruityxx
Joined: 8/6/2008
Msg: 119
Why do men want to finger your behind?
Posted: 12/20/2008 3:04:07 AM
You maybe didnt realise that there are more germs in your mouth than on the average toilet seat. It has been reported before and well known.

The reason for men doing the finger in the botty, is that it is very sensual, as is licking round the botty. This is called rimming. Yes of course cleanliness is essential. I wouldnt consider anyone going near my bits and pieces unless I had just washed.

The bottom area if the lady likes it is a great area to explore. If a finger feels nice then there are many toys which will also entice. Then also if the man is skilled then his penis in your botty is an amazing experienced and can bring an orgasm very quickly.

It is all personal preference and needs to be agreed by both people.

Experimenting is good fun
 KirstyBez
Joined: 12/16/2008
Msg: 120
Why do men want to finger your behind?
Posted: 12/20/2008 3:45:36 AM
I love it, absolutely love it lol.
 jengonzalez6700
Joined: 12/15/2008
Msg: 121
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Posted: 12/20/2008 8:18:20 AM
the mouth is actually more dirty than the anus as far as bacteria and all
 Smoothsoul
Joined: 2/3/2006
Msg: 122
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Posted: 12/20/2008 8:31:52 AM
I do it to women because i think they like it! That's my kind of woman! Of course i've been with women that didn't care for it at all,but the ones that did,well put it like this...it's was a good night for both of us!
 Thorb
Joined: 7/15/2005
Msg: 123
Why do men want to finger your behind?
Posted: 12/20/2008 1:25:23 PM
Well .... probably when your bucking like a wild bronco
It gives him something to help keep you on
 notwow
Joined: 6/9/2008
Msg: 124
Why do men want to finger your behind?
Posted: 12/20/2008 2:14:01 PM
Well, my current GF is the only one I have not fingered in the behind... yet. She says she wants no anal play at all, but so did most of my other partners, until it happened.

Now, as far as anal sex is concerned, I tried that once, and neither one of us were interested in doing it again. For those of you that enjoy it, great, it's just not for me.

And by the way, I don't see any thing homosexual in tendencies in any guys who happen to like it, nor girls who enjoy receiving it. It's just not me.

The anal area is very sensitive, and it does increase arousal, especially if you are oral on the clitoris, giving her a g-spot massage with one finger, and gently probing the anus with another.

Ask any woman who has taken part in that what the orgasms were like.
 psyche1954
Joined: 12/20/2008
Msg: 125
Why do men want to finger your behind?
Posted: 12/25/2008 11:03:32 AM
Because bi guys like fingering each other... beware when they swtich fingers and you get a whaopping infection...
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