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| If you make her cum orally shouldn't she return the favor?
Posted: 3/24/2009 4:18:34 PM | | I'm actually going to have to say, that after going down on my guy multiple times a week for 3 months, without him ever even trying to pleasure me or get me off once with his hands, or mouth (and we aren't having sex yet, so not with his penis either I suppose), I'm starting to resent it just a little. I do it for him, because I care about him and his pleasure, but I also think it would be nice for him to care at least a little about mine as well. That being said I'm not going to stop doing what I do, but... it gets old when things are one sided. | |
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| If you make her cum orally shouldn't she return the favor?
Posted: 8/20/2009 10:31:32 AM | Well - this seems to be quite the topic for me lately - I love giving blow jobs - it turns me on to watch the affect I can have on my partner! However, I have been in a relationship in which - it is always me giving - and never getting! After many months of this - I have decided to not give anything anymore.....the end.
So it doesn't matter whether you are the guy or the girl - Sex should NEVER be one way - that includes oral sex as well as regular sex. Just my opinion! | |
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| If you make her cum orally shouldn't she return the favor?
Posted: 8/20/2009 1:06:41 PM | | I make it a point to make her cum .... I don't treat it as a give take thing... lets face it .... sex good, bad, or ugly a man will cum reguardless.. Awoman on the other hand not so easy .... so any chance I have to make them cum.. I take it.. | |
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| If you make her cum orally shouldn't she return the favor?
Posted: 8/20/2009 1:44:21 PM | wow, Really? I don't know..I guess I don't view sex in those terms..seems long on the selfish and immature and short on the pleasure if you ask me.
I put my partner first..and he put me first..much more fun that way. | |
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| If you make her cum orally shouldn't she return the favor?
Posted: 8/21/2009 8:39:49 AM | Using your logic, if she goes down on you, aren't you OBLIGATED to go down on her? Say she is in menses - should you have to do it because she did it for you?
A lot of people here have posted about pleasing their partner, and that's great to have that notion. Myself, I go down on a partner because I LIKE IT. Sometimes, there's no orgasm involved. It's what I like to do. Say for example, you have intercourse for a while, then just feel like going down on her...
I will only date girls who like doing what we do. The notion of "the gift" is repulsive to me. If she likes giving head, I'll get mine. But that has nothing to do with me going down on her. I just fvkkin like it.
So if your girl isn't satisfying you in the way that you like, don't have expectations that lead to unspoken resentments, do something about it - talk about it or find someone more compatible with your tastes, no pun intended. | |
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| If you make her cum orally shouldn't she return the favor?
Posted: 8/21/2009 9:15:02 AM | This thread is about a "tit for tat" scenario.
Do it for the enjoyment of satisfying a person whom you care about, not because you expect the person to "pay it back".
Someone who thinks that way has selfish motivations and is not really interested in the feelings of the other person. | |
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| If you make her cum orally shouldn't she return the favor?
Posted: 8/22/2009 1:23:40 PM | | Wow, I give oral because I like to, not for a favor to my man. There are a lot of girls out there that A) don't like giving oral or B) don't like a cumshot in the face / mouth. Just like there are some guys out there that don't enjoy giving oral. Sex isn't about favors. Enjoy it, and stop worrying so much about what is fair. | |
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