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| If you make her cum orally shouldn't she return the favor?
Posted: 10/18/2008 2:14:12 PM | Everyone can beat up on the OP all they want, and as much as I agree with the fact that sex isn't about keeping score, you are all full of it if you can honestly say that you wouldn't be annoyed.
I feel really bad when my boyfriend gets me off orally and I give him nothing in return. Not because he makes me feel that way, but because I want every sexual experience that we have to be amazing for both of us. I know that he enjoys making me happy, and that he would NEVER complain about not getting off. But I do it becaue I want to, and because I think that in a healthy sexual relationship...that is how it works.
So, say what you want about the OP having an immature outlook on sex, but if he is in some sort of relationship where he is giving a woman pleasure every single night and she doesn't even make the effort to get him off, whether it be via oral or sex...I would be frustrated too! | |
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| If you make her cum orally shouldn't she return the favor?
Posted: 10/18/2008 11:47:42 PM | At some point in time yes. Right afterwords no!
When I put my best tongue forward it is to pleasure and please my partner. Not to put her in debt to me!
this is not a game of tit for tat.
Or a game at all! | |
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| If you make her cum orally shouldn't she return the favor?
Posted: 10/20/2008 8:40:08 AM | If she doesn't do it for u then why do it for her and then why stay together when most women like to?
what a childish, incompetent thing to say. It is NOT an I will if you will thing. grow up will ya. a man gets off anyway no matter if its from intercourse or oral or what ever the hell. there is no I will if you will bullshit. There is no love at all just a quick screw. The really dumb idiot things some people can say jsut blows me away. any by the way if you have to have oral to be satisfied with the partner your suppose to love than you shouldnt be with him to begin with. sex does not make a person love another. the heart controls that. | |
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| If you make her cum orally shouldn't she return the favor?
Posted: 10/20/2008 8:54:29 AM | OP,
That's just silly. Why would you expect a lover to be as giving and interested in your pleasure as you are in theirs? Now if you were a woman, and you were giving but not getting, then the no good SOB that you are with would be a worthless excuse for a man. You would be better off moving on. Since you are a man, you're a worthles excuse for a man for bringing it up.  | |
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| If you make her cum orally shouldn't she return the favor?
Posted: 10/20/2008 9:03:33 AM |
There is always 69
Visions of loud, boisterour POF crowd, gesticulating, and demure Dempcey, in quiet voice, offers these few words. Snap-Problem solved. Stops me in my tracks!! And pretty much shames every male master-solver post on here. Chit, and real cute, to boot! | |
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| If you make her cum orally shouldn't she return the favor?
Posted: 10/20/2008 10:00:10 AM | I wouldnt want someone to give me oral because he EXPECTED something in return.
I'd only want a man between my legs because he loved tasting me and being there.....
I please my guy because I WANT to, not because Im expected to.  | |
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| If you make her cum orally shouldn't she return the favor?
Posted: 10/20/2008 10:33:07 AM | | I give oral sex to my girlfriend all the time and she hasnt given me any for about 4 months now... shes so busy with school and everything else, we dont even really have sex anymore.. I definately think that sharing oral sex with each other is a great way to show how much desire you truly have for someone.. It makes them actually feel WANTED. Also, helps if you keep your shit trimmed down there.. lol.. she never trims hers, but that doesnt really bother me though. | |
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| If you make her cum orally shouldn't she return the favor?
Posted: 10/20/2008 11:09:45 AM | that sharing oral sex with each other is a great way to show how much desire you truly have for someone.. It makes them actually feel WANTED
Gee if she cant make you feel loved and wanted without oral sex i pity both you and her. You make someone feel loved and watned in lots of ways. any slut on the street can do oral on ya for a little money. You said a great way to show how much desire you have for soemone...........NOT. | |
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| If you make her cum orally shouldn't she return the favor?
Posted: 10/20/2008 11:37:32 AM |
I give oral sex to my girlfriend all the time and she hasnt given me any for about 4 months now... shes so busy with school and everything else, we dont even really have sex anymore.. I definately think that sharing oral sex with each other is a great way to show how much desire you truly have for someone.. It makes them actually feel WANTED. Also, helps if you keep your shit trimmed down there.. lol.. she never trims hers, but that doesnt really bother me though.
Do you ask her for it? If she turns you down, do you ask her why?
If you never ask for it she might just assume that you really don't like it all that much. Or it might be a taste thing. Or just might be self conscious about not being very good at it. Who knows?
I just know that I'm willing to try a lot of things to make my guy happy, but I'm not a mind reader. So unless he asks, or he gives me an extremely strong indication that he loves something the first time I do it on my own, I'm going to assume he's just not that into it. | |
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| If you make her cum orally shouldn't she return the favor?
Posted: 10/20/2008 11:38:36 AM | | There's an old saying, "You get out of life what you put into it!" You don't put much in, you don't get much out. For all the whiners, I will lower my expectations and my effort. From now on I will also lay there like a dead fish. That's the beauty of a forum, lots of opinions. | |
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| If you make her cum orally shouldn't she return the favor?
Posted: 10/20/2008 12:46:54 PM |
In this modern age of equality Gender equality certainly outside the bedroom, not necessarily in the bedroom. Women orgasm in a totally different maner than do men. God bless women; I give oral to my girlfriend because I enjoy witnessing her glee close at hand. This is really a personal question; I prefer intercourse to oral sex myself, for me intercourse is much more satisfying, and I don't feel like I'm the center of attention. If the OP requires oral pleasure reciprocation, wouldn't it be prudent to communicate that need to his partner?
if you can make your woman cum orally and there is no attempt to reciprocate are you obligated to continue in the future? Have that discussion with her, not with PoFfers. Jeeplover in Msg23 hit the nail on the head. | |
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| If you make her cum orally shouldn't she return the favor?
Posted: 10/22/2008 11:22:07 AM | For me I could care less if my girl didnt reciprocate, its something I really enjoy doing..... like my papa told growing up - "If it smells like fish, its a good dish.. if it smells like cologne, leave it alone!!!"  | |
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| If you make her cum orally shouldn't she return the favor?
Posted: 10/30/2008 12:41:16 PM | optimistically_cynical
every post you ever do is bashing, i do not see how this site even puts up with your garbage mouth, you seem to be very immature man for your age, and a stagnant man when it comes to sex..
perhaps you should read a book or two... self help books. | |
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| If you make her cum orally shouldn't she return the favor?
Posted: 10/30/2008 1:04:33 PM | So to turn it around... If he can't get me off with his mouth, does that mean I should *withhold* a rocking BJ?????
Hmmm... Seeing as no one has ever gotten me to orgasm with oral sex...that would mean a heck of a lot of *withheld* BJs.
Luckily I don't believe in Tit for Tat either.
I just luvs givin my guy a good BJ...whether he cums or not...and whether he ventures south or not on me....
Kaylie | |
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| If you make her cum orally shouldn't she return the favor?
Posted: 10/30/2008 1:16:36 PM | I don't think it's about equality. This one's all about you and your needs/wants.
Either enjoy pleasuring her on the basis of being able to evoke the response she gives you, or simply let her know you expect quid pro quo. If she tells you that she doesn't enjoy returning the experience, or doesn't want to, then find someone else who will/does or you'll just become resentful. | |
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Posted: 10/30/2008 1:20:55 PM | Agreed, 'Haylie...'
I've found it difficult to climax, orally . . and by many ladies responses, here .. difficult for Them, too...
It's really just much more pleasurable to Share the experience . . and _Enjoy_ it
...than to Insist on any form of an *Even-Trade* . .
I prefer the *77* technique . . Giving her the Big ~Thank~You~ to finish..!!
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