| If you make her cum orally shouldn't she return the favor?
Posted: 11/16/2008 5:05:47 AM | | One shot? Ummm no.....but as far as the question, no one should feel obligated to do anything they dont feel comfortable with. Dont get me wrong, in the heat in the moment, it is great to satisfy your partner every way possible, but sometimes it just doesnt happen....and I'm cool with that. As long as I am doing "my job" the right way, makes the time that much better! | |
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| If you make her cum orally shouldn't she return the favor?
Posted: 11/22/2008 12:34:31 PM | I agree with you, it is absolutely NOT about keeping score. Personally, I prefer giving to receiving, and recently I had my first encounter with a woman who could squirt. This is something which most men think is fake or only in porn films, but the gratification I felt when I was able to bring this woman to extremes she had never before experienced, made my day.
Yes it is true, some women CAN squirt, as I now know first hand, and it is delicious.
I'd just like to know what the source of the fluid is. It isn't urine, and it isn't white either. It was a clear, sweet liquid that came from within. The look on her eyes of absolute surprise (and bliss) when it happened was worth every minute devoted to get her to that special place. | |
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| If you make her cum orally shouldn't she return the favor?
Posted: 11/22/2008 3:22:49 PM | | I agree it is all about the desire to please. In must relationships I have been in if I give pleasure to a woman with my mouth in every case she has returned the favor. I haven't been in a situation when the favor was returned. Granted we all have our likes and dislikes but unless you are selfish you want to give pleasure to your partner. | |
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| If you make her cum orally shouldn't she return the favor?
Posted: 11/30/2008 10:06:54 PM | Maybe I'm just selfish or whatever, but I personally don't stay hard when I'm focusing on pleasing the woman... so a bit of reciprocation is more than appreciated. And If I'm going out of my way, I would rather assume to get the same in return. If she won't, then I won't. I don't understand why everybody in this thread seems to think that it's self-centered and selfish to expect your significant other to help you climax after you've helped them, especially when the same people, I'm sure, claim that relationships should be "50/50."
I'm not talking about keeping a score, I'm just saying that in the grand scheme of things, between give and take and compromise and leniency and promises, both people should be happy with their sex life, even if they don't always get what they want right when they want it. | |
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| If you make her cum orally shouldn't she return the favor?
Posted: 11/30/2008 10:43:35 PM | You know I just KNOW that a lot of women who would give you a hard time about your question may not SWALLOW let alone give head at all.
HOWEVER, even the ones who wouldn't suck your c0ck in the FIRST PLACE are right when they tell you that you should not be keeping score.
Hopefully, you will start to hook up with the women I have hooked up with. . .I make THEM cum all over my face until they can't take any more and they attempt to reciprocate without my asking.
I say "attempt" because I generally do NOT cum from getting head.
Still, it IS always nice when they go down on ME without my even asking or wanting them too.
Then again, I LOVE eating pu$sy. Maybe if you go at it with the right attitude they will do the same.
If you happen to hook up with women who would not give ANY man head no matter what--THEN you need to consider more than just not going down on them. . .THEN you need to consider perhaps dating women more like the women I date! | |
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| If you make her cum orally shouldn't she return the favor?
Posted: 12/4/2008 3:39:51 PM | | Yes, with reference to post 158, there's an awful lot of ripping on the OP going on for "keeping score" and not being willing to give as he should, but if we put this question from the opposite angle and had a girl post asking if it's ok for her to expect, nay, demand that her man pleasure her orally while declining to do him the same service, I have to wonder if we'd be seeing the same people coming out of the woodwork to call her selfish in similar fashion.... Just a thought. | |
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| If you make her cum orally shouldn't she return the favor?
Posted: 12/4/2008 4:14:51 PM |
I will try to make this simple.
Giving pleasure (of any kind) is a bit like giving a present at christmas (or fill in applicable holiday) The joy is SUPPOSED to be in the giving not in wondering what you get in return.
so, that obviously doesn't apply to his girlfriend..
she gets no joy from 'giving', apparently? | |
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| If you make her cum orally shouldn't she return the favor?
Posted: 12/4/2008 5:03:59 PM | I absolutely agree that this post comes from a really childish viewpoint Im afraid. We should all do what makes us happy and a loving partner wouldnt want their partner to do what doesnt make them happy cos how could you get off on it knowing they hate it and want the ordeal over?
I have a friend who wont give blow jobs to her man. She hates it and gags and the thought of cum down her throat makes her wretch (I know cos we're all part of a girly group of friends that chat about love and sex all time lol). He loves to go down on her though. So both do as they please but never once has she said he tried to force her or beg her, he just understands how she feels. He loves her. Sure I'm sure it would be ideal to reciprocate and I'm sure if he so decided to stop giving her oral she'd be upset but she wouldnt have leg to stand on, on the issue really. It's about mutual satisfaction at the end of the day. | |
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| If you make her cum orally shouldn't she return the favor?
Posted: 12/5/2008 10:16:11 AM | | Thank you "otherguy82", of course you are correct, if it was a woman not getting satisfaction we would here about what a jerk the man was, that a woman requires more stimulation than a man to achieve orgasm, that frequently the only way she can orgasm is through direct oral stimulation. But a man should just take what he gets and be greatful for any sexual contact. And "Foxy-red", you are also correct, it is about mutual satisfaction at the end of the day, and mutual satisfaction I think means both parties being satisfied, not just her being satisfied. | |
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| If you make her cum orally shouldn't she return the favor?
Posted: 12/5/2008 11:30:27 AM | guys i dont under stand why you all look at it as 1 for you, 1 for me.... for me, i love it when a gal cums all over my face... i wish it would happen every time i went down, but it doesn't always..dam shame too... the thing is, is that i can cum any time any where, so i know i will be satisfied... if it happens to be cumming down the hot wet lips of my gal then thats just an extra special treat for me....thank you to all you ladys out there who love to cum on my face...its been delicious... | |
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| If you make her cum orally shouldn't she return the favor?
Posted: 12/5/2008 12:13:34 PM | "a lot of women are clueless about male sexuality; a lot of women think if a guy comes it means he is always "satisifed"
Do you think if a woman cums she is always "satisfied"? Maybe an even better issue is the fact that most women think they're lucky if they come the majority of the time they have sex. I'm not sure what you mean by "satisfied" in this context, but I imagine that would vary from man to man. | |
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| If you make her cum orally shouldn't she return the favor?
Posted: 12/5/2008 12:38:38 PM |
Not the first time I've seen such silliness from the OP, and I suspect not the last.
I agree that the OP needs to realize that there are ways of communicating his desires, but then again, we don't know the whole story. But......the above quote is completely out of line. The OP may very well be "silly", but this sounds like bullying and discrimination. Each thread posting should be judged on its' own merit and not on the basis of other threads. | |
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| If you make her cum orally shouldn't she return the favor?
Posted: 12/5/2008 1:25:02 PM | | OMG! At your age I would have thought you had learned more about the female and pleasing them. Obviously not. If you are lucky enough to have your lady cum while you are eating, licking, sucking, and slurping in her honey pot........YOU KEEP GOING! The first O is just the beginning. Let her have multiples, as many as she can manage. Eating p*ssy is an art, and if you learn how to do it well, you don't have to ask such silly questions. | |
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| If you make her cum orally shouldn't she return the favor?
Posted: 12/5/2008 1:59:52 PM | | well for me, I try to please my man first. But since i dont have a gag reflex, it dosnt take long! then i can take my time! and the squirting thing- it happened to me once, but i think i just peed a little. | |
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| If you make her cum orally shouldn't she return the favor?
Posted: 12/5/2008 2:08:50 PM | I would more than gladly return the favor with exception to....
1. too much hair down there that all i'm doing is cleaning the guys pubes
2. that the guy is showing my head further onto his genitals
or...
3. I faked cumming because the guy had no skill
sorry but I don't want to suck on pubes or have my style of oral interupted because a guy is too impatient to be in my mouth... and I certainly won't do jack if you yourself suck | |
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| If you make her cum orally shouldn't she return the favor?
Posted: 12/5/2008 2:16:31 PM |
1. too much hair down there that all i'm doing is cleaning the guys pubes
always hear women saying that..do y'all get sucking on a lot of guys packing 3" ?
there aren't any pubes on the head & shaft, usually, only down around the base.. | |
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| If you make her cum orally shouldn't she return the favor?
Posted: 12/5/2008 2:19:17 PM | | OP... that is an immature view on sex. Giving oral pleasure is your choice. I am quite sure no woman held a gun to your head (either head) and said go down on me or else. If you chose to go down south and didn't discuss her thoughts, feelings, and hangups beforehand, that is on you. Grow up! | |
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| If you make her cum orally shouldn't she return the favor?
Posted: 12/5/2008 4:35:41 PM |
Msg: 1 -- In this modern age of equality if you can make your woman
cum orally and there is no attempt to reciprocate are you obligated to
continue in the future? If you are a gentleman and make her orgasm
first and even second should there be any gold at the end or your
rainbow?
If you are in a situation in which you even have to ASK questions of
this nature, you are with the WRONG woman. Drop her and find someone
else. The RIGHT woman for you will show you no doubt.
Msg: 7 -- One of the greatest pleasures in a sexual relationship is
the amount of pleasure you can bestow upon your partner. Not once have
I thought - it's my turn and he won't get his if I don't get mine!
That would take the pleasure out of any encounter!
I see that Ms Leeanne chimed in with an excellent parry. Perhaps I
should change my response to you and simply inquire as to how
compatible you two really are. In any case, I think, judging by what
you say, the both of you most likely ARE quite incompatible, so you
probably should search for another mate after all.
Msg: 14 -- But keeping score ideally, is just foul play man. Really.
Wow, keeping score? Is THAT what this is all about? Whoa, I thought
this was about compatibility and maintaining the pleasure level of the
relationship. OP, if this is about score-keeping, then perhaps you
should extricate yourself from ANY relationship until you get a clue.
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