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| What sexual skills does a woman need to become a permanent keeper of her men?
Posted: 7/26/2005 11:17:31 PM | | For what it is worth, there is a tried and proven skill, but it requires true love on both sides: Making love commences in the kitchen, by holding hands, gently touchy, a few "I love yous and I love you too" Stay with this closeness while eating by saying: "pass the rolls Darling?" "Of course Sweetheart." Sit close side by side while watching TV. and by the time you go to bed whether it be nine, ten or eleven. No need for her to lie there with that look: "hurry up, get it over with." or for him: "Get ready I'm about to put my leg over." This can vary, but both must show interest in all ways and have same aims in life...real love lasts forever. Regards Francois | |
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| What sexual skills does a woman need to become a permanent keeper of her men?
Posted: 7/27/2005 1:15:19 AM | well since the OP asked what "sexually" she should do I would have to relate to you a story I heard on the morning radio.
I woman called in and said she gave her husband a blowjob each morning before he went off to work. Each and every morning so he knew every day who he belonged to. I would have to say that I would wear horse blinds everywhere I went if a knew girl that giving LOL 
I give this post a rating of 2 green dancing banana =) | |
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| What sexual skills does a woman need to become a permanent keeper of her men?
Posted: 7/27/2005 6:26:29 AM |
It isn't really hard to find someone sexually compatible with u, it is hard to find someone who is compatible with u in all the other ways that makes sex even better. Friendship, humour, active outside the bedroom, and all the other things that make 2 people compatible.
I completely agree....
I am only 20, and have only had 2 sexual partners... and one of them *my ex* just did not feel at all sexually compatible with me...nor was it very good with friendship, support, and so on...those are what makes everything so great in a relationship. My current boyfriend is sexually compatible, and showed me that sex can actually be fun....he also showed me that not all guys are complete ***holes, and he provided the friendship, support, and so on that I needed... (but hey, I'm a hopeless romantic sometimes lol) | |
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| What sexual skills does a woman need to become a permanent keeper of her men?
Posted: 9/1/2005 10:58:22 PM | You know, I'm confused with this. In one breath, many men seem to be resenting that women use sex as some manipulative power play and in the other they are requesting that she use sex to keep him interested in her.
Simple, if the d*ckhead is after sex, he can go to a brothel or chat up half of POF to get laid and not have to contend with the tediously tiresome anguish of having to consider someone's feelings, goals and romantic desires.
If he is mature enough to realize that a beautiful and good sex life is created with an open minded, honest and willing partner, then he has his battle won. A reasonable level of intelligence can make a good lover out of anyone if they are given the proper instructions.
Look for someone who has the traits you desire in their personality, sensual, sexy, alluring...or demure, conservative and gentile. It's really a matter of preference.
Let's face it...all single people tend to toot their proverbial sexual horn when it comes to attracting a potential mate...I've never seen so many bullshit artists in all of my life actually...but sadly many will come here whining and crying when whoever it is was reading up on all their forum details about them only to realize they were being full of shyt and weren't who they portrayed themselves to be. They walk away disillusioned and disappointed. I can't say as I blame them.
I don't care about what a man doesn't know. I care about whether he's open minded and intelligent enough to want to meet my needs and tha'ts more about how much he enjoys me and my company and my mind than anything else. Enjoying my body oughta be a cinch if he can get into me on those levels first.
So much seems to be hinged on the sex part of everyone's love life on here. I just don't see enough about the issues of compatibility that can destroy a relationship quicker than a bat of an eye. This kind of dishonesty and the sheer motives...well...I don't see much love about to happen here, except for the odd few.
The rest are kidding themselves and some of us aren't buying it.
Oh and by the way, we aren't ALL good in bed here. Give me a break.LOL! Effort counts for the whole equation if you ask me. As long as you are wanting to please your partner with everything in you and want to also be pleased, then you have what it takes to build a good sex life, kama sutra and gravy notwithstanding.
Oh and I'll be damned before I bust my ass end over backwards to give my man sex just to keep him around. If he's not in it for more than sex, then he needs to go find a whore he can sleep with at night. If I'm going to "service" someone, I'll get paid for it.
Sex (for me) is a way to express my love and desire for a man. It isn't some toy to exploit and it isn't some trip that I pull off in order to keep his interest. | |
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| What sexual skills does a woman need to become a permanent keeper of her men?
Posted: 11/5/2007 6:47:36 PM | I would say just be herself and show her man that she loves him and cares about him and that he is on her mind and that she is willing to give an effort into whatever she does in a relationship.This goes for men too obviously, but my point is, there is no "skill" that a person must have in the bedroom, as long as they show passion and true genuine love for eachother and respect for one another and accept the other person for their flaws and all and just see this as an experience to share with your mate and just grow together, that is what really matters.
I find a good character and an accepting heart to be very sexy. If she can move and touch my soul and spirit, then the physical /sexual side of it is not a problem from there. | |
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| What sexual skills does a woman need to become a permanent keeper of her men?
Posted: 11/5/2007 7:31:15 PM | OK....let me see if I got this straight;
We have a man who goes by a name starting as Raja[possibly hinting at an Indian influence]yet claims to be Asian.Somewhat confusing but not really a big deal.He is married,by profile claim,but is looking for a woman for "activity partner" and in one forum post wanted to try out as a phuckbuddy for a woman.A little odd but, still not really a big deal.Looking for a Tantric instructor[ideally for his own growth]yet has a great curiosity to find out what a woman needs to master to help her learn to keep a man.To keep a man.To keep a man.OOOPS,now I see the error,he wants her to keep men[plural]He did admit to being married.
Ask your wife,she's keeping you isn't she?
Or is that the darker side of this thread and maybe her skills need the honing?
Curious minds want to know....and 75 cents should get this an answer from the Enquirer.
Hey Raja...how many men is your wife keeping?? | |
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| What sexual skills does a woman need to become a permanent keeper of her men?
Posted: 11/5/2007 7:42:07 PM | | Just because you know what to do "sexually" doesn't mean it's going to be a permanent relationship. He may come back for more sex, but since men are very adept at separating "sex" and "emotions" it doesn't mean that there is going to be any relationship other than sexual. If sex was all it took to be a "permanent keeper of her men" a lot of us would not have Ex's. | |
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| What sexual skills does a woman need to become a permanent keeper of her men?
Posted: 11/5/2007 8:09:20 PM | | The best sexual skill a woman can have is the ability to use her brain. I don't care how good she is at giving hand jobs, a man is eventually going to get tired of them. If she wants to keep her man, she has to keep him interested and the best way to do that is stimulate him on all levels. Sexually, emotionally as well as intellectually. A woman may be able to suck a golf ball through a straw, but eventually the man is going to want something between the ears that are giving him head. Only a percentage of a relation is sexual but its an important part of the relationship. Most women who care about their men are going to learn to perfect the skills that give him the highest degree of pleasure, providing him gives her the same courtesy. Any skill a woman learns is useless if she can't entice a man into participating. A woman is a keeper when she can keep her man mentally connected to her physically. | |
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| What sexual skills does a woman need to become a permanent keeper of her men?
Posted: 11/5/2007 8:25:05 PM | Really if you look at the list the OP put up in one of his subsequent posts, he doesn't want a woman with whom he can have a relationship, of course she is already living at his house, but someone to have on-call to satisfy his sexual needs while she what? The OP doesn't care. Hmmm, someone sexually adept and stupid or paid by the hour.
You have two hands, how many do you need for that hand job? | |
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| What sexual skills does a woman need to become a permanent keeper of her men?
Posted: 11/5/2007 9:05:39 PM | | hmmm i think that raji was lookin for instructions on how to jerk off... on key element to sexuallity that is lacking everywhere is imagination. instead of lookin to the porn world as to what is satisfying and what is new and great we should be look inside and using our own imaginations to find what sounds fun. but i guess im day dreaming now. and another thing is women dont want tantric men, so give up the dream. if your wife isnt willin to go there dont go your just f'in your self in the end. theres so few women out there that are into it. i know i have personal expierence in that area seein as how tantra f'd my life up when i was 18, if they wanted as sexual god, lol, i wouldnt be here. i guess you need all the help you can get though your 54 yo male that doesnt know how to stroke it, maybe thats why your wife doesnt want to be with you | |
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| What sexual skills does a woman need to become a permanent keeper of her men?
Posted: 11/6/2007 1:36:05 AM | Don't ask him before sex, start talking dirty to him just before he orgasms. Trust me - he'll slip up and say something stupid like "I'd like it if you stuck your finger up my butt". It'll be hilarious!
This was taken straight out of that old lady's (like Dr. Ruth) show.
My downfall was, and she tricked me into saying it exactly at the time I was orgasming, that I'd like to have a threesome with her best friend.
That never happened, but when we would have sex again, she always talked dirty to me while bringing up the "fantasy" of her with her friend and pretended it "could" happen if I bought her a pretty purse. That never happened either.
So - in short, find out his fantasy. Remember, however, he'll be shy if you ask him before sex, so chose a time during sex to talk like a slut and figure out his weakness. | |
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| What sexual skills does a woman need to become a permanent keeper of her men?
Posted: 11/6/2007 4:32:20 AM | Okay, I looked quickly through all the replies and only found one that referred to the brain!
Scheherrazade had a really good point, but it does take two to tango and if one partner is unwilling to learn or participate or closed-minded to trying anything - anything she brings forth will fall flat. I would also point out a healthy open attitude towards sex helps. That means open to trying to new things and bringing new things to try to the plate. An open healthy attitude also means that you know you do not know everything about sex and ask questions/research etc. Along with almost every inch of your body (varies with each person), your brain/imagination is an errogeneous zone in itself....
I also agree with Blastkiss that many seem to toot their own horn on here. I would never claim to be a sex guru, but I do know myself and realize that each person has different tastes. I firmly believe that we all have more to learn and that's what life is about. | |
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