| What sexual skills does a woman need to become a permanent keeper of her men?
Posted: 11/7/2007 5:20:21 PM | Dear Forum, I'm not trying for subtility, finesse, or anything remotlely civil. The subject is "What sexual skills does a woman need to become a permanent keeper of her men?", and there's an answer. You don't gotta like it, or believe that's what men want women to be like. But I'll tell you right now, porn exists for a reason, strip clubs exist for a reason, Hooters exists for a reason. Men watch porn for a reason, and in part it's because they want to see women do things most women won't do. Like what I outlined above.
You can call it a moronic "skill set", but I'll tell you right now, it can go a long way. I don't know about the rest of the world, or men. But here, where I'm from, what I've seen with my own eyes, what I've talked about with other guys. It works. | |
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| What sexual skills does a woman need to become a permanent keeper of her men?
Posted: 11/8/2007 11:05:27 AM | Ok, if I say what I am really thinking about what you just said about my faith and the fact that you think my daughter should be taught how to do a hand job in high school (that is what you meant about "practical sex education" isn't it?), I will definitely get booted...
so all i have to say is this..
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| What sexual skills does a woman need to become a permanent keeper of her men?
Posted: 11/8/2007 3:59:18 PM | | Too funny... I read all the posts in here and some of you are close, some are guessing, most have not a clue. The simple answer is total open communication. If both parties are comfortable enough to truley communicate with each other then and only then does a whole new set of doors open. | |
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| What sexual skills does a woman need to become a permanent keeper of her men?
Posted: 11/8/2007 5:37:38 PM | Agreed, by the age of the men you are referring to! A mature, stable man would never, EVER approach a woman with your aforementioned SKILL SET! IF a woman thinks you are worthy of the SKILL SET, she will do so on her own accord; IF she thinks you are a moronic, immature BOOB - meet Mr. Hand.
Approach? What are you talking about? I'm not talking about approaching anyone for anything. Read the topic, that's not what this is about.
The topic is more or less asking what sexual skills women need to have so that their man will never want to be with anyone else, "permanent keeper" as it's put. This was a sex based question, not about personalty, or fidelity, or any other trait. This person is asking, as far as sex, what do I have to do to keep my guy?
I could be very wrong about the male mind. But then the very nature of porn affirms what I'm saying. Take what I say with a grain of salt, call it what you want. But under all the civility of society, I see the same things about males. Perhaps it's just the curse of my town, who knows. But what I can tell you for certain is this: somewhere here in America, a man watches porn because his woman has become vanilla and would never dare do things like in porns. | |
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CESSKA
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| What sexual skills does a woman need to become a permanent keeper of her men?
Posted: 11/9/2007 4:25:24 PM | I am not here to personally attack you, I firmly believe no man in his right mind (you know, the brain above your shoulders) would have a required skill set to keep a woman.
The topic clearly asks, WHAT SEXUAL SKILLS DOES A WOMAN NEED TO BECOME A PERMANENT KEEPER OF HER MAN? That's fine that you don't believe a woman should need any kind of sexual skills to keep her man. But the topic is asking just that. | |
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| What sexual skills does a woman need to become a permanent keeper of her men?
Posted: 11/9/2007 6:19:55 PM | All she needs to have is a willingness to understand what her man likes, and be able to enjoy sex.
After that, it's just a matter of discussion and understanding to come up with a situation where both are fully satisfied.
If you enjoy pleasuring your partner, and actually can bring that to a level where you get almost as much pleasure as he/she does while doing it - the rest is easy to accomplish.
It just takes time and practice.  | |
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| What sexual skills does a woman need to become a permanent keeper of her men?
Posted: 11/9/2007 6:21:05 PM | This is crazyhorse327 replying
For one thing, porn is not everything. It can give you ideas to make your relationship more exciting if you dont have an imagination of your own. The most important thing is that if a woman wants to keep her man, is show him that she does love him and not afraid of attacking him and ripping his clothes off as much as the guy thinks about it. Think about it, you want to do this to her and sometimes you attempt it and do it, but if a woman wants to keep her man and she does love him, then it is nice for her to do the same to him. Then who needs porn? The more you fall in love, and the more communication and trust you have the easier this becomes. If you want a certain thing done then talk about it. Communicate is the solution to the problem. It doesn't matter how good you are at sex, when it comes to how you care someone. It is getting over your inhibition if you are a woman and taking matters in hand so to speak. This will turn a man on more than any sexual skill that she has. Practice does make perfect.  | |
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| What sexual skills does a woman need to become a permanent keeper of her men?
Posted: 11/9/2007 6:47:55 PM | Gosh I really amliving on a different planet.
I am relatively new to the site and new to the forums. What an eye opener.
If it was a question of skill we could all get a handbook read it and voila> Men and women. But then they have places one can go for specific requests.
It seems like such a ridiculous question. The key to keeping a relationship is two sided and on many more levels than physical. If you truly love each other - you "make love" all the time - by a glance , a touch, asexy note, and kissing wow. It is mirrored in the way you treat each ther and the passion you find in the mundane. If you feel that passion and keep it going verbally and by touch, you will never need to know what "skills" are required - you know!!
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| What sexual skills does a woman need to become a permanent keeper of her men?
Posted: 11/9/2007 7:54:05 PM | | ..interesting reading here...to me ,its about comfort with your own sexuality..if you are not willing to be open minded or willing to get your own self off in front of your partner then learning "skills" wont get you out of the driveway!...it has come down to 2 things in my experience....kegels and a willing perception.......if some one is trying to give you pleasure then they are ,in fact, showing you what they think pleasure means...of course ,the journey to that comfort level can be either quick and disasterous or a slow build.........its up to you!..... | |
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| What sexual skills does a woman need to become a permanent keeper of her men?
Posted: 11/9/2007 8:11:28 PM | I do not think that developing sexual skills in order to keep a man is a practical idea because that is the one thing he could get just about anywhere if he really wanted to. And no sexual skill I ever tried to improve upon has ever held anyone who didn't want to be there in the first place.
As far as I'm concerned sex for the sake of it is an in and out experience on oh so many levels...like a drive thru or whatever. Men remind me of the sperm they produce and women of eggs.
One is always swimming off randomly and the other wants to settle down and get right comfortable. | |
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| What sexual skills does a woman need to become a permanent keeper of her men?
Posted: 11/10/2007 8:29:14 PM | Let's say she is extremely good at sex and has all the sexual skills to keep me (a man). After the hour and a half of sex (ok, ok, I exaggerate to emphasize a point), what is she going to do to keep up her status as 'keeper of her man' for the next 22.5 hours in a 24-hour day?
What a lot of BS this Q is!
(I am shocked that I am even typing this reply!) | |
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