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 pedicure
Joined: 10/29/2004
Msg: 151
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I cannot imagine someone 'using sex as a weapon'- but I suppose some do, given bizarre behavior that exists.

I was accused of 'using sex as a weapon', wrongfully. If I didn't want to have sex I would often not. Sometimes I would have sex with him just because he pestered me all day for it.

Our relationship was in a bad state for years. I do think that he stayed in the relationship for sex, a place to live, and transportation.
 Passinthru
Joined: 2/3/2005
Msg: 152
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Posted: 6/21/2005 10:19:11 PM
Under this premise could hospitalization from sexual dehydration be considered assault with a deadly weapon?
 eastwood73
Joined: 6/20/2005
Msg: 153
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Posted: 6/22/2005 1:19:11 AM
oh u don't have a headache,or the time of the month has passed by?WOMEN are the weapon when S.E.....................X comes up,yall are stupid little people,that lie,and feed on hate,and wish cancer on ron Jermey,.
 carribeanking7
Joined: 4/10/2005
Msg: 154
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Posted: 6/22/2005 1:24:02 AM
The Keyword is consensual....or nothing.......
Why should you force yourself if you dont feel like it................what next ..fake orgasms ? LOL........

We all feel under the weather sometimes...............
but if she develops a headache that lasts 10 months...theres something gone very wrong in the relationship.....time to communicate........if communication doesnt help.....maybe counselling.....still hitting a brick wall. ?.....go your seperate ways .......its not worth it for your long term sanity.
 tyme_gypsy
Joined: 5/7/2005
Msg: 155
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Posted: 6/22/2005 2:03:09 AM
I think the charge would be "asssult with a friendly weapon"
persnickity, the answer is "yes, no and maybe so"
 My.02 Cents
Joined: 3/16/2005
Msg: 156
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Posted: 6/22/2005 4:24:22 AM
@hervie...Thank you...Sometimes I just CAN'T help myself!!!!

Nice to see that you're "EASY"!!!! Dee
 My.02 Cents
Joined: 3/16/2005
Msg: 157
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Posted: 6/22/2005 4:27:55 AM
@passin...Way to avoid "sexual dehydration"...do it in WATER!!!!

Caribbean...VERY smart man....Good points, actually, ANY "headache" that lasts longer than 10 DAYS should be addressed in MY opinion.... Dee
 Hervie1
Joined: 6/5/2005
Msg: 158
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Posted: 6/22/2005 3:24:35 PM
@Dee..not that easy lol

O.T. don't think I've had sexual blackmail used with me ever or used it myself...or not since I was a teenager...once upon a time a long long time ago lol
 random4
Joined: 6/22/2005
Msg: 159
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Posted: 6/22/2005 3:35:27 PM
Is spanking a weapon?
 smoochiepooches
Joined: 3/2/2005
Msg: 160
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Posted: 6/22/2005 5:52:36 PM
random4 "Is spanking a weapon "

I guess it would be considered a weapon if you didn't like being spanked. Who doesn't like to get spanked ???? when they have been a naughty, naughty girl....................I'm often naughty on purpose, LOL !!!!!!! Who else is naughty ?
 random4
Joined: 6/22/2005
Msg: 161
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Posted: 6/22/2005 8:40:38 PM
I never got spanked when I didn't want it. I'm not sure if that is significant.

I never had anyone use sex as a weapon. How is it done?

I had someone use words as weapons. She warped me until I can afford the therapy to undo the damage.
 Fleetwood701
Joined: 10/22/2004
Msg: 162
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Posted: 6/23/2005 12:17:15 AM
since when is sex a weapon? who uses it more males or females? (shemales not included)! i never used it in that matter! never saw it in that way eather! its easy to realize ur about to get played or get laid for a reason u might as well back off n refuse the offer unless ur that ugly n' know that you wont be gettin some any time soon!
 My.02 Cents
Joined: 3/16/2005
Msg: 163
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Posted: 6/23/2005 3:01:09 PM
@random...Good to see you!! And at LEAST she "warped you with words" UNTIL, you COULD afford therapy!!!

Fleetwood...smart guy!!! That's the point here, that you can only be "played if you ALLOW yourself to be!!! Dee
 Hervie1
Joined: 6/5/2005
Msg: 164
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Posted: 6/23/2005 3:11:34 PM
If you use it as a weapon, I might be forced to get my handcuffs out, and arrest you for using a lethal weapon^^
 bucsgirl
Joined: 3/2/2005
Msg: 165
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Posted: 6/23/2005 3:12:53 PM
hervie Would you be tempted to say okay partner DRAW!! Could make an interesting duel....question, do you need a permit for a concealed weapon? Just wondering.
 My.02 Cents
Joined: 3/16/2005
Msg: 166
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Posted: 6/23/2005 3:14:53 PM
Hmmmm...."concealed weapon"? Handcuffs? NOW this is getting INTERESTING!!!!

Put those together with random's "spanking"...and we MAY have a party!!! Dee
 Hervie1
Joined: 6/5/2005
Msg: 167
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Posted: 6/23/2005 3:17:10 PM
I believe you do need a permit...the only concealed weapon I carry doesn't need a permit tho^^lol
O.T. Using sex for anything other than pleasing or pro-creating is a nono...period!
Just my humble opinion..
 bucsgirl
Joined: 3/2/2005
Msg: 168
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Posted: 6/23/2005 3:18:37 PM
dee Sorry, hon, hervie said no no....(off to pout)
 Hervie1
Joined: 6/5/2005
Msg: 169
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Posted: 6/23/2005 3:21:14 PM
That might just fall under the category of pleasing tho ^^
You look very cute when you pout I'm sure hehe

O.T. If you use it as a weapon, don't be surprised when they use it against you and are better at it!
 Ms. Picky
Joined: 1/11/2005
Msg: 170
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Posted: 6/23/2005 3:22:50 PM
LOL hervie

Touche!
 LottaBottle
Joined: 6/23/2005
Msg: 171
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Posted: 6/23/2005 3:25:13 PM
Would you have to show the weapon in court if you were charged??
 bucsgirl
Joined: 3/2/2005
Msg: 172
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Posted: 6/23/2005 3:26:21 PM
lotta What if you fired off your pistol (snicker) and they wanted to take it into evidence? YIKES!
 bucsgirl
Joined: 3/2/2005
Msg: 173
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Posted: 6/23/2005 3:28:38 PM
hervie That's the kind of man I'm looking for better at it and you better be using it against me. But not in a bad way....i'm just being silly. Seriously I NEVER used sex as a weapon as far as withholding it to get something, I end up denying myself. If logic and reason don't work, I just have to be happy with the status quo.
 LottaBottle
Joined: 6/23/2005
Msg: 174
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Posted: 6/23/2005 3:29:09 PM
maybe they would dust it for prints...
 squeak365
Joined: 12/21/2004
Msg: 175
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Posted: 6/23/2005 3:30:15 PM
Using sex for anything other than pairbonding is just plain wrong.

Squeak
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