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Posted: 6/23/2005 3:36:39 PM | | WEll, one should never let sex rule anything. If used as a weapon, by God, they might think twice if I was the fuker they messed with. But, the fact is, I wouldn't let sex get to first base with any woman anymore. | |
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Posted: 6/23/2005 3:50:42 PM | My Ex boyfriend punished me with lack of affection and sex. For dumb things that were not even in my control..
No eye contact, (silent treatment) and used monotone voice when he did speak,no touching , stayed on his side of the bed.. Until he felt he made his point.. ??? Sheesh!!! It was a control thing. | |
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Posted: 6/23/2005 5:06:57 PM | @dee38 "I'm noticing that our society seems to lean a little more towards "male-bashing" these days, while it is considered so NOT "pc" to do that with women anymore!!!"
there is no little bit of leaning... almost every sitcom on tv has constant male bashing. those shows also try to show women as superior.
any degredation of women is shown to be downright criminal in the same circumstances. | |
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Posted: 6/23/2005 5:12:30 PM | @passionsdestiny oh man that sucks! That kinda manipulation and control freak behaviour suck no end.
and YES many manip (i can't remember how to spell manipulative <-doh) people are using sex as a weapon. it's all about control there. | |
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Posted: 6/24/2005 1:04:15 PM | @Dee...very true...what goes around certainly cums..I mean comes around! lol
By definition, a weapon is a forceful instrument, it has no place in a relationship, if you have to use force, it's just not worth it...just my humble opinion  | |
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Posted: 6/24/2005 1:07:36 PM | @wwdragon...Yes I've noticed that trend myself...As a matter of fact I know someone who does the SAME thing and he is a MAN!!!
I don't believe that this is the "way to go", although it IS pretty predictable that the pendulum will swing to the OTHER extreme before balancing out...For myself, I try to stay aware of that kind of stuff, and NOT participate either...It's disrespectful and serves NO purpose in my opinion...
That is NOT the road to true EQUALITY and mutual respect between genders...Dee | |
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Posted: 6/24/2005 1:10:16 PM | @hervie...EXACTLY!!!!
Why, oh WHY, can't we "all just get ALONG"!!!! 
But seriously, I thought that relationships were SUPPOSED to be about loving each other, supporting each other, being there for each other...NOT manipulating each other in order to ensure that we have the "power" at any given moment...
That's NOT the kind of relationship that I personally, want...(The latter, I mean!!!) Dee | |
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Posted: 6/24/2005 1:17:45 PM | @lotta...OMG!!!!! ROTFLMAO!!!!!! Dee
Thanks for providing some levity to a potentially explosive topic...And thanks to ALL who've taken the time to give their input...I'm learning a lot!!! Dee | |
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Posted: 6/24/2005 1:36:14 PM | | dee38 Sorry if the levity took away from this as a serious topic. I think a little humor tends to lighten things up. I just think that using sex as a weapon (pardon the puns in advance) usually backfires and is akin to shooting yourself in the foot....or worse. That was meant to be serious, couldn't think of any other words.....(bad bucs)! | |
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Posted: 6/24/2005 1:49:44 PM | Yeah, I just sometimes tend to derail a serious topic. It's my funny twin who keeps taking over...she won't be quiet too long!!
Thanks for understanding and it really was a great topic!
AHA I double checked! Thought you were a Gemini...well no 'splaining necessary then. | |
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Posted: 6/24/2005 2:10:50 PM | | Not at ALL!!!! Hey! Maybe the "four" of us could get together some time? Do coffee? Share "tips" on how to keep the 'others' under control?!?!?.... Dee | |
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Posted: 6/24/2005 2:32:35 PM | My ex-girlfriend withheld sex from me and insisted that she would not have intercourse sex with me unless we were married. She was no virgin, was divorced and had other relationships before. She said if she had sex with me, I would leave her, and used the bible as an excuse--no sex before marriage, but she's had sex before with others.
I tried to explain to her that sex was an expression of love and giving, a sharing of intimacy. But she insisted on it as a negotiation point in the relationship. Well, we fell apart partly because of this.
She was a hypocrite. | |
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Posted: 6/24/2005 2:40:38 PM | | Not neccesarily, just because someone has had sex in ther past does not mean they can't change the way they think..That was her prerogative..You have to respect that..Is'nt that what a relationship is all about?? | |
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