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 PittsburghVixen
Joined: 6/27/2009
Msg: 426
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Should change the title to "I'm a slut & guys don't take me seriously for a meaningful relationship".

Back in the day that was the label for easy girls. Only thing that's changed is the self made term "High Sex Drive". You made your bed & now have to sleep in it. The girl with the reputation may get all the guys but never keeps them. Silly is your proud of it & even more silly is to wonder why guys won't emotionally invest you. We know the excitement of someone new will eventually wane & won't put ourselves out there for a girl who'll most likely move on & or cheat.


REALLY?! You actually believe what you wrote here?

I guess that because I am lucky enough to have a HSD, I am automatically a silly slut with a bad reputation who cheats on her lovers. Oh, and because I have had FWBs (successfully combining the Friends part with the Benefits part), that seals the deal on my "sluttiness".

Guess it doesn't matter that I had a wonderful, faithful marriage, nor faithful LTRs after I became a widow. Doesn't mean squat that I'm looking for a permanent partner and don't screw around just because I can. Nope. According to tlcme1964, I'm just a ho-bag because when I have a long-term partner, I like to get busy with him as often as possible.

What. A. Tool.
 redsox322
Joined: 11/3/2011
Msg: 427
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Posted: 3/20/2012 10:01:41 PM
LOl omg I hate when men assume that women who dont want a relationship are sluts lol wtf. I have a very high sex drive not ashamed of it
 boninibaby
Joined: 12/3/2011
Msg: 428
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Posted: 3/20/2012 10:11:54 PM
High sex drive doenst make you easy , just horny.....

I love sex...and everything that goes with it, and I am pretty sure the energy I give off is quite magnetic......but I am not easy to just anyone.
I am pretty sure that men can sense I dont just sleep with the first man that comes along...
 hughes25
Joined: 3/7/2012
Msg: 429
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Posted: 3/21/2012 2:06:58 AM
Exactly! You dont have to tell a guy on a first date, not until you feel safe and secured in his arms
 hughes25
Joined: 3/7/2012
Msg: 430
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Posted: 3/21/2012 2:13:53 AM
My late would always complain of me liking too much of sex, not my fault, I have a lot of energy and i dont get tired easily.
 tennisman2388
Joined: 3/26/2009
Msg: 431
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Posted: 3/21/2012 9:54:25 AM
A few old fashioned remarks here.

A high sex drive, or even being kinky and having a variety of fetishes, certainly does not mean a woman is promiscous. Such desires are regularly achieved by women within the context of an exclusive and/or long term relationship.

It is ridiculous to label a woman as "easy" for simply being honest and open about her sexuality.
 caringdom
Joined: 3/23/2011
Msg: 432
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Posted: 3/21/2012 11:11:55 AM
Continue t to be honest, there. A few of us en who actuall respect the woman more, for being open and honest
 Capn_America
Joined: 10/6/2011
Msg: 433
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Posted: 3/21/2012 11:14:25 AM

LOl omg I hate when men assume that women who dont want a relationship are sluts lol wtf. I have a very high sex drive not ashamed of it


Words words words, blahblahblah-BLAH.....


We want proof LOL
 BehinDarkBluEyes
Joined: 1/16/2012
Msg: 434
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Posted: 3/21/2012 11:55:29 AM
Reality is we all got on this earth the same way, through the act of sex. It shouldn't be broken down into gender, it should be about the fact we are all human and enjoy something that is as natural as us needing to breath everyday.
 dan88anew
Joined: 1/23/2010
Msg: 435
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Posted: 3/21/2012 2:35:39 PM
Its just about finding someone sexually compatible.

Their will be plenty of guys and girls out their with high sex drives and low sex drive etc. You just have to find someone with a similar sex drive to yourself.

Personally mine is very very high, To the point that its bloody annoying. Ideally i'd want sex about 4-7 times a day.

But like I said just find someone to match your sex drive and you'll be very happy, many people end up unhappy in their relationships because their with someone with a much higher or much lower sex drive than them and so are either constantly being pestered for sex or constantly left sexually frustated.
 just_a_fool4u
Joined: 5/1/2008
Msg: 436
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Posted: 3/21/2012 4:57:54 PM
I for one, am not saying gals with a high sex drive are slutty, at all. I tend to think pretty highly of a gal with a high sex drive, and I myself would love to find one. But I guess women of this caliber just dont happen to reside in Kansas!
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 437
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Posted: 3/21/2012 5:29:59 PM

But I guess women of this caliber just dont happen to reside in Kansas!


Hardly anyone, of either gender, resides in Kansas.
 just_a_fool4u
Joined: 5/1/2008
Msg: 438
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Posted: 3/21/2012 5:48:27 PM
Aint that the truth, lol!!
 just_a_fool4u
Joined: 5/1/2008
Msg: 439
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Posted: 3/26/2012 8:36:02 PM
Sure didnt mean to put an end to this interesting topic. Sorry I posted! Hope this thread keeps goin, love to read them on the forun. Just thought I would add my two cents worth, guress it wasnt even worth that!!
 jennagirl65
Joined: 6/26/2011
Msg: 440
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Posted: 3/26/2012 10:59:43 PM
Amen!!! Having a high sex drive is great, however, knowing the difference between sex drive and just plain easy is not only good for you but necessary. When you connect with someone especially in bed, you want to have that person every chance you get; and you should. There is nothing wrong with that, but you have to understand that if you don't have things in common and a great friendship, then you don't have a relationship. Finding a sex buddy or friend with benefits is easy, finding the one that leaves you wanting for more is a rare thing this days. This is call Plenty of Fish, so go fishing sweetie, just don't don't swallow every worm you see! ;)
 bucksblue
Joined: 6/25/2011
Msg: 441
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Posted: 3/27/2012 2:27:51 PM
All depends on how tired i am and if ive been bashing one out in the day! but if she wants more i theres plenty of othere ways than penis,

watchingg a girl squirm and sream for time is good shit :D:D:D:
 Maria6868
Joined: 2/18/2009
Msg: 442
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Posted: 3/27/2012 3:06:25 PM
I totally agree with you Brown eyed woman! I also have a very high sex drive. I do think its age, hormones, kids grown and gown, being more confident in myself...etc..I usually wait until well into a relationship before sharing that info but I am sure a man can tell. I don't sleep around and I am very choosy but I do enjoy sex and intimacy very much. I see it as a normal healthy adult pleasure!
 Sussieee
Joined: 2/28/2012
Msg: 443
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Posted: 3/27/2012 10:17:08 PM
I too have a very high sex drive.
I have never understood why guys get an atta boy and a pat on the back and girls are shamed for being sexual. I call Bull shit.
 optimismfirst
Joined: 2/29/2012
Msg: 444
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Posted: 3/27/2012 10:32:47 PM
I love having a high as hell sex drive. lol, been told its higher than a guys. but who knows.
I love it either way. i can constantly have sex got a nice healthy sex life thats for sure
 75Nicholas
Joined: 2/21/2012
Msg: 445
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Posted: 3/28/2012 1:52:08 AM
For me personaly I like a girl with a high sex drive I've just never found one myself
 thomas8
Joined: 9/14/2011
Msg: 446
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Posted: 3/30/2012 10:43:24 PM
i love to have a girl with a high sex drive that would very sexy
 goldvelvetwoman
Joined: 12/31/2011
Msg: 447
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Posted: 3/30/2012 11:15:03 PM
monotor it carefully and choose the right type of man who wont abuse you.
be carfeful and remember your morality for both of you.
 goldvelvetwoman
Joined: 12/31/2011
Msg: 448
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Posted: 3/30/2012 11:16:24 PM
you must monotor her morality and keep her safe be the man and keep her safe and dont take advantage of her.
girls with high sex drive
Posted: 3/31/2012 7:58:18 AM

If you're skeptical, switch roles, and see for yourself


HELL NO!!!! I was not built to be penetrated!!!!!!
 dulyman
Joined: 1/26/2012
Msg: 450
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Posted: 3/31/2012 8:19:32 AM
I have an unuseal high drive but, I have not had sex in almost two years and not nothing wrong with me, just bad timing, or what ,but I think most guy would love a woman with high sex drive I dont think a healthy man can have enough sex and, the truth is weman alway have a higher drive than men but men dont know that,
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