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 MsJo101
Joined: 1/5/2008
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enjoy it while it lasts,,,,i do!!!!
 Artistee
Joined: 7/24/2006
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Posted: 10/23/2008 10:10:19 AM
Don't these types translate loosely (excuse the pun)...into "Nymphos" (?)
 MeereKat
Joined: 2/11/2008
Msg: 78
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Posted: 10/23/2008 11:19:54 AM
...not necessarily . .
Unless you classify most Men as 'Nymphos;'..!!...
The difference being . . Some women have the experiences that have allowed them to _Enjoy_ sex ...and know how to get the best quality in return..!!
And ..Some....have it ~Naturally~ . . like Most Taureans..!! . .
But others have had bad experiences that make them rather ~Skiddish~ about it.....
 cdbalk
Joined: 9/28/2008
Msg: 79
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Posted: 10/23/2008 12:32:06 PM
i cant find a woman with a real hi sex drive...dont know why that is,r they just lazy or complacent i dont know...its always im tired or not right now or ok we have about 10 minutes so hurry up...whats up with that?!?!im not on a timeclock!!!i like to take my time,lots of foreplay(dont even get me started on that one!) and enjoy ourselves but it never winds up like that...please some advice
 V4Vivacious
Joined: 9/24/2007
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Posted: 10/23/2008 12:38:00 PM
cdbalk....

date older women
 crazeegyrl
Joined: 4/16/2008
Msg: 81
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Posted: 10/23/2008 1:14:18 PM
LOL-------your a slut if you have a high sex drive
a **** when you are high maintanence
a crackwhore if your high.......

You cant win them all.......who cares if your sex drive is high......F*ck and be merry, the man that chooses to be with you, wont care either way.

As long as you arent dry humping every man in site....whats the problem......


anyways gotta go......gotta take care of myself.............LOL.
 MeereKat
Joined: 2/11/2008
Msg: 82
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Posted: 10/23/2008 2:14:21 PM
To find......The kind that likes to be treated like a Lady .. and still have the *FIRE* to make something really Special...!!!...
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...and I think I _Have_...!!!
Fingers Crossed!!
 Sexy Nutty Bird!!!
Joined: 9/14/2008
Msg: 83
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Posted: 10/23/2008 3:09:28 PM
There is nothing wrong with having a high sex drive. I for one, love sex and I also consider myself to have a high libido; but, that does not mean, that I am going to be screwing with every guy that comes my way. Sex is a beautiful, and it should be embraced.
 cockplay
Joined: 10/20/2008
Msg: 84
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Posted: 10/23/2008 3:19:00 PM
OP: There is nothing wrong with a woman with a high-sex drive. Its not something I expect in a relationship, but if thats her nature I'm not gonna complain. My last gf had a very high sex drive as well. In some ways it brought us closer. It wasnt out of the ordinary for us to go at it two or three times a night, especially when her daughter wasnt home. If she hadn't wanted so much sex it wouldn't have changed our relationship at all. I mean it probably helped bring us closer sooner, but it would have happened in time anyway. The point is, how much sex you have shouldnt define how meaningful the relationship is
 Gestarte
Joined: 9/27/2006
Msg: 85
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Posted: 10/29/2008 10:13:02 AM
The important thing is that both of them reach several orgasms at the same time.
 MelloDLyn
Joined: 10/25/2004
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Posted: 10/29/2008 10:35:26 AM
I have a high sex drive also! Geez that is all I think about! I have problems finding someone with the same passionate drive I have. I have never been thought of as easy though. Just because your horny doesn't mean yur cheap or easy. I like to have sex on a regular basis. I like to do crazy things in crazy places and keep it exciting and try new things.
 jackster121
Joined: 9/2/2008
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Posted: 10/29/2008 10:41:29 AM
My second wife (and my first for that matter) had high sex drives while we were dating. Amazing sex. My second wife slowed way down after marriage and said that after she became a mom she didn't see herself as sexual. EGAD !
I would love a woman with a high sex drive, considering I am a multiple commer.
 GP-99
Joined: 10/13/2005
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Posted: 10/29/2008 10:56:53 AM
God Bless you Channy!!! ..hey..it is much easier to deal with someone who is more sexual than ones self...its all in how its dealt with..many things sexually can take little time to achieve great results. so, who cares if you can or cant keep up..its weather you willing to "DO" for your partner so they are happy..focus on ones partner if you hapen to be a bit tired one night..they will still be happy Channy hun..drop me aline anytime if you care to chat. At least we have something in common allready..
 SugahPieHoneyBunch
Joined: 8/10/2008
Msg: 89
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Posted: 10/29/2008 11:19:58 AM
I have a very high sex drive ,but only within the confines of a relationship . When I get the urge and I am not in a relationship , I tend to the need myself . Even if I am in a relationship ,and get the urge ,and he either, isn't in the mood ,or available , I still tend to the need myself . I have enough room in my life for a man and my toys .
 JumpMaster173rd
Joined: 10/23/2007
Msg: 90
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Posted: 10/30/2008 8:12:29 AM
GOOD DAY channy1004,
Having a high sex drive does'nt make you cheap. It means you need to stick to Guys that are capable of Slinging the D!@k for long periods of time like myself. To have a man who puts it down like this means you may have Multiple Orgasms if you are capable of doing so. I love a woeman who have a high sex drive because I am to Please a Woeman first. This is the key to great sex guys. If you
please one woeman you can bet your Sweet A$$ she will tell another woeman, and so on and so on. Woeman talk about Sexxx the same way Guys Do. I know first hand because I have sat with 7 to8 Ladies & myself who talked about everything from a
Small D!@k to Big P#$$Y'S. It Is What It Is. High Sexxx Drive Ladies = Pure Pleasure
only from a Real Man. Peace.
 AlansPhoto1
Joined: 5/19/2008
Msg: 91
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Posted: 10/30/2008 9:01:30 AM
Yeah I think its cool that women have High Sex Drives as men.
Sex is a Gift from GOD and to be enjoyed, A LOT and often.


Just Hope I can find one..
 Ambientflyer
Joined: 12/5/2007
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Posted: 10/30/2008 1:00:18 PM
It means you're normal and have managed to not be affected by poor social, educational, and parental conditioning and training. Way to go.
 tg55344
Joined: 9/22/2008
Msg: 93
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Posted: 10/30/2008 1:03:54 PM
I agree with Ambientflyer. Having a woman with a high sex drive would be a dream come true. I'm currently living with "Wedding Cake" syndrome.
 MeereKat
Joined: 2/11/2008
Msg: 94
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Posted: 10/30/2008 1:08:47 PM
I'm Overjoyed to have found a Lady - in my age-range - that still has some *Drive*..!!!
She may claim to have a reduced libido . .
But I have every intention of re-kindling a Bon-Fire..!!!
* One Lucky Lady *
The 'others' have had their chance . .
Their Loss
 greg8001
Joined: 7/10/2008
Msg: 95
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Posted: 10/31/2008 8:20:42 PM
A lot of the stereotypes about people or women with high sex drive has to do with how society has created and endorsed certain values, norms and roles for the different human sexes, and how these values, norms and roles have been enshrined in the general frameworks of the society and culture in question.

So far as women go, for hundreds of years in Western societies the role of women was focused around family, domestic life and child-rearing. It is only very recently that society, even somewhat reluctantly in some areas, has accepted women have the same abilities and capacity as men to work, get an education, and be economically independent. Behaviours which tended to be contrary in a real or apparent way to the traditional norms, values and roles of the genders in society were seen as morally devious, socially dangerous, and illegal (hence the bans on things like prostitution, though the qualified acceptance of such behaviour by the well off in society, provided a certain level of discretion was maintained).

There is a lot of hypocrisy and double-standards when it comes to human sexual behaviour and morality. I don't believe the two can be divorced, since ethical issues always arise when people relate to each other, in whatever manner. Even so, there is always a tension between what society demands and expects from people (including women) and the biological urges that drive sexuality, which are instinctive and tend to be beyond the control of the will.

It is inevitable that some women and some men will have a higher sex drive than others. This doesn't mean such people (any more than people who are gay for example) are somehow innately perverted or acting against some natural law. However, such drives (unless so far outside the general norm as to constitute a very unusual case) cannot in my view be used to excuse behaviour which is manifestly illegal (child abuse for example) or immoral (such as cheating on a partner).
 BuzWeaver
Joined: 7/7/2007
Msg: 96
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Posted: 10/31/2008 9:04:05 PM
Sex is 90% mental.
 sweet lady Lori
Joined: 3/19/2008
Msg: 97
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Posted: 11/1/2008 6:02:27 AM

Don't these types translate loosely (excuse the pun)...into "Nympho's" (?)


Um, not necessarily, but that depends on the individual woman!

I have a very high sex drive, yet do not have a man in my life right now. And, because I am NOT a "nympho", I do not "troll" in clubs/bars to find a man to satisfy my needs. I am celibate until the right man comes along who will be rewarded with my drive, which is always revving, but stuck in neutral right now
 FriendlyFreeSpirit
Joined: 8/24/2008
Msg: 98
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Posted: 11/1/2008 6:12:27 AM
Great post, greg.

There is a lot of hypocrisy and double-standards when it comes to human sexual behaviour and morality. I don't believe the two can be divorced, since ethical issues always arise when people relate to each other, in whatever manner. Even so, there is always a tension between what society demands and expects from people (including women) and the biological urges that drive sexuality, which are instinctive and tend to be beyond the control of the will.

Please read his ENTIRE post, DP. It will save you having to jump to conclusions.

OP: Read the last sentence. There will always be some men and who will label you becasue that's what they've been taught. Your high sex drive is something you're going to have to learn to live with and, hopefuly, embrace.
 1heart4luv
Joined: 9/15/2008
Msg: 99
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Posted: 11/1/2008 6:23:16 AM
Channy, a high sex drive is well worth it when needed to enhance a successful relationship but I would say that it could only help if your partner is as receptive and responsive to it as you are. There also must be an emotional connection between the two participating individuals. Sexual fulfillment is one of the major aspects of a satisfying relationship. Again, that is if both participants are very sexual beings.

On the other hand, many other individuals may choose friendship, compatability and many other reasons for describing what they may feel leads them into a successful relationship.

Remember the old addage: " Birds of a feather flock together!"; "Opposites attract but have nothing at all in common"!

Stay well,
Johnny
 greg8001
Joined: 7/10/2008
Msg: 100
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Posted: 11/1/2008 8:21:11 PM
"What are you trying to say? That men and women have equal thinking, wiring, DNA, and agendas as far as sex goes? Uh...Uh...don't even go there, honey....."

This is a strawman presentation of that section of my post. I was stating society has changed so that it is now accepted that women can do the same sorts of things once exclusively reserved for men in terms of education, career, work, etc. I did not say that changing social norms obliterated the biological differences between the sexes.

"Yours is an old argument. And flawed. The real way is this.
We old ladies have fought the good fight. For the right to vote, for the right to work and have jobs, for the equal rights in society that men have. (Remember those beer parlours that said "Women and Escorts"?)"

That was the point I was making.

"Tell the women that if they want equal rights, there has to be equal thinking in the sack, too. We want to fvck ourselves silly, whenever, wherever, whomever,and however is how most men think and are driven. NOW, you women gotta be that way, too. You gotta think like a man, too."

The issue of human rights and sexuality is a complex one, far more so than your simplistic analysis here. I don't think a reasonable person would expect everyone to be a carbon copy of themselves when it comes to sexual behaviour and desires. The wide differences between individuals means any simplistic application of stereotyping to people and their behaviour, including in sexual matters, will inevitably fail.

"ALL societies, be it animal or insect have their rules and boundaries. It keeps the societies healthy and functioning. This comes from thousands of years of evolution. Social conditioning of the past 25 years does NOT erase evolution. If you flaunt and disregard society's rules and boundaries, the fragile system that took 10's of thousands of years to perfect, falls to pieces."

I would agree that social change does not and cannot erase the biological roots of our sexual conduct. Social change also cannot remove the differences that exist, in a biological sense, between the sexes. Even so, social factors have and still are a very powerful influence on how people behave. The gender roles have changed due to social changes and these have also created changes in the expectations of society in terms of relationships, reproduction and sexual behaviour. I don't think I argued these changes mean men and women are now expected to behave the exactly the same when it comes to sex.
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