| When is the last time you cryed ? Why do we cry ?
Posted: 11/4/2008 11:08:03 PM | | More like "why do you feel the need to cry?". You want to know things you should cry about? Your mom died, so did your father, your best friend died on the way to their funeral, your stocks drop by 75% in 20 minutes, yeah, those are things to cry about. Crying over a lost love CANNOT equate to that. | |
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| When is the last time you cryed ? Why do we cry ?
Posted: 11/4/2008 11:29:23 PM | Thanks everyone^^^^ we will all be okay ' Despair
lonliness 'loss ''pain ''whatever your grievance and tears are about it all going to be OKAY .. A Lady once told me thru tears comes wisdom 'I Believe her '
What she did not tell me was how come or WHY ? it hurts so bad to begin with ????
I have been somewhat tearful to nite because of my working in the medical field .
I am witness to the non empathetic employees who do not care about there
assignment /duties or the receiving party of the task given to the
employee in regards to care needed and warranted by the people
rehabilitating '' aging or wanting to accomplish
simple adls {every day basic living need and tasks} ..
. It just seems
so demeaning and belittling to the helpless needy and sick that there
are not enough people who want to help them in there daily requirements for living as respectful human beings ..
They cry to me because I am available and this stresses me out big time 'I can
only do so much ...and have so much responsibility already 'I find it hard
to walk away with a smile and feeling
good about what and why I am there .
I am hopeful that this will change in the future and more people will get into the medical field ''There is a big demand for nurses aids and nurses ''right nowIn all states as stated in the stats and world news ...
Maybe its time for people to care about each other with or without pay ?
The elderly ''the sick ''the dying ''they all need
people to Love them unconditionally ''''Respect them 'care for
them & help them to survive the most quality of Life as one would want for themself
or deserve as a human being ...
We can do better in this area I just know it ..... !
Btw nursing pays good in many states & areas '' Right ?
KNOCK KNOCK Opportunity
Did u know that ??
Some nursing facilities offer free training '' education $ certification ...............................Surely ?
there is People who want a longterm career that pays rewardingly has promotional ladders to climb ect...>>>>dont be shy <<<< >>> here it is ''go for it ~~~~~~
Men and Women there are no decrepancies "" other than big heart and a helping hand or hands ! Of course the exceptions & legalities of crime in the 1st or something to that magnitude ... | |
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| When is the last time you cryed ? Why do we cry ?
Posted: 11/5/2008 12:12:39 AM | Tungsten
Sooo Soorry for your losses "'
That is tears not to be desired or excused by know means
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Although it does not mean other peoples tears are not warranted or valued any less
pain is pain ''sad is sad ''heartache is heartache ''It is not measured or precise it is
what is is ''It all hurts ''It all brings tears ''It all is valid ..
Its individual ''Its from the soul .. Some heal faster than others ''Some dont
heal at all ............... We do not all have the same dna or fit our shoes the same ..
However it does give one something who feels sad something far greater to think about other than himself or his problems { bring one to a more advanced state of being}} ''cause the realization or there problems could be or become far greater ...
and God forbid ''ya know
But we all have some of the same commonalities>> such as feelings ''..
God Bless you and everyone in there time of need ..
God Bless the fortunate with gratitude and the unfortunate with a greatful attitude ! | |
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| When is the last time you cryed ? Why do we cry ?
Posted: 11/5/2008 1:57:36 AM | I cried yesterday,thinking about christmas without my baby angel daughter.Wondering what things she would have wanted,that sort of thing and then cried really hard for it would have been her 18th birthday on new years eve | |
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Posted: 11/5/2008 4:49:47 AM | | I cried last night. I found out my son plans to move 3 hours away. He will be taking his g/f and my grandson with him. He will also be taking my heart. My car is a piece of crap and won't make that trip. I can barley think of not being able to see my grandson. I'm a wreck. | |
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| When is the last time you cryed ? Why do we cry ?
Posted: 11/5/2008 5:51:48 PM |
Tungsten
Sooo Soorry for your losses "'
That is tears not to be desired or excused by know means
''
Although it does not mean other peoples tears are not warranted or valued any less
pain is pain ''sad is sad ''heartache is heartache ''It is not measured or precise it is
what is is ''It all hurts ''It all brings tears ''It all is valid ..
Its individual ''Its from the soul .. Some heal faster than others ''Some dont
heal at all ............... We do not all have the same dna or fit our shoes the same ..
However it does give one something who feels sad something far greater to think about other than himself or his problems { bring one to a more advanced state of being}} ''cause the realization or there problems could be or become far greater ...
and God forbid ''ya know
But we all have some of the same commonalities>> such as feelings ''..
God Bless you and everyone in there time of need ..
God Bless the fortunate with gratitude and the unfortunate with a greatful attitude !
Man I feel like a complete tool because you typed all that shit out. I never went through those things, I was merely providing examples of things to legitimately cry about rather than wasting tears on something as trivial as love. | |
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Posted: 11/5/2008 6:15:48 PM | | If a person doesn`t cry now and then it`s not natural. Not everyone has the same sensitivity level but if they hold back from crying they are only cheating themselvs of discovering one of lifes greatest outlets and self discovery. Stress can often be relieved by just letting yourself go , one should never be afraid to dry!!! It shows you have a true heart and agood sense about yourself. If you`re unhappy at your job, move on to something that inspires you and challenges you in new ways. People who are afriad of failing never reach their true goals. It took Thomas Edison 500 tries to invent the lightbulb, when asked how he felt about all those failures , he answered , they weren`t failures they were experiments that didn`t work yet I discovered and patented dozens of other new items along the way. Women you must realize are much more competitive in the work field then most men, they expect more and often let trivial things interfere with their postions, When they argue they hold onto opinions much longer, Men can argue , disagree and even , battle it out with words and fists but in the next moment they pull together to find a common denominator that allows for completion of whatever task faces them. Be a good listener and never show distress and that in itself will work against the person who is trying to get you all worked up. Your a much better person than they are. Pat yourself on the shoulder !!!! | |
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Posted: 11/5/2008 9:22:37 PM |
Not everyone has the same sensitivity level but, if they hold back from crying they are only cheating themselves of discovering one of life's greatest outlets and self discovery.
I guess that would pertain to the type of person you would consider yourself. If you are the type that enjoys all the feelings and emotions the human body has then yeah, crying at the drop of a hat is recommended and your personality will make itself.
If you are the type of person that would rather live without a few of them then having a stiff upper lip is recommended more than whimpering. Granted, there are things you just have to cry about regardless such as a parent or loved one dying or the band Atreyu actually winning a musical award pertaining to heavy metal. But, there are times when I think a person should have some sort of discipline of maintaining a focused demeanor now matter how tough it got. Each time you grit your teeth and truimph over a pitfall in life, it strengthens your character. Do this enough times and you will become John Wayne himself.
I think it makes you more of a person to work through a problem and do what it takes to solve it rather than simply giving in and crying. Because that is really all crying is. Giving in to your emotions and letting them take the wheel. Even tears of joy. You can feel such positive energy sometimes that your mind quits trying to define it and you cry.
Now turn that frown upside down.
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| When is the last time you cryed ? Why do we cry ?
Posted: 11/6/2008 7:58:59 PM | This weekend. My ex-bf and I have been broken up for about a month now.
I really cared about his dad and listening to his dad's military stories. I saw a movie this weekend that had to do with fighter pilots in the military and I thought of his dad.
Of course then, I thought of my ex and I together and I just realized how much I really miss him.
It just doesn't seem fair to me. I cry because we had such a terrific bond and all of a sudden I lost him and his sweet dad and son. | |
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Posted: 11/7/2008 1:47:36 PM | I cried Tuesday night at eleven o'clock. It was at this time that I found out Senator Obama was now President Elect Obama.
I watched history being made and knew that all of my hard work on his campaign had paid off... | |
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| When is the last time you cryed ? Why do we cry ?
Posted: 11/7/2008 4:45:03 PM | | Some people cry at almost anything, and others will not cry for ANYTHING. As a matter of fact, I can not believe how incredibly stoic some of my relatives are. Maybe going through a couple wars and gut wrenching losses killed the tears forever. I just don't know . . . As for me, I lost a cousin in September who was like a brother to me when we were growing up. I thought about so many things that we had done together, and so many other things that will never be. I sat alone in the darkness, hot tears streaming down my cheeks, knowing that I will never see him again . . . | |
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Posted: 11/7/2008 11:42:28 PM |
I was merely providing examples of things to legitimately cry about rather than wasting tears on something as trivial as love.
 You SHOULD feel like a tool. You'd cry over money before someone you love? Money comes and goes like the tides. Love is a lot more elusive and when you find it (which I doubt you ever truly have by the 'tude) it should count for a lot more than a few bucks. I've been in love a few times, what I'd call true love, and in lust a few more on top of that. I'm not ashamed to say that the loss of a love interest affects my emotions a lot more than the size of my bank account. To me it's kind of shallow to put money before someone your in love with but thats just my opinion. I don't know, kindof ticks me off a little when people are on a Forum all about making a connection and the level of committment to the task at hand, the dedication, seems lacking. Again, just my opinion. To each their own I guess. Maybe its just all about the Booty Call for some.
Back on topic: Last time for me? (and my first post here)
Shook me pretty hard when just one year ago they removed 3 tumors from my Mother. By XMas they had her well into Chemo. In January, just when things were looking up.... dad and she stopped by on the way home from her treatments. They broke the news that he was ill too. Cancer in his blood.
I'm not ashamed to say it. I had held it together for Mom for 2 months... barely. But that was the final straw. I walked around all day in a daze, in shock. Later that night, alone, I lost it. Frustration, anger, despair, it all hit me. | |
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Posted: 11/8/2008 12:39:39 AM | Last I cried is maybe about 5 months ago. It was about a month or 2 after my ex broke up with me, and I was just reminicising the times, and I kinda lost it. I miss her still kinda, but at the same time, life goes on.
Crying definately helps, rather than bottle the emotions in. I did that for almost 10 years. Worst mistake. I think the longer you try to "tough it out"... eventually, you break down... then again, and again, and you then see yourself as an over-emotional person. Eventually, you'll be watching something like Snoopy Come Home and ball your eyes out.
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Posted: 11/9/2008 9:33:59 AM | Gs ''Imovin on '' Derickat
PrincessPpixie"""
Everyone here whose soul aches ''Sooo Sorry for your losses and tears 
Sometimes writing words to offer condolences ''empathy ''
understanding & Hope seems so nova '' superficial ''''awkward .....
Because the reality of what is written or by being in there shoes at
some point and time reveals that ^^ people experiencing
heartache could use a hug ''' a good ear '''and the presence
of someone who cares unconditionally ............... And'' a good ole down
home cup
of Java with a friend >>>>>>>> !
Have been thru tough times and a time or two that pretty sure was as close to H..elll
on earth as care or cared to be in ........... Dont wanna ever be in that place again
no matter what .
Now Everyday is like Thanksgiving ''GRATITUDE provides boost in Spirit and ATTITUDE
As for me I am so greatful for every thing I get to have
for living & comforts in Life ..
Greatful for getting to go to work ... laughing ''playing '''running '' seeing ''
Everything <<<< I get to be a part of or share while on this earth ...
Life still may throw me a curve ball or a big rock
and Life not always be a bed of Roses '''' But I
can ALWAYS ''always >enjoy one rose at a
time no matter what ! Believe ""Believe
God has been very very Good to me .......... Hopefully he will be to you too !
God Bless ! Ask for all you need and all goodness in your
time of healing .. BELIEVE
Pain ''' suffering '''Souls aching ""' just seems so unjustified Sometimes ! | |
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Posted: 11/9/2008 10:56:00 AM | PPPixie
You are having a time ''Not sure what to write ''Am sure there are no words
for the losses and grief that has befell upon you ''
However ^^^^ you have two Angels watching over you ""'<
They are not gone they were Special and needed ^^they have
just moved
to another
residence known as paradise or relocated to another
demension & time !
Hope you get an
abundance of Hugs & support in person ''by way of mail or email ....
There is some Special plan and Purpose that awaits you ''''
God Bless you with ''''Hope 'Strength ''Joy &
'' Grace ''and show you Favor today and days to come and his Love .
God works in Mysterious ways !
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Posted: 11/9/2008 12:28:39 PM | Thank you Butterfly,its much appreciated.
I cry whenever now,i don't hold back but sometimes my tears are happy ones.....remembering good times,happy times,funny times etc
I look at my daughter and smile at the legacy my late hubby left me as he watches us from heaven with my baby daughter
I feel better talking about them as they were and still are part of my life,neither will ever be forgotten
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Posted: 11/9/2008 2:26:27 PM | | I can't remember the last time I cried... but I know it was from laughing my ass off at some joke rather than because of something sad. I tend to look at the bright side of things. Its been at least 5 years since I cried over a guy -- yay!! | |
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Posted: 11/9/2008 2:33:03 PM | | Last night. I cried tons of tears when I finally accepted the fact that the woman who I love more than life itself would never be more than just a friend. We talked, we argued, I cried. I decided that I could no longer have her in my life because of this and the realization of doing it made me cry. | |
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Posted: 11/9/2008 3:28:59 PM | | For the past three hours. Sometimes life is just so frustrating. And I still don't feel better. I cry very easy when I become frustrated and just want some things so bad. | |
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Posted: 11/9/2008 3:40:20 PM | we cry coz its natural Ive seen posted ...and yes.. but that is just the bas eof it its the why and i hear you..those cliques and people being mean just to be mean doesn't just happen in high school and 'should know better' get in a job or higher learning and its still there in every field.. people are people.. but thank god not everyone in this crazy world of ours is mean and 'evil' and judgemental...there are people with good hearts and people that truly care and would spend there last dam dollar to help someone in greater need...people ferget what this life is for..and what our purpose is..live love laugh..live...live...as long as we are here in this life we are all we have...last time i cryed? about 4 hours ago for fear of losing a friend..i love so much so strong that it hurts so bad when i think a friendship may be headed fer disaster..and i pray that this one is not...but if it does end..ill hurt and reach out to others and heal yet another wound..in time.. be strong try yer hardest man.. this life dont last ferever...
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Posted: 11/9/2008 6:32:37 PM |
You SHOULD feel like a tool. You'd cry over money before someone you love? Money comes and goes like the tides. Love is a lot more elusive and when you find it (which I doubt you ever truly have by the 'tude) it should count for a lot more than a few bucks. I've been in love a few times, what I'd call true love, and in lust a few more on top of that. I'm not ashamed to say that the loss of a love interest affects my emotions a lot more than the size of my bank account. To me it's kind of shallow to put money before someone your in love with but thats just my opinion. I don't know, kindof ticks me off a little when people are on a Forum all about making a connection and the level of committment to the task at hand, the dedication, seems lacking. Again, just my opinion. To each their own I guess. Maybe its just all about the Booty Call for some.
Thank you for being so moved by a few phrases i might have typed on a forum. First off, I would like to see anyone try to live without money. I understand how you might have wrote your own story and made it out as if I meant being rich. No, I meant having enough money to take care of yourself and your responsibilities in life. It's called stability and it is a goal everyone should have for themselves unless they are a complete tool and shoot from the hip in their approach to life.
No, I don't think crying over a lost love can even come close to the grit it takes to stabilize your own life and make yourself into a stronger human being. If whimpering over the 7th or 8th person you might have "loved" in life is your way to get by emotionally then, by all means, here is a tissue and a container of bon-bons.
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