| When is the last time you cryed ? Why do we cry ?
Posted: 11/10/2008 9:00:45 AM | Last time I cried it took me completly by surprise. I was watching the election results, and when the Obamas came out on the stage, and I saw Jesse Jackson trying to hold back the tears, it was at that moment that I realized what it really meant.
It was completely and utterly moving ....... and I am not an American .......... | |
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| When is the last time you cryed ? Why do we cry ?
Posted: 11/10/2008 6:39:20 PM | Today as a matter of fact, the relationship ended and time is going forward but the healing process is a tough road. I know things will get better and I will start to miss him less and less but the little things thru out my day that remind me of him take me back and I shed a few tears. | |
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| When is the last time you cryed ? Why do we cry ?
Posted: 11/10/2008 9:13:21 PM | yes I cry , for all my losses in this life, because of not being able to keep my marriage, I cry because my sons are far from me.
I cried last week because my best friend past a way and it touched my heart.
I cry because there is so much anger and sadness in this world.
I cry because I hear of a story were somebody did something to help some one that they did not know.
I cry because of little things sad or good.
Does that make me week no it does not, it just shows the world that I have compassion and that I am a caring person, who loves life and who is comfortable with who I am.
So cry if you must there is no same in it, the worst that could happen is that you will fill more alive. | |
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siouxi
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| When is the last time you cryed ? Why do we cry ?
Posted: 11/11/2008 3:32:09 PM | I cried last week when my son was doing his 11plus exam...I was feeling under pressure (haha *I* -never mind him) and we kept getting phone calls and texts that morning wishing him good luck & it touched me
and so the pressure and the touching of emotions was too much to handle..
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| When is the last time you cryed ? Why do we cry ?
Posted: 11/14/2008 5:54:38 PM | Last time I cried was today. I was listening to a song....
Bruce Robison / Kelly Willis- Angry All The Time
http://ca.youtube.com/watch?v=_tUe8xJpK8E
Why? Just listen to it! I'm sure some of you can relate.
Now if I could just sing it without crying.....
Crying feels sooooo good. Feeling ,feels sooooo good. | |
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| When is the last time you cryed ? Why do we cry ?
Posted: 11/15/2008 2:20:21 AM | I cried yesterday, all day, and thats what I have been doing since April of this year, because I walked out of a 14 year marriage, to someone who was very controlling. I decided to leave and try to be strong. I started divorce after I left, been told, I will receive my absolute in January 2009. Which I cant wait.
But since, I ave done nothing but cry, not sure why, probably because I am all alone, except a couple of friends, and started college thinking it would take my mind of the divorce but its not as that is stressing me out as well.
Before this, the last time I cried was at christmas, as I miss my mum, who died whenI was 19, and christmas is when I miss her most, so having no mum through all this doesnt help as well.
I did start seeing someone, but he asnt been useful as well, everytime I get upset he goes of in a sulk, What is wrong with some guys these days, cant they see that we all need a cuddle or something, when we are upset.
I sometimes feel better when I have had a cry, but othertimes, I get a headache, as I have cried that much.
Lately, I'm sick of crying, as my head is going round in circles. Please dont get me wrong, I dont want my ex back, as I couldnt do nothing with my life, he as moved on now, all I can say, is good luck to her, as she will need it.
I know it helps sometimes talking it over with someone, but how can I sit and talk to someone, when I dont know myself.?
I am trying to be strong, for myself, but its hard, I feel like I put a brave face on when I see friends, collegues from college and my ex, as he would like to be friends, but I cant.
I know I have to be strong for myself, to get through all this.
So, dont forget, if you feel like crying, , then cry, it doesnt hurt. You might feel better.!! | |
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| When is the last time you cryed ? Why do we cry ?
Posted: 11/15/2008 5:40:46 AM | Yesterday and today.
I'm mourning the loss an e-buddy who I thought the world of.
We weren't as compatible on as many levels as I had believed, so we parted ways.
While I am grateful for the time we did spend together, it has left a gaping hole, and I feel wounded.
Endings are painful. | |
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| When is the last time you cryed ? Why do we cry ?
Posted: 11/15/2008 6:26:25 AM | | This morning, at the gym of all places. Do you ever just let your mind wander and you start thinking about things? A week ago today, I thought I was done crying. Oh how wrong I was...lmfao :) | |
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| When is the last time you cryed ? Why do we cry ?
Posted: 11/15/2008 7:48:04 AM | my dod is only 6 pounds in weight hes a mini yorkshire terrior and hes called shaggy and hes two. my friend didnt see him on wednesday and stood on him. he broke hes hip. i cried taken him to the vet and i cried after taken him home and i cried tooking him in that night.
hes doing well now. thank god.
i havnt cried over anything eles for years. | |
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| When is the last time you cryed ? Why do we cry ?
Posted: 1/6/2009 10:39:41 AM | I can't remember the last time I've [physically] cried. I believe it was a year and some months ago. I took a nap, and woke up weeping profusely. I guess as I recollect, not much has changed since then. Frustrated [over what ? dating, or the absence thereof, work, home, and just life] and the few outlets I do have I use.
I cry through my keyboard. That's why I write the way I do [lol some lady wrote me here and said "boy, you write too much, what woman wants to hear all of that ?" *end of message*]
I cry through my piano. I can't play symphonic tunes or full on scales of orchestra, but the songs I do know I play them and you can hear it.
I cry through my artwork. I've been drawing for 17 years.
Somehow you just get so frustrated. I know, men aren't supposed to feel..... pffft. At 25, the things I was raised to adhere to, are fleeting. They seem to not matter anymore. The things I was raised to cherish, are flying out of the window fast. You try to bear your soul and it's kinda like "oh, grow a set will you"
There are pictures I've drawn, that will never see the light of day. There are poems and thoughts that will never catch the ears. Those are the current tears. For some reason, I've never been able to[ or have allowed myself to] physically cry.
I do have outlets, but sometimes you just find a place, bury your head in your hands and bear your heart.
~Sw22 | |
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| When is the last time you cryed ? Why do we cry ?
Posted: 1/6/2009 12:11:01 PM | Last time...today...why...a man (but if anyone had asked I'd say because I stubbed my toe:P)
My sympathies mister 300:( HUGS
I'm with ya there Valentino...man that's a good (but tear jurking) movie. | |
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| When is the last time you cryed ? Why do we cry ?
Posted: 1/6/2009 2:06:16 PM | I cried last week when I got news that I was officially cancer free! Why, because at that moment I was the happiest girl in the whole damn world.
I know I have cried in anger, joy, fear, happiness, loss, accomplishment and for no reason at all.
People cry for any number of reasons. I'd say that there good reasons to cry and let things out... and then there are the kind that have no explanation and you should probably make sure you are not depressed. | |
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| When is the last time you cryed ? Why do we cry ?
Posted: 1/6/2009 7:01:49 PM | | I cried this morning after my wife and i had a talk about her funeral arrangements, bank account, 401k, insurance,casket, which cemetery, pal bearers,our sons future without her, you get the idea!! very tough morning!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ('')('') why do we cry? because we CARE!!!! | |
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| When is the last time you cryed ? Why do we cry ?
Posted: 1/6/2009 9:11:50 PM | April 31st 2008, most of May, quite a bit in June and I'm still shedding a few tears.
I lost my best friend, my right arm, my confidant, my heart.
We had spoken on Friday night and made arrangements to go to lunch on Saturday around noonish. (our weekend outting) He's usually a little late but always called when he woke up. When I hadn't heard from him by noon I knew something was wrong.
I finally got hold of his daughter-in-law and asked if she'd go check on him. She called me back about half an hour later and broke the news. She found him dead on his bathroom floor. I was devistated.
I'm finally moving forward in baby steps and have just started dating again. | |
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| When is the last time you cryed ? Why do we cry ?
Posted: 1/6/2009 10:13:42 PM | | I cry everyday any more. I hate being alone but will be strong. After 13 years to be cheated on and left for another.... thankfully I have my 3 year old and am a great dad. She knows I a sad but never sees my cry. I guess I should move on but hate being alone | |
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| When is the last time you cryed ? Why do we cry ?
Posted: 1/7/2009 5:39:18 PM | I cry sometimes. Who says boys don't cry? It's a healthy spiritual release that cleanses the pallette and gives you the strength to carry on...
Hospitals DO suck. They're for sick and dying people. I think you need a healthy outlet of aggressive exercise...sometimes anger is a good release too. | |
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| i cry alone
Posted: 1/7/2009 7:47:07 PM | i am crying right now. i am tired and crying and sad and blue. i want the man of my dreams, the job of my dreams. i want a man to fall in love with me, a man to listen to me, to get to know me....i don't want a man to leave me......
i may never find the right man for me, | |
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Joined: 12/4/2007
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| i cry alone
Posted: 1/8/2009 9:19:47 AM | | There is a time and place for crying. Crying at a funeral of a close friend / family member is understandable. But I wouldn't cry over the outcome of a movie, book or a sporting event. | |
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| i cry alone
Posted: 1/10/2009 10:04:26 PM | I cried just tonight after watching a sad love story. It reminded me of past loves lost. And I still often feel as if I will never find love again because it seems to be harder and harder to find it and even harder to keep it for long.
I often cry from loneliness, most of my immediate family live far away and I rarely see them, I can count my close friends on one hand.
I cry out of frustration. I am a gentle, easygoing person and most people misread me as being a wimp and will try without fail to use me and walk all over me. | |
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