| Im getting sick of women lying to me....
Posted: 10/26/2008 3:52:05 AM | It's a commonality among both sexes. I agree with the one poster that says blame the internet. I have never in my life known so many people that have been hurt and manipulated since the internet became so popular.
With so many different "social networks" people seem to have lost their sense of compassion towards others. They can be anything or anyone they want. If they think you want a party animal, that's who they are one day; they think someone else wants a person that is quiet and reserved, can do that one day also; someone wants a hopeless romantic? Done.
You are not real to them, you are simply a face on the screen. Sure they can type a few words and maybe even call and have a conversation with you, but you are still not a real flesh and blood human with feelings, you are the toy of the day, maybe month or so if you're lucky.
I'm sure there are plenty of sincere people out there, just that the opposite seem to out number them. | |
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| Im getting sick of women lying to me....
Posted: 10/26/2008 3:25:25 PM | | I agree with you that there are a lot of liars out there, but they are men and women. It's difficult at times to read between the lines, and believe me, I've been there and it doesn't feel good. Call me Pollyanna-ish, but I think there are probably more honest people than liars and cheats--we just have to learn how to weed out the bad ones. Easier said than done. | |
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| Im getting sick of women lying to me....
Posted: 10/26/2008 5:00:07 PM | Oh God not you and your incessant whining again. You know why women stay away from you? Because they know you are a woman hating cry baby . Lose the crappy attitude and maybe you can actually find someone. | |
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| Im getting sick of women lying to me....
Posted: 10/26/2008 5:39:11 PM | Sounds to me as if taking a break from dating would be the best answer if your so worked up over having a few bad runs at it. I don't know to many people who have not had a run or two of that sort of thing. Recollect yourself, work on other things for a while and come back to it with an open mind. There are both men and women who might lie about themselves, but with a closed attitude, you'll miss out on the one that comes along and is actually mature enough and stable enough to show honesty.
Take a break, until your head is cooled off from the experiences and go back in, approaching in a different way.
Nice guys and gals do not finish last, because they still have their dignity. | |
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| Im getting sick of women lying to me....
Posted: 10/27/2008 2:02:03 AM |
: Oh God not you and your incessant whining again. You know why women stay away from you? Because they know you are a woman hating cry baby . Lose the crappy attitude and maybe you can actually find someone
LOL !! I thought the same thing when i saw who it was.......
Op,please,go outside & take a deep breath.
Now,come inside & take some aspirin.
Go to bed & have a good lie down.
Things will look better in the morning.
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| Im getting sick of women lying to me....
Posted: 10/27/2008 8:47:27 AM | I would be impressed if i met a girl who can ask the first 3 questions without one of them being "what do you do" wich is really "how much money do you make"
I have yet to meet a woman that didnt end up traveling with her little gold panning kit.
I make a "decent" living and am set for life for a cozy not lavish living,but i always underplay that i have a maybe just a few bucks saved. | |
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| Im getting sick of women lying to me....
Posted: 10/27/2008 12:46:14 PM | | Hey, Mary frikin Poppins....I dont hate or bash women...Read some of my posts of me acually defending women before you open your mouth. You are one of the forum junkies that come on here and find certain people to attack because your bored with your life and have nothing better to do. Do yourself a favor and stop being such a cranky old woman because thats what your acting like. You probably havent experienced too many problems with dating recently because you havent gone through anything in a while cause of your crappy attitude when you respond to things. | |
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| Im getting sick of women lying to me....
Posted: 10/27/2008 1:47:59 PM | I tend to believe that in todays society, with the internet and being able to talk to anyone anywhere in the world, lies come easier than they did when you had to meet people face to face.
On the internet, you can be who you want, or who you think the other person wants you to be. Then it comes down to the meeting, and presto, guess what? The person whom you thought you were talking to, is really not all that. They get to hide behind their keyboard and produce anything that they want.
Dont have long, drawn out online conversations, they just complicate things. Try to meet asap, and then take it from there.
I dont believe in lying, I am who I am, I know what I want and how I want it. If you dont like me for what or who I am, then we are obviously not good for each other. | |
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| Im getting sick of women lying to me....
Posted: 10/28/2008 10:28:39 AM | I feel ya brother! I have been through this crazy scenario numerous times! I dont really understand how anyone can habitually put up with this crap! I dont ask for much,and i consider myself a nice guy,but quite often,i am lied too and taken advantage off,so to say the least,you are not alone.But dont get me wrong,MEN DO THE SAME CRAZY CRAP,it is debateable which one does it more...I am slowly learning that people nowadays do not have a clue as to what they truly want...some people finnaly get mr or miss right,and instead of being happy about it,they act a fool.
Trust me,I have heard more lies and excuses than i can sometimes deal with...Its one thing not to like someone,but there is no excuse for excessive lies and mind games.Im sure there are some women out there who feel this pain as well... | |
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| Im getting sick of women lying to me....
Posted: 10/28/2008 10:50:11 AM |
Read some of my posts of me actually defending women before you open your mouth.
Point out some of those post because in every single post you are whining ,pouting and complaining about women.
You are one of the forum junkies
Says one forum junkie to another. Pot meet kettle you are both black.
your bored with your life and have nothing better to do.
Says the chronically single man to the attached woman. You couldn't find a woman if your life depended on it.
stop being such a cranky old woman
Says the 31 year old single man doomed to a life of loneliness due to his bitter misogyny. | |
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| Im getting sick of women lying to me....
Posted: 10/28/2008 10:51:27 AM | Hey kiddo, its not just the lying that gets me its the not being open and honest enough to let a person know what the hell they want from you. The games come in all shapes and sizes, lying being one of them. Not sure what gets me more the lying or the not being told the whole truth.
We are all in the same boat, again not gender based. Put them all in the same room and let them loose on each other and that would leave room for those of us who want a decent relationship.
Just my opinion. | |
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| Im getting sick of women lying to me....
Posted: 10/28/2008 11:54:01 AM | | Hey Mary freakin poppins,your posts are pretty rough dont ya think.I can tell by his posts that he was a pretty decent guy,and probably still is .He just seems to be sick and tired of of encountering lies and deception in such a rapid succession....in the dating scene,i have learned that this can become pretty irritating and exhausting after a while;take it from someone who has been there numerous times...Ican tell ya one thing,you calling him a whinner does not help at all...this is something that can happen to anyone...EVEN YOU! Why not try a different approach instead of fighting fire with fire or the "cry me a river"routine...honestly,I think he was describing women with the type of attitude you displayed based off your comments...that ha,ha,ha,and that laughing smilling face approach to this is enough to question your age...try some kindness will ya,and perhaps he can change his perception... | |
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| Im getting sick of women lying to me....
Posted: 10/28/2008 12:09:41 PM | | ^^^^ Man I have been here way longer then you and have been watching the train wreck that is the op spout the same garbage for years. Enough of the poor pitiful me already. It's sickening! He should grow up and grow a pair. You can only pity someone so long before you get sick of their incessant whining and misogyny. | |
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| Im getting sick of women lying to me....
Posted: 10/28/2008 12:44:33 PM |
Hey Mary freakin poppins,your posts are pretty rough dont ya think.I can tell by his posts that he was a pretty decent guy,and probably still is .He just seems to be sick and tired of of encountering lies and deception in such a rapid succession....in the dating scene,i have learned that this can become pretty irritating and exhausting after a while;take it from someone who has been there numerous times...Ican tell ya one thing,you calling him a whinner does not help at all...this is something that can happen to anyone...EVEN YOU! Why not try a different approach instead of fighting fire with fire or the "cry me a river"routine...honestly,I think he was describing women with the type of attitude you displayed based off your comments...that ha,ha,ha,and that laughing smilling face approach to this is enough to question your age...try some kindness will ya,and perhaps he can change his perception...
If you hate the dating scene so much then stop looking. Simple really. I don't like bowling so I don't go bowling. You cannot change situations just how you deal with them. Dating will always be irritating and exhausting - bowling (to me) will always be boring. If I want to go as a last resort I will go. I won't make something I don't like my main priority. | |
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| Im getting sick of women lying to me....
Posted: 10/28/2008 12:51:26 PM | | Ive been doing it for years? Listen, you must have forgoten to take your Im old pills because I have only been on here for 7 months and didnt start hitting the forums until 5 months ago. I think you just may be one of the bad ones and hate being called out. I have never, and I mean never said all woman were like that at all. I have said women, like men, are getting worse, and you mis are definently a prime example of it. Do yourself a favor and go get l__d and maybe your menapause will stop giving you the Im a b___h syndrome | |
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| Im getting sick of women lying to me....
Posted: 10/28/2008 12:53:41 PM | | And before its brought up, yes mary, I know your 34 but you have the attidue of a grouchy old lady, thats the point I was trying to make | |
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| Im getting sick of women lying to me....
Posted: 10/28/2008 1:04:12 PM | | Fair enough,Mary Freakin Poppins.you got some good points,Ill admit,but are you being honest with yourself,wether you know it or not,you are whinning now!And it seems I got your attntion big time.Why not try to related,rather than compare your situation to his if you truly have been where he is/are...you are giving yourself away as to what you have truly been through with men.MANY men and women feel the same way as this fella...I worked with women for 17yrs,and 90% of them were complainers,whinners,liars,men haters,and trouble makers...90% of my dates were the same.I could have caused some serious damage to many women if i handled my situations with them the way you handled this fella's.Evryone gets angry and strikes out,and beleive me,i understand you dont like misogynies,but if you can show compassion,maybe he will drop that attitude...how you decide to handle him or or ANY date will determine what kind of a person you really are...but the same rule does apply to him as well...so far you have stirred up conflict,and i hope you dont plan on handleing your other dates like this...I can tell ya some horror stories involving that... | |
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| Im getting sick of women lying to me....
Posted: 10/28/2008 1:41:31 PM | | Good point,abitmuch,but I think you got the wrong idea...i wasnt suggesting this guy nessasarily"make something he doesnt like his main priority".I was mainly reffering to some negative comments by someone....and i dont hate the dating scene:)! The dating scene seems to be important to him...but someone made negative comments towards him,and i thought that needed some attention... | |
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| Im getting sick of women lying to me....
Posted: 10/28/2008 2:36:53 PM |
I see this post a ZILLION times, people lie, people are phony, on and on and on and on
Speaking of truth, do you REALLY see it a ZILLION times? | |
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| Im getting sick of women lying to me....
Posted: 10/28/2008 2:52:54 PM | SHMODZILLA------I would be impressed if i met a girl who can ask the first 3 questions without one of them being "what do you do""? which is really "what do you do? so when can have something to talk about" not the "how much money do you make".
I have yet to meet a woman that didn't end up traveling with her little gold panning kit=== Ok we haven't meet but i don't pan for gold or silver or gems. When I did have a boyfriend I paid for dinner about 55% of the time, Told him if he wanted to buy flowers let them be wild flowers (not roses).
--OP I am not saying i never lie, but when I do, I have a good reason....... to avoid hurting someones feelings i might say that tops looks better in another color or something like that. But I do not understand the lying deceitful part of life-- you don't love me anymore break up with me don't cheat on me than say I haven't loved u in years. Lying for some is second nature telling the truth would be shocking to them. But I understand men hate women lying and cheating women hate men lying and cheating. Highschool sucks for way to many people why would they want to repeat it.
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| Im getting sick of women lying to me....
Posted: 10/28/2008 3:32:14 PM | OP ---
Yes there are liars out there female, male, young and old. There are all kinds of rats, four legged and two legged. Now that you know that, what are you going to do to avoid them?
The best liars are pathological because they believe their own BS. However, if you know them for a while you will spot them because they can't stop themselves from telling the occasional whopper. People who claim to tell the truth all of time are ...... liars.
The liars are not going to stop because you want them to, you will have to learn how to spot them. Look up "body language" and you will find out how to spot liars. Live and learn.
Good luck,
Jim | |
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| Im getting sick of women lying to me....
Posted: 10/28/2008 5:25:48 PM |
frikin honest?... frikin adults... need to frkin grow the hell up ...
I'm guessing part of the problem is that you don't know how to swear properly, for fvck's sake. Women respect a guy who can use the word fvck for every part of speech there is.... well, except for an article or preposition, but the word fvck or its participles covers pertty well every other part of speech.
Just sayin'....
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| Im getting sick of women lying to me....
Posted: 10/29/2008 1:41:30 AM | its pretty much that naive guys have to lie to get a date etc, and then find that lying is so much more gratifying, and women so much more attracted to liars
pretty much a vicious circle | |
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| Im getting sick of women lying to me....
Posted: 10/29/2008 5:00:36 AM | I really enjoyed reading the responses to this thread.not! Maybe you should play for the other team..you and plentyofluv can get together "women haters" ..everyone had good advise, yet you said nothing until Mary Poppins said something..geezzz Guys life is too short..I know I'm not all that..but you might want to think about changing that hairstyle..or pic..makes you look like you have a square head..lol | |
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