| Im getting sick of women lying to me....
Posted: 10/29/2008 6:26:54 AM | | Wow, you are very scarey. You should consider counseling for your anger and controll issues. Your profile scared me! Get some help. | |
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| Im getting sick of women lying to me....
Posted: 10/29/2008 10:23:13 AM | SHMODZILLA------I would be impressed if i met a girl who can ask the first 3 questions without one of them being "what do you do""? which is really "what do you do? so when can have something to talk about" not the "how much money do you make"
Omg what a poor translation. -- "what do you do" tells what the person's interests are and from there branch out to a conversation. Even if someone is unemployed there is conversation as "what is your preference on how you spend your days" Geesh! Maybe you should go to www.womenbashing.com. | |
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| Im getting sick of women lying to me....
Posted: 10/29/2008 8:20:35 PM | This goes out to mary freakin poppins and anyone else who has negative things to say about degostyle. I happen to be the person he is referring to in this post. He doesn't deserve the slander he is getting. He is a good guy who deserves to be loved the way our grandparents used to love. Not the in and out of love people seem to have today. He has a kind and very forgiving heart. He has morals and values. He is considerate and thoughtful. He is good looking and down to earth. This world could use a few more like him. And unless you have never complained about how someone has treated you, you have no reason to bad mouth someone who is just blowing off some steam. I will say this......I am a better person for knowing him and look forward to getting to know him even more.  | |
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| Im getting sick of women lying to me....
Posted: 10/30/2008 4:33:14 AM | | I used to be looking for Mr. Right. That didn't mean that every guy I met was Mr. Right. It also didn't mean that I was lying about it, just because every guy I met didn't turn out to be Mr. Right. Just because you talk to someone, and YOU don't turn out to be "her" Mr. Right doesn't mean that she's lying about looking for Mr. Right. | |
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| Im getting sick of women lying to me....
Posted: 10/30/2008 4:35:28 AM | This goes out to mary freakin poppins and anyone else who has negative things to say about degostyle. I happen to be the person he is referring to in this post. He doesn't deserve the slander he is getting. He is a good guy who deserves to be loved the way our grandparents used to love. Not the in and out of love people seem to have today. He has a kind and very forgiving heart. He has morals and values. He is considerate and thoughtful. He is good looking and down to earth. This world could use a few more like him. And unless you have never complained about how someone has treated you, you have no reason to bad mouth someone who is just blowing off some steam. I will say this......I am a better person for knowing him and look forward to getting to know him even more
So, you're the liar? | |
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| Im getting sick of women lying to me....
Posted: 10/30/2008 4:56:22 AM | If the only women you date are actually gold diggers, then quit chasing after High Maintainence Barbie with the Spray On Tan, and you won't have that problem. It's actually a bit paranoid to think that "what do you do" means "how much money do you make?" Sometimes it's just a "safe" conversation starter with someone you just met. There are dating sites that offer that up on their list of "ice breakers" for a first date, so some of these women might be going by that, having no idea that it would make them forever in your eyes, (the audience gasps) a Gold Digger!
It always cracks me up that the men who think all women are gold diggers are the guys who don't even have money. If you have nothing to dig for, what are you worried about? | |
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| Im getting sick of women lying to me....
Posted: 10/30/2008 5:06:44 AM | This is for DegoStyle: My very best advice to you would be to take anything you read in a profile, and anything that's said in email or IM or even on the phone with a grain of sand. Just consider it free entertainment, until you actually meet and truly get to know the person. Don't put too much faith into another person until you really feel you have reason to believe you can. Never consider anything online "true," I used to even say on the forums "my profile is completely true, but I wouldn't even advise anyone to believe my own profile, till they get to know me."
It seems the internet has made it easier for people to "be" anything they want to. So instead of spending a lot of time getting to "know" someone online, (or even on the phone) plan to meet as soon as you can. You can get a much better gut feeling about someone in person than you ever can "electronically."
If I remember correctly, you are one of the folks that think that a long distance thing is workable. Well it might work in some instances, but there surely is much more opportunity for someone to lie in those instances, don't you think? I think it's easier for someone who is married to jerk someone along, if they do it long distance, for instance. Many people who get into the whole "long distance online relationship" thing only do it because they are commitment phobic and this is a way for them to never really commit. After reading so many of the forums here, I think that "long distance" is just asking to be lied to, for the most part. Maybe you should consider just meeting people in your own area, that you can meet soon after you make contact with them? I would hate to invest weeks or months in a "long distance" thing and then find out the person wasn't who they said they were, etc.
Sometimes I think that people aren't even intentionally "lying" on their profiles or online...I think they are unconsciously describing themselves the way they WISH they could be, or the way they want to be seen. Just don't believe anything till you see it, and you will have better luck weeding out the liars and idiots. | |
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| Im getting sick of women lying to me....
Posted: 10/30/2008 6:57:45 AM | | well i got to agree...until know woman from the internet just want there ego stroke and see how much guys can talk to them thats it!..when you aske them to meet you and they say yes then turn around and make up this horseshit that they cant its because in there mind it will stop the fun of going back on the net!! lets face it there net junkies! | |
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| Im getting sick of women lying to me....
Posted: 10/30/2008 8:11:48 AM |
This goes out to mary freakin poppins and anyone else who has negative things to say about degostyle. I happen to be the person he is referring to in this post. He doesn't deserve the slander he is getting. He is a good guy who deserves to be loved the way our grandparents used to love. Not the in and out of love people seem to have today. He has a kind and very forgiving heart. He has morals and values. He is considerate and thoughtful. He is good looking and down to earth. This world could use a few more like him. And unless you have never complained about how someone has treated you, you have no reason to bad mouth someone who is just blowing off some steam. I will say this......I am a better person for knowing him and look forward to getting to know him even more.
A confessed lying woman who treats dating and POF like it's high school??
And she's a stand by your man kind of gal too......
Bonus points for this gal fellas! | |
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| Im getting sick of women lying to me....
Posted: 10/30/2008 9:52:26 AM | I now pronounce degostyle and Mary freakin Poppins man and wife- now they can legally pound on each other....
And I'm shocked, SHOCKED!! to hear that some folks tend to be rather optimistic about their ages, weights, likes, dislikes...etc... I've gone on dates with a number of nice ladies from this site and another and if they weren't always quite what the other had advertised- I'm sure they may have thought the same of me, I still had a good time snoofling around the museum or park or chatting over dinner and enjoyed myself and tried to make sure they had a good time too.
Not sure of the nittygritty of th OP's situation with the lady but, as Abitmuch and another one- Spoken For? said, meeting at events or dances and meeting someone in person as soon as both are comfortable with it is probably a better way to go to get a gut reaction. | |
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| Im getting sick of women lying to me....
Posted: 10/30/2008 10:54:30 AM | It seems we've all had our ups and downs with both males and females and the bad eggs are always harder to take but I've got to agree in someways with degostyle.
Ive dated some of the sweetest girls at times, and usually for 1yr plus... but the last three have ended up going sour in a big way. Something seems to snap and they've turned into nasty girls that I'd have never expected from them even after knowing them for so long before dating. Two we're cheating on me, one (My sons mother) offering herself to an ex who was a raging alcoholic who had beat her regularly and offering other sex acts to TWO army guys (in the same bed type activities, not going into details, I'm pretty relaxed about bedroom stuff but this stuff was WiErD)
And the most recent ex kept our relationship going while telling my friends how I'd become a stalker and other horrible stuff. Even after we split she was still offering to "stay over" and how our relationship wasn't completely over. The worst kick in the gut was how she sat telling me how much she misses me followed by "I'm sleeping with that guy you don't like" then goes back into how much she misses me in the same sentence!!!!
It hurt me beyond words but I had to cut all contact with her as it was tearing me apart and begun effecting my Uni work!
Yes, I've seen my fair share of blokes treating female friends like utter crap and hate it but I get the feeling most women like the nasty guys. I'll also admit I'm not perfect and messed up a relatioship or two up in my time. I'll just never understand why a girl would prefer a sleaze or a wife-beater over someone they say themselves is a caring, loving person who they would hold dear for ever!?!??!!?
If I had answers, I'd be VERY rich, meanwhile we just have to go through the pain and keep on trying I guess!!! | |
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| Im getting sick of women lying to me....
Posted: 10/30/2008 11:36:51 AM | 
Women liers? 90% of the female population in florida possesses that quality!
Men? 99.9% of them are liers.
Conclusion: Both men and women lie, why?
Because they need to feel good about themselfes via other people's misery!
Who comes to a dating site looking to hangout/make friends
MEN IT IS A DATING SITE!!! DATING SITE!
you want to make friends go to a bar, bowling, church, wherever the hell youre able to find big groups of people!
Just by that you are all already lying... If youre looking for a hook up or some intimate encounters craigslist is the place to go ;-)
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| Im getting sick of women lying to me....
Posted: 10/30/2008 12:18:36 PM | I think it's about power really. How much you own, how confident and tough , or education ,socio-economical position. The media manipulates us . Just look at some of the popular people on TV shows , Gossip Girl Natty's, 90210 snotty pretty poo poo crap, yet if you are male , you struggle to make money , desire power because as Scarface said "When you got the money you got the power and when you got the power you got the woman." .. Just look at the way women line up for sex with rock stars , or professional sports players. No it's not a very kind world sometimes is it? Just hang in there, try to avoid showing anger .  | |
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| Im getting sick of women lying to me....
Posted: 10/30/2008 1:41:29 PM | | I never even watched any of those shows but now we're blaming television? This is just as bad as the Beatles declaring their love for satan on a 45lp. Can we stop blaming the entire female species here? How about going to an anti-female site then? I can read between "not all females but" ... then tell it to those females. Why do the rest of us have to get bashed in the interim? | |
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| Im getting sick of women lying to me....
Posted: 10/30/2008 3:19:12 PM | | Be aware of men and women on here who say things like "most men or most women", because what they truly mean is all men or all women. They are haters of the opposite genders and should be avoided at all cost. | |
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| Im getting sick of women lying to me....
Posted: 10/30/2008 3:50:49 PM | To abitmuch:
Let's get one thing straight. I didn't lie to him. There was someone I had been seeing and it was a bad relationship. It was on again off again and he really was a liar. Every time I would learn something new he had done wrong, he would have an excuse for it. I had to learn the hard way. I finally learned that I was fed up with his crap. I thought I was ready to move on when I met degostyle on here. We made plans to meet but I ended up backing out. I had to end a bad relationship first before I could move on to a healthy one. That was the right thing to do. So if that makes me a liar then so be it. To anyone else who is reading....any relationship can work if you really want it to. Even long distance ones. If it is meant to be nothing (including distance) will stand in the way. I am grateful degostyle didn't give up on me. I'm not a bad person and didn't mean for anyone to get hurt especially the good guy. Some of us are good girls. And not all nice guys finish last. | |
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| Im getting sick of women lying to me....
Posted: 10/30/2008 3:56:13 PM | | Why are you coming to me? I don't care about your life ... I really don't. Why are you even posting - this thread is an anti-you thread that the OP created. Not me. | |
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| Im getting sick of women lying to me....
Posted: 10/30/2008 3:58:40 PM |
Let's get one thing straight. I didn't lie to him.
Yet he says you did. He just demonized you on a public forum in bunch of a front of strangers and here you are canonizing him? Wtf! Lady you obviously don't know and have never experienced good treatment. Actually I don't think you are the person he is talking about at all because no sane person is going to come in here and admit to being a liar , having a high school mentality and playing games with someone.
Someone let the troll out again. | |
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| Im getting sick of women lying to me....
Posted: 10/30/2008 4:03:29 PM | | hey poppins, back off. Are u so bored with ur life AND the boyfriend you say u have that you need to put ur nose in other peoples business? | |
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| Im getting sick of women lying to me....
Posted: 10/30/2008 4:37:08 PM | | Dego - the person treats you like crap - you create a thread to vent - and now you are defending the very person that treated you like crap? If she wasn't ready to move on then don't waste time creating a profile on POF. You didn't have anything to do with her last relationship. Why involve you in her issues? You are mad at the wrong person ... it shouldn't be MaryfreaknPoppins. Its your thread ... and your life. For someone that posts in their profile they don't play games and then tries to convince us they're not a liar ... um, your call. | |
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| Im getting sick of women lying to me....
Posted: 10/30/2008 5:09:24 PM | Apparently the op has no idea that this is a public forum and that by posting questions or scenarios on here that you would get comments . You have made your personal life everyones business by posting it on a forum that the public can read . Perhaps the op thought that this was some sort of private online diary?  | |
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