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| Im getting sick of women lying to me....
Posted: 6/28/2009 8:40:19 AM | Lying comes fron insecurity in my experience to more insure the women the bigger the player/liar.
Easy to tell though, play the comparison game hot or cold, pepsi or coke, watch the way the answer then jokingly ask if their a player, see if they look away, touch their hair, blink, etc, etc.
Let them know you know, but you dont give a xxxx. | |
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| Im getting sick of women lying to me....
Posted: 6/28/2009 11:46:53 PM | | well believe me there are alot of shady people out there but you cant stop looking for that person that is right for you everyone goes through cheaters and liers at least once in their life. | |
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| Im getting sick of women lying to me....
Posted: 6/29/2009 9:16:06 AM | | Don't get so attached so quickly. You dont know someone for a while and I believe people get way to into someone too quickly instead of taking your time and feeling things out. Don't take it personally; its a character flaw of the liars. | |
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| Im getting sick of women lying to me....
Posted: 6/29/2009 10:45:38 AM | | it is probably giving the decent women on here a bad name but i think there are a lot of men on here that do the same so prob some women are a bit more frightened of commiting themselves to a date, and why do some put pics on that were taken ten years ago. | |
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| Im getting sick of women lying to me....
Posted: 7/3/2009 2:47:19 PM | I agree that there are probably a lot of men who feel they have to lie as well. I just tell em the truth. That I am a nuclear physicist come rocket scientist come rock star come doctor come lawyer come senator come judge come nobel prize winning author but lost all of my delusions of grandeur and now am just a regular joe... and see what happens! 
Mr. M | |
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| Im getting sick of women lying to me....
Posted: 7/3/2009 2:53:46 PM | | I understand where you are coming from and no not all women lie. BUT where do you think we learned that kind of behaviour? It all started with men. Im not saying that its a good thing because its not, lying isnt a great start to any relationship. Im just saying that us women have been screwed around for a long time. Just turning the tables on ya, you know dose of ur own medicine.....sad but true. U'll find the girl your looking for. Good luck. | |
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| Im getting sick of women lying to me....
Posted: 7/3/2009 6:30:28 PM | Well -same here.This site sure is like a car lot for used cars.....just about everybody who I have met is trying to push their stories -at times I feel like they are for "sale" ,holding a sign"pick me pick me".
The bottom line is -take your time ,have nobody rush you.Don't fall for the "chemistry thing"-look for quality.Plain and simple. | |
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| Im getting sick of women lying to me....
Posted: 7/5/2009 11:10:00 AM | Do most people really lie at POF? I am ignorant. This is my first post at a dating site and I have not dated in 20+ years so I have not got a clue how people really behave when looking for somebody for....
Does lying work? If you were looking for long term wouldn't your lies be discovered and held against you? I suppose lying could get a person to not be rejected in 20 seconds by somebody checking out their online profile. Is that why people do it?
Do people think that they look bad on paper but if you just meet the "real them" then you might fall in love with them and forgive them for their lies? | |
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| Im getting sick of women lying to me....
Posted: 7/6/2009 4:26:05 PM | well I left my home town after meeting a fellow on here, to find out he lied to me....
I guess wwashing his clothes,making his meals, giving him a vehicle, keeping thw3 house spotless, giving him great sex,help0ing with his drug addict kid, putting him on my insurance and last but not least being faithful,lkind,caring, and sharing my heart and life and bankbook wasnt enough!
You see your right some women are sneaky but this one wasnt... Maybe if I was I wouldnt be in the mess iam in now.
it works both ways.....but some men and women want to play house,honeymoon and whatever... But I was just seeking honesty and a good man, and be equal, and put 110% into someone that cared...
Iam sure there are many real good men and women its just how does one trust ever again?
signed... confused with mexed feelings... | |
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| Im getting sick of women lying to me....
Posted: 7/6/2009 4:49:44 PM | | YOU ARE RIGHT. I hear the same crap, and I keep getting screwed over, I AM SOOOO SORRY, that I am a gentleman and I actually WANT NOT NEED, but want to have a relationship, a marriage, and a family. I hear all these girls saying it, yet they are in their late 20's or early 30's and act completely different. Also, if you have "drama with an ex" don't go online saying you want a relationship and you are over this person. Yes I am attentive to you, but when I get a phone call from an ailing friend, on the fourth of july, somebody I went to Iraq with, don't get pissed at me for being on the phone comforting a friend (after you tell me how you find that to be a turn-on) for 20 minutes, storm out of the bar, and say you don't ever want to talk to me again. I think the problem is this, we are dealing with GIRLS, I WANT A WOMAN, b/c I AM A MAN | |
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| Im getting sick of women lying to me....
Posted: 7/6/2009 5:45:11 PM | Hi! I saw your posting and I thought hey I feel the same way about Guys!
I honestly don't know what some Womens problem is like I am not sure what some Guys problems are. It seems it is equal on both sides to be honest with you. It sounds like you are having the same problems that I am having. You are finding people and instead of them being honest what they want they think it is a game to pick on people. I wish you the best of luck and hope it all works out for you. I honestly do. Hey lets say a prayer for each other! LOL | |
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| Im getting sick of women lying to me....
Posted: 7/6/2009 6:09:40 PM | i get the games played on me too, and i sympathise with you, i bleive
those women paly the games because they have had them played on
them also, so the only way those miserable souls can feel better is
by jerking guys around, to build themselves up by tearing others
down, at least i can sleep at night because i dont bring myself down
to thier level , i couldnt in good concience ever pull the same stunt
on the women, so keep in mind that those losers just want to drag you
down to thier level dont let them do it, im sure there are decent women
out there, and on here , but its like looking for a needle in a haystack
but that needle does get found from time to time, and in defense of the
ladies im sure some of us guys do the same thing to them, so we,d have
to put the blame on both sexes, but the fact is you were being decieved
and thats just plain wrong | |
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| Im getting sick of women lying to me....
Posted: 7/7/2009 7:31:29 AM | Women are not less honest today than they were before. With experience we see more of the things we don't want to see. And we generalize.
Which makes me think that we have a selective memory... because we forget all the times when we were cowards, cheaters, deceivers, etc.
In my last relationship, the man I met said he would flip burgers to be with me and that he was different from the others. I am sure he was meant it and strongly believed what he said. (He also cheated on me in the past but he is convinced is a great guy who would not hurt anyone intentionally). When our plans became more concrete, reality scared him and he shut me down. I had to dump him for the sake of rescueing my own sanity.
Today I am sure that he is convinced he didn't do anything wrong and I am the baddy. We are just selective values and memories... All of us. | |
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| Im getting sick of women lying to me....
Posted: 7/7/2009 10:15:06 AM | | Wow, Is that what the guys here think? I put average because I'm a bit curvy for thin (have hips after all because I have had 3 kids), don't work out so not athletic, don't really know what a few extra pounds is on my height, and certainly not Big and Tall, and what exactly is BBW... | |
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| Im getting sick of women lying to me....
Posted: 7/7/2009 10:17:18 AM | | Right on, should have a date on the main Bio pic caption...now i do have older ones up of me looking "normal everyday gal" Because when I posted the newest ones I have from March 09, all I got was liars and horn dogs... | |
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| Im getting sick of women lying to me....
Posted: 7/7/2009 10:37:29 AM | A bit about finding a woman instead of a girl...
Men say "No Drama with ex"...
To me drama does not = "I'm not over him", drama could be (like my case) he is Biological father of my kid, uses drugs, is a liar, abused me when we were together and can't live up to the fact he gave up his rights to my kid over $600.00. Hence he harasses me from time to time, I don't ask for this DRAMA but would be lying to say it never happens. Is hating him drama? I think I have reason to just say No I don't like him at all and it not be drama.
Men say "No baggage"
I am in my late 30's and tell the blunt truth on my profile, yet these men who say they want the truth can not accept that I do have the proverbial baggage, any girl who has and is really wanting the marriage and happy life goes through mistakes to find the one, but that hasn't stopped me.
Men say "I want honesty, no liars, no one night stands"
Yet skip over the "average looking gals" pics and talk to the hotties (who by the way are in thier 20-early 30's, without baggage cause they haven't lived)...I tend to need a physical spark as well as any man, but that can be just one feature, eyes, hands, smile etc. For example, the other day I did try to open up to a total Hottie and because of my most recent pics (which are not on profile now) all he wanted was IM sex, said he was looking for "the one"  ya ok. I myself wanted to show that I can dress up, be sexy, look nice and mistakenly thought those pics would help me...alas they do not. And since I've removed them I've only gotten 3 emails.
Just my thoughts... | |
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| Im getting sick of women lying to me....
Posted: 7/8/2009 6:34:40 AM |
guess wwashing his clothes,making his meals, giving him a vehicle, keeping thw3 house spotless, giving him great sex,help0ing with his drug addict kid, putting him on my insurance and last but not least being faithful,lkind,caring, and sharing my heart and life and bankbook wasnt enough!
I don't ask for ANY of that, yet I get overlooked?
I am going to lie myself: Women are not strange...
well, yeah, they are. | |
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