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Posted: 8/6/2009 7:24:05 AM | Welcome to the superficial, shallow world of online dating! I'm on here for the forums and a place to goof off. I might find someone here, who knows. I know this much, I am not holding my breath.
Someone recommended signing up with a bbw site, wich is fine but it's the same shit and it costs money, lots of money! You won't hear from many more than you do here, and they still will only find you acceptable as a sex partner and nothing more.
largepassions is a free site for BBW's. Not many people on it but it is free.
But don't give up on this site, there are so many on here you just have to be patient and try to stay positive through it all. I put in my introductory title that I am big, that will weed out all the ones who don't find themselves attracted to large people ( wich constitutes about 90% both men and women ). I also don't contact men on here, I wait to be contacted. I've put myself out there this much and thats as far as I'll take it. People are more rude over the net, it's the whole annonymitiy of the thing and if you are not up to the status quo appearance wise, it's better to let them contact you first. Trust me.
I'm a decent person, got my shit together, own my own home so if they don't like me just because I have more weight on me than I should, F*** em, their loss!
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Posted: 8/6/2009 7:40:47 PM | great attitude Ima goofball, and you wonder why youre single? superficial world of online dating? so why is that women like you turn down geeky, wimpy looking guys, your excuse " oh he's not my type" or " oh im not attracted to him" but when a guy turns you down because you're not his type he's a superficial shallow prick??
You ever wondered what happens when you breed a bulldog with a shitzu?? | |
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Posted: 8/7/2009 8:25:17 AM | I can honestly say, mahogony, that I have never turned someone down due to appearance,( ok, well maybe when I was 17 or so ) my feeling is that by doing so I am limiting my chances of meeting a great person. I also know what it is like to be looked over because of some physical flaw and know the pain it causes and would not do that to another person. Yes, I do have my tastes but I don't limit my self to them.
I also find that people who are "choosy" in the appearance category, especially at my age or older, are the same ones who whine about being used, abused and walked all over.
But online dating is so different, you post a photo and have to write an advertisement about yourself in the hopes that someone will want to get to know you when a lot of the reality is most people on these sites are window shopping.
And a lot of them don't want to buy something that isn't going to look good on them | |
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