| Do women (to attract men) need to be a little whorish?
Posted: 11/3/2008 4:28:16 AM | No, just go to the bigg market in Newcastle, or the center of Manchester and look around.
Like I say its a generalisation. I'm sure it doesn't apply to you and I can understand why you might be a bit insulted. It's not meant that way.
Sadly, in the town where I live, hardly anyone goes out on a Friday night. | |
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| Do women (to attract men) need to be a little whorish?
Posted: 11/3/2008 5:12:44 AM | I am a regular townie at the weekends.. I either have legs on show or a bit of clevage, never both! and always dress to impress, and be careful not to look like a slut basically!
Satsumo, sorry but what you said is a complete load of trollox, I'm not a slim jim and dont wear less clothing that somebody thinner than me!
When I look around my busy town at the weekends, I can see big girls and very thin girls showing just as little or as much flesh!
Size really does not come into it and I think that you most likely have a hang up about fat women who dress provocotive which is clouding your judgement! | |
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| Do women (to attract men) need to be a little whorish?
Posted: 11/3/2008 5:45:29 AM | Msg 83/97
Come on lets cut the bull, if you have big bouncy puppies and put then on show there will always be those who see it as an invitation to give them a pat.
However if this causes problems for you, there are places where good training aids and support can be found, so no making excuses for their over enthusiasm.
As for suggesting that your dresses are like prom dresses, give me a break, formal dos like proms have always been an excuse to flaunt your assets and if you have then ,then why shouldn't you? | |
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| Do women (to attract men) need to be a little whorish?
Posted: 11/3/2008 8:05:46 AM | Thats the thing vwulme...I don't have a problem.I like my puppies exactly the way they are!
Nobody has the right to give them a pat without my permission and trust me nobody and i mean nobody would dare touch without permission lol!!
Training aids??? What might i ask are these training aids? My bra's are extremely pretty and do support me,i'm not sure if you've ever shopped at Bravissimo but they are very well made and hold every part of the boob in place without bouncing everywhere but i don't recall mentioning them bouncing lol!! They cater for larger breasts btw incase you wasnt familiar with the place.
Prom dresses are not only for formal do's anymore,they are the in thing at the moment.Take a browse around New Look and places like that,there are several dresses like that in there.I wear them as i feel nice in them,not whorish,they suit my shape as i have hips.I don't intentionally flaunt anything but when you have 38G boobs ( bring on the slating for THAT comment then lol!)then its not possible to hide the flipping things regardless of what clothes are worn 
I,like cheekyjules,never show cleavage and legs at the same time but for me i show some cleavage more than my legs.My reason for the reason i stated before. | |
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| Do women (to attract men) need to be a little whorish?
Posted: 11/3/2008 9:46:14 AM | Men do seem to be attracted to women who look a bit whore-ish, but often want them as short-term girlfriends/one night stands rather than long-term.
But they also seem to mistake women as whore-ish just because they are outgoing and look half-fit.
Then again, there are women who are neither outgoing nor attractive, who don't look whore-ish, but are very quickly up-for-it. | |
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| Do women (to attract men) need to be a little whorish?
Posted: 11/4/2008 11:13:11 AM | Do women (to attract men) need to be a little whorish?
If she wants a lot of short term (as in a one nighter) attention, then yes. If a woman wants to attract a long term partner, then sexy but classy is the way to go. | |
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| Do women (to attract men) need to be a little whorish?
Posted: 11/4/2008 4:40:56 PM |
I doubt you have ever had boobs this size so until you do you have absolutely no idea .
Actually I went up to a size 34 F ....nearly couldn't walk because of being unbalanced, (that was a joke for those that didn't understand irony) I hated it. lol......so I do know what I'm talking about....backache was an understatement and it made me look fat although I'm a size 12.
Look, I don't want to get into a massive argument about your massive mammaries...
Strapless dresses don't have straps but they do have a front on and do cover my chest but do show cleavage.T.
Nothing wrong with a bit of cleavage, I've never worn strapless dresses as that meant strapless bra's.....crap support lol
I think, being old (and wanting to grow old gracefully) you have to have a pretty good damn figure to wear something like that and get away with it without looking ridiculous
Just my opinion....
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| Do women (to attract men) need to be a little whorish?
Posted: 11/4/2008 4:48:40 PM |
You shouldn't need to show lots of clevage Alma, and I hope you don't. Though I would enjoy looking, it would lower you in my estimation..
Exactly! At last someone thinks the same way as I do!........faints lol
I went out with a guy once (got engaged actually) and he played football. He thought it was sexy to sit in the pub (with his football kit on..thus shorts) with his balls hanging out! SEXY!....NOT! lol
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| Do women (to attract men) need to be a little whorish?
Posted: 11/4/2008 11:18:30 PM | | Unfortunately women are still the object of the male objectification (and apologies to any man who has risen above this level). It is life and any man who looks and enjoys perhaps should not have his expectation lowered by HIS gaze, as he chooses to look. Clothing is more sensual and erotic than nudity, and in art classes the nude model in the norm, both male and female models, and objectification is not the name of the game then. So my point is, unfortunately like it or not, the clothes we females wear is what makes a man / woman objectify us or not. Does it matter if we are happy and comfortable in what we wear. | |
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| Do women (to attract men) need to be a little whorish?
Posted: 11/5/2008 2:05:44 AM | 34F isnt the same size as 38G and i'm not arguing either but some strapless dresses have boning to support the bust.My dresses do hence why i wear them.Back and neckache are a factor.....baggy clothes make a larger breasted woman look fatter i think.I had my time wearing baggier clothes before i lost the 10 stone because i WAS fat then....
I'm not old and neither do i look it,i look younger than my age,maybe not in the pics but face to face i do..................but when i am old i'll wear dresses still,not sure what type as i'm not old yet
Roll on the Swindon/Bristol meet cos i can't wait to see who says i look ridiculous
Well said Juus **cheers**
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| Do women (to attract men) need to be a little whorish?
Posted: 11/5/2008 2:48:37 AM | | ^^^^^^^^^^^ hi pp , i get my bras from bramisomo too, i`m a 36DD and i find them very comfy with good support, we can`t help having big boobs and they do tend to stick out, have to wear bigger size tops just to fit them in, and even then their poking out lol | |
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| Do women (to attract men) need to be a little whorish?
Posted: 11/5/2008 4:51:50 AM | Re profiles with "photos" I think loads can be done just with little photography skill.
And this "photo" very rare represents the person's look in real life.
I have three friends who are very good in "dodging" their photos. In real life they are not even close to the impression the photo is giving of them.
I was talking more about the behavior AitchEm, followed with the appearance of course.
Whats all the above got to do with bieng a whore i cannot follows this post at all can someone explain ? | |
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| Do women (to attract men) need to be a little whorish?
Posted: 11/5/2008 2:49:53 PM |
34F isnt the same size as 38G .
No it's not, it's an inch smaller in cup size but 4 inches smaller in circumference...
I'm not having a go at you, as you implied in the other post. If I remember correctly, it was you having a go at me in another post....either way....enough said.
I'm sure you could talk about your mammaries all day, I've got to take the puppy for a walk
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| Do women (to attract men) need to be a little whorish?
Posted: 11/5/2008 2:54:49 PM | Now thats just where you're wrong!
My daughter is a size 34F and her cup size is alot smaller than mine by one size
Anyway,sticks and stones....and your age i thought you'd rise above it
You seem to mention my mammaries as much as i do,i can cos they're mine 
Anyway,have fun on your walk,mind the lease doesnt choke  | |
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| Do women (to attract men) need to be a little whorish?
Posted: 11/5/2008 3:02:51 PM | we men put women into silly boxes.
Fun,interesting and serious.
The approach is very different to all of them.
It is up to women to decide how they want to put themselves across in any chosen site,medium or social context.
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| Do women (to attract men) need to be a little whorish?
Posted: 11/5/2008 3:26:24 PM | Grow up,you're so boring
Saying something like your last comment is something i'd expect from a teenager
If you insist your boobs are bigger than mine then cool.Anything to make the old gal happy
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| Do women (to attract men) need to be a little whorish?
Posted: 11/5/2008 3:44:05 PM | Dun da da dun dun da dun (rocky theme tune)
Ah come on girls why the fuss over tit size...Lets all admit we all like to be a little whorish for the men at times
A man likes a woman to be like that,they wouldnt want someone who gonna ask for the light off and granny knickers in the bedroom,now would they.
A bit of slap n tickle never hurt noone(well it did me once)
Anyways what i mean is we dont have to act whorish to get the man but we do when we have them,am i making sense? | |
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| Do women (to attract men) need to be a little whorish?
Posted: 11/5/2008 3:47:47 PM | Perfect sense lalby!
I have massssssive bangers (hey i'm talking about em again  ) and dress them up in some mighty fine attire,whorish nope,sexy as hell yes.....
and then there's the pvc................ | |
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| Do women (to attract men) need to be a little whorish?
Posted: 11/5/2008 3:50:17 PM | I have big boobs.. 40F and i bloody HATE them... Anyone needs some extra? I have LOTS to spare!! LOL
I used to get alsort of comments like Are they Real etc, can i have a feel"
Im like Pi** off... you get anywhere near me, and you will loose your front teeth!!
If i go out, yes i may dress up, ie short skirt low cut top ect, and i have on a few occasions been told that i am asking for it.. but Im Sorry, im not Asking for anything.. Im mearly out for a drink and a dance with my mates minding my own business... | |
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| Do women (to attract men) need to be a little whorish?
Posted: 11/5/2008 3:52:14 PM |
If you insist your boobs are bigger than mine then cool.Anything to make the old gal happy.
Where oh where did I say that? I said I USED to be that size....not any more, got rid of the ugly excess fat...
Grow up,you're so boring .
Thank you for that. I'm not going to stoop to your level....
Let's just agree to disagree. As far as I'm concerned end of....
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