| Do women (to attract men) need to be a little whorish?
Posted: 11/5/2008 3:54:25 PM | My mate Jack is obsessed with womens knockers...he is always feeling mine and he's had a feel of all my female friends lils and he even tried to have a feel of me mams!
He will sit n look at them all night and loves it when girls wear low cut tops,doesnt find it whorish at all and noone is ever offended by him cause he is as bent as a 9 bob note! | |
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| Do women (to attract men) need to be a little whorish?
Posted: 11/5/2008 11:42:40 PM | I don't do granny bashing .........sadly,but at least i can back up what i'm saying
All this because i didnt agree with her chav comment
This is why we have forums,as we all have our own opinions but some people can't accept others opinions.Well i am very opinionated as will carry on being such.......
Regardless of what women wear/do/act/say there will always be some that think they are acting in a whorish manner,others witnessing the same behaviour will think differently.Its all subjective and IMO its each to their own and if men don't like a prospective partner to act in a certain way then they should avoid her.
I have discussed this many a time with my best mate,the women he tangles with are in my opinion very whorish,he doesnt,he thinks that they are just acting flirty.One in particular grabs his nuts,tries undoing his zipper infront of whoever is there.Not right in my opinion but who am i to judge her.She dresses far too young for her age and to me she looks daft but if she's happy,cool. | |
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| Do women (to attract men) need to be a little whorish?
Posted: 11/5/2008 11:56:34 PM | I think the guys who like a lady to dress demurely in the street but slutty in the bedroom have a problem with their insecurities, its ok for their girlfriends to dress up for them but they don't want other men looking at them.
If a lady is a little curvy, why not accentuate those curves rather than try to hide them under a sack? Doesn't mean she's a slut and I really don't think men in the real world think this. | |
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| Do women (to attract men) need to be a little whorish?
Posted: 11/6/2008 12:25:14 AM | Reading this thread has raised a question about the whorishness thing, in whose eyes is the whorishness?
It seems that we women are our own worst enemies when it comes to judging each other, there are a few in here that need a saucer of milk!
Being busty brings its own problems with dressing. Let's face it, it can be hard to look demure when your boobs enter the room 5 mins before the rest of you. Then again, why should buttoned up to the neck be the only option?
It does seem however, that choosing to show cleavage if you have big boobs is seen as a sin by those with smaller assets. Jealousy perhaps?
Before anyone asks, I have medium boobs, 38C/D.
Anyway, it certainly seems that whorishness is an irregular adjective:
I look attractive,
You look sexy,
She looks like a whore. | |
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| Do women (to attract men) need to be a little whorish?
Posted: 11/6/2008 1:17:27 AM |
I don't do granny bashing .........sadly,but at least i can back up what i'm saying .
Such charm....
This is why we have forums,as we all have our own opinions but some people can't accept others opinions.Well i am very opinionated as will carry on being such........
Forums are for discussions and opinions...nothing wrong with that. Nothing wrong with being opinionated, but, insults show lack of intelligence.
OT.
I think women that use flesh flashing and dress provocatively (in public) do give out signals, they are asking to be noticed for their looks, body and not their personality or brain...so what do they end up with? A man that wants just that....a loose woman. Just my opinion. | |
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| Do women (to attract men) need to be a little whorish?
Posted: 11/6/2008 2:56:13 AM |
I think the guys who like a lady to dress demurely in the street but slutty in the bedroom have a problem with their insecurities, its ok for their girlfriends to dress up for them but they don't want other men looking at them.
I disagree. In my opinion, it's the guy who likes his woman to flaunt her assets who has the insecurities. A secure man wont need to prove that he can attract a 'sexy' woman by having her flaunt her attributes, he just does!  | |
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| Do women (to attract men) need to be a little whorish?
Posted: 11/6/2008 3:53:03 AM | I totally agree with SN (134). Having been married to a woman who dressed provocatively both publicly and in private, I can tell you that I needed to be very secure and confident in myself (96).
If any woman is confident enough to dress/act in such a way then 'her man' whether husband or boyfriend needs to have an equal amount of confidence in order to support her. It does, at least to me, seem a cop-out to suggest she should moderate her dress/behaviour when in public. Why?
This thread seems to have degenerated into women discussing the size of their breasts and (largely) women slagging off other women (slag-ing, no pun intended!) with regard to their chosen mode of dress and/or behaviour. Again, why? Can't we be individuals?
Some are stating opinions as facts and huge (inaccurate) assumptions are being made....
There seems to be an assumption that women who 'act whorish' are brainless bimbos and do not have the capacity to think, or to love, or to have any other emotion.
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It is also assumed that men who like their women to 'act whorish' are after just one thing. This again is total nonsense. It is part of the package (attractiveness, compatability, love, respect etc etc)
I don't believe I am the only man to think in this way but (it takes a lot of confidence) to admit to these views especially knowing that in so doing I am alienating 90% + of women on this site. | |
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Posted: 11/6/2008 6:48:48 AM | I think there is a destinct difference to flaunting your assets and looking like a whore. Women like to look their best and if that means showing a bit of flesh to attract a man then so be it, doesnt make you a whore.
Although having said that after reading this and other threads today it would seem men like boobs so to show them of to their best advantage is only good advertising!!!
I think a women who goes out in thigh high boots and a belt is obviously something else!! | |
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| Do women (to attract men) need to be a little whorish?
Posted: 11/6/2008 7:13:05 AM | L (144)
I have to agree with you that...
"...YOU think a woman who goes out in thigh high boots and a belt is obviously something else"
However I disagree that...a woman who goes out in thigh high boots and a belt is OBVIOUSLY something else.
Having previously stated that my ex-wife (of 22-years) wore thigh-length boots I feel I can speak objectively. I really do fail to see why I, my ex, or any other woman who dresses in such a way should be vilified by others (the assumption being that they are mindless whores and men who admire them are after just one thing). | |
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| Do women (to attract men) need to be a little whorish?
Posted: 11/6/2008 8:33:33 AM | Hi Lilian (146),
I'm not quite sure about your distinction with regards how a woman would choose to wear thigh high boots?
Reference Jodie Marsh; I commented on her (54) in response to an earlier message. | |
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| Do women (to attract men) need to be a little whorish?
Posted: 11/6/2008 3:40:20 PM | | im hoping this is going out to you. i guess those new photos do look more provocative. but that does not mean to say you are not an attractive woman otherwise. in your other photos you look grate. Men are very visualy stimulated and unfortunately they are often castigated for this. i imagine you put thoser photos on for a reason. the guys that are only up for one thing will soon move on the guys who find you attractive will want to get to know you. | |
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| Do women (to attract men) need to be a little whorish?
Posted: 11/6/2008 3:53:59 PM | If a woman feels comfortable wearing something sexy, then she should wear what she likes, it doesn't mean she can't state ''I'm not up for casual sex'' or any other such statement.
I'm not really one for dressing provocatively, a slice of cleavage at most, but that's just my personal preference.
If it's about how she behaves, well, maybe she's attracting attention for the wrong reasons. But hey, who are we to judge, if she's keeping safe and no one else is getting hurt, then go to it, lady. | |
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Posted: 11/6/2008 4:16:21 PM | In my opinion a womans sexyness comes from within....if she feels confident and sexy within herself it'll show to the opposite sex regardless of what she wears, she could be dressed like Miss Jean Brodie....if a man has the hots for her then that'll be enough to get his pulse racing  | |
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