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| Dumped cos I didnt cum!!
Posted: 11/3/2008 2:06:45 PM |
Thanks everyone - I feel much better now.
Never let someone get you down because of their failures. It was his ego that didn't get off, and that's why he acted that way. It wasn't you my dear!
I'm glad your able to move on and not stick around for more. It shows that you respect yourself and have some self esteem! Not everyone does!
Hope you have better luck in the future! | |
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| Dumped cos I didnt cum!!
Posted: 11/3/2008 2:14:18 PM |
I'm not surprised a guy would do this.....
This whole pressure to come thing....I'm freaking sick of it. Sick of the big deal guys make of it, sick of the bragging they do about their exes who could come if they just looked at them (yah right), sick of the bragging some guys do on these forums about what experts they are (making us sound like machines with dials and buttons instead of feeling, real human beings), and then how some women on these forums will chime in bragging how easily THEY come every single time (yah right).......ARGH SICK of it.
Whoa whoa WHOA...
Before you get too uppity and start burnin' bras and effigies of free roaming men, let me be the first to point out that NOT ONLY MEN DO THIS. Just as many women will dump a man on the spot 'cause he failed to make her come. Funny how both sides of the same coin are identical in nature eh? With each side worried about HER orgasm? She didn't come, so she gets dumped. He couldn't get her to come, so she dumps him. It's all about her orgasm ain't it?
But if you can sit there with a straight face and say that women don't dump men for a failure for her to reach orgasm, you're only foolin' yourself. Don't make the men the villains in this masterpiece...women are no damn different when it comes to the quest for the mighty "O".
"I'm not surprised a guy would do this....."...eesh, what a load of shit.
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OP -- as it pertains to you, I feel for you. Sounds to me like he didn't care the first thing about your orgasm though, despite him saying this is why he dumped you. Sounds more like he was hopin' to bust a nut, he did, and now he moves on. Truly he coulda come up with a more creative, and less humiliating reason for his departure, but all in all I'd say you just got played, plain and simple. This has little or nothing to do with you reaching orgasm or not.
Don't beat yourself up over it. The guy's a waste of skin and an embarrassment to my kind. Sooner or later you'll find a real man that will treat you with the respect that you deserve.
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| Dumped cos I didnt cum!!
Posted: 11/3/2008 2:28:00 PM | Am I the only person that understands that both people getting their jollies off generally requires both people's minds to be comfortable and willing? It doesn't matter if the guy is Don Juan De La****linger, if a woman doesn't feel at ease and comfortable with the situation, she probably won't orgasm. Guys less so, but it still happens.
The dude is a jerk off, but all the man bashing in this thread is obnoxious. It didn't work for him, so why would you still care to be with him if you don't (or at least he feels that you don't) share the chemistry that we all love so much? | |
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Posted: 11/3/2008 2:29:26 PM | | Wow, I'm sorry you allowed yourself to feel humiliated cuz HE should be the one feeling like a child reacting like one. It's amusing but I kinda feel sorry for this guy cuz he obviously has issues. Let's hope he gets over them soon ! | |
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| Dumped cos I didnt cum!!
Posted: 11/3/2008 2:37:04 PM |
The dude is a jerk off, but all the man bashing in this thread is obnoxious. It didn't work for him, so why would you still care to be with him if you don't (or at least he feels that you don't) share the chemistry that we all love so much?
more man bashing please....
sounds to me like he needed to project his short dyck issues on to some unsuspecting victim.
she didn't cum because he couldn't make her.....
personally I don't know how he can stand to look at himself in the mirror. | |
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Posted: 11/3/2008 4:12:33 PM | General comment.......
Wow reading some of this stuff really opens your eyes to the fact that there are women out there who allow themselves to be treated like crap - over and over again! Then blame their foibles on the rest of the world! Like it's somehow their fault for being able to achieve what they cannot! If you are 'dating' someone who has treated you like crap - you walk - no questions asked and you never look back! You most certainly don't blame every man and every woman who has positive experience - for your inability to be fulfilled. If you can't move on from such a situation - get therapy!!  | |
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Posted: 11/3/2008 4:41:22 PM | Wow! There's a lot of anger in this thread! Inhale...hold...exhale slowly; inhale...hold...exhale slowly...
This whole concept is incomprehensible to me. OF COURSE you have nothing to feel badly about; simply by demonstrating you are stone cold normal. The only thing I would be concerned about is how badly your judge of character trait failed you on this one. I mean what a d!ck! It's almost funny it's so stupid.
What kills me is everyone's need to blame someone..."Oh, it's HIS fault for not being able to get you off." Nooooooooooo...repeat after me...everyone doesn't orgasm every time. In the text books they label that...are you ready for this..."normal."
This guy obviously rode the short bus to sex education class.
This whole pressure to come thing....I'm freaking sick of it. Sick of the big deal guys make of it, sick of the bragging they do about their exes who could come if they just looked at them (yah right), sick of the bragging some guys do on these forums about what experts they are (making us sound like machines with dials and buttons instead of feeling, real human beings), and then how some women on these forums will chime in bragging how easily THEY come every single time (yah right).......ARGH SICK of it. Whoa! Somebody superglue your vibrator to the headboard darlin? Just because a woman can cum 20-30 times doesn't make him a good lover; and WHY on earth would you be upset at these women because they are able to cum like this? Besides, it ain't braggin if it's true. Sexual arousal and orgams are predominantly mental. If there is a take home message to these threads it is that the ability to have multiple orgasms, and even squirt, are skills that can be learned. Why would that anger you?
I dated someone who actually would get angry at me for having some difficulty arriving with him See above. I cannot imagine what you had to have been feeling. Although, I can say, that you would have been well within your rights to rock back and laugh at what an ignorant idiot this guy proved himelf to be. However, worse than being ignorant, this guy was callous and cruel with his lover, someone he should have been carring and understanding with. You should actually be happy that you got away from that clown as quickly as you did. The odds are almost certain that you are going to have difficulty orgasming again at some point in the future. Again, it's called being normal. However, if the guy ever tries to make YOU feel badly again, just let them know, "I'm sorry, this one is not on me; you are absolutely among the worst, most insensitive, lovers I have ever had." and leave. | |
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| Dumped cos I didnt cum!!
Posted: 11/3/2008 5:41:21 PM | He's an idiot if that was the reason to end the relationship.
Personally, if she has a hard time coming, I take that as a personal challenge! | |
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| Dumped cos I didnt cum!!
Posted: 11/3/2008 5:45:27 PM |
Whoa! Somebody superglue your vibrator to the headboard darlin?
 That was so worth cleaning up my soda! | |
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| Dumped cos I didnt cum!!
Posted: 11/3/2008 5:53:11 PM | | What a ****ing ***hole he was. You shouldn't be humiliated, he was just being a complete****ead. | |
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| Dumped cos I didnt cum!!
Posted: 11/3/2008 6:41:07 PM | I may be wayyyyyyyy off base here, but if the good ole "in and out" doesnt do it for me...... I am pretty comfortable with asking him to help me finish and fully able to direct him along the path.
If he refused to help, then he'd be an @$$hole...
And if he refused ..... I'd do it myself, with him right there, if thats what it took.
JMO
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| Dumped cos I didnt cum!!
Posted: 11/3/2008 6:50:13 PM |
she didn't cum because he couldn't make her.....
Um....it is not up to the guy to MAKE her cum and i cannot even believe that that^^ quote was written by a man. A woman cannot just lay there and expect the guy to just make her cum. She needs to let him know what she likes and where she likes it.
But, at any rate, that still doesnt excuse this guy or any guy for that matter to dump a woman because she didnt have an orgasm! | |
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| Dumped cos I didnt cum!!
Posted: 11/3/2008 6:56:52 PM | AAAAAa...Ive always put the womans needs bfore mine and have had woman not climax but after we chatted there was a reason...IE; bad day,mood,other...never ran from her or be-littled her....it was just that much better the next time.....guys a looser...cut ur loses.....next! | |
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Posted: 11/4/2008 11:39:18 AM | Well the true irony is that it was he that FAILED... Its his job to satisfy you-- bring you to the point of not only feeling but trust and all that goes into making a woman cum... Maybe if he spent a bit more time making sure you were happy -- This thread would be about "omg this guy rocked my world"..
Anyways--- Sounds like you are the one that actually did make out the best-- you got out early before giving your time, energy and heart...  | |
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Posted: 11/4/2008 12:54:01 PM | | I have to agree completely with amativedreams. I think you should always be a gentleman. Ladies go through the door first and they get taken care of first in this way too. If your lady is happy, she will make you happy too. | |
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| Dumped cos I didnt cum!!
Posted: 11/4/2008 7:38:38 PM | | You hurt his ego but no matter be glad that he did you a favor and stopped wasting your air space. I agree with you that great sex is not always automatic. I know this from personal experience. If someone isn't willing to put in the effort then to hell with them. | |
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| Dumped cos I didnt cum!!
Posted: 11/4/2008 8:40:27 PM | has anyone stopped to think that this could have just been a bullshit excuse to get rid of the op??
He got his rocks off, and needed to get rid of her quick to move onto his next sperm receptacle.
OP, he could have used a million and two excuses...that was just the one he thought of first.
Don't take it personally, or think it is a direct hit on you.....hes a man, they are notoriously lame brained idiots
^^Sorry boys :)(I had to get in on the man bashing a little bit) | |
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| Dumped cos I didnt cum!!
Posted: 11/4/2008 8:46:24 PM | | Well if she did'nt orgasm I would have to figure out a way to make it happen next time not all women respond in the same way. | |
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| Dumped cos I didnt cum!!
Posted: 11/4/2008 8:54:41 PM | | If anything, it would make me work harder next time. Stupid reason to dump. | |
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Posted: 11/4/2008 9:45:51 PM | It's obvious that the dude just wanted a piece of puzzie and he got it. Once he pop them little boys off he had it was time to go. So he told her she didn't cum and that pissed him off. Like she was suppose to just shoot em off because he banged her and gots his tadpole shooters off. It was an eay way out the door for that dude. It worked like it always does and now the OP is left wondering what the hell went on here. I do believe I just got fkcude and left high and dry is all she can really say. This dude just wanted what he got and that is it. A hop piece of ass from a good looking woman.........  | |
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| Dumped cos I didnt cum!!
Posted: 11/4/2008 10:01:29 PM | leavemebe,
Please take into account, beforehand, that I'm one of those "notoriously lame brained idiots." Sad to say, my "Y" chromosomes are just something I was born with--sort of like original sin.
I wonder what would happen if the situation were reversed, where the woman was satisfied but the guy couldn't get there. And that can happen, for all sorts of reasons. Considering all the anger I see so many women express toward men in general, I doubt he could expect much kindness. | |
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