Shri_1
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Joined: 10/29/2008
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Posted: 11/4/2008 10:41:55 AM | I haven't received any nasty e-mails about stuff I've said in the forums. Have received two very nice e-mails (one with a teddy bear!) thanking me for appreciating their posts in a forum. I have, of course, been taken to task a couple of times within the forums, usually by women. Women can't e-mail me, so I guess they respond there. No biggie; I can handle it. If I'm wrong, I admit it and when I know I'm right, or it's just my opinion, I stand by it.
Anyone who reads anything I write can feel free to disagree; I disagree with stuff I see, too. Just be fair enough to extend that courtesy back to me when you write expressing your opposite view.  | |
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Posted: 11/4/2008 11:46:49 AM |
Leeanne and that LL lady, I resent those remarks, or is that I resemble, not sure leave that to you boss
hehehehe She has you whipped!! Oh wait - you like that!! hehehe 
I have to admit I've sent a couple of sexually harrasing messages to some hotties!!  | |
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Posted: 11/4/2008 12:03:08 PM | I have received PM's from men that think I am looking for a hookup..... - No
I have received PM's from men stating they would never go out with a woman "such as myself" - No
I have received PM's from women that love what I have to say - No
and I have received PM's from women telling me I am nothing but trash. - No
SO.......ladies......are u getting negative feedback because of your posts here? - No
I do get emails regarding something I posted, but it's not in a sexual context/vulgar, etc.....
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Posted: 11/4/2008 12:04:25 PM | You have???.......I wonder who?????......
OT........Bantering about sex in the forums is just another way of having "foreplay".......
Since I do not have my "IM" function active, most of the comments come to me via replies here, or email.....oh, and sometimes in person........
Just my opinion.......  | |
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Posted: 11/4/2008 12:17:18 PM | Does Gangster Kitten count?
No on all of those questions... But I am not very descriptive in my posts.
~Charmed~ | |
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Posted: 11/4/2008 12:28:03 PM | Feedback didn't have any impact on what I post or have posted on here. Whether I bare my mind on some red hot topics too, c'est la vie / that's me.  I know that silent water runs deeper but who is there to fool? | |
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Posted: 11/4/2008 12:48:14 PM | Does Gangster Kitten count?
No Charmed, Gangster Kitten does NOT count. He is an imposter who stole another member's photos (Johnnie B's.) and copied them to his profile. Don't listen to a word he says.
OP, I've received emails of both varieties (mostly positive) stemming from forum postings, although, none from the Sex Advice Forum, per se.
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Posted: 11/5/2008 5:00:38 AM |
Men....do you truly believe a woman is a "promiscuous slut" because she is willing to be honest and straightforward in the discussions here?
Not this man..
I love it when a women upfront, flirtatious, (not sure about a spelling), playful.
Man would never go out with a women such as yourself?? More for me.. | |
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Posted: 11/5/2008 5:08:04 AM |
I even had one that said they wanted me and laughing libra to have sex together and tape it for private viewing ........
When is that will be available? Requesting a copy..
Better yet, need someone to hold a light, or something ?? | |
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Posted: 11/5/2008 10:55:59 AM | The way I look at it, if a person can't be open online, where the chances of anyone actually knowing you are slim, where you can always pretend you got your profile hacked or you are just kidding, what are the chances that someone can be open and honest when talking face to face. I want people here to know who I am before they even say hello. i don't want to waste someones time by pretending to be someone I'm not. Too old and too mature for stupid games and judgments so i put it all out there hoping maybe to meet someone like me.
Would I judge a woman based on her sexual preferences and experiences? Never. If she was a bigot or a homophobe then hell yes I would judge, but not because of what she does in (or out) of the bedroom as a consenting adult.
Now if only my forum responses got me more mail *le sigh* lol | |
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Posted: 11/5/2008 11:12:42 AM |
Men....do you truly believe a woman is a "promiscuous slut" because she is willing to be honest and straightforward in the discussions here?
No, of course not, that's ridic.
As long as she conducts herself with class I'd rather get with a woman in touch with her sexuality than one who is repressed/has issues, etc. | |
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Posted: 11/5/2008 12:35:02 PM | I posted something similar on here a month ago, and my post was deleted. Yes, I have been propisitioned from discussing sex on here. I think that is absolutely RIDICULOUS. We are all adults, obviously not virgins. Most of us have been in very similar situations. And I enjoy forums. It's not as though you can mention most of this stuff to your friends.
No, women are not sluts for writing their opinion.. come on. | |
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Posted: 11/5/2008 1:47:00 PM | I don't get a lot of emails stemming from what I say in forums. Maybe because I am not nearly as vocal as I could be. More often than not, by the time I get round to reading (as I usually read all the responses) many share my opinion and I cannot be bothered to repeat.
I LOVE reading the different opinions and tend to follow my fave posters from thread to thread.
I agree with deerdog1's comments on restrictions. I am always open to conversation and making friends.
I have definitely been propositioned... it's something I laugh at, for the most part. I have yet to have a truly negative experience on here. *crosses fingers* | |
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Posted: 11/5/2008 2:15:55 PM | Some of the best laughs I have had, have come from this forum.Its an upfront, witty and healthy place to discuss a natural thing, sexuality.You would think in 2008, people would be a smidgen more open minded.The Puritans days are long behind us, but people still retain that mentality. Its totally redundant, so who knows why.
I have had no nasty e- mails, a few crazy ones, yes.No sexual ones either, I am obviously not alluring enough.If people want to get outraged, let them get het up over world hunger, violence and the constant breaches of human and women/children's rights.
Get mad over real issues , not a natural bodily function.Keep going guys, this is a great forum. | |
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Posted: 11/7/2008 12:14:16 PM |
When is that will be available? Requesting a copy..
Better yet, need someone to hold a light, or something ??
Hum not sure when it will be ready - we may have to do a lot of takes!
I actually have someone who will hold the light - he's a pro - a porn guy I first dated when I got on line - crazy times!!  | |
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Posted: 11/7/2008 3:31:56 PM | | I think it is sort of a screening tool that everyone can benefit from..... By putting your opinions out there certainly a potential partner will read them and get a spark going..... or is that just wishful??? | |
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Posted: 11/7/2008 4:34:37 PM |
No Charmed, Gangster Kitten does NOT count. He is an imposter who stole another member's photos (Johnnie B's.) and copied them to his profile.
Wasn't he also once "Droleci"? | |
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Posted: 11/7/2008 5:05:13 PM |
Wasn't he also once "Droleci"?
No, not at all. Re. my msg. #58, it was a joke....Gangster Kitten is cool, not an imposter....I was razzing him. Sorry for the confusion.
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Posted: 11/7/2008 8:19:30 PM | Back on topic ....
It kinda opens your soul to the world, huh?
For some strange reason I get a LOT of emails and every other form of communication form these forums. I post here and the TRY THIS / HOW TO on Lit. About 90% is very positive. VERY!! There has also been a fair amount of either, "You don't know WTF you're talking about." or "You're just a damn know it all."
Whatever.
I have a soul inspiring collection of positive notes from the TRY THIS thread and even some from here. Men, women and couples have all let me know that some of the ideas I've posted have worked. Some have been kind enough to say the Technique (or variations) have worked so well it has saved their marriage or that it has worked so well that their marriage / relationship is on a level they never dreamed could be so good / close. I've received notes from people who lost their clit to surgery or are otherwise handicapped with arthritis who have RE-discovered their sex lives - once thought over and now fully enjoying it again - all because of an option, an alternative to what many believe is the ONLY way to have sex.
I've received a couple of offers of plane tickets to far off lands and the assumption from a few that I'll screw anything I can hold down by the ears. That is NOT what I'm here for. I share some info I was lucky enough to stumble upon and hope people take it for what it is and no more or less.
I ignore the idiots. Their posts are self-evident.
Do women get the wrong impression of me from reading my posts? I suppose a few do. I suppose ANYBODY posting to a *gasp* sex thread MUST be a perv and a deviant in some minds. Refer back to self-evident. More like self-elimination. I posted a bit about my beloved Katie being poisoned. She has been my very best friend these 8 years after I lost Sue and I felt the need to post a piece on my profile. I've received several, "It's a fu¢king DOG. What duz that hav 2 du with your profile?" Self eliminating is good. It cuts the herd. I'd MUCH rather find that out BEFORE I even know them than some time later when, after some emotional investment, I find out they are heartless morons. The "pet" people have posted some notes that left me bawling!! You know, in a good / nice way.
It would be nice to have ALL positive reactions but we're talking human nature here. Sadly there are the insanely jealous types, the "don't believe ANYTHING new" morons and the ones who read a post and will make up their mind what that person is like from reading a few lines of advice or (hopefully) humor that a person has written in a *gasp* sex forum. It takes all kinds. The morons will never even realize that their self-evident-as-moron posts, notes or emails are also cutting them from the herd like nothing else they could ever do to warn people to stay away from their sorry a$$e$.
It's nice to see so many of my friends and fellow posters have, for the most part, similar but less long winded ( ) ideas on the issue.
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Posted: 1/29/2009 6:19:11 PM | | When you put yourself out there, people feel it's free to take a shot. Never change Micki, your friends, and those who value your insight, will always appreciate you. Just roll with it. If your happy, then those who can't take your being honest with yourself and others can just *uck off!!! Roll with it Mick... | |
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Posted: 1/29/2009 6:43:08 PM | Lol yea I get alot of messages from people who read my posts, mostly my posts from in here though.
i think its funny and dont mind it at all.
and when they are negative i just ignore them
older women seem to just want to yell at me ..
like they are my mother. | |
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Posted: 1/29/2009 6:54:41 PM | | Hi MsMicki, I get email from men wanting to hook up because some of my posts seem like "i'm asking for it". (really, he said that), but I haven't gotten any negtive feedback yet. I love the forums for the honesty it allows me. It's good reading, funny and sometimes very helpful in my day to day single living. I never say anything I don't mean, and I have read your posts and LOVE your honest responses too. Keep it up- you certainly keep me laughing. | |
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