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 64 Classic

Joined: 7/5/2006
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What is your definition of sex?
Posted: 11/5/2008 12:01:37 AM
Simply sleeping together, even if nude is not sex IMO. However, as others have said, intercourse, oral, anal, fingering etc. are all sex.
 tarotdream

Joined: 10/12/2008
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What is your definition of sex?
Posted: 11/5/2008 1:52:28 AM
Sex is any activity Republicans and Fundamentalist Christians disgustingly deride in public and practice in private.
 Perplexed2

Joined: 6/1/2006
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What is your definition of sex?
Posted: 11/5/2008 1:59:51 AM

Mutual. Intentional. Sexual Arousal.


This.

C'mon how hard is it to define what is and isn't sex?
 Dave_witch

Joined: 10/26/2008
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What is your definition of sex?
Posted: 11/5/2008 10:08:49 AM
Sex: Any physical activity between one or more people that you wouldn't do in front of your grandmother.
 intownnow

Joined: 4/7/2008
Msg: 30
What is your definition of sex?
Posted: 11/5/2008 10:13:44 AM
It isnt sex until someone cums!! haha
 Ninki

Joined: 4/11/2005
Msg: 31
What is your definition of sex?
Posted: 11/5/2008 10:34:10 AM
To me, sex is any kind of activity people do that involve genitals, except of course, gynaecological examinations.

N.
 Ninki

Joined: 4/11/2005
Msg: 32
What is your definition of sex?
Posted: 11/5/2008 10:35:14 AM
To me, sex is any kind of activity people do that involves genitals, except of course, gynaecological examinations.

N.
 Ninki

Joined: 4/11/2005
Msg: 33
What is your definition of sex?
Posted: 11/5/2008 10:41:07 AM

It didn't work for Bill Clinton...


Technically he wasn't lying when he said he 'didn't have sexual relations...', because from a *legal* standpoint oral sex isn't considered sex, only p.enis-in-v.agina-sex is.

N.
 James_in_SD

Joined: 7/3/2006
Msg: 34
What is your definition of sex?
Posted: 11/5/2008 10:53:45 AM
Even if he had lied, it wouldn't have been lying. It's called "executive privilege." But I suppose that's just splitting hairs.

Perhaps that's not the expression I was looking for...
 James_in_SD

Joined: 7/3/2006
Msg: 35
What is your definition of sex?
Posted: 11/5/2008 7:50:16 PM
That stuff they show on TV that's too hot for the movies.
 canoist

Joined: 8/4/2007
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What is your definition of sex?
Posted: 11/5/2008 8:50:59 PM
banterista says:
Mutual. Intentional. Sexual Arousal.

But I must point out that this excludes masturbation and some forms of exhibitionism.

How 'bout "Intentional sexual arousal"
 Jim978

Joined: 7/15/2008
Msg: 37
What is your definition of sex?
Posted: 11/6/2008 3:23:34 AM

Technically he wasn't lying when he said he 'didn't have sexual relations...', because from a *legal* standpoint oral sex isn't considered sex, only p.enis-in-v.agina-sex is.


What *legal* definition is that? I know of no legal definition of what is or isn't sex in any U.S. jurisdiction. There are laws that cover (or have covered) sodomy, coitus, rape, sexual assault, etc... but those are all specific sexually related acts. They don't cover the full spectrum of sex however.

From a legal perspective, oral sex falls under sodomy (Anal or oral intercourse between human beings, or any sexual relations between a human being and an animal.).
 Jim978

Joined: 7/15/2008
Msg: 38
What is your definition of sex?
Posted: 11/6/2008 3:24:23 AM

Even if he had lied, it wouldn't have been lying. It's called "executive privilege." But I suppose that's just splitting hairs.

Perhaps that's not the expression I was looking for...



Errr... no. Most certianly not the proper term!
 The Magician

Joined: 6/11/2006
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What is your definition of sex?
Posted: 11/6/2008 10:43:40 AM

So, let's see . . . if you're in an exclusive relationship, you would have any problem with your SO giving someone else oral? It would be nothing more than giving someone a kiss? Hmmmmm. I don't think I could handle a relationship in which my SO thought it was okay to do oral or manual on someone other than me.


I believe that fora-reader has hit on the perfect response to this question. It could include a few different instances, but basically is the answer to how sex is defined.

If you were entering a new relationship with a person, and that person was quite forthright describing the partners he/she had given b j's or oral to, or masturbated with, or had otherwise encountered in an intimate matter, would you not, at that point, consider those acts as sex?

If your partner admitted to any of those acts happening with others after you became partners, would you feel differently?

Sex is sex, and has always been sex!
 Shri_1

Joined: 10/29/2008
Msg: 40
What is your definition of sex?
Posted: 11/6/2008 11:00:36 AM
Man: "Honey I'm home from work and stopped at a peep show but don't worry I didn't have sex. I didn't masterbate to completion because I was too drunk from my 5 martini lunch.

Wife: "You What!!!!!!?"
 deerdog1

Joined: 12/29/2006
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What is your definition of sex?
Posted: 11/6/2008 11:40:20 AM

Sex is any activity Republicans and Fundamentalist Christians disgustingly deride in public and practice in private.


then making generalizations must be a favorite activity of liberals and atheist .... because they have to try to make themselves feel superior...just kidding ..lol

friend why inject politics and religion in sex .... wait we have established Bill Clinton injected sex into politics ...wait he tried to but it fell on her dress now Im confused


but Me thinks you will find as many conservatives and theist who are open about sex as liberals and atheist

and to answer the Op ...if im trying to get a woman to do it its probably sex
 very happy camper

Joined: 4/21/2008
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What is your definition of sex?
Posted: 11/6/2008 12:03:24 PM

Mutual. Intentional. Sexual Arousal.


Banterista. Say you and I were in an elavator in a department store. You lift your skirt and show me that you are sans panties. You touch yourself.

In this instance, it is mutual in that we are both participating, its intentional, and I for sure know I would be sexually aroused by you.

But we would not have had sex in my view.

However, said experience would be truly appreciated and remembered by me.
 very happy camper

Joined: 4/21/2008
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What is your definition of sex?
Posted: 11/6/2008 12:06:49 PM
[qu0te]Sex is any activity Republicans and Fundamentalist Christians disgustingly deride in public and practice in private.

So dancing is sex
 deerdog1

Joined: 12/29/2006
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What is your definition of sex?
Posted: 11/6/2008 12:21:58 PM

So dancing is sex


I remember a time when it was.....
 samstyles

Joined: 3/23/2008
Msg: 45
What is your definition of sex?
Posted: 11/6/2008 12:40:16 PM
I agree with happy camper, Banterista's definition of 'mutual intentional sexual arousal' is a good start, but doesn't quite cover it.

The example he gave of a sexual experience without touching not fulfilling his definition of sex seemed to be right too, until I thought of the phrases 'phone sex' and 'online sex' - they're referred to as sex, but no physical contact happens there either.

Is masturbation a form of sex? I dont count it as one, but plenty of people get jealous if they think their partners are masturbating in secret...

I think its maybe somewhere along the lines of mutual intent to sexually arouse and/or physical contact to sexually arouse, is that getting closer?
 The Magician

Joined: 6/11/2006
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What is your definition of sex?
Posted: 11/7/2008 5:04:34 PM


Is masturbation a form of sex?


Is masturbation in itself a form of sex? Quite definitely not! Is mutual masturbation a form of sex? In my book, quite definitely YES.
 scion07

Joined: 2/5/2008
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What is your definition of sex?
Posted: 11/9/2008 5:00:59 PM
my definition is exchanging human emmisions with a partner of the opposite sex
 808 syndicate

Joined: 10/13/2009
Msg: 48
What is your definition of sex?
Posted: 10/18/2009 10:16:52 PM
My defintion of sex is watching her get down on her knees , then allowing me to skullream her till I unload some baby batter in her mouth
 MBark68

Joined: 7/7/2009
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What is your definition of sex?
Posted: 10/19/2009 11:53:42 AM
If either of the people involved have an orgasm, then its sex.
 Consigliori

Joined: 1/7/2008
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What is your definition of sex?
Posted: 10/19/2009 12:46:08 PM
These days? A lurid fantasy and a pair of silk boxers. And I don’t mean pugilists either.
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