| What makes someone ugly? Posted: 8/9/2005 11:10:16 AM | | Sweet Kristine.... your a beautiful woman to me...!!!! And you know why also, because as I mentioned before, when I first joined up and posted in the introduction thread you were the only one who welcomed me. You've watched my back and I've watched yours. You will always be beautiful to me! | |
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| What makes someone ugly? Posted: 8/9/2005 11:12:50 AM | | I agree with Indigo.... and add excessive boasting and bragging about one's self, and taking advantage of another's good heart. | |
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| What makes someone ugly? Posted: 8/9/2005 1:20:54 PM | | For me, it's people who lie, cheat, are too egotistical, and people who analize everything to death...oh, yeah, i also don't get off on critisists... | |
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| What makes someone ugly? Posted: 8/9/2005 1:34:57 PM | extreme lack of common sense and hence unpardonable high level of STUPIDITY makes an ugly sight! hehehee...
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| What makes someone ugly? Posted: 8/9/2005 2:58:23 PM | it depends.
some people are just plain ugly and cant be helped. look like a gremlin a troll a mule whatever.
personality wise. I,m fairly easy going. but I hate when a girl tries to finish my sentances. makes me wanna wrap my hands around her neck and choke the life out of her | |
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| What makes someone ugly? Posted: 8/9/2005 2:59:40 PM | allowing the word "marriage" in any of its forms, to ever slip acrossed her lips in my presence  | |
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| What makes someone ugly? Posted: 8/9/2005 3:00:42 PM | as far as personality goes, it's their attitude that makes them ugly.
physically there are many reasons why people are ugly. some where born that way and there are others that have had terrible accidents. some have been in fights and got cut up real bad. the list can go on for ever. | |
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| What makes someone ugly? Posted: 8/9/2005 3:15:36 PM | The ugli-ness comes from inside.....Beauty can be abundant outside, but open that mouth, or post on here and before you know it...you know the true personality of a person..
Life is more than looks, it's a hell of a lot more but way too many have made it abundantly clear they speak with a forked tongue when it comes to this issue..They say things don't matter and they judge a person by who they are, yet you read the forums or write to them and you find out they are all bunk... seems way too many are focusing here on the outter wrapping..so tell me many of you keep saying looks don't matter, it's getting to know what's inside, but how do you do this, if you are too shallow to even talk to someone?....
Some people have even openly went after a person and made remarks about their looks on these forums and that to me is the sign of a very callous person..There are some people who are very vulnerable, and since you don't know their lifes circumstances you should at least try and be human..Me, I am who I am and consider myself attractive enough..I'm simply not what most men go for because I'm looking for friendship first and I'm not into sleeping around..This is ok, and I'm not after a man who can't accept me for who I am..So I accept that most men won't even write or answer back..That's ok and I don't complain about that..I guess all I'm really saying is you asked about ugliness and that is something that is not measured in appearances, It's the hardest thing to see ...YOu can only see it if you are looking for it..pay attention to how someone treats their kids, family members, friends, strangers, pay attention to if someone is always blaming others and not accepting any responsibilty for their own actions, pay attention to the words they write and the things they say that matter and then pay attention and see if those words are true, or simply words...
I'm not picking on anyone and this is something you get all over..The truth is some men and women will choose Looks over substance and what matters everytime and then be so unhappy and wonder why a few years down the road..So true ugliness is not on the outside..It's what lays hidden inside ...
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| What makes someone ugly? Posted: 8/9/2005 3:33:07 PM | | all ugly ppl were once cute babys.....no matter what sienfeld says...all babys are cute...did i get off subject? | |
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| What makes someone ugly? Posted: 8/9/2005 5:12:54 PM | I have learned in life, beauty comes from within, not the outside. The personality of a person is key to ones beauty. I met a hot looking women on her looks was a 9.9 out of ten, but if you added her personality to the equation, she was a negative 5. She always had a hard time getting a 2nd date even with the fat guys, because all she did was put down people and said how much better she was than eveyone else. Funny thing she never had a long term relationship. I met a women who was a 4 out of 10 as I got to know her she became a 9 out of 10 and I regret to this day not telling that I loved her, but left hints that I wanted to date her. | |
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| What makes someone ugly? Posted: 8/9/2005 5:19:01 PM | I think poeple are confussing attraction with personality, two totally different things here. you can have a awsome personality and be ugly. or you can be attractive and have a crappy personality. no matter how nice a person is on the inside does not make them more attractive on the outside. | |
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| What makes someone ugly? Posted: 8/9/2005 5:26:07 PM | | ok rodd, you'll have to explain that one to me. the only thing i don't understand is how you think a person can have an awesome personality and still be ugly. i always thought if you were a good looking guy and had a good personality, you had it made. what's up with that? | |
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| What makes someone ugly? Posted: 8/9/2005 5:50:18 PM | Being Conceited, Mean, Disrespectful, and Crude makes someone Ugly. As far as physical appearance...someone who doesn't take pride in their bodies/image...you only have one, so treat it good! And make it look like you're proud of yourself, not a slob. lol | |
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| What makes someone ugly? Posted: 8/9/2005 10:07:27 PM | | cliquey people turn me off, same with people who are way to happy all the time and think the world revolves around them. | |
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| What makes someone ugly? Posted: 8/10/2005 12:21:16 AM | Personality wise, someone who's self important, or the type that thinks everything that spews forth from their mouth is made of gold. A person that thinks their Gods gift to anything besides themselves. What the eye sees, lack of hygiene is the big one, lack of respect for themselves would be a close second. | |
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| What makes someone ugly? Posted: 8/10/2005 1:04:21 AM | I saw a show by Desmond Morris once that indicated that some studies have shown that symmetry has a lot to do with what humans find attractive in each other. It went on to suggest that there are certain ratios and relationships between various features that can account for "beauty". The most amazing part of the show was when they showed hundreds of different pictures of faces to people all over the world, from widely different cultures and found a commonality between what people considered beautiful and not. Beyond the physical I totally agree with many points above about how a person's views, attitude and general approach to life contribute to attractiveness or beauty. This would explain the age old problem where people comment on how the opposite sex responds to them much more when they are in a relationship then they do when they are lonely and single..... | |
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| What makes someone ugly? Posted: 8/10/2005 3:11:49 AM | | Lack of respect for others-snobbynish-arrogance-better than me attitude | |
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| What makes someone ugly? Posted: 8/10/2005 5:51:20 AM | the more symmetric your face is the more beautiful you are! scientists did a study on this and moulded a face using mathematics and said that Tom cruise's face fits perfectly to this model moulded face that they maded. True story, it was a documentary. very interesting Maths can even give a percentage on how symmetric a face is! | |
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| What makes someone ugly? Posted: 8/10/2005 10:19:44 AM | Negativity Lack of respect Bad attitude Arrogance Insecurity Lying Cheating Racism
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