| men disapproving of toys as addition in lovemaking
Posted: 1/21/2009 7:28:16 AM | re assure him , that the toys are their to enhance the love making , rather than to replace him ..... let him use the toys on u ,,, even though its the toy vibrating ,,, its the person who is using it on u that really is pleasing u ,,,, never use toys larger than ur Mans penis ,,, maybe he feels threatened by the 24 inch dong .... go out buy a bullet ,,,, its small un threatening and will do wonders on u Kitten ! u will be purring for hours !
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| men disapproving of toys as addition in lovemaking
Posted: 1/21/2009 8:01:17 AM | | This can be a hard one. I think some men get their "egos" hurt when they can fully satisfy their woman. Open communication has always worked the best for me. Toys are a neccessity! | |
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| men disapproving of toys as addition in lovemaking
Posted: 1/21/2009 9:01:16 AM | NO my issue has been resolved. I dont need any more answers. However, I do thank all for your responses to my thread...even the bad ones. You all have a nice day and be safe.<img src=http://www.plentyoffish.com/smiles/icon_76.gif border=0
Oh and wildheart , I am taking no medication whatsoever. not even birth control. I take nothing at all. Just thought I would add that info.
poster 285, I dont have a clue how that would matter. Each is allowed to communicate no matter who has something to say. | |
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| men disapproving of toys as addition in lovemaking
Posted: 1/21/2009 9:24:12 AM | | i think that in some cases a sex toy, such a a vibrator can be bigger than the man's wedding tackle, and some guys can feel insecure about this. i don't know what sex toy's you use, but say if your fella is, shall we say, modestly endowed, and you were to pull out a 12 inch "big mick" with all the attatchments, he might think that after that his john thomas won't make much of an impression. maybe you need to reassure him and tell him that toys and the real thing are very different things and are not really comparable... | |
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| men disapproving of toys as addition in lovemaking
Posted: 1/21/2009 9:30:02 AM | kitten - please learn that people are NOT going to go back to your post to see if you replied to them. Put your comments to those posting after you AFTER them. This will also go a long way to helping you be understood.
I wasn't talking to YOU anyway. I'm talking to the people who adamant against toys.
Is it more appropriate for him to make the suggestion first or her
Only the two people in the relationship can answer that. Depends on your communication. When things are going well, it justs comes up in regular give and take conversation about sex. | |
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| men disapproving of toys as addition in lovemaking
Posted: 1/21/2009 9:50:59 PM | sounds like you'd best be breaking out the HappyKnees and promptly return the favour to your husband. you owe him a good hummer at the very least
Just remember to suck.. after all, blow is just an expression
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| men disapproving of toys as addition in lovemaking
Posted: 1/21/2009 10:40:05 PM | I think sex toys can enhance both partners experiences, but this is something that should be approached delicately and with tact, because as you have said, it is something he is uncomfortable with. Simply asking him why it makes him so uncomfortable or apprehensive might be a way to go.
Another option is to let him know that you love him and this is in no way an attempt to replace him in the bedroom; that toys and the real thing are very different things and are not comparable might be another approach.
Also, let him know that its just a way to try and spice things up a bit, foreplay if you will. If he is still uncomfortable, maybe going to a sex shop together and finding something you both could enjoy is another suggestion. (This should be a no-brainer, but buying and selecting toys that do not outshine his manhood may make him feel a little more comfortable with the idea). 
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