| men disapproving of toys as addition in lovemaking
Posted: 12/18/2008 1:55:59 PM | | ASK HIM TO GO DOWN ON YOU FLICK YOUR CLIT WITH FOR AN HOUR OR TWO WHAT EVER IT TAKES FOR YOU TOO CUM THEN ASK ABOUT SMALL VIB THE NEXT DAY WHEN HE HAS SORE JAW I THINK UNLESS A WOMAN HAS BEEN MASTERBATING SINCE SHE WAS YOU NG SHE WON'T CUM WITH INTERCOUSE ALONE JUST NOT IN TUNE WITH HER BODY YET WHATEVER IT TAKES TO GET YOU TO COME OVER NEXT TIME IS FINE WITH ME DARLING.... | |
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| men disapproving of toys as addition in lovemaking
Posted: 12/18/2008 2:08:59 PM | Yeah you look like a real winner there rjncharlotte. Maybe you can't make a woman orgasm from sex but don't speak for the real men on here that know how to use their equipment. Cogie 36 looks just about right for you, you are both divorced...gee I wonder why?  | |
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| men disapproving of toys as addition in lovemaking
Posted: 12/18/2008 2:41:34 PM | | southern storm what is wrong with you. are you coming off a high or something. Your attacking people for nothing. no one has done anything to you. either get manners or dont respond to this thread. To the posters she is being hateful to I apologize for her because she is doing this becuase she dont like me. apparantly she is taking it out on others. | |
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| men disapproving of toys as addition in lovemaking
Posted: 12/18/2008 4:46:48 PM | I don't know...everybody has their own thing I guess, I generally disapprove of toys in addition to sex, if the love making is off, then it gets worked on, if it doesn't get better, then there's an incompatibility or communication issue somewhere that should be explored. Two adults in love 'should' be able to function like two adults in love would (given their medical conditions are normal).
But then, like I said, everybody has their own thing, and there's such an acceptance of 'things' that it seems normal is far from normal anymore. | |
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| men disapproving of toys as addition in lovemaking
Posted: 12/18/2008 5:06:51 PM | southern storm, you are coming off as pretty insecure about this whole toy thing. I can get my girlfriend off in many different ways just using my own body, but that doesn't mean you can't explore new options and new ways to please your lover. It's not like most women need a vibrator to get off, and just because you use one during your sexual fun time no way means that the man is some how unable to please his lover.
Not only that but toys can be used for the man and the woman, not just the woman. Variety is the spice of life, and that is especially true when it comes to making love. :) | |
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| men disapproving of toys as addition in lovemaking
Posted: 12/18/2008 5:30:34 PM |
Why would any guy disaprove of the use of toys during intimacy?
My answer would be, if my lady and i were just having fun/sex bring on the toys,,
But if we were making love on a more intimate level,, additional hardware wouldn't be needed or welcome,, I can speak for her as well,, even though I haven't found her yet,,
Then you might ask,, how would I know that,, because I know the woman i desire,, | |
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| men disapproving of toys as addition in lovemaking
Posted: 12/19/2008 10:01:09 AM | Kitten dont appologize some someone else....obviously its someone whos lonely and looking for attention......Happy now storm......i've acknowledged you...now quit beggin you're not my type......  | |
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| men disapproving of toys as addition in lovemaking
Posted: 1/2/2009 2:29:10 PM | | Some men disapprove of women using toys because if women are conditioned to cumming with toys, they will find their man less satisfying. Let me give you an example here. There are actually ****ing machines that women can buy (very expensive) and most of this women said that they need no man because the **** machines are a lot better, bigger, and the in and outs are more consistent, and program to go faster if they wanted to. Men cannot compete with these machines meaning men cannot keep up with the stamina that a machine provide. Go figure! So yes, there's some insecurity there. | |
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| men disapproving of toys as addition in lovemaking
Posted: 1/2/2009 2:53:35 PM | Men cannot compete with these machines meaning men cannot keep up with the stamina that a machine provide. Go figure! So yes, there's some insecurity there.
But men aren't fools either, I'm not going to race my sail boat in a speed boat race,, therefore I will find the appropriate woman who likes thing just a little slower,, | |
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| men disapproving of toys as addition in lovemaking
Posted: 1/2/2009 4:42:44 PM | I think that if a guy is really into a woman, he wants her to get all that she needs whether he provides it or "BOB" does. For me..it is not a matter of masculinity. It is a matter of love. Do you love her enough to insure that you will be the only person that she will want to share her toys with? Can you watch her masturbate so that you know how to stroke her so that she cums in wave after wave of ectasy?
Are you willing to let the little "stuff" go for the bigger picture: A Lady who knows that her man wants the best for her? And allowing her to bring her "friend(s) along ought not be seen as an insult but rather the aid that it is in making sure that the Lady is truly happy. | |
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| men disapproving of toys as addition in lovemaking
Posted: 1/2/2009 5:42:56 PM | most men aren't for them as its basically admitting he can't do the job!
I know they wanted to bust out the toys to finish themseloves off, thats such a turnoff.
Some men take it as an insult on their ability to provide pleasure for you! They want sexual interactions to be of their own volition
Thats WHY. I feel the same way. It's an insult to me. But if she's not able to get off any other way why is it so bad for the woman to use a toy to "finish herself off"??? Some women simply can't have an orgasm without extra stimulation.. I can understand the mans ego being dented, but if thats the only way she can get off why is it a problem. Would you rather she just go orgasmless forever so that your ego was intact?
Seriously, if the toy was given up for awhile, because she is used to that type of stimulation. Let a willing man attempt to please her
Just as men can de-sensitize themselves by masturbating too frequently, women can do the same thing. Maybe that is the case, maybe it's not... But in the meantime is the woman expected to go without an orgasm for however long it takes, which could be a prolonged length of time. When the orgasm can be easily got with the additional stimulation..
I can understand that he would like to be the one who sends her to the moon and back. What i can't understand is...A man would rather his woman go without the only orgasm she can get (by use of a toy or masturbation) so that his ego is intact??? | |
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notwow
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Joined: 6/9/2008
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| men disapproving of toys as addition in lovemaking
Posted: 1/2/2009 5:47:19 PM | I am so surprised at all the men who seem intimidated by adding toys to the bed room activities.
As a man, I am extremely confident in my dealing with my lovers, and if they want to add a bit of motor magic to the game, bring it on. I just don't see how it demeans anything, and you know, if you haven't tried it, how do you know it does not work for you too?
You know, watching your partner get herself off with a toy can teach you a lot of what she may want from you. | |
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| men disapproving of toys as addition in lovemaking
Posted: 1/2/2009 5:50:36 PM | this brings to mind the thread about men not being able to get off with oral sex or a woman giving them a handjob.....
Many of the men in that thread told the ladies to not take it personal....
Same thing here......no reason for a man to take it personal.
If it's what a woman needs to reach completion....I would think a real man would be right there using BOB on her....and not even wait for her to have to do it herself. | |
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| men disapproving of toys as addition in lovemaking
Posted: 1/2/2009 6:04:34 PM |
Maybe that is the case, maybe it's not... But in the meantime is the woman expected to go without an orgasm for however long it takes, which could be a prolonged length of time. When the orgasm can be easily got with the additional stimulation..
I can understand that he would like to be the one who sends her to the moon and back. What i can't understand is...A man would rather his woman go without the only orgasm she can get (by use of a toy or masturbation) so that his ego is intact???
I don't think that is what a man is suggesting,,what he is suggesting is.,,If a woman wants to experience a different organism through penetration with a man,, or through oral, IF she would want to help in the process, and the man will do his best to achieve that, mean while still using the toy, but not as often, and by all rights that would be the woman's choice to decide how long she would want to wait in between the Big O..
It's all about partnership,, isn't it,,
Again I'm all for toys,, just adding a little insight | |
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Jim978
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Joined: 7/15/2008
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| men disapproving of toys as addition in lovemaking
Posted: 1/2/2009 6:11:44 PM |
If a woman wants to experience a different organism through penetration with a man...
What sort of organism would that be? Like an insect? Maybe a giraffe? Bacteria?
Sometimes ya just can't beat a good typo! | |
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