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Posted: 11/13/2008 10:25:47 AM | Posts like this give all women a bad name.
Just because someone decided they cannot spend the rest of thier lives with you, does not mean they deserve to have thier vehicle screwed with. At least new potential dates will hopefully see this thread and stear clear.
Accept things as they are. He is not for you. Destroying any of his property will not make it so either.
Take some of this energy and do something constructive with it. Bang some nails into a plank and make a bookshelf or something, but leave him alone. | |
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Posted: 11/13/2008 10:36:31 AM |
So....what's the best way to get it??
HUH!?? You want revenge on someone who was honest with you? Revenge against someone who probably kept you from wasting a lot of time and investing yourself further, emotionally? un-freakin-believable
I'm sorry, but IMO, the fact that you'd seek revenge on ANYONE, speaks volumes about your character (or apparent lack there of)! Sounds to me like this guy dodged a pretty big bullet by breaking up with you...
How about just growing up, being mature, accepting it for what it is, and moving on? Has that ever crossed your mind?? | |
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Posted: 11/13/2008 11:01:43 AM | Oh my...hurts pretty bad huh?
Hope you can move as quickly out of the 'revenge stage' as you did the 'wanting him back I made a mistake' phase.
You live in Vancouver honey! Get yourself up, dust yourself off and open your heart to the gifts around you.
Failing that, move back to Montreal. | |
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Posted: 11/13/2008 12:33:10 PM | Best way to make him realize that you were the best he could ever have:
Be nice to him, smile at him and wish him luck with his next relationship...even be nice to the new chick...and MEAN IT! ....get's em every time! | |
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Posted: 11/13/2008 12:44:41 PM | Revenge will create nothing but a loose, loose situation, for you and anyone else involved.
Feelings of being hurt, need an outlet, and getting angry is a part of the emotion, but instead of wanting to do revenge, which will only bring more loss for yourself, turn those feelings into other outlets, which will create a win, win situation instead.
Some suggestions: Go walking, running, work out, shopping, talk with friends, treat yourself in some way or in many ways and simply find other ways to coast yourself through the aftermath of the breakup blues.
I know it's tough, but seriously, try to find other constructive ways of dealing with this situation, so that you come out winning in the end. If you seek revenge, you'll still be tied to something that hurt you and the revenge will only not allow you to let it go sooner. If you move forward, taking care of yourself, that will be revenge enough, cause if he comes back looking for you again, he'll wish he'd never let you go.
Best Wishes | |
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Posted: 11/13/2008 12:47:41 PM |
Be nice to him, smile at him and wish him luck with his next relationship...even be nice to the new chick...and MEAN IT! ....get's em every time!
It works for me and then there are the times where they want to come back, to which I say  good luck, and wish them a nice life...you may find that you could kiss the ground in gratitude that he's someone else's problem. | |
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Posted: 11/13/2008 10:53:39 PM | DREW,
you are an evil man!
i think i may be in like with ya!!!
LOL. All the glib talk of happiness being the best revenge is true, as it is! And, walking down the street lovingly with your new beau in 100% happiness is so much more fulfilling while watching loser try to come up with the cash for a new knob mobile.
It's happiness coupled with poetic justice and humor. Priceless! | |
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Posted: 11/14/2008 12:23:52 AM | | The best revenge is always havings a good life........ | |
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Posted: 11/14/2008 12:40:30 AM | That is the best revenege.. however sometimes seems impossible when your down in the dumps, heartbroken and feeling miserable as all hell. LOL
I certainly try to make a point of making sure I gain and grow from all experiences-- the good, the bad and the ugly. I refuse to let them happen in vain.
Time will add some clairity though.... then having that revenege of having a good life comes into focus. :)
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Posted: 11/14/2008 12:54:25 AM |
The best revenge is always havings a good life........
Well that is the meat and potatoes of it for sure. The desert is doing that A hole some serious harm, just for that extra giggle and, we all know that giggles are fun.
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Posted: 11/14/2008 2:09:24 AM | This is so silly. Revenge is for the weak, deal with it and move on.
The best revenge you can give anyone is showing them that you are strong, able to move on, and make a great life for yourself.
Seriously, would you want someone to get revenge on you just because you felt a certain way and wanted to cease the relationship?? Regardless of the reasons, respect their wishes. Why would you want to spend anymore of your time with someone that didn't want you?
Revenge seekers have no self esteem, and it is a poor excuse to belittle someone for your own satisfaction. Take your losses and then learn to forgive. In the end you will come out the better person for doing so. | |
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Posted: 11/14/2008 6:50:12 AM | | Why you feel the need to get revenge? Just because we date someone/begin a relationship with them, they're not obligated to remain in the picture forever and ever. He obviously had his reasons for ending things and you need to get over this psycho need to get revenge and respect his choice and what he feels is best for him. It would be interesting to hear his side of the story, with respect to your friendship with your ex. | |
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Posted: 11/14/2008 8:04:31 AM | I am the master of revenge, rest assured you've asked the right person.
Download copious amounts of illegal pornography into his PC
Tip off the 'authorities'
In-between sobbing say things like, 'oh God now I understand why he liked dressing me a schoolgirl'
Innocent or guilty his reputation will be completely destroyed and no one ever lives down the 'what if' factor
Best of luck *grin* | |
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Posted: 11/14/2008 8:10:12 AM | | ^^^how sad and disturbed that you would not only "think up" such a thing, but that you'd suggest it to someone who clearly wasn't very stable (stable people don't post on the internet asking for ways to get revenge on an ex) and if that's not enough, you think it's amusing to not only potentially ruin someone's reputation and life but to get them into trouble with the law. Yes, let's all make up crap and call the police and waste their time on bogus cases because surely they don't have any legit crime to fight. There sure are some scary people on this site. | |
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Posted: 11/14/2008 8:11:44 AM | I never said I was a nice guy sweetheart *grin*
Be afraid, be very afraid | |
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Posted: 11/14/2008 8:35:30 AM | OP: Whatever you put out there, good or bad, for whatever justifications, will just keep coming back to you. As one gal pointed out, you've already shot yourself in the foot by posting this so others know to stay clear.
I might further add that it's really the cosmos you are doing battle with. It's heavily armed when you're asking for it.
You don't need to be some sacrificial pawn in teaching him whatever lessons you thnk he needs. Really you're only letting him control you after he's left. ..and that's your problem. People with a need for revenge think they are powerless victims. Better to follow the advice of those recommending you divert your efforts to making yourself the sort of person who earns a good life free from reasons for revenge. | |
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Posted: 11/14/2008 8:59:46 AM | revenge is petty and spiteful, imo
maybe he was being truthful about his reason to break up, or maybe he saw that you could be unstable when you don't get your own way...
whether or not he was just using an excuse, what's the point of revenge in this case? to hurt him like he hurt you? - wouldn't that be better done by showing him what he's missed out on by making the hugest mistake ever in dumping you - show him what a class act you are by how you respond, rather than "lowering" yourself to immature tactics which will only confirm that he was correct in wanting to be away from you | |
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Posted: 11/14/2008 8:59:58 AM | | be afraid? LOL Sorry but Prince/Criss Angel wannabes don't generally scare me. Where DO you buy your eye makeup? | |
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Posted: 11/14/2008 9:28:49 AM | I dont buy eye make up my dear I steal it and do so for no other reason than to break the law
How about you??? *grin*
Aww you have a grudge and have reduced yourself to acting like a child, 'I'm a good person but right now I'm going to manufacture a sentence fashioned to hurt someones feelings... I'm a good person really' lmao
Do you need a hug??? lol get out of my sight you silly little girl it's no wonder you're on a dating website
Have a nice day now, ya hear *wink*
P.S I have absolutely no idea who Criss Angel is and I'm afraid I'm a little too young to have appreciated Prince's music, but dont worry I'm sure the 80's will make a major come back | |
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Posted: 11/14/2008 9:34:02 AM | Or, take the cowards way out and get a syringe from a drugstore and suck up fish oil from a sardine can and inject it into the the doors between the rubber and the windows. That will probably come back on you though as nobody else will date him after that, particularly in the summer.
That's revenge.
Ok, Ok....I laughed hysterically! That is soooooo funny! Not saying one should ever do it, but it brings back the scene in Grumpy Old Men when Walter Mathaew (sp) gets in his car and smells the fish! Can you imagine ANY girl EVER riding with him again! THat's fix any guys wagon for sure. So funny, but be ever mindful of the karma-train, it does roll down the tracks in BOTH directions sister! | |
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Posted: 11/14/2008 9:41:30 AM | lol oh you're all such a bunch of 'do gooders', more often than not knowing that you 'could' helps ease the pain
As for the OP, dont sweat it, you're a good looking girl and I'm sure Mr Right will snatch you up in no time at all, best of luck :-))) | |
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Posted: 11/14/2008 10:26:33 AM |
P.S I have absolutely no idea who Criss Angel is and I'm afraid I'm a little too young to have appreciated Prince's music, but dont worry I'm sure the 80's will make a major come back
I'd say, more like a Steven Tyler wannabe who wears more make up than my sister.
Dude, you ARE aware that potential suitors can see your forum posts on your profile, right? I mean, unless you're looking for vengeful, sarcastic, girls who are attracted to guys who are prettier than they are and who'll steal their makeup, perhaps you should take that into consideration before making these kinds of posts.
However, if you ARE looking for those kinds of women, then... never mind and, my bad.
That being said, obviously the general consensus among forum members is that seeking revenge is not a good idea or an attractive quality. Mature people learn from their experiences & move on with their lives and don't waste time focusing on getting back at anyone. | |
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Posted: 11/14/2008 10:27:41 AM | | Yep yep, stole the ruby slippers and Glenda's wand, and having a blast now with this good deed doing thing. | |
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Posted: 11/14/2008 10:29:26 AM | | ..and squeal, don't forget squeal. | |
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Posted: 11/14/2008 11:26:59 AM | Of course I'm aware of that 'Navigator6' and I haven't come here to score you wheezing little dullard lmao
I'm not going to deny that I have a soft spot for bad girls or femme fatales either, I like strong, dangerous women
Dear God man, you're old enough to be my father and you're acting no differently than a whining child kicking up a pissy fit over a GI Joe figure, I'm going to take it extra easy on you, I wouldn't want to give you a heart attack
Anyway, thank you for your 'low blow' speaking of which, how's your love life these days??? *grin* mwuhaha oh this could go on forever, 'you type something mean, I type something mean' it never ends, who's going to have the 'final say' oh the tension, the drama, it's pure theatre
Ironically, in a thread which is about 'ultimate revenge', the so called 'good people' who were 'against' the practice are now behaving violently and desperately towards me hahaha
Ahh hypocrisy, it just goes to show everyone has a Devil inside and in hatred, we see people for what and who they really are... | |
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