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Posted: 11/14/2008 12:48:51 PM | I went through the same thing, had my heart broken. I knew from the start, but went for it anyway. Best thing to do is just let it go, move on, do not partake in revenge, it will haunt you in the end. i know it's tough, but try your best. You will survive.
My heart felt sympathy to you. | |
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Posted: 11/14/2008 12:51:16 PM | "Before you embark on a journey of revenge....dig two graves"
Confucious | |
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Posted: 11/14/2008 11:15:29 PM | Take a few minutes to listen to some words of consolation by DEVO.
http://www.actionext.com/names_d/devo_lyrics/i_d_cry_if_you_died.html
I'd Cry If You Died
Hell is where you put me And hell is where youre going to
Until the next life I say this twisted prayer for you
May the torment you put out Come back around twice multiplied.
Even though you let me go Ive got to let you know I'd cry if you died.
The past is where you see me The past is what will bring you down
Destiny a moon eclipsed In the shadows all is darkness now
May the evil in your heart Be your one and only friend for life
You pretend I dont exist I have to let you know Id cry if you died
Somewhere special Voices form words
And the words have meaning So I reach out for someone new
And I wonder Will it ever be alright
(then I hear your secret radio Signaling that its time to go)
Hell is where you put me And hell is where well meet again
I will be waiting To repeat a scene that never ends
Molten pools of mockery Reflect a million sleepless nights
Even though you acted low Ive got to let you know Id cry if you died | |
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Posted: 11/14/2008 11:40:06 PM | | What is revenge.And what would you achieve satisfaction,no. The only satisfaction you get is when you build enough confidence in your self to go out there and find your self a guy, that will make you forget revenge on your ex.Live life good and enjoy. | |
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Posted: 11/14/2008 11:55:39 PM | Umm I read about this woman whose husband had deceived her. He moved into an apartment with his new girlfriend. While they were away on a long holiday, she broke in, drenched the bedroom carpet with water, sprinkled grass seeds and left the light on.
It evidently was a beautiful thing when they came home.
Other than that, you could put a fish head in his petrol tank.
well, she wanted good revenge ideas, didn't she? | |
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Posted: 11/15/2008 7:17:28 AM |
well, she wanted good revenge ideas, didn't she?
Awe, come on now. Did I just see you lower yourself to her level!? I'm quite surprised, to say the least. | |
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Posted: 11/15/2008 7:30:38 AM | | Revenge is just holding on - let go and move on. Why would you want revenge when he didn't do anything but tell the truth? He couldn't handle your relationship with your ex. Unless you have children with this man there really isn't any reason for an ex to be in the picture now is there? You have to decide if keeping an ex in the picture is worth sacrificing a relationship you obviously still want. | |
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Posted: 11/15/2008 7:31:04 AM | Hate does horrible things to your face. If you let it rule your life, I recommend not looking in the mirror.
Revenge? I don't play that game. | |
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Posted: 11/15/2008 9:00:28 AM | The best revenge is moving on with your life and leaving him alone. Revenge is not a healthy solution for you and it doesn't really solve anything. Spend your energy connecting with the love you are meant to be with... | |
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Posted: 11/15/2008 9:16:57 AM | Im not gettin any younger and Im thinking maybe the more experience you have the easier it is to pick the jerks , Im the happiest on my own now , I stopped picking jerks as from now , I just had another shot at it and I really want to do him damage , ds you are right , its not him he is a jerk ...........happiness is the best thing there is however or wherever you find it , if it make you want to take revenge time to do something new ............  | |
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Posted: 11/15/2008 2:38:47 PM |
Awe, come on now. Did I just see you lower yourself to her level!? I'm quite surprised, to say the least.
Oh Navigator, it was just a joke! I don't even think the grass thing would work!
Ok, I'll be serious..yes OP, living well is the best revenge.
Get over him. He didn't want you and wanted someone else. It happens. I'm sure you've done this to some other guy at some stage in your life - decided he wasn't the man for you...
Better, Nav? | |
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Posted: 11/16/2008 1:24:28 PM | | the ultimate revenge is knowing - what goes around , comes around and whilst you are happy living your life at some point his life will come crashing down (although you won't know when it happens) | |
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Posted: 11/16/2008 2:10:39 PM | | move on, get a beter man, and if he sees you happy with another, he will regret it. no better revenge than karma. | |
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Posted: 11/16/2008 3:12:50 PM | OP you havent moved on, you are angry and jilted. If this is the way you are choosing to deal with this situation then you clearly are NOT ready to even be in a relationship. You need to do some serious self accualization. Relationships fail...its the nature of dating. If your ex has lold you a reason for the break-up, maybe you should take it to heart. Putting your own spin on it only prevents you from accepting reality.
So he left you..take some time to GROW from the experience. Take some time to be single and find out what you really want and need. find out what your expectations are.
Leave the anger behind. Its preventing you from growning up. | |
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Posted: 11/16/2008 3:27:38 PM | | OP why waste your time and energy with trying to figure out the best revenge when simply living well without him IS the best revenge! | |
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Posted: 11/16/2008 9:12:16 PM | | I too had my heart broken. I have never thought about "revenge". That's crazy and in the long run, it hurts me more than it hurts the other person. Lets be honest; If I love the other person, what on earth would make me want to hurt them in any way? I've done a lot of damage to people through the years, but it's been a long, long time since I've done so intentionally, revenge? I outgrew that a long time ago. | |
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Posted: 11/16/2008 9:17:58 PM | | He's a coward. And not ready to deal with his own shortcomings. I didnt read anyone else's reply, but It kinda reminds me of me. He just can't be arsed to deal with his own problems, hence, not your problem. Good luck matey. | |
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Posted: 11/16/2008 9:44:14 PM | | leanworks - i wouldn't like to cross you either hahaha | |
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Posted: 11/17/2008 2:16:45 AM | Yes, I think the best revenge is to get on with it, and live your life the way you want to live it, his insecurities with your ex are HIS problem! its just a shame that HE doesnt realize it...
Yes get on with your life, 'mind games' are a waste of time and energy! | |
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Posted: 11/18/2008 5:13:29 PM |
Revenge is always the weak pleasure of a little and narrow mind.
Agreed completely. It is also a double edged sword on top of that. It won't make you feel better about yourself in the long run, and if anything it'll taint your conscience and aggravates your sense of self worth. Your revenge schemes will add up one day and come for your ass in a big bite. The cycle of violence don't end. You always have the choice of self restraint - don't involve yourself in petty concerns.
No one rejoices more in revenge than woman.
Pffffffft! I can find just as many men that are as petty minded. It goes for both sexes.
That old law about "an eye for an eye" leaves everybody blind. The time is always right to do the right thing.
A-****ing-men.
Live well. It is the greatest revenge.
...from a grand-scheme perspective, it's a great thing to keep in mind. | |
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Posted: 11/18/2008 6:07:19 PM | well let me think about this for you i have been told i really get good revenge on men like when my best friend man drove another lady's car to her house i told her put some panties in the car she did and he got it bad lol go out with his best buddy or go out where you know he will be and have a ball good luck to you revenge is mine said the lord go get him girl friend   | |
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Posted: 11/18/2008 6:47:41 PM |
well let me think about this for you i have been told i really get good revenge on men like when my best friend man drove another lady's car to her house i told her put some panties in the car she did and he got it bad lol go out with his best buddy or go out where you know he will be and have a ball good luck to you revenge is mine said the lord go get him girl friend
Hmmm, kinda takes the old saying "with age comes maturity" and just blows it right outta the water, doesn't it...... | |
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| ultimate revenge
Posted: 11/18/2008 7:09:37 PM | "Success is the Best Revenge"
"Don't Get Even, Get Ahead" 
"Anger is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die"  | |
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