| |
| ultimate revenge
Posted: 2/7/2009 11:46:28 AM | I've been there... however, I ran across something a couple of days ago. One of the most well respected dog show judges was recently quoted in Dog News...
"The best revenge is public success"
I wholeheartled agree. It works.
Kathryn | |
|
| ultimate revenge
Posted: 2/7/2009 7:43:16 PM | | I don't think there is anything out there there is more of a turn off for me then a woman wanting revenge. It's small minded and pathetic. Honestly, get over yourself. | |
|
| ultimate revenge
Posted: 2/7/2009 10:00:53 PM | | The best revenge is a life well lived.... period. | |
|
| ultimate revenge
Posted: 2/8/2009 1:34:01 AM | | Don't really see what you want revenge for. You still have your male friend. If you do something vengeful you won't get him back if he comes around. He may end up being another friend, don't burn that bridge. | |
|
| ultimate revenge
Posted: 2/8/2009 7:11:36 AM | Bravo! Revenge is not the answer, it doesn't help a thing, and it really won't make you feel better..... i never did like the revenge thing really, it just seems there are enough hurts and pains to go around without causing more. If he was wrong, don't you think he'll figure it out?
I don't agree with all your quotes,not All women seek revenge | |
|
| ultimate revenge
Posted: 2/8/2009 8:41:36 AM | | Why even consider revenge? Don't waste another second on revenge. Just move on and live a good life. | |
|
| ultimate revenge
Posted: 2/8/2009 8:48:35 AM | | I went on a first date once and she was bragging how she got even with her X and I could not help but sit through dinner the whole time thinking "I will be her next victim" The one good thing about people who take revenge is, they like to brag about it, which is a warning sign to stay away. | |
|
| ultimate revenge
Posted: 2/8/2009 9:24:04 AM | You asked about revenge....I'm going to give you advice on moving on.
I was with a man for 5 years. I was totally blind sided when our relationship failed. Afterwards, I found out he had profiles on line, and was possibly cheating the whole time. I was distraught, angry, crushed, ect. ect.
My aunt gave me some wonderful advice. Pray for him every night. Don't pray to get him back, but pray that the Lord will watch over him, and guide him. It is tough to do, but if you have a good relationship with the Lord, you will not be able to do this without changing your own heart.
And always remember "Vengeance is mine," says the Lord. If there is any vengeance to pay, have faith that he will get his.
Meanwhile, heal your own wounds, and the desire for revenge will go away.
Just so you know, this does work. I have to see this man everyday Mon-Fri because of work. I will always love him, but have no time to waste hating him. | |
|
| ultimate revenge
Posted: 2/8/2009 10:04:09 AM |
I just had my heart broken..he was threatened by my friendship with an ex but masked it by saying that he felt we were falling into the same rut as his previous relationships & he wanted to stop it before we fell into the same trap & got more hurt than we'd be right now....I've done the crying thing & am slowly moving into the wanting revenge.
So....what's the best way to get it??
You are not a mind reader so you dont know the answer but taking into account your post, I can see why he left.
He didn't cheat; and maybe your relationship with your ex wasnt' appropriate. No one likes the past thrown in their face.
Save the revenge; you need to get help; see a counselor; you are vindictive and this just didnt' happen yesterday. There is a reason he left, and for me your personality doesn't look very good right now | |
|
| ultimate revenge
Posted: 2/8/2009 2:14:15 PM |
I just had my heart broken..he was threatened by my friendship with an ex but masked it by saying that he felt we were falling into the same rut as his previous relationships & he wanted to stop it before we fell into the same trap & got more hurt than we'd be right now....I've done the crying thing & am slowly moving into the wanting revenge.
So....what's the best way to get it??
Move on! | |
|
| ultimate revenge
Posted: 2/8/2009 2:30:50 PM | That bit about praying for them....I think I am going to try that!!
 | |
|
Home
login 
