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 sun_freak
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cuz we can't help it!!!
 terry_shaver
Joined: 6/19/2007
Msg: 102
Why do women moan more than men during sex?
Posted: 3/17/2009 10:25:27 PM
In my statistically small sample of women I have had sex with, they have ranged from being outright total moaners & screamers to those who seemed on the verge of being comatose during the entire process!! I prefer some1 who shows me that they r enjoying being intimate with me, who can express the joy they r feeling having my body intertwine with theirs while we each try 2 give wonderful pleasure & excitement 2 each other. Having some1 who doesn't express much feeling while something so intimate is occurring 2 me is a letdown as I feed off the energy that other person is producing - They don't need 2 b screaming @ every touch, lick, suck & bite I give them but it is sure nice 2 know they r enjoying it instead of just tolerating it, doing u a favor!!

Had a relationship last fall for about 2 months with a very nice lady - After about 6 weeks we became intimate and with her I experienced about the worst sex I have ever had!! She just laid there making me do all the work, not really giving anything back & I was getting ZERO energy back from her. She barely talked or moaned during it all and I just felt like she was a vampire sucking all the joy that should b experienced when 2 people r being intimate - After the 2nd time of this happened I talked 2 her about it, asked her if she enjoyed it and told her what I was expecting from it all - After that she initiated sex 3 more times but it really wasn't any better - That and a few other things that weren't progressing n the relationship made me decide to halt things & move on, a nice intelligent lady but we weren't really compatible on a lot of different levels

Not that I am moaning & screaming the entire time while having sex but I do think it is such a wonderful, pleasurable, fun activity that I hate 4 it 2 become serious so I am joking, talking, laughing, being silly though it all - It is about the only time I ever use "foul & dirty" language as I find that using those during intimate times 2 b a turn on & appropriate 2 use - It is a time 2 experience some1 n their truest form, when u r naked with some1 & intimate there shouldn't b any false pretenses, that person should b @ their most real with u - It is a time 2 rejoice the fact that 2 people can get 2gether & make each other feel soo wonderful, about as close 2 Heaven as u perhaps can get, being with some1 & doing something that seems 2 make the rest of the world disappear, 2 make time stand still yet hours can pass by without a notice - I want 2 b with some1 who I feel I can b myself with & I want them 2 feel the same way so they can totally & truly experience the pleasure each of our bodies, minds, hearts & souls r giving 2 each other - I want 2 b able 2 verbally express those feelings 2 the lady I am with through words, grunts & moans - I want her 2 know she is exciting me & giving me so much wonderful pleasure - I want her 2 feel my heart beating faster, the sweat coming off my body, my body starting 2 lose control as I get closer & closer 2 climaxing - I want 2 lose that control while that happens, 2 show her the animal lust inside me, 2 want 2 scream out with excitement as my balls start 2 ache & I feel the buildup inside my penis, and the wonderful pleasure she is giving to me making all this happen to me - And I want to be able 2 shout out, moan & yell as I get closer & closer 2 shooting my load as it always feels soo awesome an experience - I don't know exactly what the equivalent 2 all this is 4 a woman but I want her 2 have those same feelings I am experiencing, 2 b able 2 express those feelings outwardly if she chooses 2, 2 feed off the positive excited energy that I am giving out so that whatever I am doing 2 her makes her feel as wonderful as possible - I do hope that through all we are doing 2 each other we both can feel we can share that intimate time 2gether n however way makes it best 4 each of us 2 experience the wonderfulness of each other!!

OK.. what was the ? again?? Oh yeah, I like moaners and yes I can moan just as much as any lady!! It is all about what u r comfortable with, what u find exciting n a person & if what that person does turns u on or not!!
 cubic_zirconia
Joined: 8/10/2008
Msg: 103
Why do women moan more than men during sex?
Posted: 3/17/2009 11:09:10 PM
^^^^ Wow.....T.M.I.
 HarleyKat~
Joined: 3/30/2008
Msg: 104
Why do women moan more than men during sex?
Posted: 3/18/2009 7:58:24 AM
^^I dunno...I rather enjoyed the read! I just might bookmark and come back to such when I need a little something something!

I have a big POF party this weekend and sooo much on my plate to prepare for such...so forgive me for not reading through 5 pages of replies....

But obviously...Men are known to be more VISUAL creatures, and Women more VOCAL.

But like anything else in life...it is not set in stone!

I have experienced all multitudes of such, and I will say this...the vocalization is just as hot and sexy coming from a guy! The lack in such has kinda killed an otherwise (for lack of better terminology here) good fvck!

BE VOCAL!
 Connor_T
Joined: 1/23/2009
Msg: 105
Why do women moan more than men during sex?
Posted: 3/18/2009 8:14:54 AM
Moaning is definitely a feminine thing to me, I can't imagine women enjoying being with a man that moans, there are plenty of masculine sounds and phrases that a guy can use to express pleasure.


And holding your breath is a bad idea for men trying not to cum, good breathing is one of the secrets to good sex.
 notshellfish
Joined: 10/1/2007
Msg: 106
Why do women moan more than men during sex?
Posted: 3/18/2009 12:04:44 PM
well...i've moaned for it...no wait, that's begging/whining/etc. and probably a different thread being revisited in a different text

why do women moan? what type of moan? my first thought is scientific and deals with body mass and the force of a lever as it sinks (hahaha--you should be that blessed)...anyway, a larger mass pressing upon a smaller mass would elicit a release of air (aka gasp) that unfortunately too many of you guys interpret as a moan...now, if that same noise is generated from the woman superior (not Mother superior and shame on you Catholics for thinking that during lent)...anyway, from the woman on top, and if she is moaning, then hell that is a good thing and quit complaining.
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
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Why do women moan more than men during sex?
Posted: 3/18/2009 12:20:48 PM
well.......I........uhm.........enjoyed Terry's read.....
enough I'll be reading it again also!!

that is exactly what we're talking about here......
enjoying the moment.....and expressing how much we enjoy the moment (or hour).....
and let me tell ya......just reading that did wonderful things for me
Can u imagine what it would be like to be hearing that while "in the moment".....?
 Blujeansnteeshirt
Joined: 2/17/2009
Msg: 108
Why do women moan more than men during sex?
Posted: 3/18/2009 12:32:59 PM
If she's doing it "right", no, women don't moan more than ME.
 Wpgmusic
Joined: 3/9/2009
Msg: 109
Why do women moan more than men during sex?
Posted: 3/18/2009 2:28:35 PM
Sometimes I moan when I get into a warm bath. Sometimes when I go for a massage. Oh, and I've even been known to moan while eating something particularly delectable at a restaurent, or even when I take that first mouthful and I've been famished waiting for the food to arrive. I'm not trying to communicate anything to anyone in any of those circumstances, it is simply a pleasure response.
 HarleyKat~
Joined: 3/30/2008
Msg: 110
Why do women moan more than men during sex?
Posted: 3/18/2009 2:33:22 PM
^^

Exactly! A pleasure response!
 kayliecat
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Why do women moan more than men during sex?
Posted: 3/20/2009 11:15:04 PM
I enjoyed TerryShaver's response as well. I would LOVE for more men to be that open about their pleasure and what htey want.

My smartass answer to the question? Because we are enjoying it more?

But seriously, I don't know. I used to be quiet but was with guys who told me I was really quiet... So I started letting out what I was feeling instead of holding it in. I am prolly in the average range now...not quiet, not a yeller. I am not faking anything, I am "emoting" what I am feeling.

And...yes I like guys to make noise as well...say words, talk dirty, make gutteral noises, whatever makes them happy. If the guy is quiet, then how can I tell when I am hittin gthe right spots, or getting him 'close'? If he's too quiet, I'm gonna think he's bored. And wouldn't that just suck????

But moaning? Actually I don't moan and I"ve not been with a guy that moans. Well, I don't think I moan anyway. LOL I think I make other sorts of noises...I talk to god a lot "Oh my god! Oh my god!" and I speak positively "Oh yeah! Oh yeah! And I really, really like the letter O "Ooooooooooooooooooooooh!!!!"

What can I say? I have a repetoire!

K
 wolftxus
Joined: 2/24/2009
Msg: 112
Why do women moan more than men during sex?
Posted: 3/20/2009 11:33:04 PM

how can I tell when I am hittin gthe right spots, or getting him 'close'?

Just keep doing what you are doing. Don't change anything - the speed, the rhythm, the position. There are a few possible outcomes, all good.

1) He changes the position early on.
=> He prefers something else. Now you know.
2) He changes the position much later.
=> His leg fell asleep, but he liked it. Fine-tune your method the next time, it works...
3) He comes.
=> Now you know.
4) You fall asleep after an hour.
=> He knows you tried hard and he enjoyed it. Next time you can try something else, like drinking a Red Bull first.
5) He falls asleep after an hour.
=> Whether he liked it or not, he'll sleep like an angel and thank you for it.

Nothing is worse than stopping a minute too early. That is about ten times the length of a male orgasm, but close enough to really p!ss him off. :-)
 ickle_kimie
Joined: 5/22/2008
Msg: 113
Why do women moan more than men during sex?
Posted: 3/21/2009 3:37:52 AM
And i just put it down to me being over sensitive LOL
 aPamela
Joined: 7/1/2007
Msg: 114
Why do women moan more than men during sex?
Posted: 3/21/2009 4:32:57 AM
OP: Cause it's our way of encouraging guys.
Plus, we think guys need and enjoy the feedback?
It's our way of participating, lol!

I dunno. Im pretty quiet myself. If I make a noise, I mean it. WAIT, no, I don't mean it. Yes, I do - I only make a noise if I can't help it. ( And, yes; a little quiet music in the background is lovely.)
 1984,loveis
Joined: 2/27/2009
Msg: 115
Why do women moan more than men during sex?
Posted: 3/21/2009 12:34:34 PM
I am a moaner if satisfied... some are screamers ( i think phoney but)awoman will RESPOND in one of those two manners... otherwise she IS a corpse, woa for those necrophiliacs...
As for you poor men it is a fact that unless a MAN is quite INTELLIGENT, he can not execute two tasks at once... they can not talk in bed as well as making love...if u find one with those 2 qualities GRAB him , for he IS smart...and a keeper.
The connections between a men's brain are LONGER than for a woman.
The key words here are IF SATISFIED. Biologically we can not HELP ourselves ,,,,lol
 steveemac
Joined: 4/3/2007
Msg: 116
Why do women moan more than men during sex?
Posted: 3/21/2009 12:41:53 PM

Is moaning a woman thing?


It sure wasn't to my ex-wife; the only noises she ever made were when she climaxed, and then to encourage me to finish...even saying "I love you" was too kinky for her.
 LakeCountyGal
Joined: 9/4/2008
Msg: 117
Why do women moan more than men during sex?
Posted: 3/21/2009 12:44:15 PM
I think to a certain degree it might be, but I've also been with a couple of guys who were much louder and vocal then me in bed. I do enjoy moaning and make some noise during sex, and I do enjoy hearing noise from the guy as well, but I suppose everyone is different. I have been with some "quiet" ones and that was a little odd. I do like some noise from the other party during sex.
 wtf!!!!!!!!!
Joined: 2/25/2009
Msg: 118
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Posted: 3/21/2009 2:15:19 PM
How would you know if they were faking it if they didn't at least moan?
If you are doing it right your neighbours should complain or at least give you funny looks.
 BlueEyes2love
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Why do women moan more than men during sex?
Posted: 3/21/2009 4:58:20 PM
Women have over 5 times the amount of nerve endings in erroneous places. It's a much more intense feeling for women - however, less visual.
 Wpgmusic
Joined: 3/9/2009
Msg: 120
Why do women moan more than men during sex?
Posted: 3/23/2009 10:09:15 PM

Women have over 5 times the amount of nerve endings in erroneous places.


I don't know that I have erroneous places....quite fond, however, of my erogenous places
 sammylg
Joined: 12/20/2006
Msg: 121
Why do women moan more than men during sex?
Posted: 3/23/2009 10:12:28 PM
Does dirty porn talk during sex count?
 HarleyKat~
Joined: 3/30/2008
Msg: 122
Why do women moan more than men during sex?
Posted: 3/24/2009 9:26:55 AM

Women have over 5 times the amount of nerve endings in erroneous places.


This has got to be one of the better typos I have seen!

In Missouri, we talked about getting a bus to take us around bar hopping for a Girls Night Out...and one member (she knows who she is and we LOVE her!) typoed a reference to it as, "Party on the Bush!"



OMGawd....if we DO get to have that party....we are printing t-shirts!

Sorry for being Off Topic...but I laughed so hard on this one!
 adam-1
Joined: 4/26/2007
Msg: 123
Why do women moan more than men during sex?
Posted: 3/24/2009 11:26:57 AM
Women are always moaning, so of course they are going to moan more hehe
 Trishinwi2009
Joined: 2/24/2009
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Why do women moan more than men during sex?
Posted: 5/8/2009 6:53:23 AM

Is moaning a woman thing?


I'm a moaner (now that I think of it) but there is one POFer that I see that absolutely drives me wild with his sounds...very erotic...highly recommend it to the guys! Can never be a bad thing to let her know you're loving it!!!

Impish banter is always appreciated too!
 knowswhat
Joined: 4/11/2009
Msg: 125
Why do women moan more than men during sex?
Posted: 5/8/2009 8:20:09 AM
And just where exactly do we find these men that "totally turn off the enjoyment factor till after the woman is satisfied"?? .... and, by the way, the word is "until" (look up "till" in the dictionary)
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